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Romance / Is This Too Much To Ask A Lady by Bejusttoall: 8:10pm On Sep 03, 2020
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Celebrities / Re: INNOBIA Farms: 2face Idibia's Soya Beans Farm In Benue State (video) by Bejusttoall: 8:36pm On Aug 31, 2020
lalasticlala:
2Baba is now a proud farmer as he shows off his Soya Beans farm in Benue State.

Sharing a video of his farmland, Tuface Idibia wrote:



https://www.instagram.com/p/CEPZfDMJGz6/?igshid=xveyc5xce8xg

Nice one from him.... but where will ordinary farmers see security details like this during farming everyday. Government needs to wake up to the issue of insecurity
Romance / Re: Should I Help my Ex girlfriend family? by Bejusttoall: 9:21pm On Aug 28, 2020
Truthlord12:
Good evening people please I need your advice regards to this, I got separated from my ex girlfriend last year because she told me her travel plans abroad I was a bit sceptic About the nature of job she’ll do there, she’s the type that’s ready and willing to do anything to help her family.

After everything I told her not to embark on the journey that she should be patient with me, once my business picked up I’ll care for her and her family, she refused and traveled last year, few months before she left she gave me some money to add to my business I wouldn’t want to state the actual amount but a bit huge. Of recent her family really suffering because my ex had issue with the person that took her abroad so she’s passing through difficult time though she’s hiding some info from me since she’s not able to make money, she called me of recent that I should please do anything to help her family.

Now I’ve got a new girlfriend I told my new girlfriend about the issue but she said I shouldn’t give my ex family any money, because we ain’t together anymore that if I do she’ll leave me

Please people help me what should I do? My mind is really disturbing me and I still love my ex I wish I’ve a way to bring her back to Nigeria so we can start a family I don’t care the type of job she went there to do and I don’t mind what she has been through. She did so much for me, she made sacrifice that this my new girl won’t do, I don’t even know if my new girlfriend loves me or because of my money.

Though I love my new girlfriend but part of me is with my ex I don’t know if she’ll will be willing to return though I’ve not discussed it with her. And now my new girlfriend treating to leave me if I assist or give back the money my ex gave me as support for my business before she travelled to her family I’ve been down for days thinking so much.


cc: lalasticlala
cc: seun

Thinking of helping the family of your ex who dropped huge sum of money to support your business is out of place biko. Just go ahead and render more than help to them quickly.

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Crime / Re: Soldier's Caught Huge Python At River State by Bejusttoall: 2:30pm On Aug 26, 2020
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Crime / Re: Man Shot Dead In Ibadan After Withdrawing N446,000 by Bejusttoall: 2:04pm On Aug 25, 2020
The bank officials are to be suspected
Business / Re: Sold »For Sale: Sawmill With Minimum of #4k Income Daily by Bejusttoall: 8:17pm On Aug 14, 2020
Can the equipments be installed and take to another location?
Investment / Re: Buying US Stocks From Nigeria by Bejusttoall: 9:51pm On Aug 07, 2020
justsmile:


Hi, just joined trove as well. I'm also a novice. Pls if you've found your around the system on stock buying and all, pls kindly share with me.

Alright, still dey examine the app.
Investment / Re: Buying US Stocks From Nigeria by Bejusttoall: 12:22pm On Aug 06, 2020
gamaliel9:


I transfer money from my bank app to their account before 9am... Then i send an email to them attaching the debit alert with my Chaka ID in narration or description depending on your back. This money normally land in my account before 1pm. Then i exchange it immediately to dollar[ do this before 2pm]. Then around 4:30pm ..the dollar lands in my trading wallet. Then i have already known which stock to buy. At the top, there is search for stock space. I just type in the name of the stock or the sticker[ eg Iron Mountain is IRM]...it will appear,you click on it..then you will see 'buy'...you click on it...buying interface will show with ' quantity'..' buy limit[ the price limit you want to buy the stock]'... write'amount'... enter the numbers you want....then click on buy..'confirm buy' will appear'...then you confirm....the system will do the rest

wow... thanks a lot, i really appreciate
Investment / Re: Buying US Stocks From Nigeria by Bejusttoall: 8:10pm On Aug 05, 2020
gamaliel9:



I use Chaka only. You can find out from the site itself or contact them through SUPPORT on the site

Thanks a lot

Please can you share how you buy and sell on Chaka, maybe I can do the same on Trove ?
Investment / Re: Buying US Stocks From Nigeria by Bejusttoall: 5:15pm On Aug 04, 2020
gamaliel9:


I am not yet an expert in picking stocks...sometimes i do follow follow...or if i see a stock with good fundamentals rising...i buy it...once i hit 10 to 15% gain i sell it...then wait for another. Otherwise i am a dividend investor...

