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Cmanforall:
Why?
Is she into cybercrime?

It will be shocking if true. The money her father is making should be satisfying for her

The cybercrime in this case does not involve money it's a case of relationship gone bad and instead of her moving on with her life she and her friends decided to spread falsehood about the man on their social media platforms thereby causing the man embarrassment and emotional damages.

ChybuzzDD:
He will remove the stew once it's done, and continue with the rice.

How will he possibly do that with affecting the rice or anything in the other part.
I think it's a foolish idea besides the foods will take longer time to cook because of the small surface area he should think of producing pots that cook foods faster thereby saving gas and time.

relaxfun:
A little back story.

Due to some ugly circumstances, i dropped out of school in 2019 and I've been at home since then, periodically picking up one or two low paying jobs. 2 years ago, I decided to learning a tech skill. I taught myself C++ programming language and I'm currently teaching myself mathematics aggressively, studying for min of 8 hours daily.

For the past two years, I've mostly always been in my room, I can be in our house for more than two weeks, without stepping a foot out of our door due to how engrossed in studying I always am. My goal is to learn C++, DSA , And Math to an undergraduate level then use my skills to apply for scholarships to study abroad, and probably work in a hedge fund company as a quantitative trader in the future. For those who know what leetcode is, i can currently solve most leetcode (hard) problems in less than 40 minutes.

Now, I'll be 24 in August, and my dad is worried that I'm wasting my life away because I've refused to pickup any real job or learn a trade, his worried that I'm already getting old, always reminding me that people my age are already getting married. Now he wants me to leave his house to go look for my own place to stay, and has offered me 7 million naira to go start life else where.

Now I plan to move out of Lagos to PH or Akwa Ibom, then use part of the money to start up a computer business center, where I'll be doing typing, printing, lamination, jamb registration, GCE/WAEC registrations, etc. One of the reasons I chose this is because I've worked in a place like this before and I have experience in how to run such a place. Another reason is that, this business would give me time to also study and sharpen my Math/Programming skills. I plan to rent a shop that is big enough so that I can also be sleeping/living there.

Now I seriously need advicing because this is such a turning point in my life and the next few years is going to make or break me because there is no room for any disastrous bad decision

I am genuinely worried for you honestly because you in the past two years you haven't had much interaction with the real world so this lamentation of inflation and bad economy may not make sense to you. The new location you intend to move to have you lived there before? What's the cost of living there? What's the light situation there and what is the NEPA billing like there because the business you intend to go into requires light will you be buying fuel daily? Pls don't rush and it will be better to start small then scale up in future because 7 million might seem big but when you enter market you will be shocked so don't rush things and be mindful of those who will come around in the name of help.
Lastly you have to be very prayerful the envy and jealousy out there is massive both from competitors and and non competitors it seems people don't like others progress.

FreeSpirited:
You will never understand what it means to fall into grave sexual temptation until you start living a sexually pure life or until you decide to work for God.
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I'm not yet a pastor in full time ministry but I can tell you the truth based on series of temptation I get these days, the work of a pastor is one of the hardest when it comes to standing against sexual temptation.
Yesterday I also perfectly understood why pastors fall for married women or ladies whose marriage or relationship is in crises during counseling.
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The truth is counselling a heart broken woman is a big trap. A big trap that can only take God and courage to not fall into. You will be shocked that the person you are counseling is so vulnerable and sexually primed that the greatest emotions flowing through her at that time is a urge to be touched, cuddled, caressed and knacked. I saw everything last night, and my defence began to crack, wane, weakened and almost dissolved completely while the lady was begging time for me to touch her.
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It was yesterday I realized that deciding to live a holy life or deciding to be a pastor means that you have only signed yourself into continuous sexual temptation. No wonder most pastors fail! I thought I had won the demon of temptation until I experienced the dimension of counseling a broken married lady.
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I won't go into the story. It's a long crazy one. But pastors will understand what I'm saying .... And if you have not counselled a heartbroken woman either married or single... You can never understand. How I escaped without crashing totally is a mystery.

Two simple but not easy ways to escape:
1. Fasting. Fasting helps you subdue the flesh and any Christian who is not fasting often (at least two days a week) will fall easily.
2. Counsel in an open space or have at least one person with you as assistant.

