Goodmarlian: I have known this from experience if she likes you she will avoid everything that will make her loose you even if she wants to play hard to get she will play it in a soft way
Are you sure you're experienced? Because you telling her that you had already friend zoned her since the day she refused coming to your house sends her the signal that you are only interested in knacking her. When she told you she can't date a guy like you should have responded "really?" and go silent afterwards ie you will stop calling or chatting her not even viewing her posts this way she will be in suspense and will become the one chasing you and that put you in a vintage position to achieving the ultimate goal entering the Honywell.
Jennyclay: Well, what is good for the goose, is also good for the gander
I can’t deal with a cheating man
Na them. One spotted. You can't stand a cheating man, fine but just quietly walk away from the marriage with your dignity intact rather than thinking or believing a terrible lie being told in recent times that a man and a woman are equal in marriage.
Ola9ja23: Either you like it or not the margins from SE won't be as 2023 bcs Tinubu is making inward to achieve that while Obi has lost the momentum he possessed in 23 in other states he won
Remember no more Labour and Christian rhetoric to galvanize about
Obi done cast 😂🤣
I hear you. But I would like to point out few things to you as someone from southeast and Enugu in particular: 1. Governor Peter Mbah did not win 2023 election at the polls though he is now the governor thanks to the Nigeria system. Chijioke of LP won that election even Peter Mbah knows this that's why he is fighting NDC very viciously in the state to prevent similar occurrence. 2. APC is generally viewed by an average southeastern person as a terrorist party or at best a political wing of a terrorist organisation and I think the APC leaders in the east should be telling the people there that their assumptions or opinions of the APC is wrong instead of campaigning for any non igbo candidate because it will be like pouring water on a stone as they say. My point is that APC presidential candidates thus far (Buhari and Tinubu) are not saleable in the east. Yemi Osinbajo would have been better received.
Chai!! I have been watching this particular movie of his AKWAEKE (gbo version) back to back for like three weeks now. The movie casted very talented actors who played their role very well actors like Chioma, Chinyere Wilfred, Tony Monaghan and many others. He acted his part very well in the movie Mama Sunday, you must weep no matter how hardened you are. I pray it turns out to be one of those rumour.
ChisomLexus: It used to be in church but now most of the guys you meet there are just gold diggers, they hide in one corner and take note of the single ladies who are driving cars that look expensive then start chasing them.
I have caught at least 4 guys doing this in my church
Wow! I think you might be right because your assertion reminds me of my former neighbour who wasn't doing much at the time but ended up marrying a mid level banker from his church who eventually became the breadwinner of the house.
fineboynl: The Nigeria inflation is not helping or encourage loan company. If you are not getting repayment latest 3 week time do not sell credit or borrow anyone money.
I ventured into a business 3 years ago.
And In other to have an edge over competitors i sold out massively on credits. Many never paid back even to this day.
Few days ago one of them called me to apologized and paid for his own. Surprisingly that money have lost it actual value upto 3 times.
I didn’t even said anything
The truth is that these same people will be mocking you at your back that you don't know how to run a business. It is better to reduce profit margin and collect instant cash than sell on credit. Just take it as Bus 101 lesson. I pray God comes through for you. It's not easy.
Oludiary: Statement of Events I was working with an elevator company as an Elevator Technician when I came to Nigeria. A few months later, I received a message on LinkedIn from a man who wanted to establish an elevator company. He told me he needed me to help build the company and serve as the Lead Elevator Engineer. I agreed to the offer, resigned from my previous employment, and joined his company. A few weeks after I resumed, I noticed that the man began involving me in some of his other businesses, including his paper business and other activities unrelated to elevator engineering. I did not initially complain, but this began affecting my career and the work I was employed to do.
I also observed how he treated some of his other employees. On several occasions, I witnessed him verbally harassing and physically mistreating staff, including slapping them.
Regarding my own employment, the man has little or no technical knowledge of elevator engineering. Whenever I made professional recommendations or raised concerns about technical decisions, he often rejected them. However, when the consequences of those decisions occurred, he would blame me heavily and make me feel as though I was incompetent or did not know what I was doing.
