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There are a few type of sex every woman should experience at least once in her life time.

Make-up sex
It’s what happens when that thin line between anger and passion is crossed and the result is most often spontaneous and mind blowing.

Vacation Sex
Sex in paradise with a gorgeous man who makes you sweat can often be the most thrilling kind. it’s exotic and exciting.

Honeymoon Sex
There is nothing like the feeling of bliss that arrives when two soul mates become one.

We Might Get Caught Sex
You know that moment when the sparks are flying between you but you just can’t sneak away. Toss those inhibitions and do it anyway. Go find your own little corner of heaven and steal a moment all your own. Sure, you might get caught, but that’s really the fun of it, after all.

You’re Gonna Miss Me Sex
Sometimes the sex can be good even when the relationship is not. If you’re parting ways with an ex for good, makes your last time the very best time. Give him all you’ve got as a friendly reminder of what he’ll soon be missing.

Sex On the Beach
There’s something about the sound of the ocean waves rolling back and forth against the sand that really sets the mood and the pace when it comes to outdoor love making,

Shower Sex
If you haven’t had a round of I want you so bad, lets stay until the water gets cold shower sex yet, you’re seriously missing out.

Role-Play Sex
Grab your man and act out your wildest sexual fantasy.

The Quickie
So you only have five minutes? That’s enough time to squeeze in some fun. Go for it!


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1. Makeup Remover
Gently press the makeup remover on your eyelids. Move it back and forth, to remove the mascara and the eye makeup in general.

2. Coconut Oil
Add a drop or two of coconut oil on a cotton pad, gently wipe your eyelids until the false eyelashes come out.

3. Lukewarm Water
If your false eyelashes are still hanging, don’t pull them! Just wash your face very gently with Luke-warm water and a facial wash. The warm water will dissolve any traces of false eyelashes glue.

4. Moisturize
Apply a moisturizer that is suitable for your face type after cleansing your face.

5. False eyelashes glue remover.
The one by one false eyelashes are fixed using a much stronger glue, so you’ll need to buy a false eyelashes glue remover, to avoid damaging your own eyelashes.



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1. Select your niche.

You should define your overall strategy, set some goals, see what others are doing, be realistic as to how much and what type of content you can create exactly. Why choose one niche? It’s much better to start with a particular topic and grow from there over time.

The thing is, there are too many blogs that cover all topics at once. Some of them are pretty popular and with tons of articles in their archives, so you can’t aim to beat that from day one.

The smarter approach to getting your blog off the ground is to be strategic about it. The topic you start writing about will be what people will soon connect your name and brand with. So make sure it’s something you know enough about, which you’re passionate and care about, and that’s evergreen and an issue enough people want to learn more about.

2. Make it informative and valuable.

Short blog posts with no actual advice aren’t something that will catch your readers’ attention. In fact, so many sites try this and just create content like crazy but put no time or real meaning in it, that you can consider these spammy. And Google would never rank them high because it wants to put on top only quality pages with enough words and a good link structure.

This means that you should build the right mindset starting today. Accept content marketing as a lifelong strategy and journey, which will benefit your business and authority in more ways than you can imagine.

The surest and most genuine way to get the right eyeballs is to write valuable, long-form posts on the topic, and inspire and give practical tips and steps with each.

3. Know who you’re writing for.

There are people out there whose lives will be much better if they find, buy and use your products. They just don’t know about it. Some haven’t even thought that the solution is what you’re offering, so you need to find them, define their problem clearly and say how you can help.

To get to them, however, you need to know who these people are exactly.

That’s when you should create a reader’s and buyer’s persona.

Who’s your ideal customer? What’s his daily life, career, age, financial status, etc.?

What are his dreams, fears, goals, relationships? Where does he live and what does he want to change about his life? Where does he spend time online and what type of content is he consuming?

Take some time to figure all that out in the beginning, and start writing articles, creating information products (that you’ll give for free), publishing insightful posts on social media, and even paying for audio and video content production at some point.

