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RomanceRe: Only men Love Truly, Women Love only on d condition That The Man Provides by Barayeks(op): 6:52am On Jun 19, 2018
Yoshy:
I wanted to do a post on this really, OP your point is clear and true. Women look at relationships as direct investments, hence why there are two best ways to get a lady, show her your potentials or show her you have money.

Guys to level up this, date a rich girl and NEVER go for broke ladies. If you need a submissive dog, date/marry a poor lady and control her with your money forever, well just make sure you have money as long as it takes.

If you need a partner, go for a well to do lady, someone who brings something worthwhile to the table.


African Women are something else.
��� exactly
RomanceRe: Only men Love Truly, Women Love only on d condition That The Man Provides by Barayeks(op): 6:47am On Jun 19, 2018
2buffagain:
No sensible female goes for a male liability.
No sensible male should go for a female liability either.
So it's safe to say every single woman on earth is sensible and majority of men are stupid.
RomanceOnly men Love Truly, Women Love only on d condition That The Man Provides by Barayeks(op): 4:15am On Jun 19, 2018
A lot has been said about females who stick with guys who are broke, during the hard times and how they deserve appreciation for doing so but I put it to you that even them are not so different from females who go after already established men.
A female will never stay with a guy who she sees no potentials in. He could have been broke at the time but was probably in medical school or working on a start-up business that's yet to bloom or he's very industrious and it's glaring that with such ambition he'll be sure to do well. So "sticking with him" through the broke times isn't exactly an act of selfless kindness but an investment she hopes will pay off big in the nearest future.

Only males love selflessly, that's why you'd see an average Joe who can afford to pay his bills, own a car and earn an average monthly pay be willing to go into a relationship with a female who has nothing to bring to it but a pretty face. She doesn't work, doesn't earn any money from any source, isn't business savvy, nothing. He'll go into a parasitic relationship with her and meet her needs like a helpless infant and will feel good about doing it. That is what you call loving for love. It's fair to say only males truly love.

When Chris Rock said a man is only loved under a condition that he provides something, this is what he meant.... for those who didn't understand the statement.
RomanceRe: I Believe In Equal Rights by Barayeks(op): 9:15am On Jun 01, 2018
grin
Adasun:
No bitch dare judge u bro cheesy
RomanceI Believe In Equal Rights by Barayeks(op): 9:03am On Jun 01, 2018
These female officers be looking fine af in their uniforms. I might as well marry an airforce officer so I can join NAFOWA (Nigerian Air Force Officers Wives Association). My wife will buy me NAFOWA material that I'll use to sew agbada, useful for their monthly merriment parties while she is deployed to fight Boko Haram in the North East.


Don't judge me please, I'm a feminist, I believe in equal rights.

I'll take care of the kids and look handsome for her. Cooking? lol, not a problem... I can pass as a chef.


God forbid, but if she doesn't make it back from Sambisa alive, I'll be very heartbroken for a bit, but then there's the life insurance cheque. I'd cash that marry again and repeat.

Don't judge me please, I'm a feminist, I believe in equal rights.
RomanceRe: Stop Paying For Dates With Platonic Female Friends. by Barayeks(op): 7:19am On May 31, 2018
I think that write up is very comprehensive, enough for someone with at least 2 active brain cells to comprehend. Friendships shouldn't be parasitic. Male friends take turns to handle the bills when guys go out to chill but the so-called 'platonic female friends' are always freeloading. They hardly initiate outings because they do not want to pay for it. People who find it difficult to even spend their own money on themselves let alone on a group of 'platonic male friends'.
RomanceRe: Stop Paying For Dates With Platonic Female Friends. by Barayeks(op): 7:11am On May 31, 2018
Thank you boss, I see you've been "red pilled"#mgtow. I'm not replying any of these Simps

SexyDenzel:
The joy of having lady friends or company?! are you fvcking serious?! please somebody pinch me. Did a human being that uses oxygen and have brains just say the joy if having female friend's company? Who raises these SIMPs? So many suckers? Not a single self-esteem or self respect. You value female company so much that you don't mind paying for them to hangout with you because youre paying and they will be on oshofree matters.
You can spend or hangout with a good female friend most times but if you guys have gone out for like 8times and she never offered to pay or even buy you something no matter how small then treat her the same.
Do you know you can make them want to be with you without having to pay? rather by spending on yourself and other things and your coordination? Many supposed males have been brainwashed and turned into punks with bltch mentality. Effeminate.
RomanceStop Paying For Dates With Platonic Female Friends. by Barayeks(op): 5:34am On May 31, 2018
Dear kings, stop spending money to "hang out" with platonic female friends unless she pays for your hangouts once in a while (these type are so few they could go extinct, but for the few available we appreciate y'all). Why should you always pay to hang with platonic female friends? What are you paying for? Her time? Her company? Is her time more valuable than yours?