The major incident occurred on a Friday. After completing our normal schedule for the day, I planned to repair the company's generator because I knew we had a very demanding schedule on Monday and I wanted to ensure that the generator was functioning properly beforehand.
The man repeatedly ordered me to return to the office. I politely explained to him, "Sir, if we don't fix this generator now, it could delay us on Monday." Despite my explanation, he continued insisting that I return to the office. Based on the previous circumstances and my assessment of the situation, I refused to immediately leave the generator.
He then came out of his vehicle and approached me aggressively, appearing as though he wanted to physically assault me. I tried to move away from him to avoid a confrontation. However, he grabbed my clothing and pulled it forcefully, causing one of my buttons to come off.
There were police officers present at the scene. He ordered them to put me into his vehicle, but they refused after witnessing what had happened. He then called other police officers on patrol, who subsequently arrested me.
At the police station, he made several allegations against me, including an allegation that I was the person who assaulted him. I was detained from Friday until Monday. During this period, he allegedly gave money to the police officers. My mother eventually came to the station on Monday and secured my release.
I was told that he would only allow me to be released on the condition that I sign an undertaking stating that I would continue working for him. I was under significant pressure and had already spent several days in detention, so I agreed to sign the undertaking in order to secure my release.
Immediately after I signed the undertaking, his treatment of me became worse. At the end of the month, he deducted two days' pay from my salary. I asked him why the money had been deducted because, to the best of my knowledge, I had not missed those two working days. He told me that the deduction was for the days I had spent in police detention.
I became upset about this and returned to the police station to report the matter. However, the police were unable to recover the money for me.
I subsequently informed him that if he expected me to continue working for him, I wanted my salary to be paid weekly, with my monthly salary divided into four payments. He refused this arrangement. Since then, I have not resumed work.
I now believe that because the undertaking did not prevent me from stopping work, he has decided to pursue an assault case against me. I have now been invited to the police station tomorrow in connection with the alleged assault.
I maintain that I did not assault him. I attempted to avoid a physical confrontation when he approached me aggressively, and he was the person who grabbed my clothing and pulled it.
I am concerned about what may happen at the police station tommorow and would like proper legal advice and protection regarding my rights, the alleged assault case, the undertaking I signed under pressure, my unpaid/deducted wages, and the circumstances surrounding my previous detention.
What will happen if you don't go to the police station? What could have happened if you had resigned when you noticed the work wasn't what you anticipated and his bad temper? My honest advice to anyone who cares and values his career growth AVOID ONE MAN UNSTRUCTURED BUSINESS at all cost. Emphasis on UNSTRUCTURED.
Gbadugbakun: No primary school student handwriting is as good as this. Kids develop good handwriting when they enter secondary school not in primary when they're still learning how to write. It's obviously content.
Oga!! Speak for yourself oooh! Your assertion is not entirely correct.
Wrong!!! Read the question again. The question is to make a sentence with one of the answers to the previous question which fool was one of the words he listed that end with ool. So president would have been wrong note that the teacher marked him good.
There's this question I want to ask. Please can a woman choose a man whom she want to marry? Because there was a time I kept chasing my ex and she told me that I shouldn't pressure her,that shes the one who has the power to choose but I think she was wrong. From my own perspective so far,I think and believe it's a man who has the ability to choose the kind of woman he wants to settle down with and the time to do so.
So ,my brethren,what do you think about it ? Does a woman has the ability to choose the kind of man she wants to settle down with?
With this your PERSPECTIVE and manly ABILITY I honestly feel for the woman who will eventually say yes (CHOOSE YOU) to you.
Rapmoney: Gen Z children go think say na shrine be this. They wouldn't know that this is how the average Nigerian parlour (sitting room) looked like in the 70s, 80s, and early 90s.
Anybody that dared to ruffle those chair coverings or remove them would be severely dealt with by the Daddy or Mummy of the house. Fond memories of yesteryears.
If your parlour looked like this in those days it means your father was among the one percent of the one percent then. Truly life is ephemera Black Berry in my mind right now.
