partnerbizn5: I will call her on phone to come back home from wherever she is, hug and kiss her, reassure her of my love for her; prepare her favourite meal, and make the bed for her to sleep. We will look for the way forward afterwards ranging from sending her abroad to counselling.
You know why?
She needs me now more than ever. The whole world is against her. The hypocrites.
I will be with her now!
Another option is to disown her, let her go into depression and may be suicide.
This thing has been bothering me o, I've been gay for about 10years now and I had tried everything but I just couldn't bring myself to love men but this is a testimony.
After years of trying to conform, I finally accepted my fate and I've been living as gay since then but YESTERDAY a Nairalander mentioned me and said he was praying for me and he had commanded me to be straight and just like that, with the snap of a finger, just by saying it and today I woke up STRAIGHT. Praise Be. I'm well now, I swear I am straight.
I used to think women were the most beautiful thing God ever made but not anymore, I am straight now and all it took was a stranger telling me to be straight for me to be straight. Praise Be.
He also commanded me to find a man and get married so I'm here thinking, is there any man that would marry an ex lesbian or should I just join the convent?
Please I am very desperate because I am getting older and I just realized that I wasted years being a lesbian. Find me a man, I'm straight now.
Ehen, when I was still a lesbian which was just yesterday, I published a lesbian romance book on Amazon, if you're still evil minded like I used to be please go to kdp and buy my book. Teinks.
Praise Be.
Please don't send me PM if you're not ready to get married next year. In fact if you're a tall, handsome, dark, man with pink lips and a good job just indicate and I will pm you.
Congratulations sis. God will perfect the remaining in Jesus mighy name.
PrimadonnaO: Have fun. Abandon all other concerns and engagements and really spend time with each other. Talk freely and happily about the future, make love endlessly, bond, be goofy with each other. Laugh a lot... fully embrace the reality of their union forever, snap lots of pictures.
It sets the stage for marital life to begin. And you see, sometimes couples never get to have such moments again for life. If you enjoy your honeymoon to the fullest, when things begin to get dull years down the line, you’d reminisce about those days and remember it was once beautiful... and that may just be all the partners need to rekindle the spark in their union.
I’m not finicky about weddings. I care more about the honeymoon phase.
maynation: I got home that faithful day and he bored me to death with the long boring talk. The business talk started two days to his leaving.
I told him I wasn't interested and he asked me to borrow him a huge sum for the execution of the business.
Our conversation was verbal so I couldn't come up with a proof of the conversation.
But when I rejected his offers and declined my involvement into his business, he cursed me, insulted me and called me all sorts of names.
He left on Thursday instead of Friday, and started sending me curses which was why I blocked him.
So you did this to a total stranger and he paid you back like this? One need to hear from the guy also, because i don't think a sane person irrespective of gender will pay his/her benefactor like this after all the assistance he/she has enjoyed. This world self. May God bless you in return sis.
Thielngr: My wife is frustrating my life I don't just know what to do.. I feel like killing myself just to end this marriage, staying with her is like living with Satan...
Everyday trouble for 10yrs now..I am tired...she has refused to work or do anything, she doesn't respect or regard me, she goes out and comes back at will without telling me where and why
She is always insulting me while looking for a fight with either bottle, hammer or the kitchen knife of which I have endured all these years because of our children, her pastor told me 8yrs ago that she will change but she is becoming more aggressive which has prompted me to cry out.
What should I do? I need urgent advice
If this is actually what's happening in your home, because we are yet to hear from your wife, then separate from her for now in order for to be a father to your children for a longer time. Report her to her family and ldave the house for her for now, but don't stop your responsibility in taking care of your home. God will help you
Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.
Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,
i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.
On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.
Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .
But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.
I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage. I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.
I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.
Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what? Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all
Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too. Emotionally, i am done.
Please take this issue to God in prayers. Don't seek for attention outside o because of your child.