I just got approval from trove to trade, please enlighten how to vavigate through the app for instance, which wallet to fund if I'm buying foreign stock, how to get the best stock to buy etc Thanks.
Religion / Re: Six Acts You Must Be Exhibiting As A Christian by Bejusttoall: 1:27pm On Aug 02, 2020
Akube1z:
Six Important act you must be exhibiting as a Christian.

1) Fear of God

2) Love

3) Be Humble

4) Obedience

5) Honour and Respect you Parents, Master, Boss, Ruler, President and Kings Appointed to rule over you

6) Honour God the most and give him all the praise, Maginification, Exaltation As long as you are Alive continue to Worship Him

If only we Christians can abide by number 1 and 2, all others shall follow, and the world will be a better place.

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Romance / Re: My Wife's Friend Tried To Seduce Me But The Whole Thing Is Ruining My Marriage. by Bejusttoall: 2:13am On Jul 15, 2020
Ochason:
I wanted to post my story for advise and opinions on this matter.

My wife and I have been married for 8 years and we really have not had any issues until now. The whole situation started about 5 months ago. I think it was early January. We just launched our second business branch and my wife threw a party for us.I am into real estate and other strings of businesses. Last year was a good year for us. Our business grew and we expanded by opening one more branch office here in Port Harcourt (not real location). My wife,who is our Business development strategist came up with an office opening party so we can invite dignitaries and celebrities to come and even invest more in our businesses. My wife decided to engage her friend that is a top event planner to handle the event. The event was successful no doubt,everything was just glamorous. Then,there was another part of the event that moved to the club that night. We were all having fun. And then,my wife’s friend who planned the earlier event showed up looking really well dressed..more like very s*xy outfit. Of course,lot of people were dressed to kill at the party. In a lit party like this,one should expect some serious drinking and some inappropriate behaviors. It was clear,my wife’s friend was getting a little more than tipsy. She was doing a little too much and my wife was concerned. I tried to call my Driver to come take her home but the foolish guy was drinking somewhere and didnt pick my call. My wife agreed that I escort her friend to go sleep in our SUV until the Driver shows up. I guided her friend to our car and tried to get her inside to sleep but things took a different turn. She was drunk and started to pull me to kiss her. she was rubbing on me and telling me she wants me. I knew it was the alcohol talking but she kept on and on. Begging me to kiss her so she can sleep. No one was looking and I gave her a small kiss just to let her feel she got what she wanted. Of course she wanted more but I didn’t oblige her. I put on the AC for her and pulled the seat back for her to rest. As I walked away,I finally got through the Driver and he came to take her home. I thought that was the last I would hear of what just happened but I was wrong. Two days later,this lady starts to chat me and saying she wants to see me. I thought it was a joke. She said things like she knows I want her too cos I kissed her at the club 2 days ago. She kept confessing her love for me and how she cannot control herself. To be honest,this is not the first time women would throw themselves at me but this is the first time,a friend of my wife would do such a thing. I asked her what if my wife finds out and she replied me with a bomb: she said..she does not care because my wife is also not a saint. What?!!!!..what did she mean by that? I asked her to explain and she said she cannot tell me because she swore never to tell anyone but that my wife has definitely been with someone else but me.At this time,I was getting really worked up. I told her she was bluffing and she said I was being naive. I told her I would ask my wife…she said she would deny but that does not mean its not true. She would deny because she swore to keep my wife’s secret.
So,in order to play her game,I told her I would sleep with her if she told me who my wife was cheating with. She agreed. She sent me lots dirty messages and told me to meet her at a hotel that night. And then,I asked her: how do I know you are not trying to set me up and walking into a trap? My wife’s friend then gave details. She said my wife and I were having issues just a few months before our wedding,I said yes!…she said because of the issues…my wife was doubting my loyalty and she went back to her ex and slept with him. And that they were seeing each other even after we got married until like 4 months after marriage.
I knew this woman is desperate but this information she just released scattered my brain. I drove straight to see my wife and straight up told her what her friend just told me. My wife began to act shocked and pretend that her friend was lying so I told her, I have recorded conversations (which I really didn’t have)and if she pushed me to release these conversations, it would be over between us.
At that point,my wife broke down and started crying. She then confessed to having gone back to her ex when we were having issues weeks before our wedding. But she swore on her children’s’ lives that it did not continue after we got married.
However,her ex went to tell her friend that they were seeing each other which was a lie. That her ex wanted her back by all means and was telling lies that I was not treating her well and that she misses her ex and wants to come back but she is stuck in the marriage.
All these revelation was too much for me to bear. I told my wife to leave our home but she refused so I took a my things and went to the company guest house where I have been. I have been so angry and betrayed that I do not know what to do.
I never planned to be a divorcee. I love my wife. She is very instrumental to the success of my business …but how do we work through this when she has betrayed me like this? And she is insisting the affair ended when we got married….the affair before marriage is hurtful because we were still engaged even at that time but if it continued after…I cannot live like this.