Finally finally all of them are the same even the ones you think are intellectuals among them will eventually stain your white. It was a similar order by the late IGP Tafa Balogun operation fire for fire that birthed the unprecedented extra judicial killings in Nigeria by police officers in units like SARS and it likes. Now they will kill and put a gun on the corpse the dead can't defend itself so whatever allegation will fly. God save us all from their hands.
Raydos: Driven by my usual adventurous streak, I headed out today to explore an old, abandoned ceramic factory near my place. I first learned about it from a local elderly woman, who told me it opened back in 1974 (exactly 52 years ago) and that her husband used to work there in the 80's
She shared a bunch of stories about how lively the place used to be, bustling with all kinds of people earning a living before it finally shut its doors around 2007.
Listening to her gave me this irresistible urge to sneak inside. I just had to explore it and get a firsthand sense of what it felt like when the machines were running, how the employees worked, and what their daily lives were like.
I bet it primarily shutdown due to importation of cheaper products from China into Nigeria market among other reasons.
It is appalling that Ononuga could only react to the allegation of ill treatment by PO he should have as well tell Nigerians how their finances are being managed and that Tinubu's savings will surpass that of PO when leaving office in 2027 both in USD and in Naira without leaving any debt behind or owing workers salaries and pensioners just like PO did.
givedemwotowoto: According to the X user, he lived in Lagos during Tinubu's time as governor between 1999 and 2007, and also during Fashola's time as governor.
In the video, he compares a rowdy and unkempt Oshodi under Tinubu, to an organized Oshodi just 1 year after Fashola took over as Governor.
So many of us who lived in Lagos when Tinubu was the State governor have first-hand witness of his reign. Glad video evidence is surreptitiously coming out. pic.twitter.com/xL5zsg0pup
The proponents of Tinubu build lagos know that he didn't do any physical development but their arguments are that he appointed the likes of Fashola and co who subsequently built lagos. In other words they are ascribing the glory due to other governors to him.
zoedew: This argument denies the reality of what it takes to win the Presidential election in Nigeria. Without securing the votes up north Peter Obi will not win. His wily ways are enough to put off Northern voters.
You are myopic or ignorant if your assertion is true then Buhari won't have been a serial contestant because from 2003 to 2011 he won the entire north each time he contested but contrary to your "reality" the northern votes couldn't win him the presidency.
Vixlot: Peter Obi, up to this moment, is pursuing the division of Nigeria because he believes in Biafra. He never condemns Biafra or IPOB, as he wants to divide Nigeria. He should come out and say if he doesn’t believe in the division of the country.
- Ali Modu Shariff, former Governor of Borno
Peter Obi, up to this moment, is pursuing the division of Nigeria because he believes in Biafra. He never condemns Biafra or IPOB, as he wants to divide Nigeria. He should come out and say if he doesn’t believe in the division of the country.
I don't blame this man it's the Nigeria system that I blame if not Ali Modu Sheriff who practically brought Boko Haram to Nigeria has no reason whatsoever to be outside the prison walls if not 6 ft. down already. I wouldn't be surprise if he vies for presidential election in 2031.
robosky02: Nigeria can host the Africa Cup of Nations, but it would require massive financial investment and facility upgrades. The Confederation of African Football (CAF) recently invited bids for the 2028, 2032, and 2036 tournaments. However, Nigeria must compete with countries like Morocco and South Africa
Current Standing and Challenges:
While Nigeria has successfully co-hosted the tournament previously (1980 and 2000), the country's recent track record for sports infrastructure has been a hurdle.
Recent Bids: Nigeria previously submitted a joint bid with the Benin Republic to host the 2027 AFCON. However, CAF ultimately awarded the 2027 hosting rights to Kenya, Uganda, and Tanzania, while Morocco is scheduled to stage the 2025
Strict Requirements: CAF requires host nations to present top-tier stadiums, advanced training facilities, accessible international airports, and modern hospitality infrastructure. The bidding process is now strictly vetted by independent experts like PwC to ensure operational viability.
