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PhonesRe: NCC Warns Nigerians Against Using Pre-Registered SIM Cards by BarrElChapo(m): 8:09am On May 17, 2024
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PoliticsRe: 6 Directors, 222 Workers Sacked As Anambra Orders Refund Of 4-Year Wage by BarrElChapo(m): 8:07am On May 17, 2024
immortalcrown:
What if election rigging is the reason for the impeachment?
Only the court's can determine if an election was rigged or not.
CrimeRe: Gunmen Kidnap Catholic Priest, Rev Fr Basil Gbuzuo, In Anambra by BarrElChapo(m): 7:24am On May 17, 2024
I read on my class WhatsApp group that he's been released.
CrimeRe: Lady Confronts New User Of Her Stolen Phone After Tracking It (Video) by BarrElChapo(m): 7:23am On May 17, 2024
Mynd44:
The problem here is that the new user is going to lose big time and possibly face serious police wahala is she doesn't have strong representation.

She has been caught in custody if a stolen item and what can save here is if she bought the phone from a standard store and she was issued a receipt or she can produce the person who sold the phone to her.

The original owner will get her phone back, that one is certain; it is the new owner that will lose money, time and small police problem
Five years imprisonment except she can produce the person that sold the phone to her, ignorance is not an excuse too.
PoliticsRe: 6 Directors, 222 Workers Sacked As Anambra Orders Refund Of 4-Year Wage by BarrElChapo(m): 7:19am On May 17, 2024
immortalcrown:
This is the best part of the news. But why can't this apply to impeached governors and impeached senators?
An impeached governor didn't get in illegally
A senator isn't impeached rather he/she is recalled by his/her constituents.

Neither of these are illegal so they rightfully earned their salaries.
BusinessRe: Dangote Refinery To Buy 24 Million Barrels Of US Crude Oil – Bloomberg by BarrElChapo(m): 2:24pm On May 16, 2024
MarketDispatch:
Still struggling to understand why NNPCL will part finance Dangote Refinery, but Dangote is going to buy Crude oil in USA whilst NNPCL has Crude oil in Nigeria
TravelRe: Emirates Airline Announces Resumption Of Nigerian Flights From October 1 by BarrElChapo(m): 2:21pm On May 16, 2024
Are they doing us a favour ? 🤔
BusinessRe: Which Market In Aba To Get The Best Materials And Suit by BarrElChapo(m): 12:28pm On May 16, 2024
PointZerom:
Just enter mottor from any part of Nigeria to Aba, stop at Aba main park and take keke to Shopping center. Cloths and fabrics are very cheap there. If you want okirika, visit Ahia Ohuru mainly on Mondays and Wednesdays. They have the best tailors there also.
Boss do you have a good tailor that can make a very good senator wear in aba ?
FoodRe: My Mom's Local Food Canteen In The North by BarrElChapo(m): 8:46pm On May 15, 2024
Nawa o..
CelebritiesRe: Mohbad: Cause Of Death Not Ascertained Because His Body Had Decomposed - Patholo by BarrElChapo(m): 8:33pm On May 15, 2024
Look at the useless excuse ? Those who are conversant with ID and other investigative stations will know this is a lie.
PoliticsRe: Bishop Kukah Visits President Tinubu by BarrElChapo(m): 7:16pm On May 15, 2024
hedonido:
This guy is obviously a charlatan, and it was obvious from his mealy mouthed doublespeak during the election build-up.

Ode. You're going to visit that thing for what purpose exactly?

God bless the likes of Cardinal Onaekan (hope I spelt the name correctly). Not all these 'eloquent' anywhere belle face hypocrites who can't do without sucking up to power.
Nothing wrong with going to see the President, it can even be an advantage as you can tell the president your thoughts directly and in person without being misunderstood.

What you should lookout for is whether he'll stop critiquing the government completely after this meeting.
CrimeRe: Lawyer Faults Portable’s Arrest, Says Police Not Debt Recovery Agency by BarrElChapo(m): 6:02pm On May 15, 2024
This is a sad thing, everyday we see clients get harassed by police for debt recovery purposes.
PoliticsRe: Aregbesola Removes APC Logo, Tinubu’s, Akande’s Photos From Campaign Office(pix) by BarrElChapo(m): 9:08am On May 15, 2024
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CelebritiesRe: Policemen Dragged Portable To Police Station Over G-Wagon Debt (Video) by BarrElChapo(m): 8:38am On May 15, 2024
27m gwagon might be like 2005 model 😅
PoliticsRe: Tariff Protest: Don’t Derail Our Electricity Sector Plans, Adelabu Begs Labour by BarrElChapo(m): 8:04am On May 15, 2024
The worst
PoliticsRe: Every Governor In Rivers Fights The Next One; It's Spiritual Problem - Ibiyeomie by BarrElChapo(m): 7:46am On May 15, 2024
Enoch fraud Adeboye said Nigeria's was spiritual now one of his sons in the fraud has localised it on his own state 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Every other day they conduct programme with fancy themes yet the problem wasn't even known.

