₦airaland Forum

Toruibestate:
I am an Ijaw leader despite being a Gen-Z born 1998.
Same year with B-Lord but i can tell you that this election belong to Gen -Z. Obi we know.


He is trying to beg GEJ not to contest, nothing Dem want tell me.
The two of them know me.
Tompolo say I wasn't on his side when he got the job back then because I say he should do the job but not remove food from mouth of thousands of Ijaw and their families without thinking of alternative for them.


PO took second in Bayelsa last time and we know that Diri performed wonders for Atiku hence Obi couldn't see first.



@Ditari of Ijaw.

Ozzyk:
We got married in ending of August
We didn't have anything to do together at all during our 2 year courtship
She's really adorable and a Godly babe to the core
On the second night of our wedding I confirmed she was a virgin
Sadly our honeymoon only lasted Barely 2 weeks before she missed her period
Here is the issue;
Since over a month and some few weeks now she won't let me touch her, in fact it's like my touches irritate her, no sex, no kiss, no smooching, no touching
It sometimes feels we're just house mates who shares same matrimonial bed together
I have tried to talk to her many times about my sexual wellness but she seems not interested at all
My marriage is less than 2 months and I am already over a month sex starved
Perhaps she sometimes complains of pregnancy cramps but this should not com at the detriment of my sexual well being.....
And besides she's goes to work everyday but the moments she gets home she won't let me touch not even slight touches not to talk of sex or romance....
I am already tired 😩

Karemarealty288:
https://x.com/instablog9ja/status/1977625808668618949?t=DerjyXX7LLgc6aO7oMEuoQ&s=08[/quote]So I senior this boy? And he's already a trillionaire.

BlackViper:
https://supercarblondie.com/zlatan-ibrahimovic-buys-ferrari-f80-for-his-birthday/

eyesoflagos:
https://eyesoflagos.com/nigerian-lawyer-uk-care-assistant-reveals-job/

Mercy1978:
Drama in House of Reps as Lawmaker Claims Ibadan Is Bigger Than Four South-East States

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kuPDJ94bbCg

Seun:
Dear Nairalanders,

We are ramping things up. Here are some things we have done recently:

1. We gave Nairaland's theme a little facelift, fixing buttons, pagination, separators, and other little things.

2. We implemented a dark mode for Nairaland with the most intuitive UX: a sun toggle on your upper right.

3. We further relaxed the minimum character rule because many people were still struggling with it.

We are also trying to make our moderation bot (aka antispam bot) more accurate. Bear with us on that.

What else do you want us to work on?

Best Regards.

Dpsychologist:
Marriage isn’t a battlefield. It’s not a place to test how much pain, anger, or revenge a human heart can endure. Yet, every other week, we wake up to horrifying news — a wife who poisoned her husband, a husband who beat his wife to death, or couples who set each other ablaze in moments of rage.

Recently there is a news of a woman who is alleged to have set her husband ablaze after an argument. Whether this is later confirmed to be true or not, a life has been lost.

No matter the offence, no one deserves to die in the name of marriage. If a partner becomes unbearable, walk away. Separation — though painful — is always better than a prison sentence or a graveyard visit.

We must start telling ourselves the truth:
👉 If you can’t tolerate his attitude, don’t marry him.
👉 If you can’t respect her when she’s angry, don’t marry her.
👉 If you can’t handle the storms of communication, ego, or financial strain, stay single until you can.

Marriage doesn’t fix temperaments — it exposes them. Love alone isn’t enough; patience, emotional maturity, forgiveness, and self-control are the silent pillars that keep a home standing when love starts to wobble.

Too many people are getting married for the wrong reasons — pressure, loneliness, lust, or societal expectations. Then when reality hits, frustration replaces affection, and resentment breeds violence.

Let’s normalize choosing peace over pretense. It’s not weakness to walk away from what drains you. It’s strength.

So please — before you say “I do,” ask yourself:

>“Can I truly live with this person’s flaws without turning into a monster myself?”

If the honest answer is no, then don’t do it. It’s better to be single and sane than married and murderous.

What do you think — is intolerance or poor emotional management the bigger cause of domestic violence today?

nlfpmod:
https://pmnewsnigeria.com/2025/10/07/cooking-gas-relief-for-nigerians-as-dangote-cuts-cooking-gas-price-to-%E2%82%A6760-kg/?amp=1

Editorialtimes:
Ajaokuta Steel Will Bounce Back Soon – AbdulRaheem

By Enemona Samuel Endurance, Abuja



https://thebureau.com.ng/nigeria-news-today-ajaokuta-steel-revival-assured/

phosky:
https://eyesoflagos.com/nigerian-groom-cancels-wedding-brides-family-demands-1-5m/

phosky:
Islamic Cleric Warns Against DNA Tests for Paternity, Calls It Forbidden in Islam



https://eyesoflagos.com/islamic-cleric-warns-dna-tests-forbidden-paternity/[s][/s]

Omihanifa:
https://lifestyle.thecable.ng/extra-content-creator-mandy-kiss-aims-to-have-sex-with-100-men-in-24-hours-for-guinness-world-record/

AntiChristian:
One thing i know is that GEJ was the most mediocre President we had since 1999.

What about Diezani-gate?

What about the Chibok girls case?