Marketing research matters and, as you see, you should consider both the demographics and the psychological profile of your ideal customer.

4. Using your blog as a tool to improve your brand.

Make sure your blog looks professional, but don’t overdo it. When it comes to a blog, people are there to read, and nothing else.

Take your time when finding and choosing images too. They speak to people on a deeper level than words most of the times.

Formatting plays a big role too. Make the article skim-friendly (short paragraphs, headings and subheadings, bold and italics for key parts, etc.) as most people go through so many posts every day that there’s just no time to read them thoroughly. So they just skim the page to get the main idea. Make it easy for them to do that and they’ll check other pages on your site too.

The language you use when writing must be the right one. Don’t be pushy when talking about your business or mentioning products. Instead, simply include suggestions and links in the right places. After you’ve built trust with free stuff and great advice, people will be more likely to click on these and check out what else you’re offering.

So that’s how you start and run a blog successfully and use it to build a name for yourself.


http://www.xobeabeth.com/2017/06/how-to-start-successful-blog-and-build.html

2 sentences I hate to hear. WHO INSTAGRAM FOLLOWERS EPP and POPULARITY ISN'T SUCCESS. Huh B! Before Instagram, a lot of people were dreamers and didn't know how to achieve their dreams. A lot of people were funny and had ideas but nobody to watch or see how great they could be.


The more followers you get the more people get to see your dream and want to be part of it. You can basically sell every, and anything on Instagram.

There are brand influencers who make money from just looking and feeling good. I Laura went from making thousands on Instagram to now making millions from just doing what I love. Being happy!

I Laura have met so many friends on Instagram that some of them are now my close friends in fact I call them family.

I got my fashion store @lauraikejigang from the money I made on Instagram advertising people's products.

I go out in the streets and some people recognise me from being the girl from Instagram.

I get VIP treatment most times I travel.

The best part is helping people smile when they’re on my page.

A lot of people's lives have changed cos they use Instagram to their advantage.

Don't hate participate.

Who followers help Me and I need more.

Note: Try to get real followers and show them the real you. You'd be glad.

http://www.xobeabeth.com/2017/05/be-inspired-laura-ikeji-shared-how.html

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The fashion industry is a very competitive field and in order to become successful, you must have the talent, passion, creativity, skills and ability it takes to do the job.

Passion is very important to succeed in the fashion industry, as the days can be very long and the hours grueling. If you don't love what you do, you're likely to burn out quickly.

Highly Creative: Creativity and an eye for what is visually appealing is important in every aspect of the business. Your creativity and sense of style can influence even written materials and promotional ads.

Strong Drawing Skills: You need preliminary fashion skills, including the ability to sketch ideas. You should be comfortable sketching out your thoughts to help explain your ideas.

Good Eye for Detail: In fashion, detail is everything. That's true of the clothes and the business. You will often have to juggle multiple projects at once that require your constant attention, making sure nothing falls through the cracks.

Understanding of Texture, Color and Quality Fabric: Whether you're a designer or a public relations specialist, fashion interns should understand the basics of fabric quality, textures and complementary colors in order to talk and write intelligently about the products.

Strong Visualization Skills: When dealing with garments and fashion events, you have to be able to visualize what the finished product will look like so you can plan accordingly.

Excellent Communication & Interpersonal Skills: Your interpersonal communication skills are essential. As an intern, you'll be dealing with people at different levels in the company, as well as outside designers and vendors.

Good Sense for Business: It's important to have an understanding of current trends so you can pinpoint what will be the next big thing. Understanding that fashion is a business and not just about creating beautiful clothes is important for your success.

Competitive Spirit: The fashion industry is competitive, often with many interns competing for just one position at the end. You need to be able to handle the pressure while remaining gracious and professional.

Ability to Work Well With a Team: One of the key fashion skills you'll need is the ability to collaborate with others effectively. You'll be part of an extensive team that works very closely together on major projects and in meetings.