Don't be stupid please.
CelebritiesRe: Liz Benson: The Return Of A Nollywood Legend (photos, Video) by Barayeks(m): 10:09pm On May 17, 2017
youngest85:
I sight father u-turn
its definitely not him
he died years ago
rest his soul
PoliticsHappy Independence Nigeria? Is It Worth Celebrating? by Barayeks(op): 11:15pm On Oct 01, 2016
Happy birthday Nigeria?
What is happy about the birthday? A country where the last two generations, our fathers and grandfather's generation have ruled over and over refusing to hand over affairs to the 'future leaders'. It would have been all well and good if they had managed to build Nigeria to an enviable level in all this time, but sadly they wrecked the country. In their time all you needed to be successful was to be intelligent not even extremely intelligent but good enough to pass your waec reasonably, they had all sorts of scholarships from the government to study abroad....they get back and there are jobs waiting for them, but right now being intelligent bookwise wouldn't do you much good....there are countless graduates roaming the streets jobless...and when we complain, older adults are quick to call us lazy and say we should create jobs for ourselves... be innovative they say. I'm probably the most innovative person you'd ever meet, but how do you get the capital to put your startups in action, forget the banks...they only give loans to the same generations that wrecked Nigeria. If your surname isn't Dangote or Adenuga e.t.c don't dream of any worthwhile loan...it's funny how banks loan money to people that are already billionaires. Most of the time they end up not paying the loans back.. not too long ago CBN gave a directive to banks to print out the names of people who have unpaid loans...the list had names of some so called millionaires... meanwhile when a young entrepreneur goes into a bank to secure a loan they'd frustrate you with all sorts of ridiculous requests/requirements.None of the Nigerian billionaires inspire me cos they virtually had it handed to them...Dangote got a loan of 50k from an uncle...but they'd make it sound like it's the same 50k of today....that money would be worth 21million naira today considering the fact that the value of the naira and dollar wasn't far apart and that 1dollar is worth N420 today...same story applies to Ben Bruce who claims his father gave him a loan of 20k or thereabout.... do the math. Femi otedola is the son of a former governor... nuff said there.

These old men that have put Nigeria in this sorry state are still fighting for power among themselves... they won't be alive to suffer the repercussion of their nonchalance. Youths need to come together and seize what rightfully belongs to us....Bihari, OBJ, Tinubu e.tc belong on a wheelchair in a retirement home.

#Nigeria

Christianity EtcDo My Prophet No Harm...what Exactly Is Considered Harm To The Prophet? by Barayeks(op): 2:38pm On Sep 04, 2016
'Touch not my anointed'
Psalm 105 : 22 - touch not my anointed and do my prophet no harm.
This is a very popular bible verse, one of the reasons why it is so popular is because some pastors/bishops/Envangelist/prophet or whatever else they go by these days use it out of context to give ministrations to favour their selfish needs and desires.
I'd try and dissect the verse as much as I can so you can understand where I'm coming from.
ANOINTED.. who is God's anointed?
God's anointed are the children of God, his chosen ones. Living English Bible says : do not touch my chosen ones and do my prophet no harm.... In English language does it make sense to say ' touch not Preye and do Preye no harm' ? no that's tautology...if the sentence is referring to just one person it would be 'do not touch nor harm my prophet'. I'm just trying to let you know that as a genuine child of God that verse includes you first then the prophets.

'Do not harm my prophet'

If you call out a Pastor/Evangelist/Bishop for wrong doings is that doing harm?

If you criticise them for lack of welfare for poor members especially when the church is obsessed with tithes/offerings/special thanksgiving seed/ special building seed/ church growth seed and countless other seedsss is that doing harm?

If you talk to them about how expensive schools built with common members tithes, offerings and countless seedsss are and how they can't even afford to send their kids there is that 'doing harm to the prophet' ?

Don't make yourself an instrument to enrich greed ridden people who call themselves men of God but preach the word up side down to you so they can milk you dry.

