nlfpmod:


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35% and 25% only? It's too small.

Undilutedme:
Hello nairaland family.
I trust you guys are doing fine.
I have a little problem and I need a piece of advise on how to handle it.

I have a very wonderful mother. She's caring, sweet, compassionate, name all the good characteristics of a good woman, she's got all but there's this problem I'm still having with her. SHE NEVER APPRECIATES ME, NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRY. My mom will never appreciate me for anything I do, even if she does, she does it nonchalantly like it doesn't matter. She compares me with friends at every slight opportunity she gets.

There was something that happened. Momsy travelled sometime around this year and stayed for close to two months and she has a shop that she manages. The shop's generator has been bad for sometime and it's really stressful for her selling with dim lights but she refused repairing it again because according to her, the generator is consuming her money because of too much repairs every time. So I wanted to surprise her, I called a friend that fixes generator to come help me fix it so when she comes she'll see that it has been fixed. My friend came and fixed it. When momsy came back and I told her that I fixed the generator for her, she told me that, she didn't send me to fix generator for her and that she is not going to use it. According to her "I send you make you fix gen?. I say I nor wan use the gen again". I swear I was really hurt.

On another occasion was during the just concluded UTME exam. My friends wrote before me, a friend of mine had 330 so I told her, she was very happy. She was like, I pray you get something like this. Fast forward, 3 days later, I wrote mine and result came out. I scored 314, when she came, just happily told her, instead of being happy, she just hissed and said "You nor fit get reach 330?". My spirit just died immediately. She likes comparing me with my friends.

There are many occasions things have happened but I'll not bore you with unnecessary talks. It's really eating me up emotionally and psychologically. How well can I make my mom appreciate me more?. How can I please her?.

Ps: Please nobody should throw insults at her. I beg you in the name of whoever you serve. Thanks.

It hurts but only your loved ones can act like that and you must act normal. You sef use joke tell her say she no dey try.

ijustdey:


https://leadership.ng/breaking-edo-deputy-gov-shaibu-begs-obaseki-for-forgiveness/

Fear a man that apologizes after being maltreated.

specialofficer:
I can't arrest the man,he has money, he has more than 5 houses and you know how Nigeria is, na person wey get money dey win case, if we're to leave the compound by quit notice, yeah he'll give us 6 months to leave but the problem now is the house is really good, big parlour, new house, security and all those stuffs, we won't be able to see a house with that standard and price, that's why my people are scared of the quit notice, now another problem is because they're women, it would have been another thing if they were men, they wouldn't be scared.


I know I made a mistake by spoiling the machine, it was just because of anger, but I'm sure the landlord's threat was an empty one but my mum and sis are just scared, the man can't afford to lose 6 months rent, that's over 700k

Call his bluff but make sure you report to a police station.

Ebubu:
What do you think?




Reno Omokri

The difference be say,to get competent aboki dey hard,so dey open it to all Nigerians.
Go to the East,you go still find civil servants who are Yorubas. Reason is, they like business more than the civil service.

2mercy:


https://punchng.com/ill-find-solution-to-oil-gas-challenges-says-tinubu/

You mean you will find and don't already know the solutions yet?
Feeding fat from corruption has made leaders mad.

stanlink:
Hello I'm just think if I will get salvation if I indulge in sexual activities early on a Sunday morning before going for service, the thought of guilt is all over my head although I'm married someone please advise

Question? If it is with your wife,go to church
...

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Wetin dey make accreditation expire?

Wodu89:
And when people advocate assistance for the needy under you, you begin to lash out all sorts of talks. Easy to say things when one isn't in the position of their followers

If census were taken from pastor's with very poor financial welfare who live miserably, then we shouldn't say such without first providing opportunities to build their life financially one way or the other. Tl


That's pastor's not even talking members.

When I was a baby Christian I listened to the speech and words of ministers, as I began to deepen root in Christ,I noticed I'm to listen to the actions of any minister and not their talks. No one would taint themselves in their speeches. Hypocrisy everywhere

When we rather spend billions on chairs and buildings and neglect issues like financial assistance for education and health, we know that the god of this world has grabbed us on one side.


