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CrimeRe: Four Men Gang-rape 15-year Old Girl In Lagos by bbbabes(f): 3:07pm On Jul 13, 2017
The day some guy tried it at Quilox to even touch me while dancing...I didn't say anything...
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I just left jejely with my boyfriend, and went to the Barracks to bring his friends.
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We came back and I went to lure one of the outside, he was used as a Bait to bring out others...na that day I know say Boiz dey curse themselves when they see beating.
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CrimeRe: Four Men Gang-rape 15-year Old Girl In Lagos by bbbabes(f): 3:05pm On Jul 13, 2017
Too bad
CelebritiesRe: Daniella Okeke Shows Off Her Backside In New Picture by bbbabes(f): 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2017
Elnida:
I concur
U hotter dan her..
let banana fall on U cool
Amen, Banana fall on me on Banana Island
CelebritiesRe: Christabel Ekeh: My Nude Pictures Are To Announce The 'New' Me by bbbabes(f): 2:01pm On Jul 13, 2017
Maybe cuz we don't know the old One and we still don't like the new one cuz she isn't that cool with the nudes. Those pix look like they were taken of Amoke, at Agbede Village in Ilesa, Osun state
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Come and learn from us
CelebritiesRe: Lady Calls Her Boyfriend A Nobody After Tekno Shared A Picture With Lola Rae by bbbabes(f): 1:45pm On Jul 13, 2017
Boyfriend is a nobody...that's too bad
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Hausa girls sha
CelebritiesRe: Harrysong Has Dumped Kcee In The Trash Where He Belongs - Desmond Ike by bbbabes(f): 1:03pm On Jul 13, 2017
Chai, this is Savagery...
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Develop yourself you no gree you are forming Chairman.
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Well, that's How I dump trashy exes too anyways
CelebritiesRe: This Hilarious Video Of Don Jazzy Dancing In The Studio Will Make You Laugh Hard by bbbabes(f): 11:39am On Jul 13, 2017
I am just the girl he needs by his side
PoliticsRe: Nigerian Air Force Locally Reactivates Unmanned Aerial Vehicles In Kaduna. Photo by bbbabes(f): 11:11am On Jul 13, 2017
So cute, just like me
CelebritiesRe: Taraji P Henson Replies Nigerian Guy Who Called Her Boobs Saggy. by bbbabes(f): 9:37am On Jul 13, 2017
pweetiedee:
No, she can't...not now at least. But later...abi na push up u wearhuh
What's ur blog URL
CrimeRe: Phone Thief Caught By Vigilante In Delta,His Face Disorganised With Beating(pics by bbbabes(f): 9:33am On Jul 13, 2017
At a point, his ears go dey ring, he would think the spirits were dialing his numbers
CelebritiesRe: Daniella Okeke Shows Off Her Backside In New Picture by bbbabes(f): 9:19am On Jul 13, 2017
Chascop:
what makes you perfect ma'am
Check for yourself naaa, no surgeries, no creams
CelebritiesRe: This New Photo Of Regina Daniels Shows She Is An Epitome Of Beauty by bbbabes(f): 9:16am On Jul 13, 2017
groomed:
How much do you make from your blog per month bro? Care to teach me your traffic tricks?
Bro??
CelebritiesRe: Taraji P Henson Replies Nigerian Guy Who Called Her Boobs Saggy. by bbbabes(f): 9:15am On Jul 13, 2017
The guy no lie naa, can she compare her booby with mine
CelebritiesRe: Daniella Okeke Shows Off Her Backside In New Picture by bbbabes(f): 8:47am On Jul 13, 2017
Na contours go full that yansh...Am just so perfect and I thank God
CelebritiesRe: Mayweather Is Following Wizkid On Instagram & He's Not Making Noise About It by bbbabes(f): 8:43am On Jul 13, 2017
He might not know.
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Besides we all different personalities
CelebritiesRe: Nana Otedola: DJ Cuppy Shows Off Her Mother by bbbabes(f): 8:40am On Jul 13, 2017
Cute, but not as much as I am
CelebritiesRe: This New Photo Of Regina Daniels Shows She Is An Epitome Of Beauty by bbbabes(f): 12:16am On Jul 13, 2017
CelebritiesRe: This New Photo Of Regina Daniels Shows She Is An Epitome Of Beauty by bbbabes(f): 11:38pm On Jul 12, 2017
Cute princess, so flawless
RomanceRe: This Hot Nigerian Lady's Weight Loss Photo Got People Confused by bbbabes(f): 10:15pm On Jul 12, 2017
What's confusing about this
RomanceRe: New Photos Of The Lady Who Used Frame To Get Married In Absence Of Her Groom by bbbabes(f): 10:09pm On Jul 12, 2017
Cute, the baby be like

