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dearpreye:
N2500 for 4.5 GB

and u call dt wonders? Stop it jare!

idrisalomagold:
I use itel 1503 android 4+

ok, jist try it and feedback

firstEVA:
I don't run out of data, I can't even exhaust my 2gig monthly subscription.

wait!!! Na nokia3310 u dey use?

idrisalomagold:
Thank u bro. I will just do the settings u give me. I hope it works. Let's I forgot, I googled how to root and I learnt it can be done with something kingRoot. Maybe I will try that as well. Thanks.

i am not saying kingroot will nt work but it also depend on the maker of ur phone

safarigirl:
i'm correcting your apparently daft, ignorant self to speak like a human being instead of exposing your cretinous character.

Perhaps you suffer from an immense lack of comprehension, hence you assume you can just type BS on a borrowed phone. If you were too useless to achieve anything of note at Kelechi's age, don't assume everyone else was chasing girls about like you

i dey beg

misspicy:
Even ur reply is long

Try summary please,some of us are primary school graduates

lol, misspicy u r something else i swear

misspicy:
We all know this na,Op why this long reminder

you know it does not mean that other knows too. At times a write-up might not be for those who knows, it might be for just a person who need to be convinced.

As per the "longness" you guys need to understand that short articles are only respected in Nigeria (nairaland esp) , but other international forums where i post this kind of write-ups demands the volume and quality. And i as a person don't like to paste little of it here and now say read the rest here(the source), i believe if you like what i have written you can just visit the source to go through other available write-ups.

I hope i have not gotten anyone angry...

Melahou:
yes i`ll continue... it was a reflex action

na man u be, i expect less

EroticAngelina:
I won't. Thats a sign from God, so I won't marry him.

sign indeed

What a way to go.... You expect bloggers that cannot complete a sentence to stop copy and pasting, they will always find fast lane.

afolwalex20:
D story self too long!

symptoms of a cheat

CivilzedTyger:
Not all men cheat but OP u dey cheat

lol.. Ur heart dey flog u abi?

http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/not-all-men-cheat.html

Hasty generalization has eaten deep into the system of many ladies/women. 

Because a man cheated on you then you conclude that all men cheats.

Have you tried all the men in the world before you reach that hasty conclusion?

FOR THE SINGLES

You claim all men cheats, yet, you yourself you go from one man to another to satisfy your material needs, have you forgotten that whatsoever you sow you shall reap?

You claim all men cheats, yet it is the most handsome man on earth you are looking for when there are good looking guys/men who are humble and well cultured.

You claim all men cheats, yet, it is Dangote or Zuckerberg you want as your lover when your parents are stark illiterate, that your whole family feeds on less than #500 in a day.

Even some ladies from rich background do make the mistake of aiming for a rich guy by all means.

Don't forget that as you are aiming for that kind of man many ladies too are dying to have the man of your dream to themselves too and they can go any length to get what they want from him. 

So, don't blame him if he falls prey. What is good isn't meant for just a person.

Well, nobody is saying it is not good to aim high, it works well for some woman  while it doesn't for some other women, but why not climb the three from the bottom.

THE MARRIED

Yes, we have some married men who still chase after thin legged girls but that doesn't implies that all men cheat.

Even those married men that are cheating, you need to ask yourself what you are doing wrong that is making him to pursue every other things in skirt before you conclude.

Though it is innate for some men who cheats, but some other women are behind their man's promiscuity.

At times, you and the man may not be compatible right from day 1, but love at times is funny and can make you take wrong decisions which you might not recover from for life.

You claim you don't want your man to go out yet you don't give him his food at the right time or you don't even know how to give him quality food cooked by you.

Well, many tiny legged girls are trained to spoil men with quality foods cooked by them and not mama put or tantalizer.

You claim your husband cheats, yet, when he call on you to fulfil his manly duty you are always tired or not in mood while he is sweating profusely right from the bottom.