Fake demonic fools.
HealthRe: "NMA Membership Not Compulsory For Physicians" - Court Rules by BarrElChapo(m): 9:45pm On May 14, 2024
Nigerian Bar Association should be scared right now 🤔
RomanceRe: My Relationship Of 7 Years Is Going Down. I Need Help!!! by BarrElChapo(m): 9:42pm On May 14, 2024
Lukmanraji:
My gf of seven years has been giving me attitude recently which I noticed sometimes last year. I observed that she always check my phone to look for something to hold against me. Yes, she suspected that I'm having something with someone. So, every time she's around me, she always find one or two thing that will lead to argument and all that. Aside that, the respect, love and intimacy between us reduced drastically.

Fast forward to this year, She successfully read a chat on my phone where I was talking dirty with someone. That's the genesis of the whole mess I'm in right now. She just walked out quietly and decided to end it all. Since then, I've not been myself because this is the person I have planned to live the rest of my life with. So, I started begging her but she's not giving me any green light. I called, messaged her but no response. I asked my Junior brother to beg on my behalf but she didn't succumb to that not until my dad intervened to apologize on my behalf.

So, she call me that we need to see. I rushed to visit her and apologize again and again. She agreed to continue with the relationship but she hasn't forgiven me. After few weeks of the whole issue. I suspected that she's hiding something from me. Then one fateful night, I spy on her phone when she was unlocking her phone. That night, I was able to access her phone while she was asleep.

I checked her WhatsApp, I discovered that she has been clearing her chat with one particular guy who happens to be her friend from NYSC since 2021. They became close as they both work in the same financial institution but in a different branch. Then I went further to her Instagram page to see what's going there.

To my greatest surprise, I discovered that they have been having an affair since 2023. My gf has been throwing herself to this guy, they have been going to the cinema together and other places. On her birthday, my babe and this guy went out together without my knowledge, they both book uber to somewhere without my knowledge, they were both sharing their feelings online, talking about marriage, how to raise their kids irrespective of their religion differences and my babe even throwing herself to the guy for sex. Everything thing I found in their chat especially how my babe has been treating this guy with love and respect is the opposite of how my babe has been treating me lately.

So, I screenshoted all the evidence and save on my phone. I then challenged her that she's cheating on me with that guy but she blatantly denied it. Not until I showed her all the evidences with me before she began to cry fowl and started debunking all I saw. She claimed that they are not true, they were just playing and not into any thing serious. They are friends and that's how they banter each other online. All her excuses were not genuine but I still forgive her on one condition that I don't want to see her with the guy again and she should cut off any form of friendship or relationship between them because I had done something more than that to her just recently and she forgive me.

Meanwhile, during the cause of this issue, I proposed to my gf that we should take this relationship to the next level by seeing her parents this year and maybe by the end of the year, we do the whole thing. The shock response I got from her was that she's not in a rush to settle down with me. Not even this year as she's just healing from the heartbreak I caused her and I can't use marriage to tie her down then I continue breaking her heart. There's no how I tried convincing her that I am a changed man now as I am ready to take responsibility and be a responsible person.

After few weeks, I logged into her whatsapp on my system and then again I found out that she's still talking to this guy and they were even planning on going out again. I got angry and send proof to her but guess what, my babe para for me for cloning her whatsapp on my system. Hell almost let lose that evening. This time around, she felt unapologetic about the primary issue that I warned her to desist from. Funny enough, after close observation, I learnt that they move their chats from whatsapp to Snapchat where their chat is just "view once". Then I knew that this lady is not ready to stop talking to this guy. I have shouted over and over this matter but this time around, my babe is now feeling lackadaisical about this issue.

Right now, my babe is now comfortable with the guy and she's now sitting on defense about this matter. In our last conversation, my GF literarily told me that she doesn't love me anymore. And then she started rewinding all my past during the cause of the relation and using it as an excuse for not been able to love me like she used to. In our conversation, the only thing she didn't mention is that we should go on our separate ways (break up) but everything she said to me indirectly simply means that she is done with me.