Music/RadioRe: Wale Ft. Davido & Olamide – Fine Girl (official Video) by bbbabes(f): 10:01pm On Jul 12, 2017
Love this
CelebritiesRe: Photos From Kiss Daniel's Europe Tour In Berlin & Cyprus by bbbabes(f): 9:56pm On Jul 12, 2017
Ota lenu
RomanceRe: The Sugar Mummy Scam - Exposing The Lagos Sex Market Lucrative Offers by bbbabes(op): 9:09pm On Jul 12, 2017
RomanceThe Sugar Mummy Scam - Exposing The Lagos Sex Market Lucrative Offers by bbbabes(op): 9:08pm On Jul 12, 2017
Along major streets, on pavements beside the roads, on pedestrian bridges, and on notices posted on buildings and walls around the Lagos metropolis, there is almost always a note asking you to call a particular number or visit a website should you need a “sugar mummy”.

Even though initial information gathered identified Ebute Metta and Gbagada as the major hubs for the business, residents in those areas who were contacted last week said they were not aware.

“I have lived in this area (Ebute Metta) for more than twenty years now,” said Thomas Nwike who owns a fashion shop close to Alagomeji. “I know there are sugar mummies everywhere in Lagos; but I don’t think that this place is their headquarters or anything like that.”

Covert affair

It is not often possible to reach a sugar mummy directly, as many of them are represented by “agents.” It is the responsibility of these agents to “screen” prospective “sugar boys” and present them to the women.

According to findings, the boys are expected to be handsome, reliable, trustworthy, and “durable” in bed. The more influential women prefer university students or recent graduates who are unemployed.

The sugar boy’s fee is negotiable. Where the sugar mummy takes extra interest in him, she usually “buys” him off, by paying a large sum of money to the agent. For one-offs, however, payment is made per night, and it ranges from N80,000 to N180,000, depending on the status of the sugar mummy and the “quality” of the sugar boy.

Organised fraud

Investigation however shows that this “venture” has been infiltrated by a large network of fake agents who, on a daily basis, con unsuspecting “sugar boys” out of thousands of money.

Most of these agents are active on the internet, where several websites are dedicated entirely for this purpose. Indeed, information gleaned from a number of general dating websites showed that requests for sugar mummies and sugar boys are dominant.

For example, on adsafrica.com.ng, the category “Women Looking for Men in Lagos” had 1,344 requests, while “Men Looking for Women in Lagos” had only 667.

To understand better how this business operates, a correspondent posing as a prospective customer, contacted one of the agents and requested help to meet a sugar mummy.

The first agent who identified herself as Mrs Ruth spoke briskly, above what sounded like generator sounds in the background.

After she had determined that the person on the phone was unemployed, young, handsome, educated, and could last a minimum of four hours in bed, she said: “I will get you a sugar mummy. She is a fine woman who is very rich. You will like her.

"Just send me N500 recharge card. I will use it to call her and arrange for the two of you to meet. The money you will get from her is N80 000, per night. After this call, send me a text message. Include your name, age, location, and the recharge card I told you about. I will call you after I have talked with the madam, ok?”

When she did not immediately receive the text message she had asked for, she called, and when she was told the whole plan was still being considered, she lost her cool.

“You’re not serious. You think I have your time, abi? Nonsense-man!”

A second agent whose mobile number appeared up to eight different times on a website identified himself as Mr Mark. Most of the questions he asked were similar to those asked by Ruth. But it was observed that N500 was too much for him to use to set up the meeting, he brought it down to N400.

“You see, I want to help you,” he said. “You said you’re not employed, and I just want to help you. Just send the recharge card. Then send your full name, location and the hotel where you want to meet your sugar mummy. I will call her and you can meet her, even tomorrow. She will pay you N180,000 for the night, and you can pay us N40, 000 from it.”

Mark seemed the better choice; and so, the recharge card and all the information he requested were promptly sent to him. Two minutes after, he called back, and sounded quite pleased.

“I got your text message,” he said. “Thanks. But there is a form you have to fill. It’s eight thousand naira only. I will send you my account number. If you can pay early tomorrow, I will meet you at 12pm at the hotel with the form. The sugar mummy will be there too. She is a rich woman; just tell her what you want; don’t be afraid; she will help you. She has companies, and since you said you’re a graduate, she can even help you get a job.”

Asked if it would be possible to pay him upon receipt of the N180, 000, he said, “No, this N8,000 must be paid before you meet her. It is for your form. The sugar mummy will bring the form to the hotel for you to fill. But because I know you are not employed, I can take N5,000 from you and I will use my N3,000 to complete it for you.”