You claim your man cheats, yet you don't respect and treat him like a king while he is proud of you not minding your shortcomings.

Some ladies are thought how to cuddle a man and make him feel untop of the world, they even went extra miles to develop the skill.

There are uncountable men who will never cheat on their women, but before you can get them you yourself must be part of the uncountable women that one can boldly call wife material without any doubt whatsoever.

As there are non cheating men there are also completely responsible women who can go any length to satisfy their man with anything in this world.

You will only find men that cheats when you aim higher than what you deserves or what your destiny wants.

There are so many homes that when you go to enquire about the man the wife will confirm to you that her man is completely free from cheat.

What will you say about such cases? Oh! You will still claim that the man is cheating without the woman's knowledge.

Good for you, keep dreaming, what you think is what you get.

Do you know that some men find it irritating sleeping with another woman outside the one they claim to love/their matrimonial wife?

If you have tested cucumber and you don't like it don't conclude that fruits is not good for the body.

If you have not come across a man that doesn't cheat then you need to check yourself too.

The more you live the more you learn.


http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/not-all-men-cheat.html

Lalasticlala, Ishilove

Front page abi, there is God

tosyne2much:
Baba na to pursue dem go dia oooo

wateva ur eye c we no dey o

[quote author=tosyne2much post=36642611][/quote]even if na Borno

rudestmcblaze:
I've noticed body language a lot amongst women, d oda day I was walking wif two ladies after class and one of them that is into me said she wanted to withdraw some money I asked d oda one to please wait so we can go home together but she said she was goin home n couldn't wait b4 I could say "jack" d lady that was into me just stylishly and forcelly dragged me with her I had to signal d oda lady dat I'll call her lady to confirm if she had gotten home.
Anoda sign to watch out for is when a lady is always showing you her pictures and always asking your opinion bou each of then and when you don't respond...u don find trouble

lol, u garrit.

Deejacy2:
What if you have gone to a driving school before and still need a car to perfect your driving skills? Like me I have been to a driving school, but I need a car to perfect my driving skills, else I tend to forget all what I have being taught.

wait till the money u dey save for that purpose to complete now

donholy28:
But I be BFF to many girls but dem get Bfs and nothing dey am....just friends...so op this is useless

pls dont say it is useless, you should know how it feels when you make a write-up and someone from nairaland or any other forum now reply with that word.

Though we have different opinions, i will not subscribe to what my op said because he himself is a bf to someone who has a man.

It all depends on the girl. No matter hw close you can be to another man or a woman( bf or gf) you must respect your man.

No big deal when a lady has a man as her bf, the bf too must learn to respect the man of his gf.

Dont make us hate each other when relationship comes to play.

My OP, think about it...

Tapout:
isn't it better n easier to say I love you than going thru such stress

that is why it is good to be a man. Life is soooo easy when you are a man except from when you turn to the breadwinner

You are free to criticize or add to this write-up as i know there are many people that knows more than what i have written(its my opinion) ... Source : http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/6-ways-lady-can-say-love-you-to-man.html

Should i say it is not proper for a lady to woo a man?

Yes, it is not proper for a woman to be the first to say to a man that she has feelings for him.

I used to think it is African mentality until i made research and realized that is a global belief.

Saying "i love you" is a sign of commitment and assurance that someone will be with somebody till eternity.

Coming from a woman to a man is something most men will see as "forcing yourself on me" and thereby taking her for granted. They(the men) will be like she is cheap, she doesn't have dignity, she is loose and some funny and other dark comments.

You don't need to be bordered about the stigmatization, since you are also free to make your choice instead of the men forcing themselves to be your choice when you are their own choice freely.

Here are some things you can do to force the statement out of any man's mouth on your behalf.

But before you can try them out, make sure you have done your research about the man, make sure you are 1million percent certain he is as single as something i know but don't wanna mention.

