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docphresh:
One of the people flexing this things are those adsense bloggers paid in dollars by Google..

are they not gonna spend it?

Snake Ireland

kennboiy:
You have tried,copy and paste

i don't do that, check my blog and see that you will not find any of my post somewhere else, and that is why i didn't write few of the post then direct you to read the rest on my blog but rather post the source, i believe if you like what i write you might possibly visit my blog to see more. All bloggers are not the same.

Have you checked yourself? Have you made adjustment(s) towards the noticeable error(s) of your last relationship which have prompted him/her to have coined you to be the wrong person he/she has ever met?

The obvious truth is that he/she might have been the worst man/woman you have met but he/she is the best to his/her spouse in his/her present matrimonial home.

Have you ever ruminated about the fact that not all the things/people you come across are meant for you even when you think or make them to be for you?

The first time you come across him/her which ever the case may be, he/she will be the best you have ever met, when things moves smoothly, you think you are destined to be together not until the unthinkable starts pushing itself to reality. Then, you will start pondering if this is the person you knew forgetting that life has its own way of inculcating morals into us which will always be by force.

It's a must a man and a woman go into courtship before marriage for familiarity purpose. After you
try making it work and its not working out then the door is still wide open since its not been sealed, not in a childish manner, but with a heart-to-heart talk by the two mature minds to put a dot to the relationship before it gets out of hand or when it will be problematic to be dotted(you know when i mean).

Though, tolerance is one important characteristic of a good relationship, hope of changing makes tolerance to be powerful, but once the tolerance is taken for granted more than required then somebody isn't meant for the other, but trying to make it work when the seal is done is the biggest problem because the two parties knows that it will be difficult to desolve the union and know in fully well that there is something at stake for the losing party in the court of law(court marriage) the two parties may now want to rely on the other to make the final move to stopping the union when it is becoming unbearable.

There is a man/woman for everyman/woman who will tolerate you in any circumstances you find
yourself, but because you dont want to be a ball, you dont want to risk because may be you think you might not cope emotionally then you want to endure the pain forever which isn't meant for you anyways.

There is no rosy relationship. All relationships come with its own ups and downs but the way you and your partner deal with it is what will make or mar your imaginary family.

Risk taking is another characteristic that makes a unique family. Don't be afraid to take risk(s) because once you are afraid to take the risk then you will face the danger associated with not taking the risk for the rest of your life.

Don't feel he/she will think you are a bad person simply because you want the best for yourself, but the truth is that you want the best for him/her also since the two of you might not be happy being together in the boundage for the rest of your life..

Many man/woman have been termed bad by their ex, go to their matrimonial home now they are the apple of their spouse's eyes and the best mum/dad in the whole universe by their child(ren).

Don't make the mistake that will ruin your life by not taking risk(s), the bad boyfriend/girlfriend to a woman/man now can/will be the best man/woman to their ordained husband/wife.

http://bamisepeters..com/2014/10/bad-boyfriend-to-good-husband.html?m=1

RichySam2015: SEE EXCLUSIVE AND COMPLETE PICTURES FROM THE WEDDING CEREMONY http://bamisepeters..de/2015/07/richysam2015-see-exclusive-pictures.html?m=1

see more pictures from the traditional wedding here... http://bamisepeters..de/2015/07/richysam2015-comprehensive-pictures.html?m=1

LEvuls:
All these bloggers sha

do you want to say copy and paste again or what? For your info, i have the approval of who ever i write about or events i cover on my own blog and you will not see it anywhere different from my blog and i can defend my posts anywhere, my blog is different from so many others'... So don't start dat please.

THE BRIDE SPEAKS...

I relocated to Ajah in Lagos State in 2012. Being new in the area i decided to look for a Redeem Christian Church of God that is very close to my new house. After i looked around i saw the RCCG (Prince of peace Parish).

I joined the Redeemed family once again and was welcomed in a special way i will keep remembering all the days of my life.

It all started when a sisters and women conference was organised and ushers were needed to grace the red carpet segment of the programme.

I volunteered to be part of the ushers. During this time, Samuel was the music director and was also made the head of the ushering department for that programme.

The programme came and went. Immediately after the programme i was summoned by Samuel to share some of the pictures to his phone from my phone which i did. That was the first time we ever talked which generated into friendship, and we also shared contacts.

It went on for like 2 years that we only say few words to each other after service.

My dire interest in God's work made me joined units in the church which included teens department and also a youth exco.

One day in early 2014, the wife of the pastor approached me and asked if i had anyone i liked among the men in the church and i told her No.

She said to me that someone is interested in me that i should go and pray about it that i should let her know if God shows anybody to me. She refused to tell me who the person was.

