₦airaland Forum

homirefacuny:
Thank God for my CLO..... I only owe them 2 clearance. Make we no meet again.

ignis:
Head count like this should be done at least every month. To check the issue of ghost corpers.

NotNairalandi:
Thunder fire any moderator that changed my moniker from Nairalandi to NotNairalandi!

HolyGost fire u and ur Generation! Just that I said Seun resembled Mr.Ibu that's why u have to change my name

EggovinMma:
Lol. The dog is trouble some. I don't thin my mom can control him when he gets bigger. He is too stubborn. Last time I came home, as I pushed the front hate open with my luggage, all my clothes, box and hang bag came right dowdown.How I wish I am around to train him.My own dog a GSD is very loyal and highly security conscious. Very smart and proactive. She won't eat what's not in her plate and lovely! If I come home and can't find her around me even after I scream her name, it's just one thing hold in her back, SHE DEY HIDE BECAUSE SHE DON COMMIT.

EggovinMma:
A rot that doesn't bark? Even mixed breeds are trouble some. That your rot na yeye
My mom bought a 2 months old rot and currently he is 5 months and already bringing HELL.He is very stubborn and everywhere! Fights with other dogs a d everything. What he does now is to dig up pits for my mom to fall in .

Rilwayne001:
You too like story. The thing long.

Its my escapade some 2-3 years ago.

MKO4ever:
And I will rather be a rapist than an impotent

Rilwayne001:
Your own is even good. My experience was. ... ermm.. terrible

nobilis:
So a person cannot love someone of the same gender??

prince3009:
Generalizing how?

prince3009:
I will slap that Babalawo and nothing will happen!

You cannot mix Westernization with Juju and expect it to work.

BTW, OP....yo have given some bloggers hardwork.....dem go copy pictures tire!

JideTheBlogger:
Nice share. Love the way blogging topics are now making the frontpage. We will soon takeover NL

Temysteve:
if u ar well educated about s*x, u'l knw apply term nd condition. Shey na evry toto u dey plug ur prick into?

Lilyomi:
Breaking up no matter how u approach it is painful.

achinaboy:
@bamac,well said, most partners are not interested in communication, the more the other is willing to commu, the more they make trouble,it could be illiteracy, but I have seen many,

Abelsconcept:
Op, am glad we understood each other and we're heading in the same direction. Like you rightly pointed out that a deflowered lady and man may likely engage in sex every now and then without the infilling of the Holy Spirit. I am sure you answered your question yourself.

The way forward like you also agreed with me is that we should admit our shortcomings and try to leave a decent life henceforth to reflect upon upcoming generations.

Op, however, I may like to disagree with on the appropriate time being after marriage... But my reasons may lead us out of context. So I rest my case and just watch.

Kingsasian:
yea, but I don't care.

Abelsconcept:
Op. Having gone through your post, I think I get your point. Having said that, you didn't stand firm on your initial point by suggesting appropriate time to introduce sex into a relationship. Is there any manual to operate relationship? What time is the appropriate time? I know you didn't mean after marriage because you post says so.

The truth is that you can't eat your cake and have it back principled. Most people just post comments to deceive themselves and others, though few refused the trend of buying into societal make-believe concepts. A typical example is this particular issue here.

A lady who is not a virgin, who had been in sexual relationships with different guys suddenly sees a serious minded guy and she declares no sex before marriage quoting the scriptures as her back up. Who is fooling who?

Who says it's a male's duty to demand for sex? Either sex could initiate the move. Or better still, a complete abstinence from sex and emotional relationships could be the answer. But, I strongly suggest we tell ourselves the truth and build a better future for our children than throw the truth under the bus.

On a personal note, the issue of sex before or after marriage is not an issue at all, it all depends on the two parties involved. I can wait as long as it is not forever and their is understanding. Sincerely, I've had my own fair share as well, hit the link and see for yourself.

https://www.nairaland.com/2368628/complicated-girlfriend-future-wife-frigid

MissAssy:
Most people thinks that money equals sex, that the fact that you help out the opposite sex with money means that u re entitled to hv sex with him or her cos most comments i hv read states dt and that is sickening.
Does it mean that as i have a sponsor helping me with money like my dad or my brother or a relative that am supposed to hv sex with them to show appreciation? Some pple might say that am talking trash or been unreasonable bt i dnt mind.Am nt saying u shldnt hv sex or anything cos thats entirely ur decision to make and its absolutely none of my business but pls ladies and gentlemen dnt make it look like an entitlement because i still think that u can give someone money without expecting anything in return especially sex.

Feel free to disagree

Kingsasian:
Well said but I don't believe my destiny is tied to one ex's. They cease to exist to me the moment I am done with them. Make everybody answer his or her father's name.