How then,do I believe she may be telling the truth? Trust has been thrown out of the window. Our families have been trying to reconcile us but as a man,I have never been so hurt and emotional in all my life. I trusted my wife with all my life.

I finally agreed for us to see our Pastor last week to counsel us but it ended up in a disaster. I recognize I was still angry and I was shouting and my wife was crying uncontrollably saying I do not believe her but I believe a woman who is trying to ruin our marriage.

Well,if her friend is trying to ruin our marriage…she caused it..she allowed it. We both left distraught and later that night,the friend showed up in my guest house. She told me that she came to beg for me to forgive her friend. But you should have seen what she wore. The most see through outfit and as soon as I allowed her to sit down,she came hard on me.
Pushing her away was my first thought. But I felt so angry that I also wanted to revenge my wife and I started responding to her. I was ready to make love to this woman but I stopped and told her to leave. Since then,she has been determined to make me sleep with her.

I felt I needed space but the more space I need,the more s*xual temptations are coming my way. And yes,I would be justified if I give in right? After all…my wife did it first? Maybe if I did…I would feel better and maybe be able to forgive her after we are even.

I miss my wife but how do I trust her….I feel tempted to sleep with someone else. Its not that hard for men…I do not know how much more I can resist the temptation. How can I be sure that my wife is telling the truth? How do I know the affair ended after our marriage?

Will I be able to trust her again? Is there any hope for our marriage?

Please forgive and forget. Go back to your wife and let peace reign. God will give you the strength to do this. Think of the children. Do have a happy home
Religion / Re: Signs Of The Times: My Thoughts by Bejusttoall: 7:35pm On Jul 14, 2020
Eviana:
Bejusttoall,
Thank you for your contribution.
As I am always praying for myself AND soliciting prayers on my behalf from godly people, this situation isn't about judgment.
I understand that you do not understand what transpired.....
Perhaps you do not spend much time in the religion section, so you do not discern the situation. I think you have spoken very rashly with all due respect.
A Christian should absolutely embody the Fruit of the Spirit continually...absolutely..although we sometimes fail.

However, there comes a time when the truth has to be said to those in error who have the platform to reach several others...regardless of what it is.
A Christian can speak the truth EVEN THOUGH it may seem as if it being done in a harsh manner.
I remember addressing a member in this section about how he appeared to be prideful and argumentative...not willing to see anywhere that he may be in error.
He actually apologized although he didn't see it that way and may not change his approach. I can respect his apology though..
I'm sure some N.L. Christians disagree with my approach, although many of them are very combative and accusatory in their posts against a myriad of things. That is fine and they are entitled to those opinions.
I didn't reply Mr. Kobo here without careful consideration. I am replying his post from last week today because I saw something that triggered this.
I apologize if he is offended, but I cannot be silent for what is occuring.
There is a way to address scripture in a way that it doesn't deter other impressionable minds. Twisting them is offensive to my soul....and we will be held accountable for causing anyone to stumble.
FYI, several months ago, I was threatened multiple times via email (by some folks on this site who had an old email address) against saying anything about Islam, although I had only questioned some things that in my country that particular religion is only known for.
My family has been threatened all the way over here..let me not even add more that has been occuring regarding them. All of that happened YET I never publicly posted it and am still in the midst of people (on N.L.) who loathe me and wish my destruction.
That ought to tell you something...
Souls saved on here is bigger than any pain I have experienced.
I leave ALL evil plans against me and mine in my Lord's hands. Vengeance is His...not mine.
I am speaking about the truth of the gospel of Jesus Christ and am very concerned for the young people and maybe even older people (on this site) who may be searching, or shaky in their faith, and who are being confused and derailed by heavy error here.
That is my passion.
So far, I have a right to express that...until they ban me I guess.

With all due respect, I think you are jumping to the defense of someone without investigating the whole situation first. His posts are innumerable throughout this section for you to read.
Praying for....well you know you have been on the list for awhile now wink
God bless...


