dancok:
bro I so much like ur post,I said it in my earlier post,op did ,nt no anytin,he should be thankful or rather he just wanted to make fp.
I will be that 30next year,noting to show, yet to have my uni degree soon,no work nor serious relationship,com may next year I will be 30.

clefstone:
I can relate with what u r saying OP. Felt same way when I was turning 20, not to d extent of having sleepless nights though. I feel its cos we set targets for ourselves as to what we hope to hv achieved at the turn of a new decade in our lives but such high targets r hardly met in entirety that we always wish for more time. Good tin is tht we eventually gey used to our new age wen it finally hits us. I will be 30 next year nd I am already worried tht I'm not married. By d way, u r not depressed

NaLaugh:


Like you, i will be turning 30 next year (end of 2015).

I'm 28 now, but sometimes the same thought crosses my mind.
However, there is nothing wrong with that.

Humans have a tendency to resist change, but change is not an option.

Sometimes like you, i wonder if i had spent too much time working my 9-5 and building my own company, at the expense of "life?"

Then again, i ask myself- what exactly is there left to do in the spirit of "youthful exuberance?" I've done it all.
Could it be i'm just being greedy by wishing i had, and would do more?

As far as clubbing. I almost never go to a regular club anymore. I graduated from regular clubs to lounges years ago.
I was all over the clubs back then.

At times at like 10pm, we would decide to drive 3 hours to New York, just because we had
a good "remember that time" gist about some club out there.
Or we would randomly drive like 6 hours to Montreal in Canada to party it up, and drive back to the US in the morning.

It is all a frame of mind. Reorganize the things in your life.
If your 9-5 is weighing you down, make the right financial/investment moves, and cut it off like i did.

Do not worry about marriage, it will happen when it happens.
Ignore external influence of such things, and live life on your own terms - it is no one else's.

I created this nairaland username and site last year specifically as therapy for myself. I needed to indulge more in the simpler things in life
like.. laughing. Life is too darn short ya know.

Kimmo:


I'm not thirty yet, but I can identify with a few of these thoughts as they're generally the sort of things people have to contend with as they hit adulthood. I'd say you should find some of these fun things you missed out on and do them from time to time. These thoughts will come up when your 39, 49 . . Also, you should have a companion, like a girlfriend or spouse who can encourage you and be a support in such times. Be strong, life is full of possibilities.

synergycom19:
At this age, you are still young to be depressed because you have not seen anything yet, though this days people aged quickly am 40yrs but have white beard. However, you are only expirencing a PHASE CHANGE and not depression and that can creates anxiety(because you are scared of the future, aging, accomplishments etc) and makes you perplexed, feeling unhappy or lack of satisfaction for your present status. You shouldn't be afraid
Try the following
Get closer to the ALIMIGHTY GOD
Get a decent wife/ mother characteristics kind of a woman( because at 30, you should have your first kid at least)
Get a an interesting job, the one that makes you happy. If you have already get into one more at least
Get a land if possible and imagine your building on it and how wonderful it will be with your family living in it.

Hope you will be ok
Goodluck

pweetixandy:
U need God..u are not living a purpose driven life. Ur life has no depth,u have no love to give and so u are not receiving any. When u learn to live for others,life wld b meaningful.

viazi:
Are U sex starved? If yes start fucking your girl seriously, it helps a lot.

Funjosh:
hOW SURE ARE YOU THAT YOU ARE DEPRESSED

Its been
giving me sleepless nights and middle of the night insomnia I wake up 4.00 am for no reason nowadays
and just stare at the ceiling lost in thought and scared as hell

cjrane: [size=28pt]Allah is Great!!!
All those who misuse the name of God to molest children and kill innocent people for politics will end like Shekau or bashir. Whatever he prefers to be called in hell [/size]

phreakabit:

Take a look at these for instance. . . Notice how they have the same molecular structure and components. All we need do is conduct a purity test. I mean I am not a medical professional, far from it. . .But I am a science enthusiast and the little chemistry I studied back in secondary school was/is enough to give me an insight unto these things. We have pharmacists, we can do this or at most get some foreigner who can.

Favipiravir(T-705):
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Favipiravir

http://m.alibaba.com/product/60018995079/product.html

Ouabaib:
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ouabain

http://www.abcam.com/ouabain-octahydrate-ab120748.html

phreakabit: Keeping an eye out for this research as it unfolds. Good thing is if it proves to be a credible therapeutic . . [size=18pt]We can always get generic versions from Chinese pharmacies, same for Avigan( favipiravir) which generic name is : T-705[/size]

fajani: bunch of lies

CityNG:

You're a non entity. A shrimp. An unworthy adversary. A waste of my time.

Allow your elders to come back and face me.

Sorry I don't feed trolls.

CityNG:

You're not doing a good job of ignoring me if you can still manage to write a book worth of comments on lil ol me lol

You're just another broke a$$ derelict who has nothing going on in his personal life and resorts to [size=18pt]idolation[/size] of other userids.

How many Maybachs, R8, GT have you ordered? Zero and zero it will be lol

PS: I'll have more alternative cars listed for you shortly. Now that I know it bothers you it is my duty to contribute to your bad belle

Pic: Oya, which one you wan buy? They are all within 50 miles of me and can be on board a ship headed to Lagos by Monday morning. Broke a$$ orang utang

phreakabit: [size=18pt]Same Obama who Proposed $500 Million to Aid Syrian Rebels? [/size]. . . And they say Ebola is a global problem. . . . How does one laugh in Swahili?

phreakabit:

Thread Title : Kaduna Records First Case Of Ebola

What am I missing here? Use Ur brain people.

phreakabit:

What I have been trying to explain to people. It gets even scarier when you consider Nigeria's survival rate. Most might have the misconception that our medical system is a sure fire way to survive, hence the ominous dark clouds of possible migration.

Emekamex: My greatest fear is that the 70 people under surveillance might not even be close to the actual number of secondary contacts. I feel so bad for the baby of the doctor, he/she was brought into the world to die from a miserable disease.

phreakabit:


WOW! That's simply AMAZING! I am sure anyone that looks at all threads started by you (link below) will know why.
[url]https://www.nairaland.com/taharqa/topics [/url]


[size=18pt]SMH![/size]

Infoseye: How would the pig not be forced to survive , see the koboko in the mans hand and food in another hand. Kai! this is WICKEDNESS ANIMAL BRUTALITY Its better he eats it than suffer the poor pig to be doing gymnastic abeg.

phreakabit:

[size=18pt]I might be his age mate and not as rich as he is. . . But I assure you, I can buy you, your father and your entire generation. The best part of it is. . .Your father will willingly sell himself and the rest of his family considering the amount of money offered.

You filthy dimwit. A maggot such as yourself should always bow its head when speaking. Judging by your signature, you are just a fraction more intelligent than any ape in the wild. . . . The apes at the Zoo tend to be smarter, which makes you their intellectual compeer. Learn to spell "retarded" first before coming at me. 3rd class citizen of the world. Don't you have some fried chicken, cool aid or malt liquor to buy with your welfare money roach? . . Hey, don't forget the watermelon! BTW, why the heck can't you punctuate? Is it that hard? I thought i was the one from the backward continent? Poor raggedy n!gger, bloody scum of the earth![/size]