I felt unloved as this is the woman I never placed anyone above, this is the woman I've nurtured when we were in school and outside school. I respected her and love her so much that she has become part of me. My parents, family and friends are expecting us to tie the knot soon but here is my babe telling me she's not in love with me anymore. I felt unloved about this whole thing and I'm heartbroken.

I am lost and crying inside silently as I never expected someone I have sacrificed something huge for before to be acting like this to me. I'm depressed. I need mature advise from you guys. Thank you.
Please move on. She's moved on since 2023.
TravelRe: Lufthansa Boeing 747-8 Makes Heavy Landing In Los Angeles: Video by BarrElChapo(m): 10:15am On May 14, 2024
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PoliticsRe: How Wike Insisted Godfatherism Would Fail In Rivers State (Throwback) by BarrElChapo(m): 10:13am On May 14, 2024
Wike
Christianity EtcRe: How God Dealt With Billionaires Who Queried Me Over Their Tithe – Pastor Adeboye by BarrElChapo(m): 7:58pm On May 13, 2024
Foolish fool
PoliticsRe: Man Refills Anambra Water Fountain With Keg by BarrElChapo(m): 7:57pm On May 13, 2024
African Doobia Taiwan 🤣🤣🤣🤣
PoliticsRe: If My Being A Governor Is A Mistake, Let Them Continue To Make Mistakes - Fubara by BarrElChapo(m): 7:55pm On May 13, 2024
Lol
PoliticsRe: Fubara Swears-in Dagogo as Attorney-General, to Probe Wike's 8 Years As Governor by BarrElChapo(m): 7:54pm On May 13, 2024
Sim wants to effectively ruin Wike’s legacy and maybe presidential chances in the future.
BusinessRe: Melinda Gates Quits The Bill And Melinda Gates Foundation by BarrElChapo(m): 7:52pm On May 13, 2024
Wow
PoliticsRe: By law, the 25 Rivers Assembly lawmakers have lost their seats - Falana by BarrElChapo(m): 9:25am On May 13, 2024
xjiggy:
I do not understand how the law works. I've seen Governors switch party and still remain on their seats, Senators and Rep members switch party and still retain their seats. Can Lawyers in the house kindly explain the difference in this case
In the past yes but under the new electoral law, your candidature is tied to the political party on which you won an election and not you as an individual.
Foreign AffairsRe: SA Divided As "White" Opposition Burns National Flag In Election Advert (PICS) by BarrElChapo(m): 8:28am On May 13, 2024
highchief1:
no sir.but if I am not mistaken.If white fix their cities is it no longer their city?if white gave them light is not not their light?And the said whites are South Africans.So what’s the issue here.Can I shock u?That place u call slum we call it location there.The locations have the kind of light and road that ikoyi and Maitama does not have.bros have u ever been der or u just Dey read news about them.
Person wey never comot from Nigeria before, na im you dey waste words on. You get time bros lots of time.
PoliticsRe: Ensure You Work As You Dance: Obasanjo Counsels Dance-partner, Gov Adeleke by BarrElChapo(m): 7:27am On May 13, 2024
Well it’s not like he can complain but a vip lodge for the governor and his cronies?
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Celebrates Retired Supreme Court Justice, Mary Odili At 72 by BarrElChapo(m): 7:21am On May 13, 2024
Kwarrupt woman.
Christianity EtcRe: I Named My Son Isaac With Only ₦10 - Bishop David Oyedepo (Video) by BarrElChapo(m): 9:26am On May 12, 2024
Satanic bishop 😂😂😂
RomanceRe: Is It Proper To Attend Her Wedding Ceremony? by BarrElChapo(m): 10:32pm On May 11, 2024
UncleSuru:
Are you even aware some women even throw themselves at men willingly?

You better don't kill yourself.
Virginity would not replace a good woman. A virgin doesn’t equal a good woman.

If you think some women who have extra marital affairs weren’t virgins at marriage then you’re living in a bubble.


I liked when you said she’s a decent lady, instead of doing a 360 you could have elaborated on why she’s a decent person to you.

Good luck with finding that virgin of your dreams.
HealthRe: I Was Unconscious For 7 Hours Neglected By Hospital Over N80k-Ex-minister Dalung by BarrElChapo(m): 10:25pm On May 11, 2024
So none of his aides are rich enough to deposit N80K on his behalf?

They’re all in servitude and in serious bondage. I have no single empathy to waste.

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