Yeah, I said you shouldn't be judgemental because you wrote that one is heading to hell fire.... you can only pray for their repentance, and not sentence such.

Yeah, I agreed that the truth must be said, but it should be done in love.

About those that didn't agree with your views, that is normal. You shouldn't expect everyone to support your stand, we can have different opinions to issues, and it shouldn't cause any problem. Even husband and wife can agree and disagree on issues. The main thing is that it must be done healthily.

Got your point about scriptures interpretation, but you can drive your points perfectly by letting the fruits of the spirit take the better of you

On the issue of threatening, what is your offence? Do you scam someone? I'm just wondering why you will be threatened

Yeah, it is true for a Christian to be passionate about the gospel, but remember, these people have no time to read and meditate on the word of God, rather they are watching your behaviour as a Christian, this is why we have to let tbe fruits of the spirit dominate us.

I'm not jumping into any defense, I'm just saying, rather than saying someone is on his/her way to hell, we should pray for such.

As regard my time in this section, i do come ,read , and go to other sections.

Thanks for praying for me. I will pray for you too

Shalom.
Religion / Re: Signs Of The Times: My Thoughts by Bejusttoall: 10:46pm On Jul 13, 2020
Eviana:
Galatians 5: 22-23 (KJV)

22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,

23 Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.


One of the most defining characteristics of a follower of Christ.
The inward and outward manifestation of a transformed heart.....
Mercy.....
God's character, His essence, His very being...the example set forth by Paul (one of the most passionate soldiers for the Lord) and who arguably had every right to say what defines a child of God.
A man who was transformed 360 degrees from who he "used to be" to who he finally became.

How does one consistently manifest the Fruit of the Spirit in a tough, challenging, increasingly evil world? In a society where evil is now called "good" and good is now called "evil".
In a society that is directly, emphatically and blatantly against the Lord Jesus Christ?
So we, as professors of Christ, MUST love the unlovable? Do good to those who consistently use, abuse and mistreat us?
Practice patience to someone who shows "0" signs of repentance?
Don't exact vengeance on a person who has wronged you falsely and spoken evil on your character?
Temper one's words...by not saying what could further be said but will not be said in reply to someone's words?
How about the huge, and difficult spirit of true forgiveness, even if one isn't necessarily wrong?
You mean we who profess Christ must do those things?
I say, 1000 percent, unequivacably, "YES"!
The motivating factor behind all of the Fruit of the Spirit is love....
The only way one can have that agape, God-type of love, is to be surrendered to Him. The Holy Spirit MUST be the indwelling spirit in us, in order to sincerely express the fruit.
What we see in Galatians is exactly the opposite of what the world teaches we should do. Here we have two contrasts: good vs evil....no in-between.
This is where the battle lies for the Christian: obeying the Spirit or fighting against it.
Either the Holy Spirit is gonna dwell in us or the enemy's spirit will have dominion.
We cannot have both.
The world does notice a difference, whether it outwardly acknowledges it or not.
This means a daily surrender, a daily renewal of the heart and mind.
A "wrestling in prayer" sort of situation...meaning an outcome of victory over the flesh...character flaws that need to be buried or erased.
Followers of Christ, it is crucial that the world sees a marked contrast between who belongs to "it" and who belongs to "Jesus".
The lines are being drawn....and there will soon be no fence straddlers...no safely sitting in the middle.
Christ' disciples are known by their love for one another (John 13:35 KJV).
However, that love must spread across to ALL...even those who are scorners, mockers, haters of God, racists, boastful, liars, proud, wicked, tribalists etc.,..basically the people who upset our spirits because God's spirit does not live in them.
Let us not be deceived.
This can even include those who claim God and are regular church members or clergy.
We must be in a constant state of self-introspection about where we stand in the Lord...and know that it is He who knows the thoughts and intents of our hearts
(1 Samuel 16:7 KJV).

It not so much what we "know", but moreso how we "live".

Let me add this: Notice where Paul says in the last part of Gal 5:23, "against such there is no law."
Think about why he said that.
When we live peacably among men and treat each other based on love (thereby displaying the Fruit of the Spirit) there would be no need to have a law.

Laws show us what is right as opposed to what is wrong. Which means that the the "works of the flesh" cause us to produce evil or cause negative results which hurt or damage others.
Therefore, causing punishment to occur which further damages society.

I am reminded about the "love" chapter in Corinthians.


1 Corinthians 13:3-10 (KJV)

[b]13 Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not charity, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.

2 And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have all faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not charity, I am nothing.

3 And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though I give my body to be burned, and have not charity, it profiteth me nothing.