Knowledge & Interest in Current Fashion Trends: While you don't need to be a slave to the recent trends yourself, you should be aware of what's going in the fashion world in order to have the right perspective when coming up with ideas. Keeping up with the fashion world is essential in order to better understand what other designers are doing and what current customers are buying.

http://www.xobeabeth.com/2017/05/10-important-skills-you-need-to-succeed.html

I was born in Port Harcourt into a family of girls and wad given the name Ibiso meaning Heavens Good Fortune by my most eldest sister because I was born in time of affluence; comfort and life was with me being dotted on as the last child.

When I was 9 years old my parents began to witness challenges with finances which led my sisters and I to start hawking on the streets of Port Harcourt inorder to support the family.
I graduated in 1999 with a degree in Physics Education. Back then in school I'll assist friends to pick clothes to wear and how to match which surprising I've always loved even as a younger child. After my graduation in 1999 I got blessed with my Husband in 2000.
From my early years I'd always wanted to be an entrepreneur. I tried my hands in different things which failed. At a point in time I retained clothes, shoes etc from my friends to retail. I also started a butchery in Port-Harcourt which I had to close down due to my husband's transfer to Lagos.
With my Education background and love for children, I decided to attend a Montessori Training programme to develop the skill to teach younger children and ultimately to start a school. I picked up an assignment in a school in Ikeja GRA, I enjoyed teaching. With this I still felt something was missing.
Friends, colleagues and generally anyone who came in contact with me noticed my fashion sense. I tried styling people who will call me to ask what they can wear and what accessories to use. As I assisted more people, I remember friends asking me "what are you doing in the classroom?" As time went by it became clearer to take fashion as a business with the encouragement of my husband.

I resigned from my teaching job in June 2014, cleared up my garage, bought machine and employed a tailor. Ibiso Solar fashion label began in September 2014.

http://www.xobeabeth.com/2017/04/entrepreneur-spotlight-ibiso-solar-ceo.html

There are lots of perks to being a fashion/style influencer from the free clothes to event invitations and connecting with other fashion bloggers but it is not easy at the beginning stage.

The Reward Is Not Immediate
You will need to invest your time, resource, energy and even work for free most of the time. Don’t worry about that, you are building up your portfolio. It is important to make friends with fellow bloggers, network and connect at events, mingle with publicists and brands on social media and utilize the network you’ve already built. Be consistent, improve on your picture quality this is important as brands will reach out for collaborations based on what they see, be patient and your breakthrough will surely happen.

Invest in your brand
If you are going to be successful as an Influencer, you will have to invest money into your brand. Your site design, domain name, logo, trademark, (hair, makeup, manicure, pedicure –if your brand is based off of your personal appearance), business cards, thank you notes, media kit, promotions and continuing education courses will all be valid expenses when starting up your business. Before the companies start blowing up your inbox, you will have to be your own biggest supporter and sponsor.



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My name is Abimbola “Bimms” Ipaye. I am the Managing Director of “Traditions by Bimms”. I started 3/4 years ago but I’ve been on my own since I was 14 years old. I have paid my own way through since then. I would fetch water, run errands just to make money because at that time, there was no other way to survive. I had a very difficult childhood but I allowed nothing break me, I just kept pushing.

When I was in the University, I still had to send money home to my siblings and mum. The business I did then was sewing and selling Ankara patched skirts to people. After I graduated, I got a contract job in a pension company but I got tired of the job.

One day, I saw my then boyfriend’s mum making beads and felt she could do it better, so I went to the market with N15, 000, bought materials and made 3 beads out of that. I wore one of the beads on myself and people started requesting I make the beads for them.