* You must be bold and sure of yourself

This is the very first stage. You must be bold enough to face him, though you know your intentions but you must hide it so that he will not know where you are driving to at the early stage.

Don't doubt your look, be sure you are look good within yourself before you can face any man with your intentions, if not, you have failed from the first stage.

* Be ready to subdue your ego

This is also a vital point. Your ego can ruin you if you are not careful.

You need a man, not because men are not asking you out, but because you have seen someone with the qualities you desire of someone you will love to call your man, then you have to make yourself rule over your ego.

* Give him at most 60% attention

This is one of the steps many woman will love to get from any man they love. But don't be surprised that men are also emotionally attached to someone who gives them attention even when they don't deserve it.

Human feelings is very soft to tamper with, once you are consistent in giving him attention you are giving him reasons why he should try you out, you are giving him reasons to know that you are also available.

Try as best as you can to fill the empty space in his life. Get him talk about his work and before you know it he has finished telling you about his family and his dreams.

With little time he will get used to you and will also not want to go a minute without you.

At this stage you must be ready to disappoint him at some crucial instances. You must make him beg you for your attention so that he will not be developing the thought that you want to push yourself to him.

Social networks are very helpful this days. You can be the first to start the interaction.

You can accuse him of not checking on you even through social network so far it is possible huzzling and buzzling might not allow you to see let alone talk.

He will definitely beg you, after he might have begged, you can just tell him to promise you he will be checking on you even if it is through the social networks on a daily basis.

Before you know it, he is already in your house immediately after he leaves his office or what have you.

That will be his secondary job right from that day, gradually, you are gaining ground, but you must make your moves fast because someone else might be eyeing him or he himself eyeing someone else.

One thing about the above point is that even before you make any other move, you will observe that he will be developing strong interest in you himself.

* Body language

This is the most common style women adopt to force their love into men. Only a blind man will not know you are single and ready to mingle when you take the body language approach.

Speaking through your body as a woman speaks volume about your intentions and desires.

* Give him reasons to make him believe he is not making mistake with you

Should i say you should pretend during this period? I guess you should just be yourself. Once you have done all the above steps i think you should be free in his home, you should be able to help him with house chores.

Helping him out with house chores doesn't depict you are slave nor will it give him impression of enslaving you even when he eventually gives you the ring.

But, that will make any single man with his right senses to think less than once. He is not blind and neither is he a fool that will not understand that he needs to do the "needful". 

One good thing is that as women are used to gossiping with their friends about their life, men also do same with their friends.

if he has good friends the work will be much more easier as they will be the ones that will tell him to act fast since time wasting can make you change your mind.

* Take little time before you say yes

He will eventually ask for your yes if you follow those steps but you must not say because you have laboured before he finally demands your yes then you should jump at it.

Even when you did not force him to love you, you must not say yes immediately let alone when you now do all the work.

Take small time before you will give him a yes, but it shouldn't be too long so that flies will not come and pollute the food that took your precious ego out of you.

On a normal day this are the things women do to their man before marriage but the difference is that the man has declared Interest before they will do all those for him.

But in this case the woman has to go extra miles for the man to be able to proclaim interest, thereby, showcasing the later first instead of the former.


http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/6-ways-lady-can-say-love-you-to-man.html

Cutehector:
What do nairalanders think of me?

nairaland is speechless right nw...

Those who doesn't like long write-ups i am sorry for this is a little bit long... But i hope i make sense if you eventually go through it. Those who are familiar with my write-ups can click on the source... http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/the-ultimate-secret-behind-pretence-you.html?m=1


Who says pretence is not worth it?

So many times when i try to make myself understand that pretending isn't good i realise that if you don't pretend at times you will not be recognized and accorded the respect you deserve.

If you are the type that people hold with high esteem simply because they think you have something unique which you know within yourself that you don't have, it is better you keep on pretending because you will be buried the day they know your worth.