If talk isn't backed by frank active actions, then talk is hypocrisy


All of the whole financial rascality that poor people don't get financial aid is to keep them at a level that they will never rise to challenge number one position and that of offspring. So followers are in a slaves position not just momentarily, but generationally.


And under the guise of our tainted.image, we neglect the sheep, their pains and their cry's. Your reward is in Heaven indeed

Pastors pay in Winners' Chapel is very poor. 60000+ for a pastor of over 3 years in Winners. It's a terrible situation.

spagettiluv:
More

Nigeria roads without a good drainage system makes the roads to wear out in no distant time.
I don't know why leaders,even though they are well travelled, can't replicate what they see over there.

ADURA123:


No...this I can swear with anything...she is not just meeting my sexual needs, simple, she complained I have too much sex drive and she is not ready to be killed.

This is where she needs a meeting with a therapist. Both of you should undergo the treatment even if you don't need it. Ten years marriage no be beans. Keep your family intact cos this might just be the only test left before your home enters another level of sweetness.
So long she doesn't cheat, don't put your children through the trauma of divorce. Pls and pls I beg you in the name of God.

LewisHamilton15:
Last week I proposed to my long time girlfriend and fiancee and she accepted me.

We discussed a whole range of topics and we are convenienced that we can live our lives together. But one thing we disagree on is the issue of house: she said we must build a house together before settling down but I suggested we tie the knot and live in a rented apartment before planning to build our personal house but she insisted we must build.

She said we will contribute money to build together, she won't leave me alone in the project. She even suggested withdrawing her savings of #250, 000 so we can buy land. I have the money and apart from my daily hustle I have other side businesses that springs me money occasionally.

I want to settle down as soon as possible but she cited the problems that comes along with living in a rented apartment. I really wish to settle down but this lady won't agree.

I don't want to cause problem between us so how do I go about convincing her?

If you have the means to build the house progressively within the next one year, please do. If the land can accommodate other flats,add it but you can complete your own side first to move in. In no distant time you will complete the other apartments.
House rent na wahala wey we dey face.

Prettycute90:
Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him.
I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.

We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.

He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives.
Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.

He is a chronic gambler.
No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble.
Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.

To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself.
My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work.
Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.

I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.


Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy.
I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house.
We had two children and I don't intend having any other.
The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much.
School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.

We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.

Are these not enough reasons to divorce him?
During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me.
I see that as way to make my children suffers.

What can you advise please?

I just want peace of mind.

I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.

A man who can't provide especially for his household,is worse than an infidel.
What do you do with infidels?
He can't take care of the kids but will only use them as a bait to extort money from you. If you must separate from him,make sure you get powerful people to pull the children from him. Let him suffer alone.

MrsTwrite:
Why do most Nigerian women stigmatize those ladies that gave birth through CS?

Does it mean that because a woman gave birth through CS she's not a real woman?

I'm a devoted Christian and pastor. When we were expecting our second child,the doctor said he's too big to be pushed that my wife will be better off through CS. I told the doctor carry on. I was in the theatre room with my wife and watched as baby was brought out. Boy was huge.
CS is better when the woman's life is at risk.

Isokotolopia:
My former Governor of Delta State, his Excellency Former Governor Okowa has gone ghostmode since the Presidential elections were concluded.

My beloved Delta State has not been too lucky to have Governors in the mold of Akwa Ibom or Rivers state in terms of commitment to infrastructural facelift.


Governor Okowa secured over 170bn loan towards the end of his administration that money today cannot be accounted for. Rumors had it then that he used the money to finance his failed Vice Presidential bid.


It will be futile to ask EFCC to probe him as that agency is not even focused at the moment, las las na Delta State loose while political allelujah men continue to grow fat bellies in Isoko South.


Oghene biko, We pray Sherriff will be focused

Okowa dey Owa-Alero with us. I saw him this week.

BALLOSKI:
How's he doing now?

He's doing great.

Gottiii:
Are you guys saying 7m isn’t enough to travel out of Nigeria to any of the first world countries?