Soon, I started hanging around a family friend who makes Aso Oke just so I can watch her work and learn. Even though I was running errands a lot, I still picked up all the lessons I could at every opportunity I got

Then, I left to start my own business. This was a very difficult time for me. I cried so much and almost committed suicide because I was working so hard but there was no result. But just at that point, things began to gradually turn around. I believe 100% in what the Bible says that the gift of man makes way for him. Breaking boundaries with Aso-Oke is something I completely enjoy doing but I could have only gotten here with God’s help


I started from my room, and then moved to a BQ and then here we are. I was not in a hurry, I never borrowed money but I started small from where I was. Today, I look at the outcome and I cannot believe what I see. The reward of making brides and their families happy is more than money though; it is the prayers I get from my happy clients. Because I’ve been cursed so much, these prayers give me calm and joy in my soul.

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1. Stop Taking Each Other Down
If anyone should be there for a woman, it is another woman. As women, we need to stop taking each other down with our words and actions and rather focus on lifting each other up. The world would be a much better place if we all did that.

2. Stop Comparing
As women, we find it so easy to look at ourselves and compare varying qualities that other women possess. Each of us is created in our own unique and special way. Let us try taking the time to realize the unique qualities that each of us has rather than comparing.

3. Fighting Over Guys
Obviously, if your best girlfriend has an affair with your guy, you have every right to scream and yell. That kind of betrayal warrants anger, for sure. But most times, we should take our anger out on our partners rather than the other girl. Also, knowingly going after another woman’s significant other is bad. Blaming the “other woman” when the man cheats. First of all, the girl may not have even known he was in a relationship. Why is it that so many girls hate the “other woman” and yet stay with the man? The guy is the one who said he loved you, who vowed commitment to you, and who betrayed you. Stop seeking revenge on the “other woman” and face the reality of the situation.

4. Making comments about other women’s bodies
There are very polite ways to make a compliment on another woman’s weight. But saying “oh my gosh you’re so skinny” or “wow, you’ve added so much weight!” might be more hurtful than we think it is.

5. Withholding Compliments
Not only is it bad to compliment someone negatively, it is also wrong to withhold good compliments. If your girlfriend has a really nice hairstyle on, or has lost some weight and is looking great, go ahead and say it to her.

6. Telling Each Other’s Secrets
It’s really sad to confide in someone and find out that the person has let out your secret to the wrong person. Ladies, let’s not do this to ourselves. If a friend tells you something in confidence and requests your discretion, show her the respect that she deserves.

7. Not Being Supportive
Be happy for other women and the achievements that they work hard for. It’s your friend’s wedding, birthday, graduation, store opening and because you feel a certain way about that achievement or milestone, you don’t give our support.

8. Stop Competing
I wish I could scream this. Not everything in life is a competition. No one has to really ‘win’ that best dressed award or most expensive bag title. Focus on your own qualities that are unique and special to you.

9. Comparing Our Bodies
Hey ladies, we really need to stop this. Many of us have done harmful things to our bodies in a bid to look like the next person. Love who you are and don’t think you need to look like anyone else.

10. Stop Hating
I really didn’t know what to title this, It might not be the appropriate word to use, but have you noticed that some women just don’t like other women for absolutely NO REASON? I’ve heard this a lot of times “I don’t like that lady” and when you ask why, the response is “I don’t know, I just don’t like her“. Maybe she walks or talks in a certain way that you don’t feel comfortable with and because of that, you conclude that you don’t like her even though you hardly know her.

11. Slut-shaming. Let her make her own decisions and stop feeling like it’s your given right to express your disapproval. Here’s a motto to live by: Not your vagina, not your business.

12. Trying to make each other jealous via Instagram photosIt usually starts like this, “I’m gonna take this photo ‘cause this guy I like is gonna see it and then he’s gonna fall in love with me. Or text me.” We’ve all done it. But then, there’s another level that’s the really, really bad kind and that’s when the intention turns into “I’m gonna do this ’cause the girl he’s dating isn’t as good as me and when he sees it he’ll know.” Don’t do that to your sister, you don’t know her. Or maybe you do and maybe she does suck. Don’t manipulate how awesome you are by trying to make her look silly, just keep being awesome. It’ll speak for itself.