4 Charity suffereth long, and is kind; charity envieth not; charity vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up,

5 Doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil;

6 Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth;


7 Beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

8 Charity never faileth: but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.

9 For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.

10 But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.


The wonderful thing about the Lord is that He desires to reconnect with His creation for eternity...live and interact with us
pre-sin. He has already paid the price, through His blood to redeem us.
He waits for us to accept His gift, allow Him to transform us and make us ready to see Him soon.
The love for Him will transform into love for a dying world, to tell them why we think and behave the way we do (The Fruit of the Spirit).
Let us be daily surrendering our wills to the Lord and represent His spirit to a world desperately in need of it.
Be blessed...

To bear the fruits of the spirit shouldn't be a tough nut to crack if one really has the Holy Spirit, because Holy Spirit will constantly remind you of who you are in Christ Jesus. This is why as a Christian, one has to live in peace with all.
Religion / Re: 3 Keys In Serving God Consistently by Bejusttoall: 6:15pm On Jul 12, 2020
Peterzion:
Therefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us , and let us run with patience the race that is set before us. Hebrews 12:1 KJV

Serving God requires consistency. It is your consistency in serving God that determines how big your victory will be. When you do things half way you either get no result or get half result. But when you do things in a complete way, you’ll definitely get an outstanding result. Most of the times, we are not always patient with God because we want everything to happen fast. God has always been the one that has been patience with us right from the creation of the universe. Though, I understand that we’re in the jet age, but things might not happen that way, because t God’s thinking is far higher than ours and his ways is far higher than ours.

Isaiah 55:8-9 KJV
For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, saith the Lord . [9] For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts.

Let’s take fore instance, a student of any level in academics, he or she must start from the basics. He must go through some learning, test and finally an examination before he can be promoted to the next level. For the student to be promoted and to get outstanding result, he must be self disciplined and consistence in doing the things that are right, if not, he might not get promoted or even graduated.

The same thing applies to an apprentice. If an apprentice is learning a trade, he must keep coming to the field in order to learn more and to also add to the knowledge he had already acquired. He cannot afford to be outdated and stagnant because his service or trading might not be needed even it’s eventually needed, there might be limitations because of his lack of knowledge.

Many a great people in the Bible were a consistent and persistent lovers of the things of God. They’re always doing the right thing always despite their challenges and oppositions. We must learn from these people. David, Joseph, Daniel, Esther etc. Are a great examples.

Some times, God tests us with a blessing, in so doing, he uses that breakthrough to test our faithfulness and consistency, but it’s a pity that some fumbled along the way and finally later missed out on the big packages. Either you’re still waiting on the lord for something, or you want more because he’s the river that never runs dry, just be consistent in serving him.

Here Are 3 Keys to be Consistent

1. Self disciplined

You cannot be consistent if you’re not self disciplined. You must make up your mind not follow the crowd. Because to follow the crowd is to be lost in the crowd. Many people were following Jesus in the crowd but only the woman with the issue of blood got her divine healing because she was focused and was determined not to get lost in the crowd. She was in the crowd while going to touch the hem of his garment but she was not lost in the crowd, she was self disciplined, focused and determined. That brings us to the second one which is

2. Determination

Determined people are always successful. They never give up no matter what happens, they just kept on going no matter the oppositions. Joseph and Daniel are a great examples. The former was thrown in a pit, while the latter was thrown in to the lion’s den. Yet they never gave up, they were still determined, and the at the end, they became a commander.

Be determined; be strong. Don’t be vague and thoughtless, but have a plan and work your plan. God, through Christ, has provided a way for us to live an amazing life, but we need to continually make choices that agree with God. You have one life to live, so live it fully and refuse to drift along, letting other people and circumstances make your decisions for you.

Anyone who wants to be consistent in serving God must be determined so stay determined.

3. Focus

You must be focus if you want to be consistence in serving God. You must not be carried away by the wind. A man of focus has vision and a man of vision escape confusion. Peter was walking on the sea because his eyes was focused on Jesus. The moment he looked at the wind and removes his eyes from Jesus, he began to sink. That simply means Looking unto Jesus is the key focus of living a victorious life, looking away from Jesus is the distraction of this world and is defeat.

Hebrews 12:1-2 KJV
Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset us , and let us run with patience the race that is set before us, [2] Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God.

In order for you to be consistent in serving God, you must avoid any form of distractions and lust of this world. Look unto Jesus the author and the finisher of our faith. Our God is a rewarder of them that diligently seek him, he’ll surely reward your faithfulness.

God bless you.

If you’re reading this, I believe you have surrendered your life to Jesus, but if you’re yet to be born again please kindly pray this prayer in faith.