Doable Action Plan
To successfully host a future AFCON (like 2028 or beyond), Nigeria would need to heavily upgrade facilities across the country. Key stadiums that would need significant overhauls or modernization to meet CAF’s 24-team tournament standards include:
Hosting a football tournament is not just about good stadia security is also a huge consideration and as it stands Nigeria is not safe so they shouldn't even try using AFCON bidding to siphon funds abeg.
Meritjoshua: thanks for the advice, but imagine finishing uni without experiencing any relationship, it doesn't actually make sense. even though the goal is to put academics over everything, building social, platonic and even sexually relationship in school is perfectly fine.
I strongly recommend you take his advice very serious because I wanted to advice you likewise but when I read his piece I decided to hold on and read comments since it is widely believed that a word is enough for the wise and I was happy when you reacted to it though I am not surprised with your stance because towards the end of your write up it became clear to me that you weren't seeking for advice per se but validation. Just heed his advice whatever life you want to experience I can assure you you will still experience even much more when leave school even better with good grades (na them go rush you) but if you lose focus by entangling yourself with a jealous woman......... Ghe ghe words come to mind.
Jman06: I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.
Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.
I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen
The Blessings shall be permanent in your life IJN. But always remember to treat her well don't be stingy towards her.
Ttalk: Obidient will tell you 10k from Obi has value more than 50k given by the first lady
10k from a Godly man will surely multiply for you in a business but 50k or more from an evil woman or evil and wicked family will not prosper in any business because their curse always follows their ill gotten wealth. Therefore, be mindful of whom you collect your seed capital from.
dododawa1: A screenshot allegedly showing the balance of VeryDarkMan’s NGO account has sparked widespread discussion online.
The image indicated that over ₦691 million had been credited to the account, with more than ₦671 million reportedly spent and less than ₦20 million remaining.
The development has reignited public interest in the activist’s NGO, particularly following Don Jazzy’s widely publicized ₦100 million donation in 2024.
Fresh discussions have emerged online after a screenshot allegedly showing the balance of the NGO account belonging to social media activist VeryDarkMan surfaced on Facebook.
The screenshot, shared by Facebook user Ekwutosi Oke C AdaNsukka, indicated that the account had received a total of ₦691,609,964.78, with ₦671,770,394.14 reportedly spent and a remaining balance of ₦19,939,570.64.
The figures quickly attracted attention on social media, with many users expressing surprise at the amount spent and raising questions about the account’s activities.
The renewed interest in the NGO account comes months after renowned music executive Don Jazzy donated ₦100 million to support VeryDarkMan’s initiative.
At the time, VeryDarkMan initially expressed concern about the large transaction and publicly called on Zenith Bank to investigate the payment, fearing it could be linked to money laundering or an attempt to set him up.
However, he later revealed a message from Don Jazzy confirming that the donation was genuine and intended to support the NGO’s activities.
The message reportedly read:
“Morning bro. Just saw your post. Na me send 100m to support. I believe in what you are doing.”
Beyond his NGO activities, VeryDarkMan has remained active in advocacy campaigns across the country. Recently, he led a protest in Ibadan, Oyo State, demanding stronger government action following the abduction of schoolchildren and teachers in Orire Local Government Area.
You are too quick to judge probably due to hate. If you're a VDM follower you would have heard him say something about Treasury bills. TB is FGN investment scheme powered by the CBN the ROI is guaranteed instead of the money laying idle in the bank and losing value due to inflation.
jesusjnr2020: Kid Scout Refuses To Bow To Allah During Mosque Visit, Goes Viral
A video making the rounds on social media showed a small boy of about 6-8 years, defying the order to bow for muslim prayers as his fellow scouts during their trip to a mosque.
He was seen standing alone with his hands in his pocket while the rest were following the lead of the imam and going to their knees and bowing down their heads.
He defiance seemed to incense a man standing right behind him in the mosque, who was seen making gestures with his hands towards the boy from behind.
meobizy: I always see you people mention them like both are completely different. Following your opinions, I should court someone I want to end up with rather than dating. Is dating then a waste of time?
I know people who dated and married each other. Did they skip the stage of courtship?
Whatever it means, I have come to understand that one is a polite way of saying we started having sex. For example you hear someone say we were friends for ....... then we started dating.
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