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Nairaland GeneralRe: Are My Village People After Me? by banjicom(m): 7:01pm On Nov 17, 2017
grin
yes of course, your village people wants you to grow fat
CelebritiesRe: Ladies Please Give Your Reply by banjicom(m): 9:02pm On Nov 15, 2017
MAGA
cheesy
HealthRe: Pls Can We Go On With This Relationship With This Our Genotype? Advice Pls by banjicom(m): 6:46am On Nov 13, 2017
Which one is SC again?
Maybe there was a mistake in your genotype spelling, please kindly go to a good hospital and see a doctor with a legible handwriting for your genotype .
CrimeRe: Suspect's Farts End Police Interview by banjicom(m): 10:11am On Nov 12, 2017
cheesy cheesy cheesy This is serious
Technology MarketRe: Samsung Note 5 Screen by banjicom(m): 7:46am On Nov 07, 2017
TDonald:
Come and buy my own note 5
How much u wan sell am, I hope d phone still dey complete sha?
Christianity EtcRe: The Great Man Who Gave Away 30 Million Dollars by banjicom(op): 5:50am On Nov 01, 2017
You can read more stories at
http://www.donationhumanity.com
Christianity EtcThe Great Man Who Gave Away 30 Million Dollars by banjicom(op): 5:48am On Nov 01, 2017
I just learned that a famous, colorful and charming American philanthropist is dead. I had always loved his book, Ask for the Moon and Get It: The Secret to Getting What You Want by Knowing How to Ask. His name was Percy Ross. Maybe you heard of him. Ross gave away an estimated thirty million dollars to various charities and organizations. He also wrote a syndicated newspaper column, called Thanks a Million, for approximately 800 nationwide newspapers for 17 years. The column contained letters from people writing Ross, telling him their story and asking for his help. It was fascinating.

It was fascinating because Ross could always see through people. He would read their letters and sense if they were sincere, or lazy, or begging. And he always replied with words of wisdom and sometimes with a check. He gave checks 120 times per week. And in 17 years he gave away about $30,000,000. The thing is, Ross started with two million dollars!

Do you see the giving principle at work here?

Ross began with two million dollars as his source funds. You may not have that amount, but the story still holds true. In 17 years Ross gave away thirty million dollars! Again, giving leads to receiving.
Consider: Have you ever experienced a situation where you were asked to donate money to a particular cause, and looking at your shrinking bank balance you were torn between giving money or not? Many people have told me stories about being in this exact situation, but after deciding to go ahead and make a donation, these same people were very surprised when suddenly a sum of money came to them from some unexpected source to replace the money they just gave away. The truth is, if you hold on to your money, you risk losing the very thing you are hoarding. On the other hand, if you trust good things flow to those who give freely, you will always have funds available to suit your needs.

To prove this, look at Percy Ross. He started his charitable ways with $2 million dollars and yet over the course of 17 years donated some $30 million dollars!
I miss Percy Ross. But now you can take his place.

source: http://www.donationhumanity.com/2017/10/the-great-man-who-gave-away-30-million.html
PhonesRe: How Do I Recover My Privacy Protection Password For My Infinix Hotnote X551? by banjicom(m): 8:30am On Oct 31, 2017
Why don't you check this link out and see if it will help you. http://www.phonetweakers.com/2016/09/4-ways-to-remove-privacy-protection.html
RomanceRe: I’m So Confused Please I Need Your Advice by banjicom(m): 4:29pm On Oct 27, 2017
kingmeme:
if u have common sense ur brain 4 don tell u say no b every still dey school at 20's u don't even know if am 29 ooo, maggot!!!
If to say u too get common sense, u for don get correct future ambition by now, ur mates are already building houses, making money and impacting the lives of people around them in a positive way. No wonder u couldn't get a girlfriend at d age of 29....... Mumu person
RomanceRe: I’m So Confused Please I Need Your Advice by banjicom(m): 12:03pm On Oct 27, 2017
angry
Instead of you 2 face ur book.....na sex u dey find up and down.
I SMH for Dis generation!!
RomanceRe: I Am So Sick: My Man Is Tired Of My Attitude by banjicom(m): 7:33am On Oct 21, 2017
grin

oya let us sing for you:

london bridge is falling down falling downn x2
my dear lady cheesy
RomanceRe: What Is The Most Ridiculous Thing Your Lover Has Ever Accused You Of. by banjicom(m): 12:19pm On Oct 19, 2017
angry cheating!!!!
Technology MarketRe: Samsung Galaxy S8 -90k by banjicom(m): 3:57pm On Oct 13, 2017
70k
serious buyer
ur number aren’t going through........ can u send the phone outside lagos?
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by banjicom(m): 8:57pm On Oct 12, 2017
magikalz:
Very simple.....step back for awhile. Go AWOL for a while and see how she will react.