“Father in heaven, I know that I am a sinner , and I pray now that Jesus will come into my life and take control. I am sorry for my sins and need to have them forgiven and washed away with the blood of Jesus. I want Jesus to be my saviour. Prepare my heart so that I can be with those that are in heaven. Help to faithful to you and to grow more like Jesus. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.

Congratulations!

God bless you.

https://kingdomvirtues.com/2019/12/22/3-keys-in-serving-god-consistently/

You are right, with the help of the Holy Spirit

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Religion / Re: Signs Of The Times: My Thoughts by Bejusttoall: 11:31pm On Jul 09, 2020
Eviana:


Forgness,
You have confirmed who you are now.
If there is a shred of honesty in you, you would tell it the right way here. But, unfortunately, you will not.
I have not contacted you in any form or shape in over 5 1/2 months......and you know that.
You are presenting a false narrative again, which leads me to believe that your motives and intentions were impure.

The last words with you were my final words as I wished you the best with your life. I even sent you the Amazing Facts website to check out end-time topics such as the great tribulation, the 1,000 years and more. I even suggested you hook up with some guys of my denomination there in Nigeria to know more about what I believe.
The only thing that I later became interested in (after chatting with you initially about another topic) was leading you to Christ, knowing that although you "claimed to be a Christian", it is overwhelmingly glaring that you are not.
Other circumstances got in the way and caused major problems..still not solved to this day. However, I let it all go and placed it in God's hands.
My concern (after all of that) was making sure that peace reigned among us...regardless of whatever situations occured in the past on this site.
So yes, there were huge gaps in between the times I contacted you. The conversations always started out good, but then ended on a terrible note. So the Holy Spirit (as I have been writing about), always convicted me to make peace with you and forgive.
Just so you know, I also did that with others.
However, the last time I contacted you was strictly about making peace, and ending with Jesus.
You also contacted me many times.
It was you who created this new moniker, came onto my other thread and started attacking me. I even invited you to comment on this thread because I thought you were sincere.
I stated that even here on this thread...no bitterness, no malice, no unforgiveness towards you or anybody on this site.
I am very content with who's in my life and told you that awhile ago. I am not looking for a man to mold or any special friend. I was very clear and you acknowledged that.
I have not spoken privately (hence the reason for my personal text) with anyone on here for a long time.....which I discreetly tried to write earlier to you on this thread as to the reason why I wasn't gonna answer your "pm" here on the site that you sent about a week ago.
Actually since I created this moniker, I have only spoken to (1) person from the past (offline) whose contact I already had.
I haven't spoken to him now for about the same amount of time as you....and I have no issue with him.
Seriously, my heart bleeds for you because you know I have exhausted myself in trying to explain my love for Jesus Christ (privately and publicly) and offering you the
hope that I have.
My summation now, however, is that you do not want Jesus..the only one you truly need.
As I told Mr. Reed on my other thread, it is not my responsibility to prove everything about my faith so that (once or "IF" you are completely satisfied) only then will you accept Jesus. I can only "plant the seed". If you look for doubts, you will surely find them.
Christianity is a religion of FAITH.
You must believe that He is, even without seeing.
However, the Lord is more than willing to have you "try" Him.
If you want to try the Lord, then YOU have to make the step.
If you do not want the Lord, then live your life and do not try to deter others from serving Him.
I have tremedously slowed down my time and interactions on Nairaland, which I never thought I would finally do.
I bother no one on the site.
I, now, only write on my created threads...to a specific group, but welcome others of other "faiths".
I read about the problems of Nigeria (which are overwhelming), but as said many times before, continue lifting her up daily.
My walk with Christ is the most important thing in this life....it is not a joke nor am I taking it lightly. I am sorry that I wasn't a positive influence on you overall.
Will still keep you lifted.
Yes, I will definitely meet someone from Nairaland in the Kingdom of God one day....that I am 1000 percent sure of.

P.S.
Folks, I am sorry for once again having my thread derailed to a certain extent.
Under my former moniker, this type of thing happened. The circumstances were a little different then.
However, what happened here is not a movie script or play...at least not on my end.
This is real life.
An attack on "who" and "what" I wrote is what happened.
I am who I am...flaws and all...still a work in progress....and one who honors the Lord Jesus Christ as my redeemer.
I decided to be transparent to some extent, complete with honesty & sincerity.
My mistake is replying to coments, when I probably should be "silent".
I have to remember that (Ephesians 6:10-18) KJV is vey real.
I am humbly asking serious male prayer warriors to lift up Forgness daily....specifically and so that he can meet Jesus and let Him transform him.
God bless you all....
Fruit of the Spirit post still coming.