13. Private messaging other people’s boyfriends
Unless this guy is your close friend and his girlfriend is not only comfortable with you, but knows you, a private Facebook message isn’t necessary. It isn’t an email that’s more formal, it isn’t a text that’s open and direct, a Facebook message is something that lingers. It opens doors. It’s late night chats when you’re feeling lonely and something his girlfriend will most likely never see. Don’t do that. Anything you can or want to say to him should be okay enough to say publicly, if it isn’t, you shouldn’t say it. Private conversations are a relationship privilege, you’re not in one with him.


http://www.xobeabeth.com/2017/04/13-things-women-need-to-stop-doing-to.html

My last relationship taught me that I am enough. I don't have to prove myself to a man or change myself for him. If he doesn't see my awesomeness, his loss, my gain, thank God, move on!!

My love life is not up for negotiations you are either going to love the hell out of me or leave me alone.

I am not responsible for fixing someone that has scars from their past. God is the super glue, and I am tape. It takes a deep healing from the inside. I am not responsible to act like God and be the glue.

I am worth more than the minimum and deserving of the very best! Whether that be affection, effort or otherwise. Demand that you be treated as such.

Trust the instincts God gave you. If something is fishy about that person.....it's fishy.

Value yourself. If he consistently makes you miserable, God could never have sent him to you. He was never the one. No matter how many signs you think you have or how many confirmations they claim to have or how many men of God see y'all together If he doesn't treat you like his own flesh, He's not God's promise to you...run and stop the cycle of deceit.

If he's not matching your efforts or putting in any effort it's one sided and you need to move on.

Never give so much of yourself to a person that you don't have anything left to give yourself when it's over. You can't pour from an empty cup.

When you love honestly there's nothing to regret. You can thank them for their time, the wonderful memories, and the lessons learned. Then gracefully move on with a clear conscience.

Expect the unexpected and never let someone walk over you. No matter how bad you want the relationship to work. Let them go if they want to leave!

Not everyone has the same heart as me. People will lie about their education, finances, upbringing, etc. just to be more appealing. You can't help insecure people who don't want to change. Insecure people will lie to be appealing. Inferiority complex is a deal breaker. A man, who's not concerned about his future, won't be concerned about yours and he's not going places.

When a person constantly points out all your faults and insecurities and blames you for his moods and everything that goes wrong in the relationship because they doing nothing wrong then it's not you, it's them.

Don't allow a person make you feel like all you do is make mistakes.

Don't forget that life is not a fairy tale. You must be with someone who has goals and know where he is going. Otherwise the two of you will fall down and will not have something to show forth.


http://www.xobeabeth.com/2017/04/20-valuable-lessons-my-last.html

1. The Gossiper⠀⠀
If they are talking about others to you, trust they are also talking to others about you. What makes you think you get exclusive rights to their loyalty? Sorry to break it to you, but you don’t. If they’re eager to share someone else’s business they’d be all the more eager to share yours. Don’t engage. Nod, smile, play clueless, be vague and write them off as “knowing where to keep them.”

2. The Pessimist⠀
⠀Sure, every job has those few (or many) aspects that you wish were different, but if your co-worker tends to constantly find everything wrong, something’s wrong. No one likes a Negative Nancy. Ask yourself why are they still here if it’s just that bad? Don’t allow yourself to be the company for their misery. It’s contagious and fruitless.
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3. The Suck-up⠀
Understand that these people will often do anything to obtain the approval of the boss, even if it means throwing you under the bus. Yes, you, ideally, want your boss to like you, but at what cost? Align yourself with those who prefer to let their work speak louder than their mouths.⠀
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4. The Idle⠀
Why does this person never have anything to do? In a workplace, that’s a little weird. The person who tends to spend most of the day floating around the office or hanging out at your desk is either avoiding or displacing their work. These employees typically are distractions and bad influences. Also, if you notice that they’re rarely working, others, including your boss, likely notices too. Never forget that association brings on assimilation. Keep your distance if only to preserve your reputation.⠀
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5. The Thief⠀
There is always that one co-worker who does little but claims lots. Avoid allowing this type of worker into your space. Their antics are frustrating as they’re constantly on the prowl for your ideas, your resources, and your energy. This simply can’t fly. It’s all fun and games until they’re taking credit and being promoted for all the hard work you’ve done. Feel free to keep your brilliance to yourself.⠀
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6. The Leech
They're setting themselves up to be your understudy and will be the first to turn on you. They will act innocent and naive but they truly know what they're doing. They know what cards to play in order to look like the sweet, innocent docile damsel in distress once they do turn so that if you do try to call them out you look like a hater and handicap yourself even more. Long story short, make no friends inside of the work place. Stay amicable acquaintances and hang out with your friends after work at happy hours and brunches.