Don't mind them. My paddy travelled with his family to the UK with a budget of 9 M. These ones here saying 7m no reach, knows nothing.

helinues:
They want to upgrade so that they can provide better service yet some people dey protest.

What are they afraid of that they dont want their prepaid meters to be upgraded?

Na DISCO get time, play them reggae by disabling any account that are yet to be upgraded after the expiring period

Then they will bypass it to keep enjoying free light. Any staff wey near their house will be chased with cutlass.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do marriages get boring after sometime? 🤔 I.e The love or feelings begin to wax cold or boring unlike when you both started.

Are you married? If not, get married and deduce if the love gets cold.

Beenibroz:
I don't mean any harm but just saw this picture and decided to share and see if some people still feel this kind of lovely relationship these days.

It happens in marriages and makes it stronger and sweeter. It's a form of good communication between married couples.

BornofGod108:
What can you say about this Scripture
1 Tim 2 vs 9

It was not commandment from God but admonition from Paul to Christian women.

nlfpmod:


https://twitter.com/ZagazOlaMakama/status/1690956053851115520?t=714A7NIKQm0gm0sh6hoyGw&s=08

And corrupt government or president should be toppled.

A haven of lesbians.

madridguy:
When you tell some people Northern Nigeria is the best region in Nigeria some people will be looking for avenue to fight you.

An average Northern sellers is not looking for too much profit.

That's because food and housing are cheap compared to other parts of the country.

Ofunaofu:
One of the most foolish decision ever made by this calamitous Tinubu government is the exchange rate unification nonsense


Instead of putting measures in place to drag the parallel market exchange rate down from 750/dollar to meet the official exchange rate of 460/dollar, the government move the official exchange rate up to meet the parallel exchange rate masking it as exchange rate unification.


After he must have removed subsidy from petrol without any single local refining capacity


How did we get here as a Nation

Tinubu is a foolish man.

slimfit1:



Only a fool will buy it at the moment, the need for oil is dying so fast these days. Dangote must have realised that he was over ambitious building this current one.
The refineries are not going to be ready in December because building or repairing repairing it doesn't work like repairing a car. Tinubu is just waiting on Dangote then when Dangote refinery kicks they will change their speech, how its not necessary to repair the refineries because it is costly they'll do a deal with Dangote.

The need for oil is dying so you will do away with your oil? The west that doesn't have oil tells you no need for oil and you buy into it.
Have car manufacturers stopped producing fuel dependent cars and other machines that uses fuel and petroleum range of products?
Let's develop what we have and utilize it properly.

tellsblinks:
Here is the original post by the Governor of Abia State

I saw one Innoson SUV,Ikenga,drive pass me and I had to steal a look more than twice to be sure it's Innoson. The motor no bad at all. Dunno why govt can't patronise locally made cars?

wwwihy:


https://twitter.com/NTANewsNow/status/1687422147306655744

Keyamo,an afterthought.

LewisHamilton15:
Late last year, the company I worked with decided to reduce workers as a result of the high inflation. I happened to be one of the victims of the mass reduction.

I decided to use my little savings to buy a tricycle so I can be using it to do town service but my fiancee outrightly rejected such idea stressing that my societal standing is above that. After intense argument I went ahead and bought the tricycle. Since that day she has not picked my calls, call me or come to visit me.

I have moved on.

You will carry a passenger on charter. He's a big man and will give you another job. Moving on is the best

qwertyuioplm:
What's the cause of this why is Nigeria own higher than others,were we not paying subsidy for Benin?

In the 80's when we were producing, did we pay flight ticket to UK?
If our government and leaders do not sit up, things will get worse. Either we take some part of the Libya model and become allies with Russia and China, we will never overcome our shortcomings.

Monman56:
I have very high specifications I want from my to be woman and I know its difficult to find. What point did you decide to settle for Character over beauty or did you get the high requirements you wanted.

No insults please

There are beauties with good character. Don't let anyone mislead you, that only ugly girls have good character.
My wife is a beauty and a very good woman from a very good Christian home.
So look well for the good one with beauty.