Hmmm, so lengthy.
Both of you have written well, I mean you and forgness that deleted his account. With what I read from both of you, it was just a little misunderstanding that could have been settled amicably. However, since you have chosen the way this way, both should let Christ Jesus reign on your lives, and let the fruits of the Holy Spirit freely flow through you. Shalom.

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Properties / Bank's Properties For Sales by Bejusttoall: 2:32am On Jul 09, 2020
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Religion / Re: Signs Of The Times: My Thoughts by Bejusttoall: 10:34pm On Jul 06, 2020
Eviana:
About one and a half weeks ago, I was in the grocery store in the produce section taking my time looking at the produce.
Through my peripheal view, I could see an older gentleman of another race standing there staring in front of him...about 5 feet away from me. I thought he was looking at the produce in front of him trying to make a decision.
However, it turned out that he was waiting for me to move!
He never uttered a word or even looked in my direction.
Here I was not even having a clue that I was delaying him!
It wasn't until I moved that I saw him go directly to where I had been.
Now you know I was perplexed as to why he couldn't just say, "Excuse me ma'am. I would like to get some items right where you are standing if you don't mind?"
How hard would that have been?
I would have gladly moved out of the way.
Then I started going through a million reasons why he didn't say a word.
Was it because of the racial tension going on across the U.S.?
Wa he afraid to say something to me, a black woman, because of the riots going on?
Was it because of the pandemic? Was he socially distancing himself?
What was it?
Well I never found out.
I only got annoyed and a little hot and mumbled under my breath as I walked away. The rest of my trip was ruined as I became fixated about the elderly man's behaviour.
Do you know that the Holy Spirit rebuked me that night when prayer time came?
Simply because I knew I was wrong for how I thought about that man in my heart....
He never heard me say anything, but in my heart I was angry and "wanted" to confront him.
Do you know that the ironic thing was, that I kept running into him throughout the rest of my time in the store?
Perhaps those were my opportunities to "right the wrong" I had already thought secretly in my heart.
However, I didn't.
It was an opportunity to show the love of Christ to someone that day who might have needed it.
I knew better, but didn't do better, because neither my heart nor my spirit were clean.
I can so relate to the words of David when he cried in (Psalm 51:10-12) for God to give him a clean heart, a right spirit and to not take the Holy Spirit away from him.
See the Holy Spirit is the life force of a believer's spiritual journey.
Without the Comforter, we cannot have the spirit of God (Phillipians 2:13).
Our hearts must be transformed.
We must allow the Holy Spirit to have His way in our lives...and it must be evident in our relations with fellow human beings...IN SPITE OF how they may behave
(John 13:35).
Sincere love for God and the indwelling of the Holy Spirit are the only fuel that can transform the heart.
I am reminded of (Psalm 139: 23-24) so that my next encounter will be a different story.
Thanks for the Holy Spirit. It is not good for one to act o assumption especially Christian

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Religion / Re: Make Heaven Or Die Trying by Bejusttoall: 6:48pm On Jul 05, 2020
Toks2008, the preacher.
Health / Re: Please Help: My Wife Has Asthma by Bejusttoall: 7:27pm On Jul 04, 2020
Megaflex:
I need advice on the best and natural way to handle asthma.

I got married in April this year and my wife is asthmatic. I'll seriously need advice on the best possible way to handle her asthma incase she gets pregnant. Please help a brother.

Mod please help me move this to front-page

God bless you for trying to help her out. Take her to the hospital for professional advice, and hand the sickness to Jesus, He will heal her. You are blessed.

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Family / Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by Bejusttoall: 5:08pm On Jun 25, 2020
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Family / Re: Family Problems by Bejusttoall: 12:58am On Jun 25, 2020
Despair:
I had to create another moniker for this and hope to seek genuine advice via this medium.

I had this close family member living with me until recently when her new boyfriend came to move her things to his place while I was away. Pls, note that, this is not the first time she'd be doing this. She once left after I scolded her for passing the night at a stranger's place...a random boyfriend. She came back to live with me again afterwards, I was warned not to let her in due to her prosmicuity. She's the type that moves in with any new found boyfriend. Her inability to do that yet again at my place made her start picking issues with me. I reported her to her aiding and albeiting mom, who told me to ignore her excesses as she was at the time keeping malice with her mom. She eventually left while I was at work. Was told by the neighbours, her boyfriend came to move her things with her. The same guy I tried to protect his interest, the actual quarrel started when I didn't let her to go meet another guy who had just arrived (from abroad), yet the same guy thinks I am a bad person.