May God give us understanding in Jesus name.
PoliticsRe: Rotimi Akeredolu Emerges As APC Governorship Candidate In Ondo State by Barayeks(m): 6:14am On Sep 04, 2016
Wasted time and effort
He knows damn well APC won't win the election
I guess he's just looking for compensatory appointment from the federal government
PoliticsOpen Letter To Mr Kabiru Ishaq Sa'id by Barayeks(op): 10:10am On Aug 21, 2016
Mr Kabiru Ishaq Sa'id ....I love what you are doing up there, however there is no need to drop subliminals about the south south and the Niger Delta Avengers, you can work on your farms and produce such products because your land hasn't been destroyed by oil spillage...the fishes in whatever inland waters you have up there have not been destroyed by oil spillage that results from crude production used to support the whole country... Abuja, as beautiful as it is was built with revenue derived from crude oil, so was Lagos, yet the people whose land the oil is derived are left to live in abject poverty. Even the farming and fishing they were once very involved in isn't possible anymore. The government takes their resources and gives 13% derivation payments. If Agriculture and food stuff is what the north contributes to Nigeria, why isn't the government taking the food crops from them for sales to give back 13% derivation payments? You have 100% ownership of your 'so called' contribution to the country yet you're a parasite to the revenue derived from another region. Think about this open mindedly for a second....for one second just one think about it without being a tribal bigot. These people can't do the things they love to do anymore... no fishing, no farming and it's been that way decades before Niger Delta Avengers surfaced, so don't be silly and blame oil spills solely on the militant group.

Christianity EtcAbout Religious Intolerance In Nigeria by Barayeks(op): 9:18pm On Aug 06, 2016
Let’s talk about religious intolerance. I’m sure you’ve read about the woman who was killed recently at Abuja for preaching. Her offence was ‘disturbing’ the neighborhood so I guess she deserved to die gruesomely for that. There was a case before that at Kano of a woman who was stoned to death simply for asking certain people not to perform their ablution in front of her shop. Her offence was tagged ‘blasphemy’ and I guess she deserved to die gruesomely as well since Allah needs us humans to tell him when he should be offended and even help him carry out punishing. People like to talk down this issue saying it’s the poor and uneducated ones who carry out the killings and have this mindset because they are easily brainwashed, but this isn’t completely true. There’s Farouk mutallab who studied engineering at the university college, London. His father was once a minister so they had access to a lot of stolen funds, in other words he was rich as well. He lived in a house worth about 2million dollars yet in 2009 he tried to detonate a bomb in a plane carrying over 200 people. We can’t blame poverty or illiteracy here can we? If someone can get hacked to death for preaching in the capital of a country that claims to be secular it won’t be out of place to say we are fooling ourselves. I know it seems like I’m talking more about Muslims like they are the only ones who are intolerant of other religions, the truth is they are. Christians will never attack a mosque and beat up people in there because they are calling for prayers too loud the way a church was raided during service recently for ‘singing to loud'. There are Muslims far down in my home town in Nembe, Bayelsa, living peaceful. They even have a place to pray even though there are no bayelsan Muslims. I can’t say the same about Christians living in areas dominated by Muslims. You’ll be scared of coughing too loud so it won’t get tagged ‘blasphemy’, religious crisis and killings can spring up any day and you’d be the scapegoat. I can go on forever but let me end this by saying our Muslim brothers need to learn how to tolerate other religions. #letsTalkAboutItBARA

Christianity EtcAbout Religious Intolerance In Nigeria by Barayeks(op): 9:03pm On Aug 06, 2016
Let’s talk about religious intolerance. I’m sure you’ve read about the woman who was killed recently at Abuja for preaching. Her offence was ‘disturbing’ the neighborhood so I guess she deserved to die gruesomely for that. There was a case before that at Kano of a woman who was stoned to death simply for asking certain people not to perform their ablution in front of her shop. Her offence was tagged ‘blasphemy’ and I guess she deserved to die gruesomely as well since Allah needs us humans to tell him when he should be offended and even help him carry out punishing. People like to talk down this issue saying it’s the poor and uneducated ones who carry out the killings and have this mindset because they are easily brainwashed, but this isn’t completely true. There’s Farouk mutallab who studied engineering at the university college, London. His father was once a minister so they had access to a lot of stolen funds, in other words he was rich as well. He lived in a house worth about 2million dollars yet in 2009 he tried to detonate a bomb in a plane carrying over 200 people. We can’t blame poverty or illiteracy here can we? If someone can get hacked to death for preaching in the capital of a country that claims to be secular it won’t be out of place to say we are fooling ourselves. I know it seems like I’m talking more about Muslims like they are the only ones who are intolerant of other religions, the truth is they are. Christians will never attack a mosque and beat up people in there because they are calling for prayers too loud the way a church was raided during service recently for ‘singing to loud'. There are Muslims far down in my home town in Nembe, Bayelsa, living peaceful. They even have a place to pray even though there are no bayelsan Muslims. I can’t say the same about Christians living in areas dominated by Muslims. You’ll be scared of coughing too loud so it won’t get tagged ‘blasphemy’, religious crisis and killings can spring up any day and you’d be the scapegoat. I can go on forever but let me end this by saying our Muslim brothers need to learn how to tolerate other religions. #letsTalkAboutItBARA