7. The Worrier.
No confidence in performance. Afraid to try things differently. Believing the world will end with the tiniest of mistakes.

8. The conversationalist.
Just talks non-stop & you couldn't care less about their personal life, weekend plans or their small talk. One word answers won't shut them up either. They can't take a hint.


http://www.xobeabeth.com/2017/03/8-types-of-coworker-you-should-avoid-in.html

Nothing arouses a man more than knowing that a woman is aroused by him and ready for action. Men love to see that they can pleasure and affect a woman. By texting him that you are on fire for him, he'll know you're ready for the good stuff.

Texting plays an important role in modern romance. It has the power to bring closeness, heighten intimacy, and multiply the sexual energy between you and your partner. Learn how to send texts that will get him hot, excited, and fantasizing about you instantly no matter where he is or what he is doing.

I feel like something's missing in my life. Namely you. Between my legs.

If I were with you right now, where would you want me to touch you?

I want to get naked with you right now.

Confession: I’ve been naughty today and probably deserve a spanking. If only there were someone to do it.

I'm listening to a song that makes me think totally dirty thoughts about you! If you were here we'd probably make some of them reality

Guess what I'm thinking? OK I'll give you a hint. It involves my tongue and you, naked.

Sometimes I can't help but touch myself when I think about you.

Work sucks. Especially when I'm getting distracted thinking about this hot guy I know and his fantastic body.

All I can think about is doing filthy things to you when I get home from work.

I'd rather be in bed with you right now.

What do you want me to do to you tonight?

I figured us out today! -- I think we should just be friends with sexual tension

If you were here right now, we definitely would not flirt at all, or hug for a little bit too long, or stare deeply into one another's eyes, or anything
fun like that.

Wanna know what I wanna do with you later? Too bad! You'll have to wait and find out.

I keep having this recurring dream that you're trying to get me naked . . . weird.

My clothes are coming off the second you get home.

I need you inside of me right now

Your messages have me so distracted.

What are you doing for dinner tonight? I thought about getting reservations for my bedroom but wanted to make sure you were available.

Good morning! I'm not wearing a bra today. Just thought you should know.

Was just thinking about seeing you tonight and all of the sudden I was completely undressed.

Tonight, let me do all the work. We're going to take it so slow you're going to scream.

I love your body.

I'm naked right now.

Remember that crazy thing I told you about that I wanted to try with you . . . I think tonight might be the night.

Is it weird that all I can think about is last night? I keep replaying it my head over, and over, and over, and over, and over, and over . . .

When you come over today I want to start in bed. Just FYI.

I want you right now.

My hands. My hips. My lips. Your body. Tonight.

I've got something to show you. It's a surprise, and you're going to have to UnCloth me to find it.

Nothing gets me hotter than thinking about you.

You should probably clear your schedule for tomorrow morning, because I plan on staying up late with you tonight. Very late.

Let me be clear: when I see you later, I'm going to UnCloth you button by button. I'm going to unzip your pants and take them off leg by leg.

I'm going to take off your boxers and throw them against the wall. What happens next is all up to you.