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massmediang: This is the story of a scientist who is doing a study with his colleague on how painful bites from dangerous animals could be. They allow dangerous reptiles and creeping animals to bite them, then they rank the pains to create a pain index. Can you imagine this level of research? Here’s the story. A daredevil scientist could be heard screaming in pain after letting a 6ft-python bite his arm in horrifying footage. TV presenter Adam Thorn, from Australia, needed stitches in his arm after the reptile drew blood. In the footage, which was recorded for a new TV series, the huge snake can be seen laid on a wooden table. As soon as the TV host, who is wearing a protective face mask, gets close to the animal, the python bites him. A man wearing a blue t-shirt eventually pulls the snake away as blood starts to come out from the scientist’s arm. The clip, which appeared on Mail Online, is part of History Channel’s new series “Kings of Pain”. It follows wildlife biologist Adam Thorn and professional animal handler Rob “Caveman” Alleva as they get bitten and stung by some of the most dangerous animals and insects in the world. In 1983, Dr Justin O. Schmidt began ranking stinging insects, which led to the creation of the Schmidt sting pain index. See details and watch video here; https://massmediang.com/daredevil-scientist-screams-in-pain-after-letting-six-foot-python-bite-him-watch-unbelievable-video/
kowema: You have to be careful to handle the issue with empathy besides being logical.
Now questions to answer, is she violent?, Does she attend to her hygiene?, Does she communicate well?, Does she have family members who are willing to step in and is she aware of her condition?.
If her family members are known to u and willing to step in, then you can engage them and get a way forward. If she is neat and not violent, you may have to calm down as that will mean she is not disturbing public peace plus she may also have the ability to carry out her sales, make profit and pay ur rent.
It's very commendable that she is at least trying to make ends meet. People like that need love and they are good to go till dey pull tru.
You can take it upon yourself to provide her with a rechargeable lamp and replace her candles. Discuss with her why she shouldn't use candles as it's not safe. Also talk with her that u may only allow her to use ur shop as a place to sleep for say a month and she will need to look for a proper accommodation after. Finally, since u are a landlord, u can help her search for a small accommodation from fellow landlords.
If she realises that you are on her side. She will listen and oblige.
Topic : My name in the book of life? Text : Philippians 4 : 1- 3
Going by the fulfilment of almost all the prophecies concerning the end time, the question for concern at the moment should be "is your/my name in the book of life". Why should it be the main question for now? It is, because, anytime from now going by the happenings in the world that are fulfilling the end time prophecies, the end may come. This is a question that we all need to answer sincerely. We know ourselves more than anyone else. We know what we do in our closets. One thing that is certain is that no one can deceive God, because nothing is hidden from HIM. Brethren, this is not a question to ask ourselves just once, it should be asked periodically to examine whether we are still in the faith that was once delivered unto us. Remember, once saved is not forever saved, and that you are blasting in tongues or exhibiting other spiritual gift doesn't make one's name to be in the book of life forever. Fruits of genuine repentance must be seen in one's life by leaving the old ways of living to embrace the gospel way.
This study shall be considered under these three sub topic briefly. 1. What the book of life is 2. How to be sure your name is there 3. Matter calling for action..
What the book of life is. It is the family register of all the members of the family of God. It is a book opened and keep by God, so no room for any form of manipulation. It contains only the saved and the sinless. It is a book that one's name is written automatically when such received salvation, but threatened to be removed when one sins. It is a book in which one can retain one's name by wearing white robe and keeping the whote robe clean always. He/she that wears white cloth runs from the one that carries palm oil.
How to be sure your name is there. Why some will say that only heaven knows those that will get there. No, this is an erroneous belife or statement. Observing and maintaining these tripple "s" will give you the assurance that your name is written in the book of life Saved : One must first received the salvation that our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ brought into the world. This is the first instance when one's name got written in the book of life. Jn 1 : 12 - 15 Set apart : One must be sanctified in order to have dominance over self (flesh), sin and the world, thus making such to maintain his/her name in the book of life. Steadfast : Steadfastness is a must for those who are in Christ Jesus. Not to be hot today, cold tomorrow. He doesn't adore lukewarm Christian. One has to be consistent in godly activities and characters.
Three things about the question we are studying tonight are something; ....to be sure of ....you can be sure of ....others should testify of. People should be able to see Jesus in our lives (behavior, speech, dressing etc) as they saw Him in the lives of the early Apostle at Antioch.
Now, there are three possible answers to this question. So if someone asked that, is your name in the book of life, one of the below will be the possible response, 1. Yes 2. No 3. I cannot say. This will lead us to the third part of this study.
Matter for action One's response to this question is the matter that calls for an action to be taken. If your response to the question is Yes, the matter for action is to continue to walk in your white robe and avoid any form of stain. Rev. 3 : 4 & 5 If your response to the question is No, the matter for attention is to depart from sin and be born again. 2 Tim 2 : 19 - 21. If your response to the question is I cannot say, the matter for action is to join the No group and be born again Extra 2 : 61 - 63.