People only respect you and take you to be important when they know you have something they don't have or when they need something from you.

The way you appear to people is the way you will be appreciated or depreciated. The day you appear to them worthless of what they think you are worth is the day you start depreciating.

Right from that same minute of that same day the respect they have for you will start going down drastically. 
So many times unnumbered people have proven not to be trusted with truth. Your truth has no impact to them rather than to draw you down with it.

We know what playing along has done to so many people, but it is still the best if you want people to know you also exist and if you want to get to the top.

But should it be so?

Pretending, claiming you are/own something when it is obvious you are not or you don't have isn't the best way to live life.

Most of the times it is good to be truthful so as not to miss out from the good things that should have been yours.

But the fact is that it is only few people who will understand your situation without mocking or looking down on you, and they will also be part of your rising.

But to recognize this few is not always easy as the world is filled with mockers and backbiters.

They are only happy when they are the only one at the helms of affairs. They will always want you to come to them for financial assistance when they will still look for one excuse or the other when you eventually ask.

They grow goosebumps when they hear about your success and will be looking for your downfall.

They will never support you emotionally or physically to get to the top when they know that if they do you will rise more than them.

Road to the top is not always easy, but it is recommended that you keep your gradual success away from people till you reach the untouchable height of success.

Even when you reach the top they will be looking for means to bring you down let alone when you are still struggling.

See, no one is ready to help you to get to the top especially when they themselves are not at the top. But i am not surprised at that since you cannot give out what you don't have. 
It is better you keep your growing up away from some people as they will discourage you from attaining the success you have envisaged.

It is not everyone that must know where you are going to.

Now i hope you are getting the kind of pretence i am talking about?

Don't say you have a million naira or dollars when it is obvious to you yourself that you don't have a thousand naira or a dollar on less you want to run without end.

Way to success is very narrow of which only you can endure the pain it entails so far you are the only one that all the glory will be accorded to. No one will want to share it with you as they are also aiming to get to the top but the way at which they wish to attain their own success is/might be completely different from yours.

If you are from a less privilege home(financially) don't try to compete with those that are privileged. At the long run your success as someone with no capital might still shout more than those with enough capital.

Determination, concentration and hardwork will make a man successful, but once you start shouting when your success is just growing then you are determining how far you want your success to grow.

When you are successful it is not you that will tell them, the success will tell them itself. You will be surprised that they never make any attempt to make impact to your success but once you are successful they will claim that they are the ones that started the idea that has brought you huge success.

When you are into buying and selling, it is better you take it far from the so called "your own people" because instead of them buying what you are selling they will rather pretend to like your stuff meanwhile they tarnish the image of your business behind you.

Take your business to those who don't know you and make your name, few are those that want you to succeed. Once you make your name outside believe me you will be respected at home (among "your own people", in fact, they will now help you to broadcast your business as they will want people to know that you are associated with them one way or the other.

Your family is also a good way through which you can succeed but it is only when you work for each other this can be possible, if it is the other way round you better keep pretending till all is well.

Well, those with good family members like mine don't know what people outside are facing just to be successful.

An adage says "a hen is worthless in its own house".

Please don't get me wrong, blessed is the man that applies wisdom in everything he does...

Have i done well? Feel free to criticize or appraise me through your comments, likes and shares.

http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/the-ultimate-secret-behind-pretence-you.html?m=1

For those that hate long write-ups i am sorry for this is a long one ... http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/eliminate-your-doubts-and-fears-about.html?m=1

No matter the circumstances, love deserves new chances.

There are different reasons people develop fears or doubts about love which includes: past relationship, rejection, commitment, intentions and so many other reasons.


PAST RELATIONSHIP :


Many people are developing fears and doubts about love due to what led to the sudden dessolution of their previous relationship. They are afraid of what might end the relationship they have not started.

The truth is that if you don't give room for love again, you might settle for inferior because you are afraid not to let what happened to you in the past to surface again when the best is already in your palms.