RomanceRe: Female Orgasms! by Barayeks(m): 2:39am On Aug 06, 2016
Cos some females can never climax through penetrative sex, it doesn't matter how long you last...that doesn't mean they don't enjoy it tho. For girls like that you'd have to explore together to find out what does it. MouthAction is the only thing that can make some ladies cum.
Christianity EtcAbout Religious Intolerance In Nigeria by Barayeks(op): 2:07am On Aug 06, 2016
Let’s talk about religious intolerance. I’m sure you’ve read about the woman who was killed recently at Abuja for preaching. Her offence was ‘disturbing’ the neighborhood so I guess she deserved to die gruesomely for that. There was a case before that at Kano of a woman who was stoned to death simply for asking certain people not to perform their ablution in front of her shop. Her offence was tagged ‘blasphemy’ and I guess she deserved to die gruesomely as well since Allah needs us humans to tell him when he should be offended and even help him carry out punishing. People like to talk down this issue saying it’s the poor and uneducated ones who carry out the killings and have this mindset because they are easily brainwashed, but this isn’t completely true. There’s Farouk mutallab who studied engineering at the university college, London. His father was once a minister so they had access to a lot of stolen funds, in other words he was rich as well. He lived in a house worth about 2million dollars yet in 2009 he tried to detonate a bomb in a plane carrying over 200 people. We can’t blame poverty or illiteracy here can we? If someone can get hacked to death for preaching in the capital of a country that claims to be secular it won’t be out of place to say we are fooling ourselves. I know it seems like I’m talking more about Muslims like they are the only ones who are intolerant of other religions, the truth is they are. Christians will never attack a mosque and beat up people in there because they are calling for prayers too loud the way a church was raided during service recently for ‘singing to loud'. There are Muslims far down in my home town in Nembe, Bayelsa, living peaceful. They even have a place to pray even though there are no bayelsan Muslims. I can’t say the same about Christians living in areas dominated by Muslims. You’ll be scared of coughing too loud so it won’t get tagged ‘blasphemy’, religious crisis and killings can spring up any day and you’d be the scapegoat. I can go on forever but let me end this by saying our Muslim brothers need to learn how to tolerate other religions. #letsTalkAboutItBARA

RomanceRe: To Those Men Who Want To Progress Financially, Read This And Thank This Lady by Barayeks(m): 11:36pm On Jul 29, 2016
Females avoiding this thread like a plague... When I use 'Nigerian girls' they'll say don't generalize
PoliticsRe: Underdevelopment Of The South South, Who To Blame? by Barayeks(op): 5:29am On Jul 25, 2016
IstandWitBuhari:
The whole country is under developed not only South South
Shut your hole if you have nothing useful to contribute
PoliticsRe: Underdevelopment Of The South South, Who To Blame? by Barayeks(op): 5:28am On Jul 25, 2016
Thank you


hama20:
[color=#006600][/color] What is the source of your information?
Assuming the amount of money you quoted is true and correct, I would like to ask you these question.
1, is it the Niger Delta Leaders that asked the Federal ministry of transport / maritime or NPA not to site a sea port that would encourage economic activities in the Niger Delta? rather for unexplained reason chose to retain Lagos for the said purpose even when there are obvious features suggesting some coastal ND towns/cities would make better sea ports than Lagos
2,Is it the Niger Delta leaders that asked the Federal government not to make any reasonable effort in pushing the multinationals to re mediate the pollution in the environment? When spills occur all the government thinks about is how to resume oil lifting and not our Environment.
3. is it the Niger delta leaders that told the Federal Government that the creeks in the deltas forbids bridges like the third mainland bridge in Lagos?
4 is it the ND leaders that have made constant power supply difficult to achieve despite the amount Obasanjos govt claimed it put into it?
5 ,is it the same Niger delta leaders that just told the Nigerian Government to recruit 250 people into the Nigerian army with or without WAEC ? note no Niger deltan was considered for this illegal recruitment exercise yet we produces the revenue. they called them civilian JTF, how many of our niger Delta local vigilante groups have been converted to army/soldiers since the history of Nigeria?
The tactics of inciting people of Niger delta against their leaders(not saying they are completely innocent) is just too poor when there are clear indications that the Federal government is inflicting more pains on us. if they leave you guys you would blame the ND leaders for lack of oxygen in the grave. grin grin grin
we need resource control in ND, with that we can confidently hold our leaders accountable for their actions. the pains of permanently loosing my limited land and waters to pollution while the money is being used to develop other parts is something that cannot be tolerated without crying out loud. I would like you to go read about the NDDC's challenges , achievements , failures and source of fund. you would find out that by design , NDDC gets only 15% of its Funds from the Federal Govt, 50% from NDDC state govt as ecological funds, while the rest from multinationals. please if truly you are from NDDC, like you claimed, know it that the greatest weapon of the oppressor is the Mind of the oppressed and that liberation can only take place for those who understand they are in bondage
PoliticsRe: Underdevelopment Of The South South, Who To Blame? by Barayeks(op): 5:12am On Jul 25, 2016
Bolustic:
I won't take the SSers serious until they can explain the REASONS:

