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Hmm strange to us but i think their are familiar with such situation cause from her story her pastor once had a battle with such spirit and he fainted.I guess the pastor will be afraid because of his previous experience.

For the past one month now there have not been a regular power supply yet the brought the same usual bill.

It seems our elite politicials are also enjoying these madness!

It's obvious his an agent of evil. Like every evil leaders, nations or the people of North Korea will declare war against him at the right.

MrsChima:
Okay...go beat and rap3 your housemaid...you sounds sexually frustrated.

You don't have to talk to me you know.

Because your father beat and rape you and your Nigga boy friend beat and rape your daughter doesn't make all men rapists. Is only Ashawo in Nigeria that demonstrate such irritating mannerisms. No wonder you are insensitive and brainless.

MrsChima:
Nigga...leave that weed alone because you are reading shit from a dyslexic point of view.

You have nothing to stand on and making up shit as you go. You can't show one thing that was different in my posts on this thread and I have maintained through the whole argument that women have a choice and don't have to take their husband's surname and you bishing about me choosing to accept my husband's name with my father's.

you are the first fo.olish lady i've ever come across on NL and you claimed to have a husband,Fo.olish prostitute. I blame myself for not realising how stupi.d you could be the moment i red your your post. I guess you've not taken your drugs that why you are reacting this way.

MrsChima:
I don't t have to justify shit to you and anyone else. Stay out of my marriage and focus on yours. (If you got one)

Secondly, I have said it several times and I swear some of you mofis are cerebral. I said a woman can choose to keep her father's name or take her husband's name. If she doesn't take her husband's name it is her choice! Not one time I have said women shouldn't take their husband's name. If many of you weren't so quick to be at your chest like apes...you would comprehend that!

Using words or inappropriate example. Respect is reciprocal my friend. Am careful with my choice word but it seems to me this is your nature. It only go along way to show your kind of person.

MrsChima:
Both.

I thought you were even bearing your father's name to justified all what you've said.

MrsChima:
I can imagine what YOUR home appears to be. Don't worry about my home and my husband is the man of the house and I am the woman of the house. We do not have any discord in our home and we highly respect each other!

Now getting back to what you appears to be confused about and that's why I like fighting with Christians who think they know the bible only to regurgitate what others think a family home should be. As I must add not every family is Christian. The bible doesn't work on those of Islam or Buddhist faith to name a few.

Genesis speaks of the parties leaving their parents home and cleaved as one...it also said that Eve was created from a rib..not toe or heel hone. She was created to be a help mate to Adam who was alone with other creations. Genesis clearly states equality between man and woman.

Now going back to Ephesian 5, which is an example of a Christian family. It doesn't apply to those who are not Christians. Chris is the head of the body, the man is the head of the family, and the woman is his help mate. The man is to submit to God and when a man submit to God, a woman submit to her husband as a reverend to Christ. The man is to love the woman as Christ loved his Church, which means that he is to have unconditional love for his wife and DIE for his wife.

Remember Christ died for those he loved so they can have grace before God.

Now Genesis states man and wife is ONE and ONE is interchangeable with each other. We can't pick and choose what is applicable when it is clear that man and woman is one=equal.

I have one question for you. ARE YOU BEARING YOUR HUSBAND'S NAME OR YOUR FATHER' NAME?

Justfollowit:
I like being control of the outcome, so that it won't come as a surprise when either happens. I find it easier to move on that way.

In as much as i agreed with you,we just have to face the fact there are some things we have no control over. That is where the expectancy theory come into play.

Dragonking:
Thank u jare, and don't mind mrsChima, if she is truly married.. women then were willing to bear their husband's name once they get married and marriage then was far far better..but since the coming of gender equality and femism, divorce has taken over the land.

My friend you have said it all.

Justfollowit:
That sounds better however I think I would rather do both. I like having options. , I enjoy being in control.

Pardon me but i don't seem to understand what you meant by being in control?

Justfollowit:
Yes sir

What is your definition of postivism? If you meant rejecting what is 'bad' and identifying with what is 'good', then we have different interpretation of what is positive and what is negative.

Positivism to me is when you hope/anticipate for something good not necessarily denying reality. Is like faith (the substance of things hope for,the evidence of things not seen). For instance, you can always hope to get marry to the man of you dream.

Justfollowit:
If you were smart enough you would have never bothered about what I have written or about what it insinuated and we won't be wasting our time

Nope, I used 'dispose' bearing in my mind lots of likely situations for example a man who marries another woman or hold his mistresses in higher esteem over his wife

If you were smart enough you would known when you try to make another look silly it's only natural for the person to proved otherwise. Well i understand your point of view but next time try to be positive whenever you are saying anything regarding yourself.

Justfollowit:
My use of the verb 'could' expresses a possibility. And if you were smart enough, yo would know that it is the unfortunate reality. Futhermore, Dispose is a relative word. Married women can be disposed yet be married.

If you were smart enough you would know i used the word MIGHT. Furthermore, the word DISPOSE is used in human context when you want to get rid of a person.