It is important to know that dwelling on the past or judging what to come in the future with the past might make you remain single.

Ask around, especially those that are married if the man/woman they settled down with is their first love.

Life is all about risk, and humans are not the same all through.

You might have ones in your life time done something that should make people to castigate you too but they overlooked it because they know as a human you are bound to make mistakes.

What happened that led to the destruction of you previous relationship might at the long run be for your own good because if it didn't happen you might end up blaming yourself for entering into a relationship with the person you were involved in the relationship with.

Rejection :

This is another reason some people fear or doubt love. The fear of being rejected by the person they love.

At times, some will be having deep concerns if the person is having the same feelings towards him/her.

Most time the person you have affection towards might not even share one tenth of your feelings towards you, but you are the one that will work your way into his/her heart. It might be a normal thing for men but seems abnormal but achievable for woman.

(In my future article, i will shed light on how a woman can work her love into a man's heart and the man will be the one to declare love intentions to the woman). 

As i was saying, it is normal for the person you have feelings for to not have feelings for you at all, but you have to work your feelings into the person's heart before it can be reciprocated.

Take the bold step and make your intention known directly(the man) or indirectly(the woman).

You will be making a huge mistake of not making your intention known to the person because someone else might also be growing feelings for that same person your feelings is pointing at.

No one will slap or jail you for declaring love intentions to someone you are sure is as single as you are.

And you mustn't expect that the person will give you a straight yes because even if the person has feelings for you prior your declaration, courtesy demands that the person (which is a woman in most cases) at least shouldn't say a YES for the first time so that you (the man) will not take her for granted for the rest of her life (though it's African mentality).

Expect that she will make you go through thorough scrutinization just for you to cherish her long run decision.

Commitment :


Some other people are too committed and fear that love can shift the commitment they have for the thing they are committed to.

Why should you even fear love due to your commitment? Have you forgotten that there is a man for every woman and a woman for every man?

No matter how committed you might be to something there will be the right opposite sex for you who will not only accept you with what you are committed to but also make the commitment greater than your imagination (provided the thing you are committed to is profitable to him/her).

There are differences when you have someone supporting the growth of your commitment in something and there is this inner happiness that comes with you having someone backing your commitment. 

Give love a chance and feel the difference.

Intentions :

The last point in my list is the intention of the person you claim to love towards you if it is genuine or not.

I previously mentioned that life is all about risk.

It shouldn't be your business to know if your lover's intention towards you is genuine or not.

No matter how good someone might be in pretending one day light will come upon the darkness.

Your fear is that it might be late when the truth will come out.

The fact is that you don't have option than to trust the person you claim you love.

Though you might be calculative in love but you mustn't let your calculation to tamper with your relationship.

You must try to give your relationship the best it deserves so that even if anything will go wrong you will not be at fault.

Don't allow your thought of your lover's intentions to overshadow your thinking faculty because you might not recover from the psychological effect.

The best way to live life is to learn to love. Love is beautiful and worth experiencing. There is a sense of accomplishment when you love and you are loved in reciprocation, don't be left out of the love experience.

Have i missed out any point? Please feel free to add your point. It will be highly appreciated... http://bamisepeters..com/2015/08/eliminate-your-doubts-and-fears-about.html?m=1

The month of August shall open unexpected doors of strange success, unmerited favours, untouchable protections, unexpected blessings of God unto you and your home. Happy new month.

We started this last month, let's keep it going.

Share your new month greetings and messages with your pal(s) on nairalanders.




Cc: lalasticlala, Ishilove, farano, Rocktation, Afam4eva, OAM4J ...

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DJ2HOT:
lolz!! no won't say that, it's a 2way drive as it is with the male folks same as the females.........80% of the mar is based on lack of trust......nd that's majorly the problem with the over experienced those who've gotten enough of the sour taste

i grab. The mar is most times caused by lack of trust truly.