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Jupxter:
God don reveal her future hubby oh...Sowwie you came late

But he's not Belafonte and Belafonte is the best there is.

Oyindidi:
Christ in me!! Too bad bro

Have you ever seen a guy going from church to church looking for wife?

Sagamite:
Your head is very correct!

Of course, I learnt from the best.

Jupxter:
I repeatr if you see my 21 year old niece, omo guys here go leave their babes na me talk am

My in-law how far?

Oyindidi:
I have to support my single sisters. Most men see marriage as though they are doing the lady a favour. Till they change that silly mentality, ladies are in for a long thing.

Men are doing women a favour by marrying them. You call it silly. We call it reality.

Jupxter:
I don't disagree

What do you expect her to stay? Those ones have no choice but be nice. Who dey price their market? You done see where person wey no dey sell dey do shakara? Na hunger go kill am.

Jupxter:
Women aren't capable of leading men even though men can lead women without any problem....Men handle power with ease, give a woman power and it destroys her...they arent built and wired for power...Also, feminism has schooled women that being a wife is slavery, lets test this doctrine the next 10-15 years, lets watch how many of them end

Lol leave feminists, they come begging when noone's watching. ; I

Jupxter:
The bigger picture is gradually rolling, and its clear to see guys need to be a lil more patient, the game is in favor of the guys....


Any smart lady should force her way into marriage between 21-25 thesedays, beyond this point, the beauty starts to fade as attention dwindles in swift pursuit, then the guy's value start to push up...

There's a reason why across time and cultures men have been lords of women. It's not a grand patriarchal conspiracy, it's the way of life of humans. Women aren't capable of leading men even though men can lead women without any problem.

Matriarchal societies hardly amount to much because women aren't the adventurers men are. Feminism likes to tell women they have been held back but they aren't. Look at all the countries led by women or gynocentrism they are in decline. The world needs men to progress, otherwise we go extinct as a race.

Sagamite:
I think a woman's love is purer when they are 15 to 22.

After that, they change.

And before anyone says "Oh, you see, it is because of the way men treated them". No!

It is just the way their hormones change.

Women change drastically at different stages of their life, far more than men do. That is one of the reasons I believe being to one for the rest of your life happily is a virtually impossible task.

I fully agree. It's the way of life. Thats their period of innocence. I've got a baby mama and I can swear she loved me at one time. Right now, she wants me not because of love but because she knows I'm her best bet considering she's got a child and guys will always consider that when entering a relationship with her. I look around and see that younger girls believe in love and aren't as materialistic as their aunties and older sisters.

However, i don't think it's about hormones, I think it's their compensation, the more lovers they have, the more difficult it is to bond with newer boyfriends. They have to fill that void with vanity; hair, shoes, clothes etc.

Jupxter:
The bigger picture is gradually rolling, and its clear to see guys need to be a lil more patient, the game is in favor of the guys....


Any smart lady should force her way into marriage between 21-25 thesedays, beyond this point, the beauty starts to fade as attention dwindles in swift pursuit, then the guy's value start to push up...

I only seriously date 19-24 year Olds. At worst, we marry when shes 26. Other than that, I'm not interested in more than an occasional lay. They are all the same and I might as well get the freshest babes available. Why pay premium price for expired goods?

Sagamite:
Well said, nigga!

I have repeatedly said it on NL: Feminism is pure poison and reetarded!

It has really messed many women up.

It has made them more selfish, more inconsiderate, more argumentative; but less attractive and less bearable.

I have observed, from the moment you meet and engage with most girls, her mentality is just "me, me, me, me".

They want YOU to take all responsibilities.

They are asking you questions that is focused on their self-interest.

They want you to prove you are worthy.

They think they are just entitled to the rights, privileges and benefits like feminism has told them is for them, otherwise they are "victims of these evil men (the patriarchy)".

Guy, I see single-motherhood as the dominant family structure in the future. (I apologise if it is already the case but I am not aware)

Especially for black women as their behaviour is inherently worse. That is already the case for most black women in America. Only a quarter have ever been married by the time they are 45. Increasingly so for white women too.

https://www.nairaland.com/2424042/what-sagamite-been-saying-years

Looku Looku! (My specialty)

Boss Sagamite, you and Dayokanu opened my eyes to seeing the woman for what she really is. Been on nl eight years now and I have learned a lot.

I strongly believe single parenting is the next phase in Nigeria, the women don't want to be answerable to just one dude and the guys are catching on to the bullshit.

However, I know they will cry at the end because Naija guys will avail themselves of the opportunity to hit as much aṣs as is possible without attempting to commit. Already, women are proposing in Naija and guys are rejecting.