There were several contradictions in his story. At a point he said the form would be brought to the hotel by him; at another he said it would be brought by the sugar mummy herself. Meanwhile, his text message which arrived minutes later read: “Maneger details: Uzoya, Bleep acc 0049288XXX. Bleep Bank plc.” Strangely, it did not contain the name “Mark.” Even more puzzling, a caller-identity application (Truecaller) identified the owner of Mark’s mobile number as “Bleep Adebayo”.

When he was never contacted again nor paid the agreed sum, he continued to call throughout the day. When, however, he was finally contacted later in the day on Thursday and confronted with all the conflicting facts, he flared up:

“I was just trying to help you, and you are talking rubbish. You have to be a man… you have to be a man… What are you talking…? You have to be a man…” He spoke mostly the same words for a long time, repeating “You have to be a man” many times.

Caring mothers

There is, it would seem, a variant of this practice which, observers say, is beginning to gain ground in parts of Lagos and beyond. Mr Kola Aderibigbe, an engineer who lives at Ogba, Lagos, on Wednesday, revealed that this type (called “caring mother”) revolves around a woman whose husband has abandoned “because she is richer and arrogant”.

“In a way, their husbands have set them free,” Aderibigbe explained. “It may be because she is proud, or because she is running after other men, or so many other reasons. So what the woman does is to find a young man who will move in with her. The man plays the role of father to the woman’s children, while the woman takes care of him financially.”

New world order?

Observers might say that there is something disconcerting about this turn of events. Has the growing influence of women in politics, business and other fields wrought a situation where men have become more willing to sacrifice their traditional position as the “dominant s*x”?

However, Joshua Omidire, who recently completed a postgraduate programme in English at the University of Lagos, attributed this shift to the economic situation in the country.

“We all know that the boy has no need for enjoyment of sex with those older women; his girlfriend will give him that. What is important is money. So, unemployment is one of the factors that lead these young guys into it. Young guys actually wake up in the morning and go to their place of work which is a sugar mummy’s apartment.

“What is the shame when you can’t feed your belly and an older woman offers you sexual pleasure and money? People don’t write it on their foreheads. Many of the big boys in town are s*x slaves of sugar mummies.”

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Idonbiliv
CelebritiesRe: Demmie Vee: Greeting Lil Kesh Was My Biggest Regret Ever by bbbabes(f): 8:04pm On Jul 12, 2017
Whatever...u don't have a name yet
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Work harder
CrimeRe: Five Adeyemi College Students Gang-rape Lady, Record Act On Tape by bbbabes(f): 7:48pm On Jul 12, 2017
Break their peshleme
RomanceRe: Lady Asks Her Dead Boyfriend's Ghost To Kill His Assailants (Photos) by bbbabes(f): 7:33pm On Jul 12, 2017
Ok
CelebritiesRe: Kenney Rodriguez Apologizes To Uche Jombo For The Breakup Rumors Flying Around by bbbabes(f): 7:31pm On Jul 12, 2017
All na stunts
PoliticsRe: FG Releases N1.6bn For States Ravaged By Flood by bbbabes(f): 6:46pm On Jul 12, 2017
Is Maiduguri included
CelebritiesRe: Osita Iheme & A Lady Chill In Hotel Room In Rwanda (Photo, Video) by bbbabes(f): 6:44pm On Jul 12, 2017
I can't laff jere
RomanceGrieving Lady Asked Her Dead Boyfriend's Ghost To Kills His Assailants by bbbabes(op): 5:46pm On Jul 12, 2017
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A grief-stricken and heartbroken partner of a young man named Victor, who recently died has taken to Facebook to mourn the death of her soulmate. Ifunanya, a resident of Lagos, who hails from Enugu State, posted series of moving tributes on Facebook, in which she described her man's death as very painful.

Ifunanya didn't state how the young man died, however, in one of the photos posted, he was on a hospital bed all bandaged up.

In a seperate post on her Facebook wall, Ifunanya called on the victim to haunt those responsible for her death.
Meanwhile, the last posts of the deceased, who went by the Facebook name Srt Vic Stans, was on Sunday, July 9th. It reads:
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"May we never lack because nobody cares about you"

Earlier same day he posted:

"Life is far too short to be sad, to be mad, to hold regret, to look back, to be depressed, to be unkind. Be nice and do good. Everyday is new. Happy Sunday"

See more of Ifunanya's touching posts and photos below..
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http://www.blackberrybabes.com/2017/07/grieving-lady-asked-her-dead-boyfriends.html

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