Izabel: The Bible is full of indications that God cares about our appearance. God created us "in his own image," ( Genesis 1:27 ), He designed each of us in the womb ( Jeremiah 1:5 ), and "we are his workmanship" ( Ephesians 2:10 ). He made each of us to look just as we do, and we reflect His own beauty. The Bible doesn't say how we reflect His beauty, but it is reasonable that our appearance has something to do with that. Since God cares about our appearance, we ought to as well. However, as God told Samuel when Samuel was looking for someone to anoint as king to follow Saul in 1 Samuel 16:7 , "… the LORD sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart." If we are to have the same attitudes as Jesus has, we should place our priority on how our heart is in relation to God. Outward appearance may be important, but the heart is more important. Samuel looked at each of David's brothers, and he was sure God would have chosen one of them. But God had chosen "a man after His own heart." ( 1 Samuel 13:14 ). David was good looking ( 1 Samuel 16:12 ), but God had chosen him because of his heart, not his appearance. People often look at 1 Timothy 2:8-10 ("I desire then … that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works." when addressing the issue of caring about physical appearance and apply it to say that women should not wear expensive jewelry or wear fine clothes. However, as Titus 2 says, the principle that our adornment should be in godliness rather than outward appearance applies to all people, regardless of their age, gender, or station in life. Both passages of Scripture are addressing the issue that proper godly attitudes are much more important. So, if we care about our physical appearance, the reason we care is much more important than the fact that we care. For example, if we keep fit and trim because we want to glorify God in our bodies ( 1 Corinthians 6:20 ), we have a good reason for doing so. But if we keep fit and trim because we want to impress others with how in shape we are, our reason is pride, which the Bible condemns in many places. One such scripture is 1 Peter 5:5 , which says, "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." If we obsess about our physical appearance, we may be falling into idolatry, which is also condemned throughout the Bible ( Colossians 3:5 , for one passage). So we should care about physical appearance, but outward appearance should not be what we focus on. We should focus more on why we care about our physical appearance than how we look. The world places quite a bit of emphasis on physical appearance, but Christians should "not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of [our] mind[s], that by testing [we] may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect" ( Romans 12:2 ). We should not reject caring about our physical appearance just because the world cares, but we should be changed inside so we can tell what the will of God is. If His will for us is to minister to the "beautiful people," we probably should look the part so our physical appearance does not detract from our ministry. Our reason for paying attention to how we look should be to please God, not other people. Therefore, the answer to the question, "Should Christians care about physical appearance?" is "Yes", but with the very strong caveat that our reason for caring should be that we want to please God in our bodies.
myright: Like I said to the ones that have contacted me, it is better you travel with the goods to Anambra yourself, to my shop so that you will my address and location... I believe by so doing you would be convinced
myright: Just like I told the guys from Abuja and Oyo state that contacted me via whatsapp, you don't have to be afraid. You could bring the goods to my shop yourself. By so doing, you will know I mean business.
Mr Austin, I will be waiting for the jean trousers as soon as you get them....Once again, my shop is located at Nkwo umunze in Orumba south, Anambra state. Feel free to contact me on whatsapp
How can you convince those who are interested with the current situation in this country?
Education / Re: What I Would Do To Babcock Female Student, If She Were My Daughter! by Bejusttoall: 8:45pm On Nov 22, 2019 
when addressing the issue of caring about physical appearance and apply it to say that women should not wear expensive jewelry or wear fine clothes. However, as Titus 2 says, the principle that our adornment should be in godliness rather than outward appearance applies to all people, regardless of their age, gender, or station in life. Both passages of Scripture are addressing the issue that proper godly attitudes are much more important. So, if we care about our physical appearance, the reason we care is much more important than the fact that we care. For example, if we keep fit and trim because we want to glorify God in our bodies ( 1 Corinthians 6:20 ), we have a good reason for doing so. But if we keep fit and trim because we want to impress others with how in shape we are, our reason is pride, which the Bible condemns in many places. One such scripture is 1 Peter 5:5 , which says, "God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." If we obsess about our physical appearance, we may be falling into idolatry, which is also condemned throughout the Bible ( Colossians 3:5 , for one passage). So we should care about physical appearance, but outward appearance should not be what we focus on. We should focus more on why we care about our physical appearance than how we look.