I began to think seriously which made me to confront my music director since he knew almost if not all the single men in the church.

He said he didn't know anything about that and so far the pastor's wife told me to pray about it then there is nothing he can do about it.

A picnic was organised in Church which Samuel and I attended. I noticed that he was everywhere around me. I began to suspect him even with all the questions he was asking me, it was just as if the picnic was for the two of us to know each other. His questions were centered around me and my background, then i thought to myself that this is the man that went to the pastor's wife to declare intentions for me.

I also sent my friend in church Bukola Koku to find out if he(Samuel) was the one that went to the pastor's wife but she couldn't get answers to her findings.

Later our pastor' s wife told me the name of the person that is dying for me behind my back, i was like why on earth will you go to pastor's wife to tell her about your intentions for me?

He said because he wanted me to take him serious and because of his post in the church that that was the normal way he should have done it.

Well, we started like play and told the pastor's wife about it and she told us to pray about it. Samuel responded almost immediately that he had been praying even before he came to her(pastor's wife) and God has given him go ahead.

I admire Samuel's voice when he speaks. His words are relief balm especially when am angry.

He is so caring and loving not to only me but to everyone around him.
I fell in love with his family immediately i stepped into their house the first day, the reception was the best.

Samuel is the best thing that is happening to me. I pray to God always that He should just be increasing the love he has for me every minute up till old age till death will do us part.



Click on my signature to know all about this up coming wedding and like incase you want to get updates of the event or subsequent events...


http://bamisepeters..de/2015/07/richysam2015-how-it-all-started-bride.html?m=1


THE GROOM SPEAKS...


Apart from when we exchanged pictures, she was talking on phone one day like that and i heard her speak Yoruba, i was surprised because she has this Igbo looks, so my interest in her developed.


One Sunday, I was coming out of the church and she was coming in, after we had talked for quite long my interest in her grew with the way she portrayed her respect to those in church and so on.


So, I started paying attention to her and started building interest in her which she never knew.


But as a customary i had to talk to someone who is a bit more advance in church who happened to be the pastor's wife who we are also in good terms.

I told her jokingly that there is this girl in church i think am liking. She told me to be relaxed and observe her more. And i didn't know anything about her before that time but the pastor's wife told me not to worry that me coming to her and asking about it has prompted her to know what is going on.


They found out she was not also in any relationship. Though it was not as if i can't toast her myself but you know, my position in the church, it is necessary  to follow the normal procedure so that it won't look as if am playing around her.

We had a picnic in the church and that was when i got close to her. We sat down and we talked, i think all through the picnic i was useless with any other person. I got to know her, her family, her aspirations and all other things. And after that i knew that she is the only one meant for me.


She is very spiritual, respectful and doesn't have time for something that is not worthy of attention. I also like her because she is funny like me. There is difference between being funny and someone interpreting and understanding it well. She understands my jokes and enjoys it.


I then told pastor i think i have found the right person. Prior to that time i have gotten spiritual confirmation from God that she is the right person and i have peace within myself ever since. My parents also prayed along with me and it all turned well and that was when i proposed to her.


My proposal was very funny. We were travelling to Ibadan to see her parent, i gave her the ring on our way back. Though it was boring but shocking to her.


I was driving on the express and suddenly stopped beside the bush and i proposed.


Although,  people will think that since i am an award winning music producer then it should be loud and extravagant. Bamisepeters was left out of the picture who should also have been part of those that would have made it loud and extravagant like people would have wanted it to be.


I believe some things are not always about noise was why i did the proposal in a quiet way.


She is kind not to just me but everyone, i can only take someone who is that kind to people as my wife because it is my own nature too.


She is extremely respectful and has very good sense of dressing. She is very beautiful accompanied with her long beautiful legs.


I want to see my wife always happy and achieving her dreams with me. I am also happy and fulfilled having her to myself.


http://bamisepeters..de/2015/07/richysam2015-shortly-before-traditional.html?m=1

justjify:
Number 5 should be forgive and forget.
But wait ooh! Is it easy?

thought it is not easy but the reply immediately after yours answers it all

Kisses4rmDxtanx:
THANKS SIR!
This really drived into me
GOD BLESS YOU.

It is my joy when my write-ups meet someone's need, this alone is enough to energize me to write more. Hope i wouldn't be asking for too much if i ask you to click like on my signature to get immediate post update from my blog?

It really depends on what you choose to blog on... I am a blogger too and my posts on my blog do make front page on nairaland and i can beat my chest i did them myself, at times it takes me much time which includes the night to complete my write-ups. I also cover live events on my blog. You can check it out here http://bamisepeters..com or click like on my signature to get immediate post updates from my blog.

no2fuks:
have sex everyday

say no2fuks

Thanks mod...