1) for the inability of Bayelsa to pay monthly salary despite having just 8 local government areas, normal monthly allocations, 13% derivation funds, taxes from International Oil Companies,immediate past President(GEJ) , immediate past petroleum minister and one time transport minister(Diezani)?

2)Why there was no money for salary but there were monies for gubernatorial election in December 2016,

3) How Tompolo had 37 billion naira in his account, how Asari managed to establish a sport Academy and university in Benin Republic, how Boyloaf and other militants became billionaires over night,

4)Why chronic looters like James Ibori, late DSP Alameseigha, Igbinedions are being deified,

5)Patience Jonathan was a permanent secretary and first lady at the same time

6) Why Seriake Dickson said Bayelsans, and by extension, SSers are lazy.

Please quote me with fact and sense.
'Quote me with facts' like this crappy list is based on facts
From your list I'll assume you're an APC apologist
1) the APC gubernatorial aspirant endorsed my 'Mr integrity' took series of loans running into several billions, which the state government is still servicing. The allocation gets cut even before it gets to the state government and the terms of the loan ensures that if payment is stopped before completion of payment, you forfeit previously paid amounts...the last part of your first question is very stupid, no offence...what does having a former minister or President from the region have to do with anything?

2) Buhari claimed not to have money to buy the presidential nomination form, but went on to carry out one of the most expensive campaigns in the history of Nigeria... Extrapolate from that

3) you were talking bout "quote me with facts".I'd like to see Tompolo's statement of account since you've seen it...let's talk facts. I guess Private universities are only meant to be owned by the likes of OBJ and Atiku?

4) I'd rather you ask yourself why no Governor from the north/west has ever been charged with chronic looting even in cases where it is obvious e.g Tinubu one of the biggest landlords in Africa. These people must be saints.

5) patience being perm secretary is the cause of underdevelopment in an area where oil was discovered over 50years ago? Kwantinew

6) another stupid question that should be directed at Dickson. Bayelsans are lazy yet they show up for work even when owed over 5months salaries
PoliticsRe: Underdevelopment Of The South South, Who To Blame? by Barayeks(op): 7:20pm On Jul 24, 2016
Hagm0nd:
another mad man on the loose,if the third mainland bridge is given you sleepless night,contact NDA to blow it up.
There's no cure for your kind of stupidity, I'm afraid. You are bound to die stupid.
PoliticsRe: Underdevelopment Of The South South, Who To Blame? by Barayeks(op): 6:32pm On Jul 24, 2016
Benita27:
These places you mentioned are major cities, you shld add PH to the list bt meanwhile, the all have slums, bad roads, and are still filled with extremely poor citizens.
You are missing the point and I suspect it is intentional. Its very common that people blame the lack of infrastructure and general backwardness in the South South on the Kings and Chiefs who they believe collect huge sums of money from oil companies. Now read my first statement again to see if you get where I'm coming from. I'm not here to argue about what state has poor citizens and what state doesn't. The general area where over 70% of the country's resources is sourced should have federal presence in terms of infrastructure
PoliticsRe: Underdevelopment Of The South South, Who To Blame? by Barayeks(op): 6:17pm On Jul 24, 2016
Benita27:
The whole country is under-develop.
That's all you have to say?
Okay we want the same level of underdevelopment lagos / Abuja has
PoliticsUnderdevelopment Of The South South, Who To Blame? by Barayeks(op): 6:07pm On Jul 24, 2016
The next time someone tells you to blame the Kings and Chiefs in the South South for the undevelopment, ask them if the 'Third mainland bridge' was constructed by the Oba of Lagos.
RomanceRe: Lady Asked Man To Pay Her N40k For Sex by Barayeks(m): 11:04am On Jul 20, 2016
Itzurboi:
Aunty, i was just passing by, but i discover you have just tro another one... pls learn d diff btw "didnt and dont"... and wen to use them... thank you
My friend will you hush!
You're trying to correct someone but dropping bombs in the process
What is 'you have just thro another one'?

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