I'm touching myself right now. Wish you were here

If you're not busy later I was hoping to make passionate love to you. I hope that's okay with you.

If you could do anything to me what would you do?

I'll invite you over on one condition: you may not keep your hands to yourself. In fact, you need to tell me exactly where you're going to put them.

I'm watching HBO right now and getting a lot of ideas for things we could do together

Do you believe in love at first sight, or do I need to walk by again?

I got eight hours of sleep last night in preparation for the rager that I'm preparing to have with you starting at 8 p.m. this evening.

On the agenda for tonight: polite conversation followed immediately by impolite bedroom antics.

You so hot 'n sexy. You make me talk like cave-woman.




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Stop listening to these "quit your job" gurus. There is nothing wrong with working a 9-5 and you need your 9-5 to fund your 6-10 in the beginning.

When you're in the beginning stages of your business, that's the broke, don't know, need help, have no clue stage so why would you quit your job in that state of mind?

These gurus tell you to quit your job but once you quit and don't have any money left to pay them for their services, they are nowhere to be found. They tell you to quit your job, follow your dreams, stop punching that clock for the man, that job is holding you back and all of that is BS.

You are holding you back, not that job. You can work your 9-5 and still have your own business.

Work your 9-5 and your business for as long as you can together. There is nothing wrong with a job check and your business check at the same time.

Do what works for you and your business on your time. Stop letting these people that don't pay your bills dictate how you live your life.

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I didn’t make my first million in my first year of blogging. Heck, not even for the next two years. When people ask me, ‘why blogging?’ and I say, ‘because blogging chose me,’ they think I’m trying to sound poetic.

See, I have tried doing different things for money in this life. When my accounting journey ended in school, what I became was a certified hustler. I didn’t quite get the theories but I got the maths; I knew first hand that you profit when you meet a demand. So I would go to Abeokuta to trade with the locals and bring fabric to sell to my Lagos folks. Church was my shop. I would attend multiple services just so I could go round with my adire and sweet talk ladies into buying. That way, I multiplied my pocket money over and over. Soon I was tired of the numerous road trips and I thought up another venture.

Costume jewellery was becoming fashionable again. I decided to teach myself the art of bead making. I would experiment with different colours and styles and then model it myself by wearing them to school. Trust students to ask, ‘where did you buy this. How much is it?’ Of course, I started receiving orders.

Some people see me today and think I was ‘lucky’ and everything came easy for me.
Can you believe I even auditioned for Project Fame in 2010? I went through the same obstacles every young person goes through. I did not find it easy at all and kept trying all sorts of trade just to stay afloat and to stop burdening my parents. After numerous try and fails, a media apprenticeship in 2008 paid off when it landed me in the digital space. I learnt marketing and media on the job and these lessons formed my foundation for blogging.

My hustle started from nothing and then I created something out of it. My tenacious never-say-never spirit has certainly paid off. I am more comfortable than I dreamt my adire business would make me. But even now, the hustle still continues. The reward for hustle is more hustle.

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Everyone doesn't have to know who you're dating; it’s ok to be private. Sure, there will be those that'll assume you've got nothing going on and single, so what, let them! It sure beats looking loose as a goose and posting a new bae every couple of months, like some flava of the month! Besides, when your king truly finds you and you know he's the one; no one will take you seriously.

They'll think he's just this seasons picking. I'm all for posting your significant other if you have time invested and an actual relationship, I love to see you happy. Just be cautious announcing things in its developmental stages. You both need time to know one another and shouldn't allow people to disrupt your dating stage.


Lastly, be mindful of your new boo's anxiousness to post him. Girrrrl, he may just be using you to get new followers and have his DM explode! You are inviting and giving him access to 1000's of women. If you say "whatever if he goes astray, he wasn't mine anyway!" Yes, I get it but.....you haven't even built a solid foundation to withstand another woman yet thousands? I'm just helping you keep your mind sharp when your heart sometimes takes over your brain.

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