Your comments, without them my posts are nothing... You all earn my like.

coldHeat:
Nice post,

all points are good and worthy of commendation and emulation.

But might I also add that to attain happiness we have to choose to be happy. Its a choice we have to deliberately make. That way irregardless of how our situation taunts us we can always smile. It is when we try to measure our selves or reward ourselves with happiness based on our circumstances that we will always fall short.
This choice must be mingled with thanksgiving to God, faith and hope for a good overall aroma that will be pleasing to the soul.

Also we must at all times face the reality of our situations and not give in to illusions and delusions.

A good example is when we lose a loved one; it is painful, but we must choose to accept the reality that they are no longer accessible to us in this physical plane or realm, and therefore we must move on with our lives remembering them for what they believed and walking with the reality that they would have wanted us to be happy at their demise.

We need more threads like this on the front page so we can further make the world a better place by imbibing into ourselves the positivity of life.

the bitter-truth

RichySam2015: SEE Pre-wedding pictures...

The pictures you are about to see is that of a wedding that will come up this saturday 12th July, 2015 in Ajah, Lagos. This will be the first event my blog will be covering comprehensively and i have signed contracts with (will be revealed nextweek) to cover an event you all will like to watch.


You can see more pictures and wedding details here ... http://bamisepeters..de/2015/07/pre-wedding-pictures-richysam2015.html?m=1

My blog is one of the latest "working" blogs in Nigeria that deals with life, relationship, children and events.

I love to see people happy and wish to be of help/service to humanity. I also give exceptional preference to children and will always love to put smiles on their faces despite the sufferings and pains inflicted on them in some developing nations. (watch out for children show which i will bring to your sight in a week time).

This thread will be for only the events the blog will be covering.

I am doing this to set the pace for other bloggers who have turned blogging to copying and pasting, i want mine to be different, i wish to be among the leading bloggers in Nigeria and perhaps worldwide in few years time that will be known for originality.....

You can like my facebookpage(http://facebook.com/bamisepetersblog) , BBM channel( C002D4550 ) , twitter handle(http://twitter.com/bamisepeters) , instagram(http://instagram.com/bamisepeters) google+ (http://plus.google.com/+bamisepeters) and YouTube channel(http://youtube.com/bamisepeters) to get immediate post, picture, video updates of the blog's post here... http://bamisepeters..de/2015/07/marriage-ceremony-e-invitation.html

Please your criticisms and support is very vital to the success of this thread as i wish to make you relax and have something to see on your mobile phones or PC to keep you company during the weekends and possibly during the weekdays.

Thank you for viewing this thread, i hope you will click on follow so as to keep yourself updated with any post on this thread.

Now let's kick-start the event coverage.

Nafizzey:
have done that several times but my profile is not showing (name, surname, state code number, Grade, etc)

please make sure you quickly report to your state secretariat to lodge this complain, it's beyond my own knowledge now... Or possibly talk with your LGI for further directives, but i know the state secretariat is the last resort

Nafizzey:
Great job.. i just went to did mine now. My details are correct so all I did was to upload a new pix with a white background which i successful did. Howerver, this is what am facing, after replacing the old picture with the new requested one, I can't see my details again...

Log out and login again

greatdeal1408:
make money

have some money\

hold some cash

have real cash

just make some stupid money



i mean ... all things will be added unto you

do you know what getting money has caused some people? You will not say this if you know. Money doesn't guarantee happiness

se na like this e go dey dey?

ailehwise:
I tire o . They said invalid password. I requested for another wich they gave me. Enter it, nd still invalid. I can't login.

is it on ur mobile phone that the password reset was sent to? I did for someone too ,after the password was sent to phone and I logged in it gave me invalid password, I then requested it to be sent to email, it was after they sent it to email that the thing logged the account in. Maybe you try same if you have not done it

like my Facebook page http://Facebook.com/bamisepetersblog and make your request through message as I will remove my number from here. Thank you for confiding in me and am happy to have helped those I helped and those still willing to be helped.

Shinelle:
Pls i need your help guys...

After uploading my passport, i discovered an error appears in the spelling of my name..
the directive says to print .
I just wanted to know if anyone has been in such a situation cos i dont want the spelling mistake on the final certificate. What is the most effective means to achieve that?

Advice pls..

you have to quickly report to your state secretariat to lodge the complain since no provision to edit than to change passport.

Several people have become slaves to unhappiness when life itself is not meant for you to be sad.