I suggest you avoid her for a week and see if she will reach out to you. If she does, bone her till she makes more concerted effort.

If she doesn't make contact, you know where you stand. You can move on from there.

You are playing nice and doing too much.

Game other girls and give her a break.
thanks bro, i will definitely try this out.
RomanceRe: Dating Drills! Guys Only! by banjicom(m): 6:41pm On Oct 12, 2017
magikalz:
If only they would listen. Almost 98% of the time, asking out works negatively. I deliberately played a new chick I was gaming through this same routine and guess what happened.....

She said she will give me an answer, after a couple weeks.....the answer was that she wasn't ready for a relationship and this was after she started behaving funny.

Reading chats and ignoring, missing my calls and not returning them, from being eager to hang-out to avoiding meet-ups.

See, guys.....once you ask a girl out officially, you have given her the power of yes and no.

That power is the control of the relationship, if she says no after saying yes at first, you start begging and asking her why before you know it, you sell yourself even more by trying to please and convince her.

...and believe me you don't wanna do that.

In fact, once you ask a gal out, she will likely see through you.....that you are just like other guys, nothing so different about you.

If you know the number of guys on a pretty gals queue pestering her with attention, willing to play nice and get her anything she wants, y'all will make greater effort to be different.

Only when you stand out and make yourself different from the pack chasing after her will you be at liberty to have her.

Okay, look at this...

I traveled to the East this weekend, sat together with this bespectacled, cute . young lady with an air of haughtiness about her. Not long after the bus moved, I engaged in conversation.In the end, number was exchanged...called her that evenong when I got home, she didn't pick....I didn't bother again and planned to delete the number as I have too many on my list....two days later, she called back and we spoke for over 35 minutes..her airtime.

What were we talking about? From the look of things, I will definitely bed her.

Next, at an event I went for during my travel, met two other different chicks....both done with school and working. Fine looking wenches, both are already responding to treatment and calling.

So my point is this, DOES IT MEAN THAT THESE GIRLS RESPONDING THIS WAY DON'T HAVE MEN IN THEIR LIVES ALREADYhuh

HOW COME THEY'RE BEHAVING LIKE I'M THE BEST THING THAT HAS HAPPENED IN THEIR LIVES IN A LONG TIME? LIKE I'M THE NEXT BEST THING SINCE SLICED BREAD.

Meanwhile there are guys who have been on their case, being good to them, asking them out, buying gifts and all.....yet, NOTHING.


If you know the answers to these questions, then you are good.


They are behaving this way because I'm new and my approach is different.

I spin fun lines, i yab them, I am bold with them, I tease them, I don't call them all the time, I always have exciting things to talk about and I haven't revealed any intentions towards them even though my lines are mixed with sexual innuendo.

The day I try to follow the normal route to play nice, romantic guy and maybe ask them out or other such shiiit, the drama will likely start.....they will start seeing me as regular.

Once a gal sees you finish this way, that there is nothing really different about you from other guys, e don busy. If you don't find a way to turn the tables around, you're done for and the worst thing you can do is to start chasing her when she's losing interest.

It's called DEMYSTIFICATION.

That which attracted her originally has been stripped away to reveal the REAL you. Playing nice and asking out are a NO-NO.

If you must ask her out whether you played the nice guy or played the mystical, attractive dude, be ready to collect the NO that comes with it and move on, don't worsen it by chasing.

If you are lucky and get a yes, strive to change your ways or the story will change sooner as well.


Asking out should be reserved for when things have progressed to a distant level (like she must have invested materially, emotionally, financially and especially sexually) and you're certain this gal has it more for you and maybe you plan to settle down with her.....even as at then, there's a way to go about it.

NOTE: My little Mr Nice Guy, Ask Her Out experiment failed....even after plenty wining and dining and pre-intimacy.

Learn, my guys, learn. You don't need to ask her out to enjoy her.