He didn't deem it feat to find out what the issue was...next was to avoid me before taking her away. I called him to inquire, he denied knowing her whereabouts whereas she lives with him.

I welcomed this guy in as I wanted her to keep a man.

My faith and upbringing doesn't permit fornication but I didn't force my beliefs on her. Only wanted her to keep one.

My crime:
She can't have multiple boyfriends whilst at my place

She gives her mom cuts from her rendevouz...she had a child while in Junior class and doesn't have a WAEC certificate at least.

Her mom has all the numbers of her clients, even whilst with me, she'd call her that Mr A. was around and would travel to the village to meet up.

Whilst in the village, she'd move in with them until it goes sour. They hate it when I visit home as she couldn't bring the random ones into the house. She was doing that in the village.

The reason she moved to my place was because everyone knows her there and she was hoping to settle down. Hoping to settle down but not ready to change?!

Here's my issue;

Her mother, who endorses the life she leads, now goes about the village telling everyone I sent her daughter packing. The same woman that told me to ignore as she is known to have no manners.

I plan on reporting her mom to the village head to caution as I am tired of having to defend myself every time.

I didn't send her away and I am TIRED of defending myself. I have been emotional over this as it doesn't seem to end!

Pls help me...

Cc: lalasticlala mynd44 ishilove

Never worry yourself over this matter biko. Just get a strong evidence of where the lady is. Enjoy yourself and neglect them joor.

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Properties / Re: Elegant Buildings At A Cheap Price by Bejusttoall: 5:00pm On Jun 20, 2020
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Literature / Re: I Can't Breath By Olaonipekun Sr 111 by Bejusttoall: 4:54pm On Jun 20, 2020
rentAcock:
Not bad. But when will you write a poem about the struggle of the Nigeria youth?

Noted. Will tell the writer
Literature / Re: I Can't Breath By Olaonipekun Sr 111 by Bejusttoall: 4:53pm On Jun 20, 2020
Dbeautyy:
You did a good job.
Thanks. Done by a friend though.
Romance / Re: I Was A Lesbian But Now I'm Straight. Will I Find A Man? by Bejusttoall: 8:00pm On Jun 17, 2020
HannahHitler:
Good day Fam,

This thing has been bothering me o, I've been gay for about 10years now and I had tried everything but I just couldn't bring myself to love men but this is a testimony.

After years of trying to conform, I finally accepted my fate and I've been living as gay since then but YESTERDAY a Nairalander mentioned me and said he was praying for me and he had commanded me to be straight and just like that, with the snap of a finger, just by saying it and today I woke up STRAIGHT. Praise Be. I'm well now, I swear I am straight.

I used to think women were the most beautiful thing God ever made but not anymore, I am straight now and all it took was a stranger telling me to be straight for me to be straight. Praise Be.

He also commanded me to find a man and get married so I'm here thinking, is there any man that would marry an ex lesbian or should I just join the convent?

Please I am very desperate because I am getting older and I just realized that I wasted years being a lesbian. Find me a man, I'm straight now.

Ehen, when I was still a lesbian which was just yesterday, I published a lesbian romance book on Amazon, if you're still evil minded like I used to be please go to kdp and buy my book. Teinks.

Praise Be.

Please don't send me PM if you're not ready to get married next year. In fact if you're a tall, handsome, dark, man with pink lips and a good job just indicate and I will pm you.


*************
You people sending PM cannot even follow simple instructions. How am I supposed to want to marry you? A man that cannot read and comprehend, is that one a husband material?

I'm straight now o, you people should now allow me revert back to default settings.

I said I will PM you personally if you specify that you're interested. Simple.

Congratulations. God be praised
Politics / Re: If You Were The President Of Nigeria, How Would You Make Nigeria Better? by Bejusttoall: 3:20pm On Jun 13, 2020
chatinent:
Rather than lampooning every president who is inaugurated, if you were the president of the federation, how'd you make the country what you castigate against?

Let's discuss.

In this present setting of Nigeria democracy, it is difficult to effect major positive changes if you look at the power brokers such the national assembly etc. As a president, I will retire all military top hierarchy that I have worked upon and found out that they are not worthy to be trusted. After this, I will have a deal with a tested and trusted military guys on how to make this nation great again. After striking a deal, I will ask them to do a coup against me, so tbat all tbese greedy politicians can go into oblivion

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Family / Re: What Keeps A Marriage Together - Love Or Respect? by Bejusttoall: 5:28pm On Jun 10, 2020
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