Vixenn:
Israel doesn’t forgive

Very funny!! If a snake creeps into a compound and probably attacked the domestic animals in the compound if the house owner is responsible it is expected that he hunt down the snake no matter how long it takes otherwise it will strike again and again..
Unlike one useless west Africa country that pardons and recruits radical terrorists into her army in the name of repentance thereby demoralizing the soldiers whose comrades were killed by the same terrorists.

[quote author=FuckFuckPastor post=134925287][/quote]I guess Buhari taught him well and he tends to do even better.

fergie001:
The former Minister for Sports, in a deleted tweet, stated that majority of Tinubu's appointments has gone Northwards....


Sunday Dare
SA. Media & Public Communication to President Tinubu

PREVIOUS THREAD:
https://www.nairaland.com/8394300/full-list-appointments-tinubu-based

This is the kind of fate that befalls a person trying to defend the indefensible.

iwaeda:
Which NEC?

Abi ooh! Na wetin I been wan ask. This one wen both president and his vice are not in the country I wonder who would preside.

Dapagun:
https://www.africanexaminer.com/opinion-if-only-peter-obi-had-the-wisdom-of-tinubu/

To summarise in one sentence:
Obi choose not to play regional or ethnic politics by leaving APGA to join PDP a truly national party.

chisomkachy:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/04/ugwuanyi-ikpeazu-shehu-sani-others-screened-for-ambassadorial-appointments/

Like him or hate him Wike plays this political game well at least thus far.

helinues:
What's your take about Reno being nominated as one of the ambassadors?

Did Reno deserve it?

Did the president miss or hit on Reno's nomination?

His hustle has finally paid.

AGManuel:
Hello House, please help I need advice.

I have a girlfriend who's been with me for 2 years, she's a very good girl, respects me to the core, she is beautiful and has no faults, she loves me so much and has also suffered with me even when there was no money and we've been through it all, she's every man's dream and a complete wife material in terms of character and also a great chef.

Problem is I am not sexually attracted to her, I can be in same room with her for a week and not touch her, even when she's totally naked running around the house.

I'm only attracted to light skin girls with big ass but she's chocolate and average ass, I don't want a sexually boring marriage.

She's good in bed and knows how to make love, but I just don't feel sexually attracted to her, is it because we've been having sex for 2 years? am I tired of her? I don't even know, she has never insulted me, she supports me and we hardly have disputes.

Married men in the house should I go ahead and marry her? Can lack of sexual attraction to your spouse be a big problem?

I don't want to break up with a good woman just because of sex.

She loves me so much and I know breaking up with her will hurt her so much, I know how much she cries anytime we have issues, most times over minor issues. I love her too. But this sexual attraction thing is a problem.

She no de hungry me to fvck at all. How person wan take marry woman wey no de hungry am to fvck.

Is it see finish? Will I get sexually attracted to her if we give each other space? Or is it because she's not my spec physically? But I love her so much and I'm just confused.

I don't even know if it's love, because she has no one, I'm her everything, her family is poor and I always feel pity for her whenever I want to break up.

Of recent we had issues and she went to discuss it with her ex and that made me so angry. I don't tolerate women that still keep in touch with their ex and I considered breaking up but she cried so much and was apologising, she even fell sick and was begging.

I have a soft spot for her because I know she doesn't have anything or anyone, I'm the person that supports her financially and everything, so whenever I want to break up, I think about those things and I feel so much pity for her like if I chase her away where will she go? and this is a girl that has been there for me few times when I was low.

I'm just confused.

Sex is the least thing in marriage though very important but those qualities you attributed to her are actually more important in marriage. My advice to you why entangle yourself with a woman who doesn't have the physical qualities you want in the first place? After 2 years you are yet to wholly accept her the way she is. Now you want to leave without breaking her heart well you can use genotype or be man enough and talk things out with her to avoid wasting her time any further.
But note that no matter who you marry there shall come a time sex will be obligation rather than pleasure.

Osariemen12:
Beauty and brain.

Good job.

Men will always be men! You leave statement go dey look another thing.

SoftSport:
Such a shame.