PEACE.
bro you are the best thanks for sharing your experiance with us. Which advice do you have for inexperience guys like us that have already ask a girl out and she has accepted by saying yes. The relationship IS already becoming boring and am afraid i will Start losing control soon ..... i have been very nice to her and am the one Calling her everyday too.
RomanceRe: I Want A Beautiful Mature Lady Born On March For A Serious Relationship by banjicom(m): 5:27am On Oct 12, 2017
angry

you never ready marry mumu!
look at the way he is even talking sef...............by the time u reach 65yrs and still single i bet u will come back here to edit this nonsense u call post.
PetsRe: What Breed Is This Dog??? by banjicom(m): 6:48am On Oct 11, 2017
is dat not Bingo?
tongue
CrimeRe: SARS Operatives In Rivers State Assisted In Recovery Of Our Stolen Car by banjicom(m): 4:55pm On Sep 28, 2017
is this a movie or what?
FoodRe: What Is The English Name For This Fruit? by banjicom(m): 4:09am On Sep 25, 2017
undecided
wat is this?
smh!! fruit for the gods
RomanceRe: 5 Attributes Of An Immature Lady by banjicom(m): 8:17am On Sep 23, 2017
daewoorazer:
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Will u Keep kwayet son, we adults are having a good time..or didn't mama teach u?


All these nowadays teenagers sef grin

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hehehehe cheesy
leave me alone ooooo cheesy
RomanceRe: 5 Attributes Of An Immature Lady by banjicom(m): 11:35pm On Sep 22, 2017
daewoorazer:

[color=#995500]How about you stick your focus up your sh!t.hole first, then narrate to the forum how well your life is going since you don't appreciate education [/color]
oga bornboy, i am not the one responsible for your misfortune o. Don't put your frustrations on me, i only ask u 2 focus on your life......
RomanceRe: 5 Attributes Of An Immature Lady by banjicom(m): 9:56pm On Sep 22, 2017
lols..... cheesy
focus on your life and stop chasing small immature girls.......
RomanceRe: My Freind Is Spoiling Me Before Her, I'm Thinkn Of Wat To Do by banjicom(m): 5:27pm On Sep 14, 2017
angry
blessing itua is my sister o, oga u are in trouble send me #1000 recharge card or i will report ur location 2 her for a re-match cheesy
RomanceRe: I Am Finding It Hard To Love Again: by banjicom(m): 3:00pm On Sep 08, 2017
Born2conquer:
#NOTE: This is my second account for tabling what I am passing through on NL anonymously
_
Okay..I fell in love with a gal last year after many years of being Single..and the relationship was okay just that the GAL was the type that do not know how to show affection!
_
She played with my feelings,love for her throughout the relationship..like she doesn't even respect me" she replies messages at any time she wishes,she cancels date at the last minute,she sometimes gives rude and harsh response to me sometimes"

I don't know..I endured it only hoping shes gonna change..I showered everything on her for Good 8 months and it affected my Brand badly then because I do go depressed most time

Imagine you sending a message to your GF on WhatsApp...it shows "DOUBLE TICKED" and she's online changing STATUS and she refused to REPLY until after 10hours..maybe at night..Or you typing sentences about your day and she replied with "k,"

Stuffs I had to pass through..Days of going to her house..and her not offering me a seat..or talking through her house door.

She doesn't know how to admit mistakes..and anytime I bring up the issue of us BREAKING UP..she will go sober and beg me that she's gonna change ( truly she would change just for few days)

NOTE: all these I listed are nicer compared to how she treats other guys (normal friends)

So JANUARY 1 this year,i broke up with her .. telling her I won't ever come back to her life again..she typed the whole messages asking me TO STAY...no...I STOOD on my ground..and I left.

The issue now is that since than..I hardly respect LADIES /GALS...I find it hard to Love any gal..like I became so heartless!!!!!

Like you know me being Naughty on WhatsApp chats with Church members and them going naughty with me to the extent of them sending NUDES!

Like almost all the gals on my list..I talk anyhow /dirty to them ..I flirt with others making ALMOST all of them LOVING me CRAZY!! BUT I DO NOT HAVE A FUCKING FEELINGS for them!

I can be acting Cozy with a gal and still say NO to her financial Request even if it is a matter of Life and Death

I am scared..It seems I no longer have a heart..I can't feel..I can't love.

And the bad thing is that the ladies i thought would say NO to my nawti requests are saying YES. and sending over pics..

I DON'T wanna be like this...............

Kindly overlook the Grammatical Errors
i hope we are not dating the same girl sha! because my ex was exactly like dis too. I haven't even over d traumas she put me..........
o ga oooo, dis life sha
EducationRe: Two Nairalanders Sign Out Of UNIOSUN. by banjicom(m): 3:58pm On Aug 30, 2017
hehahehahe grin

am laughing in french......just finish uploading d pictures b4 i start laughing in Chinese
PhonesRe: Top 4 Apps To Help You Maintain Your Android Battery Life (stop Battery Drain) by banjicom(op): 11:38pm On Aug 28, 2017

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