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HisRib: I'm glad you have your answers.

Good luck to the both of you.

HisRib: You're welcome dear. Have the conversation with her. As for the symbolic gift, you can maybe get her a nice little promise ring, necklace, earrings.

You can write her a beautiful letter. Another thing you can do is, get to know her family. Show interest in her family and bring her around your family, if you can. This will calm her nerves.

bennyraz: the new guy has giving her his big D aka Big bura so the thing is confusing her cuz the guy knows how to do it better than you

HisRib: Hi There,

Interesting story.

Well, a few scenarios come to mind: 1) She's playing mind games to get you to propose quickly, 2) She has been cheating all along, 3) It is very possible that she met this guy 2 months ago and because she's so desperat for marrige, she accepted his proposal without really knowing him, or 4) She's trying to trick/trap you into marrying her sooner.

Based on what you've told me, it's quite obvious this woman is desperately in search for marriage and will run into the arms of any man who proposes marriage. But her issue is, she actually loves you. Yes, she wants to be with you, but because you won't give her what she wants, she's looking elsewhere.

My question to you is, do you have plans to marry this girl? If you are serious about marrying her, sit her down and have a conversation with her. Get her to understand you will give her what she wants & much more, but she needs to be patient. Women want assurance. When we reach a certain age, we like to know we are not wasting our times in doomed relationships.

If you know in your heart you don't plan on marrying this woman, do the right thing and let her go. Let her go be with a person who will give her what she wants.

But, if you are serious about her, have the conversation with her. If she's still confused, do something that will convince her that you both will eventuall tie the knot. You can give her a symbolic gift or letter.

Have the conversation as soon as possible and let me know how it goes.

Tip: 1) Always maintain control during the conversation. 2) Sound sincere and genuine.

Good luck!

Babynwan: same here. pimples n eczema. plsssssss help.

jostex: INFO TO KOGI STATE DIRECT ENTRY APPLICANT

KOGI STATE UNIVERSITY, ANYIGBA 2013/2014 Direct Entry screening holds 27th and 28th September, 2013. Candidates with KSU as first choice, have 5 credits (including English and maths), NCE with not less than 6 points, ND/OND with a minimum of Upper Credit, HND with a minimum of Lower Credit, IJMB candidates and any other advanced level qualification.

Registration for the screening commenced on Monday, 9th September to close Wednesday, 25th September, 2013. The fee is N2,300 into any Zenith Bank branch nearest to you via X-Path. You will be given a pin thereafter and proceed with registration online on the institution portal (www.ksuportal.edu.ng).

Candidates are required to upload passport size of not more than 20kb with RED background. And get to the venue to screening early enough with evidence of registration only. Do not come with your handsets, flash drive, modem, biro, pencil or any electronic device, your ability to read and click or move the mouse on the computer are all that would be required.

Charbless: Barry, wats ur full name cos am in Binji too.
Ask Papoo of PRO

Qualcoms: Keep on with the NYSC...no probs! Simply apply, JAMB extended d deadline but an official closing date is yet to be announced... OAU, UI, UNIBEN, UNIZIK...are cheaper. Thanks.

chukwunoble: m Noble,i served in sokoto in tangaza Gidamadi L g a,alnestly sokoto s nt too good,bt u can only manage,d weather,timidity of d pple,etc,its bettr ure oriented befor u start regretn y ure dere,my advice s since i served dr peacefully u all must serve dr peacefully.if u need any assistante in anyway call08039293528

Qualcoms: HND at Upper Credit...mehn Young Barryp u got open doors.... All schools all over Naija is good for u... it is just ur course dat I am not too familiar with... but schlz with vast courses like OAU, UI,UNIBEN, ABU ZARIA will be suitable for u... *Apology for the late response...na subscription tinz...neva think dat far... I am nt a BB user but a stronger OS data consuming device user...guest... Lolz* All d best!

bashexyz: I am not been biased. I am just been honest with the situation of things. In a country with very high unemployed youths and inadequate access to information.
PMP, CAPM, Price2, ITIL are of no use till you have a job you are currently working on. You call yourself rich_pmp. Do you even know the difference btwn PMP, CAPM and Prince2, why these differences and what are the real reasons they were designed for... And i am not imposing any certification on anyone. I just dont want limited resources to be wasted.

rodeo0070: I would suggest you go for your ICAN. Its a good professional course. along side it, u can go for some IT courses like CISA. Or u can try and learn how to use softwares like peachtree accounting, tally pro etc. all these are very good ways to build yourself and profile cos its they are worth it in d labour market.
Sure NYSC might be a waste of time to some but don't waste yours as well cos this is d time you can channel or re-channel your career path. Wherever u r posted u shud see it as a place to improve urself.
Apart frm taking of course, engage yourself in some trainins like how to repair things(say, electronics, fashion,agric, entertainment etc) . It helps a lot cos u neva can tell wen it will be useful. I used mine to support myself for d period of joblessness till I got a job.
Just see to it that you must learn everyday. Thank you.

Qualcoms: If honestly u gave up...datz just too early... U wil apply with HND immediately ur result is ready...NYSC is not needed... for fast Univ. (schools)... Funaab n Unilorin... and for faster schlz go abroad coz we av a strong Striker in Nigeria called ASUU...Don't give up guy... just too early!

Charbless: Less I 4get, dias additional ppa for hustlers
(Permanent place of Hustling) so think abt dat

Charbless: State pays 4k,
Cost of living is ok!
Security : good
Hope u knw d consequences of redeploying, if YES, u shuld do dat in camp if it doesn't work, 4get it.
And for nyt bus! Its cool and beta cos u'll be ariving in d mawning.
U're welcome

Charbless: State pays 4k,
Cost of living is ok!
Security : good
Hope u knw d consequences of redeploying, if YES, u shuld do dat in camp if it doesn't work, 4get it.
And for nyt bus! Its cool and beta cos u'll be ariving in d mawning.
U're welcome

Charbless: State pays 4k,
Cost of living is ok!
Security : good
Hope u knw d consequences of redeploying, if YES, u shuld do dat in camp if it doesn't work, 4get it.
And for nyt bus! Its cool and beta cos u'll be ariving in d mawning.
U're welcome

Charbless: Serving in sokoto to be frank is cool.
All depends on ur package and the Local Government U're beign assigned for ur PPA. And they don't delay in payments.

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