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ola9ja:
Most of these girls don't really love us, it's just a symbiotic relationship, I would be ending my present relationship on Monday, my birthday, I really thought I would get married to her but the relationship has become a toxic one so I had to move on with my life. I can not manage a toxic relationship, imagine sacrificing so much in a relationship that you have to go out of your own will to meet her needs , I have bought her phones twice, paid more than half of her house rent in school twice, it's a distant relationship and we have dated for 3years +, she hasn't even bought me an handkerchief before, I can't figure out one thing that I have learnt from her, I don't and won't regret what I have done for her but I am saddened that I have been in relationship with the wrong person for 5 fruitful years of my life. I will be 31 on Monday.

I don't regret spending on people but I usually get frustrated spending wrongly on people.

I like living people better than the way I met them.

I wouldn't really assume that I didn't learn anything from this relationship, I have learnt a lot and these are the things I have learnt...

1. Even the kindest person can turn into a cold-hearted person.

2. Even if you're madly in love, you should never think with your heart but with your brain.

3. You should never put your happiness in someone else’s hands because you never know when they will decide to leave you.

4. The more you show a person you love them, the less they will reciprocate or appreciate it.

5. It’s human nature to take things for granted, specially in long term relationships. They’ll always look for something better once the infatuation phase ends.

6. Relationships should not be governed solely by love, but also and most importantly by trust, understanding, maturity and SELF-RESPECT.

7. The moment you lose your self-respect you will see your partner as ‘too good to be true’. You will put them on a pedestal and be their slave. Never lose your self-respect and dignity.

8. Master the balance of power and you’ll master the whole relationship.

9. If you constantly show them you love them and care for them, they will start taking you for granted.

10. Distance yourself from your partner from time to time. It will help you see your relationship in a proper perspective.

11. Two main things should be present in a relationship: Trust and communication. If one of them is absent, your relationship is doomed to fail.

12. Being needy and clingy out of love is never a good idea because it will push your partner away and make them love you less.

13. The person that loves less in the relationship is the one in control of the relationship. It’s important to set a balance of power between you two or else one of you will definitely get hurt.

14. If your happiness is in someone else’s hands you’re rooting for conditional happiness. If they leave you, you will end up all alone, sad, depressed, hopeless and even suicidal. No one on this planet should control your happiness other than yourself.

15. The moment you hurt your partner, they will change forever even though you try your best to bring their good old self back.

16. Even if you give someone your heart, it’s not guaranteed that they will reciprocate.

17. The moment they start showing lack of interest, believe them instead of trying to convince yourself that they’re ‘mad’ or ‘going through a phase’ and that everything will be alright.

18. What’s meant for you will always be yours.

19. Sometimes God removes people from your life in an abrupt way because you were being led to danger.

20. If you walked away from a one-sided, toxic, negative, low-vibrational relationship, you won.
And the list goes on…

Most importantly, stay strong in any relationship you’re in. People come and go, the ones meant for you will stay. Stay strong when you're at your lowest and never let a heartbreak define you.

Just have faith and learn to always smile no matter what!

bro dis is so sad!

you are making me sacred of my present relationship already....

what will be will definitely be, move on bro u deserved someone better and remember......once bitten twice shy.

sorry sir!

with a crack screen and sim ejector not working i think your s8 is too expensive at 150k.

forreelinc:
Go and read your book lazy youth

why you wicked like this

pawshjai:
u guys too hv got urs...y u guys talkin lik we hv got it all..its shared.60/40...no cheatin

lols.....but una own too much now. infact d study of womentology na 500 unit course under the branch of psychology

sincerely i can't deceive u, the more i tried to understand ladies the more confused i am.

pawshjai:
lolz...tot u said God was d confused being...das were u went wrng....are u a christain?

yes am a Christian ooo, infact i am a member of the mountain of fire.....so u should know i pray by fire and am really hot

pawshjai:
cus no mata wah my God cn neva b confused...evn if he was...i lik confuse..i was made confusly den...u too baby...*kisses*

smiles
mo ti gbo ooo

But d behaviour of u ladies sometimes ehn!!
anyway i comment my reserve

Have a nice day

pawshjai:
Yea...m d on d lead sef

common dear, u are different......stop acting confused like them

pawshjai:
did u tink bf typing this

yes actually i was in my right mind while typing dat tin.
i said some women, are u part of them?

Am sure some women were created wen God himself was confused and tired!

en ehn!! dis tin don reach front page sha




















oh sorry! Na dream........

aunty go to Samaria u will see a man by d roadside, tell him u need a new phone he his a good samaritan he will help you.

VenomousTruth:
i Bleep one of them 3 times, I couldn't get my self again... na juju I take separate the thing oo... I can't shout Abeg but their toto dey sweet sha, makes you cum quicker

bro na true u talk ooo, dis one don dey warn me already sef say she go curse me!!

but dis girl makes sense olorun i no get any complain at all. She told me she place a curse on her ex.......

And since den d guy neva recover o, fear just dey catch me since i hear d tin.