She may have grown up surrounded by love and care, but now it seems like Natasha has forgotten those values, choosing to break laws and stir up chaos.

This kind of statement only emanates from shameless people. Do you think it's easy for a woman to come out publicly to say she is being harassed sexually essentially in a country like ours with people like you?
There is no smoke without fire.

Nemere2020:
Two Frontline APC Governorship aspirants have stepped down from the Guber race to hold tomorrow in Awka.

While Paul Chukwuma resigned from the Party entirely, Chuma Umeoji decided to toe the party line.

Abeg which one is party line after purchasing form with millions of naira? Why allow candidates spend millions of naira and other resources and their time when you already have a plan as a party?

neolboy:
This is my life story
I am sharing my experience here about marriage life, some of you might call me a Simp or weakling but need to share it for those who asked me to share it when I write on a topic about what i regretted so far in 2025, was getting married last year December and ending it this Year January will pick one or two things from my story.

I met this girl 2023 through a mutual friend, we became an acquaintance and later start dating. She is from Delta state likewise myself, she comes from Ndokwa west specifically Kwale by tribe. In 2024 i proposed to her, by May I went to see her family while she came to meet mine also.

Early September i asked her family for the traditional list. We both agreed for traditional marriage and court wedding, After collecting the list we start planning towards the traditional marriage which was fixed on December 29 on a Sunday afternoon. That faithful day, i went with my people to pay the bride price and other things, and the court wedding was fixed on January 17.

January 7th, we were together discussing but something strange happened, her phone rang and i saw her going outside to answer some calls, after sometimes she came back inside not composed. I asked her what the problem was but she downplayed it and told me it was nothing, but i was not comfortable, after a while her phone rang again, it was her brother's wife calling her and asking her if she has told me about the pregnancy. I was shocked and asked her what pregnancy is she talking about.

Here comes the shock of my life, i discovered that she was some weeks pregnant, I asked her who got her pregnant, to my surprise, it was her ex boyfriend. I was enraged, mad and furious, something was whispering into my ear to go into the kitchen take a knife and stab her. Luckily for me, my younger sister called me at that moment, if not i don't know what i would have done to her. Because it was late i left the house for her.

In the morning, i came back, she was already in tears crying and asking me for forgiveness. I told her to leave my house, I picked up my phone call all her family members, called mine also.
Her family were trying to persuade me to forgive her but i told them it was unforgivable. My family asked for the refund of the bride price which was later refunded after they discovered that i did not bulge to their request of accepting her back.

It was a painful moment and a painful experience too, but i was able to pull through by the help of my family members some friends.

It was a long story i had to cut it short. It is my life story

Moral lesson: Do pregnancy test even on the day you are to tie the knot, do not trust to the extent of ignoring little things.

Extra: The guy who got her pregnant was aware and even told the girl's sister that his property with them he is coming in future to collect it. Na so I for dey look after another man's property

Who dare call you a simp? My brother na man u be. I commend you for standing firm and not accepting her family begging you to forgive her.

Trinitycian:
South Easterners, please not everyone from Northern Nigeria is Fulani. We're also suffering in the North. Stop compounding our problems

At the beginning of this IPOB agitation I didn't support or share their ideology but having seen their resistance to the fulani herdsmen in the east I just have to give them kudos.
It was this fulani herdsmen resistance that prompted Buhari government to arrest Nnamdi Kalu and Sunday Igboho and that Benue guy who was killed by the army on his way for a peace talk in company of a reverend father.

Xbox2005:
That's a wonderful gesture from the governor.may their souls rest in peace

This governor is truly showing that good leadership is not just about speaking Elizabeth English.

jmoore:
https://saharareporters.com/2025/03/30/confess-or-die-former-detainees-expose-shocking-torture-killings-infamous-imo-tiger-base

Another Okuzu SARS kind of brutality in Imo state? That's why I don't pity or empathise with any police officer I see them as criminals operating openly.

fergie001:
The 2023 Governorship Candidate of the Labour Party in Enugu State, Chijioke Jonathan Edeoga has defected to the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP).

The former Commissioner for Environment who resigned from the PDP in 2022, hails from Eha-Amufu in Isi-Uzo LGA.

