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franklineugwun: I guess

franklineugwun: text on my phone? Nope... Did you?

franklineugwun: hope it is too

pricelessmr: I'm yet to submit my 2nd screening form. I noticed a question was repeated twice. is it wise to give different answers to d same question? I don't think so, but your input is appreciated.

AkunneObinna: Am learning JavaScript, and "most" if not all the time I have to manually review and re-edit my codes, like almost five times before it works properly. Please what offline JavaScript Validor should I use? and as well as an editor specially meant for JavaScript?

Celepope: Many Nigerians just like condemning anything church perhaps it is based on poverty.You guys should cut them some slack.I am not taking side with this man but he is not far from the truth.Most private University even in the US owned by churches are also expensive.A good example is Oral Roberts University.I have not come across where the owners of the religious Universities forced anyone to attend their school.It is by choice.Some will soon start complaining that his members can't attend his school.Funny enough many of them are not complaining so why are you guys bothered?If you think you have the money then your can send your kids there but if not you can sure look else where i.e Adekunle Ajasin University and other.Anyways even the useless state Universities in Nigeria are getting expensive daily without any meaningful infrastructure and wack administration so you guys should ponder on the difference between both.

kehesjay: Just chillax, if u pass well u should get an invitation for interview soon..if u guys ve any question am willing to help.so also is Ezra.

MrCork: ...question is. ..who is looking for relationship... In 2014?

Many times, majority of singles and unmarried in a dating
relationship engage in sex to keep the relationship going. But
a recent survey from over 3,000 researchers has concluded
that sex does not strengthen, preserve or keep a
relationship. Although many unmarried younger men and
women find this difficult to believe, today we shall look at
some facts these researchers got from all over the globe.
Every manufacturer always designs a product for a purpose.
They specify the usage and we, the consumers, abide by
their specifications. Sex is designed to exist within certain
boundaries; sexual union is intended as an expression of a
lifelong commitment, a symbol of a union that exists only
within the unconditional commitment of marriage. So, sex is
designed for the marriage union and should be reserved for
the same purpose. Sex and marriage go together. Every act
of sex outside of marriage cheapens both sex and marriage.
So, sex is not the relationship.
It pays to save sex at its proper time and place – and that is
in your marriage. Many single young men find it difficult to
eventually marry a lady that freely offers sex to them
because they think that if the milk is free there should be no
need to pay for the cow. There is still something so special
when the surprise is kept for the wedding night. ‘But we
really love each other’ has no bearing on the ethics of sexual
intimacy—sex does not become permissible through
subjective feelings, but through the objective lifelong
commitment of marriage. God is not cruel. He doesn’t
command you to abstain from necessities such as eating or
drinking or breathing. Sex is something everyone can abstain
from; yes it is a strong desire, but never an emergency, nor
a necessity.
Sex outside its boundaries is inseparable from the
responsibilities and the consequences. It makes having a long
term relationship more difficult. Sex before marriage begins
to thaw away. You find yourself divorcing your emotions
from the actual act of sex. This cheapens your emotions and
short-circuits your ability to form lasting and meaningful
relationships. It makes sex, as an expression of love, so
empty.
The standard argument for having sex before marriage is
this: If two people love each other, then what is so wrong
with having sex? If the only means to say, “I love you,” is to
have sex, then the unmarried people are in trouble. Sex
ought to be the final expression of your love when you have
thrown yourself completely and absolutely into a lifelong
relationship. Anything less than complete commitment makes
the expression of sex mundane and often even, vain. Sex, as
a final act of commitment, is a powerful statement of love
that deepens marital commitment and rekindles excitement. It
robs you of your self-worth, it takes away the commitment
and replaces it with a cheap love, and you rob yourself of
one of the most precious gifts you can give. It also damages
your own self-worth. You’ll begin to think either less of
yourself, or others will think less of you. And if that is all
you have, your mind and heart begin to drift and you begin
to question your own self-worth. Is it just your body that the
other craves? What happens when you get sick, or old, or
wrinkled? Will you be loved when you can’t perform like you
do now? Can the relationship survive outside of the sexual
act?
Believe it or not, indiscriminate sexual activities before
marriage will haunt you in your future relationships; this I
can practically guarantee. You would have regret,
depression, anxiety, abortion, nightmares, suspicion, and
trust issues. The physical and relational consequences of sex
outside of marriage are painfully real. True love would be
patient in waiting for the proper time for sex.
“But we’re going to be married anyway,” is another common
excuse. Along with being presumptuous, this stance will
almost certainly leave one question unanswered: If one gives
in to sexual demands before marriage, what will stop him or
her from giving in to such demands elsewhere once married?
But what if we get married and find out we’re completely
sexually incompatible? Do you know that you could actually
find out if you’re incompatible with your spouse in a
hundred different ways? Every married couple does. But a
successful marriage isn’t based so much on compatibility as
on a commitment to work through the incompatibilities.
Research indicates that couples who cohabit before marriage
have a 50 per cent higher divorce rate than those who don’t.
These couples also have higher rates of domestic violence
and are more likely to be involved in sexual affairs. If a
cohabiting couple gets pregnant, there is a high probability
that the man will leave the relationship within two years,
resulting in a single mom raising a fatherless child. As a
matter of fact, people who have sex outside of marriage
usually don’t end up marrying each other. Not even when
the thought of getting married was their reason for having
sex.
There are many other ways to find out if you are compatible:
spending time together getting to know one another through
dates and talking to each other, finding out each other’s
likes, dislikes, passions, beliefs etcetera. Do you really want
your future spouse to have tried “finding a compatible
partner” by having many different sex partners? No, you
don’t. So, sex is not really the relationship, get your bearing
right.

teeboo: Only God knws if dey derive pleasure in making d house look untidy,am experiencing d same thing,my 15months old son can climb anything he nearly fell frm dinning table som days back thank God I was around,he'll empty his box of cloth on d floor,2 them dey're just having fun

NLFreak:

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Oguntimmy: God dey o

Neduzze5: T

dhammyg:

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tunex777: Has any1 gotten invites for the training

typicaltemi: Kkk tx...but can some1 dat doesnt v voters can apply sha

typicaltemi: Kkk tx...but can some1 dat doesnt v voters can apply sha