VenomousTruth:
hahahaha....i no get much to tell you... just be in the relationship until she wants leave by her self... no try break her heart or be the first to leave her after you taste the kpomo.

haaaa! o ga ooo, no be say i get mind to cheat on her sha.......anyway tanks for the advice bro

VenomousTruth:
then quit acting g like one sex starved oloshi!


girls Don finish?

bro i want 2 ask about ur signature, why do you say never date an ijebu girl......am currently dating one right now and d stories am hearing about ijebu people in general is not encouraging at all.

The funny thing is we CAN cure HIV. Except there is one big caveat: you have to live to 120 years old!

Let me explain. We currently have a lot of medicines used to treat HIV. They work in a variety of ways. Some block the HIV virus from entering the cell. Some stop the HIV virus from copying itself. Some block the HIV virus from joining with our cell’s DNA. All these things achieve one common goal. They interrupt the HIV life cycle so that it cannot reproduce and infect other cells. Our immune system then comes in and kills whatever virus is left floating about.

So with the current medicines we have, we can actually kill the HIV virus. So why is HIV still incurable?

This is because during the first few weeks when a person is infected with HIV, a lot of the virus goes into hiding in many different cells in the body. This is called the infection reservoir. The problem is when the HIV is in hiding, the medicines cannot get to it to kill it. So even though the medicines we have can eradicate HIV floating in the blood, more HIV viruses will then come out of their hiding place to keep the infection going.

Some very smart mathematicians calculated that if a person gets infected with HIV and starts taking the medicines when he is 30 years old, all of the virus would have come out of hiding and get killed when he reaches 120 years old. So effectively by then, this person will be cured of HIV.

So the trick to curing HIV is really not how to kill the virus (we already know how to do that), the trick is to lure the virus out of their hiding place.

In medical circles, this is called the “kick and kill” approach. We kick the HIV out of their hiding places and then kill them.

During the 20th International AIDS Conference held in 2014, a paper was presented on an anti-cancer drug that seemed to be able to kick the HIV out of its hiding place! Studies are still going on but we remain hopeful. Also hopefully we can find even more medicines that can kick the HIV out of hiding. I heard of a company studying some bee venom that can also do it but I have yet to see any detailed reports.

Meanwhile, please remember that although HIV cannot be cured, it can be controlled very well. People infected with HIV live normal life spans. In fact they live very healthy and productive lives.

source: from quora

A rich guy is cute, a rich guy is also funny and romantic. A rich guy is a rich guy

Shugarlord213:
My brother forget about woman first for at least six months and develop yourself




ordinary Camry muscle way I day drive I don fvck pass 19 girls since this year start. If I see say the girl na brokeazz, i just drive my camry 2.2

Nigerian girls are h.oes and guys if you no get car girl go day use you do anyhow. Forget sex for couple of months, save your money and fvck her and her friends all year

I can count about 6 girls way I fuvk them and their mama coded. I just hate poosie and ass- lickers. Listen to me, if you are still on leggediz benz, we way get car go fuvk your gf and her mama and we don’t care about how you feel since you have decided to think with your di.k

Once I naacck a babe, I no even day allow her shower. I take her to the busstop, squeeze #500 for her hand... most times as soon as she steps out of my car I just zoom off with out any Goodbye or whatever.


I got no respect whatsoever for any human being way day bend down pisssss

bro like seriously u gat me thinking......
brokeness is not an option, i just pity all dis foolish guys wey carry women matter for head like say pussy na their destiny.

iSage:
A simple Google search would have saved the masses from this ugly misinformation.the essential phone used the notch first. Apple copied it.

Thank you my brother, let the op be saying rubbish.

thanks this is so helpful.

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mrjef:
Is there anyone higher than this?
screenshots .

check dis out mr learner

Slimfeez:
Team oyo copper no dey here? Accommodation is key, don't dull yaself

bro am posted 2 oyo state too. Can we talk?

all i see in your post is neediness and insecurity. you are a man for God sake!

it time to show dis girl you can do without her, ignore her and start giving less attention.

shayubobo:
that is not the case,even if they av attempted the unlock code many times b4,it should ask for unfreeze code

maybe ur imei/Nvdata/EFS partition is corrupted.......

just a wide guess though.

raylord:
Your no2 though. No heaven or hell.
Hmm. People like this are one of d stupidest people on earth. Stupider than people who practice religion(sorry bro). You disbelieve the existence of heaven and hell simply because u can't see it. Less than 500 years ago people(including very intellectuals) disbelieve the existence of myraids of colorful organisms reproducing and preying on each other in a drop of water. Not until when instruments (microscopes) that can adapt to d nature of those organisms were developed b4 they could believe. Those are yet animals of the physical nature. You can't even see all that is physical with ur physical eyes. So how come u want to see that which is not physical. Oh u want to see or feel the spiritual in ur physical body? Naso. It is not impossible to sense the other realms(astral, etherial etc) around u though, but have u opened ur self to it. My brother u have learnt 23 things. Believe me, u still have a lot to learn

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Life after death is a complete mystery to everyone and it will probably remain that way until you get there. The moment is all we have. The biggest gift in life is life itself - being alive - weather you have a good or bad life, short or long, no matter what living form - the body is a vessel of the consciousness - whether there is an afterlife or not (not sure why mankind came up with the idea that for some reason we get rewarded and give eternal life - for being alive in the first place) life is the true gift and in a freaky way i believe we all (everything alive) is a collective experience created by the endless universe itself to try to understand and experience itself.