Only God knows how much was truly Siphoned through the ministry of Petroleum!

Make GEJ no even come disgrace himself for another term!

He's better off now as a Global statesman!

Beerbeer:
We are four siblings in my family: two boys who are twins and two girls. When my mum passed, my elder sister stood in as a parent for us. She paid for our university education and sent us monthly allowances for feeding. In fact, three of us would have dropout if not for her. Even when I graduated from school, she was still sending me 30k every month, pending when I get a job. This is in addition to also sending same to my siblings and my father. She has done this for close to 10 years without complaint.

Recently, I finished a project that paid me 2.1 million. This is how I spent the money:
I gave 500k to my church to thank them for getting me the job.
300k to my father.
100k to my stepmum.
100k to my second sister.
Bought 700k laptop to help with my coding job.
I used the rest to pay rent, change my wardrobe, clearance from school, and feeding.

My elder sister found out from my twin brother and got angry because I didn't tell her anything about the job or the money. She was also angry because I didn't set aside money for my twin brother going to law school this year.

To be honest, I didn't think it was a big deal to tell her. I knew my twin was in safe hands cos she was already handling that so I didn't bother. Before now, she had already paid the law school fees (about 500k). So I thought it was settled. I tried to reason with her but she refused to hear.

She was also angry I didn't tell her about the laptop. I knew I messed up here because she was the one that encouraged me to pick up coding and even bought my first laptop. I told her I wanted to finalize everything but it made her angry tye more. She blocked me and I also found out she blocked everyone else including our father.

All these happened in April. I thought she would calm down by now. But I just discovered that she has moved out of our state without telling anyone. She has blocked all the numbers we tried to reach her.

My twin brother said she only sends him allowance for law school (100k every month) and has blocked his number so he won't contact her. He is the only person she sends money to now as she has stopped giving us as before.

I am so confused. Why is she acting like this? Shouldn't she be happy for me? Nairalanders help me.

File photo from Google

Rashduct4luv:
Are you wrapped or covered? – Have a look at this image

Islam teaches us to be covered not wrapped!

May Allah guide us to Jannah!

Chilipepper:
Lady lost her 650k job after requesting a salary increase.




https://x.com/UnclePamilerin/status/1968339296546636155?t=RjwMzytFtJiBrzHhG85AbA&s=19[/quote]If I'm opportuned to have this kind of remote job, I would be very grateful to the company and to God.

ricson11:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rXQxebG51AY?si=uDlqjMQV7IBLZW3N

Billionaire industrialist Aliko Dangote has stated that the long-troubled Ajaokuta Steel Company cannot succeed despite decades of efforts.

According to him, Nigerians may continue to deceive themselves and show passion for the project, but the reality is that it is not possible.

Chilipepper:
If income comes from both husband and wife, then chores MUST come from husband and wife too. — Journalist Eloho Johnson sparks debate.

franchasng:
It seems the federal government felt the heat that a section of the new tax law generated last week when it was circulated on social media platforms, including traditional media that Nigerians will require TIN to open or operate a bank account starting January 1 2026.

As reported by Punch newspaper, below,



Source: https://punchng.com/no-need-for-separate-tin-to-operate-bank-accounts-firs-official/

OLAADEGBU:
'I don't want to raise a child that's not mine' 😬



https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-12946643/husband-fierce-debate-daughter-biologically-homeless.html?ito=social-facebook

Itaekuson3:
FULANI VALUE COWS OVER HUMAN LIVES: VILLAGES BURNED IN BLOODY REVENGE – CDS CHRIS MUSA SHOCKS NATION


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q9TZdv67s00




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V_QF56ipzSI?si=8G2D0TsLuKc9ZCO8

ogododo:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/09/bloody-weekend-102-killed-in-borno-sokoto-katsina-edo/

Kaliningrad:
Times Of India || WION

Russia's Cancer Vaccine Rolls Out After 100% Success In Clinical Trials (Photos)

Obavoh:
Growing up in the North I didn’t really take note but I just realized that

Yoruba restaurant —> Yoruba+Igbo+Hausa Customers

Igbo restaurant —> Igbo+Yoruba+Calabar Customers

Calabar restaurant—> Yoruba+Igbo+Hausa+Calabar

Hausa restaurant—> Northerners

Just last month there was a small riot in the company I work for.
The Hausa woman that cooks in our Canteen serves only Northern food and soups.
We have 70% Northern workers and 30% Southerners.

The South boys usually prefer to leave the company and go to a restaurant far in the village just to eat lunch everyday. I have never seen them eat our food.

The company had to bring in a Calabar woman to cook for them after much protest. This woman’s food is more expensive but they don’t complain.

iwaeda:
https://gazettengr.com/5-fuel-tax-good-for-nigerians-will-fund-road-infrastructure-tinubu-govt/

naptu2:
Mr Taiwo Oyedele is the Chairman of the Presidential Committee on Fiscal Policy and Tax Reforms.

Fiscus105:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/09/colombian-footballer-slaps-female-referee-after-hes-shown-red-card/

Polydo:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbsnews.com/amp/miami/news/woman-found-dead-after-apparent-dog-attack-in-miami-gardens-police-say/

jmoore:
Christantus Uche and Fábio Silva wrote the same farewell message on their social media accounts to say goodbye to Getafe and Wolverhampton