MrsChima:
If you can accept that it is talking a woman taking a man's surname only to signify that she is married...why can't you accept that being married back in the days was a mean to quality of life for married women?

Taking the surname was the only way to show that the woman is wife to the man. It was about status and class which is the same thing the bible speaks of!

Go and read the bible verse,you will find out it's futuristic and it will also interest you to know that the women will be willing to clothe and feed themselve,all what they want is to bear the man's name. My friend, you and i known it is happening now.

Justfollowit:
I reject the mentality that would make me proud to forsake my father's name and bear a name of a being that could dispose of me however and whenever he chooses! I reject that mentality in God's name.

If i got you right 1)you are not married 2)you are already insinuating your future husband might dispose you (I REJECT THAT MENTALITY IN GOD'S NAME). I hope you say amen? Anyway i did on your behalf!

MrsChima:
Isaiah 4:1 speaks of women will marry a married man just to say that they are married and to bear his name is a sign of marriage in those days.

When it spoke of seven women. It was given an example number of how desperate women were back in the days to marry. It has nothing to do with honoring a surname.

Women didn't have much rights back in the days and for a woman to live well.. she has to be married. If she was unmarried by a certain age she was considered not marriageable.

It was a fit for survival back then and I am willing to bet those seven women didn't love that one man that they "fought" to bear his name. As I said....taking a surname doesn't improve quality of life nor marriage

The bible is talking about the significant of women changing their surname's to the husband's name. Am not talking about quality of life here rather am talking about WHAT OUGHT TO BE DONE. Talking about women's right is retaining your father's name part of it?

MrsChima:
Submission in the bible indicated BOTH parties in the marriage...not just the woman.

The bible also speak about loving the woman as Christ loved the church...do you think Jesus will forsake you if you choose not to do some things in your freewill? So whys the hypocrisy?

I did'nt see any hypocrisy rather you are the one getting it all wrong. The wife is to Submit to the husband while the husband is to love the wife. The word submission is used when one party have authority over another. So in this comtext the man is the head of the house or except you want equate a woman with a man in the home which i know you won't cause if you do, i just can't help but to imagine what your home will look like.

KanwuliaJara:
Did the MEN not retain their fathers' names?
Say NO TO SEXISM!!!!

Even the bible said seven women will fight to bear our name (ISAIAH 4:1). It's a pride for ladies to forsake their father's name and bear their husband's name.

Hollamydey:
B4 nko, am still d daughter of my father. Besides am married 2 my husband nd nt sold 2 him so I still have d right 2 maintain by father's name nd dat of his, ko fa ija rara.....#my opinion

It is obvious you are not married that why you speak with such audacity. Mayb in 3-4 years time God willing i will ask you your surname!

I think most ladies will be reluctant to change their surname if they have a prominent surname,knowing fully well what the name will do for them.

He's not a real preacher rather his wolf in disguise.

NigerMan1:
Beface - you are mixing present political abracadabra with history that dates back thousands of years. Or recorded history since 800 / 900 AD.

The OP simply stated an historical facts, but unfortunately you younger generation are not brought to appreciate history, plus our leaders have used politics cum economic interests to relegate our collective historical past.

No wonder you qualified this as 'showing off'

I love history but am afraid i can't appreciate this historical fallacy. Mayb i did understand him very well,probably you will be the one to clarify things. 1)Some Edo villages that is been mention are descendant of IFE. it is obvious by their family Names e.g Oluwafemi,Owolabi, Akanni,etc. 2) Some of those villages does not speak Edo dialect.

I just can't stop laughing. They caught him with drugs and his busy telling the police is a Nigeria chief with JEW origin. Wetin concern Oyibo with that one,he no thank God say no bi Malaysia there arrest am.

No tribe won carry last for Nigeria sha. Igbo want show, Yoruba want show,Hausa want Hausa and now Edo done join.

MrsChima:
Even with his name on it? I taya for Nigerian men oo!

( walking to the window and cry)

Hmm,your man go sabi pet very well o cause by the look of things you go sabi cry well,well. It all depend if he approve of it and where you choose to put it.

MrsChima:
I don't have one. I am thinking of getting one Chima...only he will see it. I might get it on his favorite part of my body that he loves so much!

I won't be surprise when come calling the NL family for advice because your husband is angry that you allow someone else to see or to put tattoo on his favourite part of your body. If you ask me i will say your body is OK the way God created it.

KanwuliaJara:
Negative X2!

I don't mean to be rude but i just want you to realise the implication of the ridiculous statistic you gave about Nigerian men. Nigerian men is the envy of other African men because of our exceptional qualities which does not include rape. BELIEVE THAT!

KanwuliaJara:
Hmmmmmmm!
What goes around comes around.
Rape victims become agressors.
FACT!

In SA, one in 4 men are rapists. . . including their president!
In Nigeria it will be 1 on 2 men for sure!

Are you trying to gain attention from men or you are indirectly telling us you have a rapist in your family.

It should be replicated in Abuja also because when you turn left and right you will see porn.