He was also a member of the House of Representatves in 1999 and a former Special Adviser to ex-Presdient Goodluck Jonathan. He finished close second to incumbent, Ndubuisi Peter Mbah in the 2023 Governorship race.

Who finished close second?
The guy won the election just the rotation arrangement and the powers that be denied him his victory.

PressMyButton:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/your-leadership-is-remarkable-ibb-hails-tinubu-at-73/

How can Tinubu be 73 years dry play.

TimeManager:
https://independent.ng/tinubus-wife-oluremi-host-former-nigerian-first-ladies-to-iftar-in-aso-rock/

Just checking whether Turai Yar'adua was there but I didn't see any former first lady. Truly power is transient and things of life is ephemera. Turai Yar'adua reigned supreme in her days as first lady second to Maryam Babangida. Turai Yar'adua was Nigeria de facto leader when Yar'adua became very sick and all the period he was outside the country for medical treatment she ruled backed by the then attorney general of the federation Michael Aondoakaa who on one occasion made the infamous statement that the president can rule from anywhere in the world. But today nobody remembers Turai Yar'adua.

Infoguy666:
https://thisdaynigeria.news/2025/03/30/nigerian-boxer-olanrewaju-slump-dies-during-live-fight-in-ghana/

I detest this sport.

aminulive:
https://politicsnigeria.com/just-in-tinubu-threatens-to-sack-wike-over-fct-elections-video/

This is a very good opportunity for the PDP to kick this drunkard out of their party for good. The party should issue him counter ultimatum that he must not allow APC do better than the PDP otherwise he will be suspended for poor performance so either way he can't escape.

TimeManager:
God bless Mrs Oluremi Tinubu, the Mother of the nation.


-Kiss the truth!

Hum! Kiss the truth. Hope you are kissing the fact that your living condition isn't better under drugy lord.

[quote author=ogododo post=134752554][/quote]I sincerely condemn the killing in Edo and wished it never happened but this incident has reviewed the hypocrisy of our leaders. For weeks the women in part of Enugu state have been protesting the killings and molestation of their people by fulani herdsmen same with people of Benue state and Ondo farmers but there was not a single word from those in authority and to rub salt to injury they sent the police to disperse the Enugu women by tear gassing them and here we are within 24 hours of this unfortunate incident in Edo all the leaders are out to exert justice including the indifferent president. Truly it seems that some are more Nigerians than others and if you dig deep into the identity of these victims they might be foreigners.

Olanki:
Wait Oo,

Did he call them travellers ?

Even with the heavy arms recovered from them ?

That still doesn't justify their killing why not hand them over to the police for proper investigation?
In sane countries they rather let a criminal go than executing any innocent person.

Zionmdde:
I just hope Obi will not make any statement on this
This is one of those issues where it is best to keep silent
The likes of onanuga, omokri etc are waiting for obi so they can turn the whole thing against SE. They are all angry it didn't happen in SE

Meanwhile, why are they carrying guns and weapons?

If him go hear word but then if he doesn't put out a statement condemning the act the people you mentioned will still drag him.

bea1234567:
Nigerians would have been rejoicing now only of the man was tinub u

That's not nice thing wish your fellow human more essentially your leader. But one thing I know for sure is that if it were in Nigeria that spot would have become the grave site for that person. The Chile miners were rescued after three months in 2010. The same fate befell some people in Niger state last year or thereabout and that was it.

[quote author= post=134738430]Source: https://dailypost.ng/2025/03/27/two-brothers-fight-over-mango-one-dead-other-hospitalized/[/quote]I am certain the mango plantation was inherited instead of them to manage and expand so they can bequeath bigger plantation to their own children they are fighting or killing each other. Greed.

Namaster:


Dude's acting like a neophyte Yahoo Boy that just got his first client.

Give it 3 weeks, he'll realise he has NOT arrived.
In fact, #77k is NOT even enough for his bus tickets.

True talk my brother. I was reminiscing of my NYSC days yesterday our allowee was 9800 naira then here is the catch would you believe that the 9800 naira was more valuable than this 77k? A bag of rice was around 3600 you can eat decent meal with 50 at mama put with 20 or 30 naira you will get to your place of work. Exchange rate was less than 100 naira to a dollar.