So many things can be done to make unhappiness to become things of the past. Here are some tips from me to you:

1 . Love God:

The only true happiness comes from God. When you are sad maybe due to human errors or something else, God can turn the situation around which will definitely put smiles on your face.
Without the love of God in you unhappiness will be the order of the day.

2 . Love yourself :

The most important thing in life is to love oneself. Your face, figure, problems or what have you shouldn't be making you unhappy when you have a living God that requires just your faith. No matter the situation you may find yourself just learn to love yourself by trusting your problems on God alone and carry on with your life. Pretend to be perfect in your imperfection because you are the only one that can make yourself happy. The way you appear to people is the way
you will be accepted, appreciated or depreciated.

3 . Be focused:

When you are here and there at the same time you might be determining your unhappiness. When you know what you want and you go for it be it educationally, career wise etc then
happiness is not far from you. At times, you might not have what it takes to fulfil your desires. Your desire might not come as fast as you expected it but through hard work it will surely come to past. Don't Kill two birds with a stone. Things should be done one after the other.

4 . Get ready to be disappointed:

One thing that is inevitable in human race is disappointment. The fact that human beings are not perfect being then you need to expect the "unexpectable". Human being will promise and fail. Your best friend might betray you one way or the other. Someone very close to you might disappoint you. Be ready to be disappointed by those you love. You yourself might disappoint someone else unknowingly. The last time i checked, God was/is the only perfect being in the universe. Since you have this in mind you can never be sad when it happens because you are ready for it.

5 . Learn to forgive:

When you hold grudges against people due to the offense they have committed against you, you will never be happy because when you have anything to do with that same person you will never be happy dealing with the person. When you hold offense against people your conscience will never leave you until you release and let go of the grudge. Forgive even before you are offended is a huge secret to happiness.

6 . Learn to love again:

Many people are sad due to Heartbreak. You will not be happy because of the scar that has been left in you by the person you love. The only way to forget and be happy is to replace the one that has made you unhappy. There are so many good men and women out there waiting for you, don't think everyone are the same. Let someone else remove the scar in you and be happy for life.

7 . Be useful to others:

Always remember you are not the only one in the world. If it was only you then life would have been miserable. Be helpful to others, give when its necessary to give and also help when its needed. When you put smiles on people's face you will definitely be happy.


please feel free to add yours.

http://bamisepeters..com/2015/07/some-ways-to-make-yourself-happy.html

orekelewa09:
I don't have white background picture. is there anyhow I can do it?

get anything white or off-white and use your phone, i have seen many ppl use their cover cloth, towel etc, urs shouldn't be an exception ...

Am happy to be of help...

Now, in case you have forgotten ur email or password just read the simple way of how to go about it here... http://bamisepeters..com/2015/07/do-nysc-batch-c14-online-verification.html?m=1 i actually recovered someone's email and password through it now.

Abisoyeodebunmi:
I did my own on my phone by following the steps here http://bamisepeters..com/2015/07/do-nysc-batch-c14-online-verification.html

thank you Abisoyeodebunmi for this. I am also willing to help anyone who is unable to do the verification mayb because of location or unforseen circumstances. like my Facebook page and request for my whatsap number. you will Just send ur pix, nysc username(email) and password to me on the number I will gv u... but pls don't abuse my help

clemsblog:
I just found a link containing step by step solutions on how to verify and correct your details for 2014 batch c corp members, Click on this link http://clemtips..com/2015/07/verification-of-details-for-batch-c.html

this only works with laptop or computer

Peaceisgold:
d pix i originally did mine wit was nt wit a white background. Am i to still use d previous pix or snap anoda pix?

mostly, the essence of the verification is to change the pix to the one with white background except for some oda instances of mispelt name or thereabout. We all have a passport there but the instructions from nysc state clearly that we should change it to another one with white background. So go change it now.

slimzey91:
[Pls sir in a situation where the email used to register is lost, how do i go abt it?quote author=bamac post=35402154]do it on your phone bro, click on the link in my signature to do it.... If you wl need to resize ur pix and u cant do it on ur phone just send it to me tru my watsap numb above...

#myopinion, if you have forgotten your username(email) just go and meet your LGI for further directives. Some of those that try doing it on the mobile tru my blog have forgoten their username.... So they need to see the LGI. Pls anyone that knows wat can b done without seeing the LGI should share with the house

slimzey91:
I said it b4, this Nysc allowee na blood money. Alert never show, fed govt don de plot how to start expense on top am. Still on d mata, no cafe here in dis rural area oh.. .

do it on your phone bro, click on the link in my signature to do it.... If you wl need to resize ur pix and u cant do it on ur phone just send it to me tru my watsap numb above...