Things will balance themselves out eventually, but till then, picture me rolling.

alexialin:
Hopefully, I won't fucvk it up. So help me God! Amen.
And he's not straying anywhere
Sighs innocent love is so beautiful and puppish, sha..It's a good feeling to experience even if it doesn't last forever but I pray it last though. It's well jare.

A man's love for a woman is purer than a woman's love for a man. Once a man realises that love isn't real, he goes to the dark side pretty quickly. Your job is to keep that fantasy going. Can you?

efesodje:
Marriage is not compulsory my brother. I am not even thinking about it neither am I bothered. I am close to 35 and very happy being single. I see my married colleagues in the office always looking miserable.

Some get so scared of going home at close of work that they stay in the office or hangout somewhere till 10pm daily.

Please marriage is not by force

Bros, may happiness always reside in your heart. The women outside right now aren't worth the stress.

Shugavee:
irresponsiblity at its peak!! This piece is 4 people with sense!! If u dont hv one!! Move along!! Thanks

Unfortunately for you, nairaland is an open forum. I will be here to expose your trash for what it is. Don't cry, I'm going nowhere.

Happiness should be your number one priority, not trying to meet up with people's standards! so what if your 40 years and not married, so what if ur hv been searching for ten years and you haven't found a worthy woman!! Are you happy? that's the first thing you should ask yourself!! if you're not happy because your not married or you don't have a woman then my nigga you have no problem in your life!!

I agree

so its expected that a man tolerates a woman not a woman tolerating a man if your man doesn't tolerate you then that man doesn't love you!!

Guys, please disregard this piece of trash. If the woman you give your name, and provide for and protect cannot you bin her like rotten food. Don't let a idiot tell you otherwise, not even your parents. The divorce rate is so high because women are becoming increasingly foolish.

alexialin:
See you, he's not Ode o.. He's a kind loving young guy who still believes in love and taking care of his responsibilities without blinking an eye. He gives his all to make it work, which I respect about him. That's one thing, that makes life refreshing about him. And he has earned my respect.
And By God's grace he won't join the dark side. Amen.

He will keep been loving, selfless and considerate.
*tongue out*

Lol. Make sure you don't fûck it up. And if you think he's straying, get him back on track. There's nothing more beautiful than innocent love, alas, it seldom lasts. Good luck in your relationship.

Jupxter:
Ntuttin is too small bro. If the kids get 2k, they'll appreciate it, if 2k goes into commodities, it could churn out 500naira profit, so they end with 2500...What do we do? They are our mothers, sisters, and the kids ...argh, you remember our little street experiences, we need to shield them from stuvs we passed thru, you dig ?

Lol. I'll see. I'm about to start a business and my own son sef dey dia. I can only give at my convenience. Well talk about this later. Let's not make it seem like this woman is a beggar. She's just in a rut. We'll help when it's ok to do so. Don't forget I also have extended family members who would suck my dîck if I gave them 2k, and everyone knows charity begins at home.

Jupxter:
Belafonte, you're not gonna kill me. Lool. Lol. Rofl...You're cracking me up brov. Ubunja hasn't be much active lately. That's one honest man doing the work on God in restoring men-folk to "its glorious position.. "

That guy dey sabi burst my brain. He's got red pill message pat down. Much respect to another playa. I'm sure he's busy on some other shît.

Jupxter:
Whenever you see a sister act that way, its just one thing, one of her sisters did the victim and it didnt work out as planned, so they carry and hawk the matter like gala

Lol. Abeg leave them. They can't act outside their nature.

Jupxter:
It takes an act of wickedness for wisdom to grow. Maybe some fellas need bad women to learn from... Naaa, i aint using myself as anyone's cadaver...Never, we won't take them serious no more, never. They can opt for cucumber,dildos,sex dolls etc.


For the sake of the kids we need to do something bro, we can't look away from this.

All I can do is promise. Right now, I'm not so solvent. This is January after all.

Jupxter:
It was aimed at me for personal reasons bra. Let it go ...Just look past it...

I'm an old timer here. I know better than to let such little barbs get to me. I've dished out far, far worse.

sisisioge:


I'm sorry. It was a slip of the fingers.

Oh, it's ok to speak your mind. Jo offence taken.

Jupxter:
Ode n lalo n je bee. Wo ma an fo ri gba paro gbe yin gbe yin ni

You know what they say, "a sucker is born every minute". .

alexialin:
Belafonte, good guys who are financially responsible still exist.

Don't be deceived.

Lol. "The boy is good, ode lo n je bee". . Of course they exist. They are one experience away from joining the dark side.

sisisioge:
Amen sis.. Amen! Just when I'm relaxing and grinning more towards commitment, a host of monkeys just reminded me to take my gun off safety mode. Whew! It is well o. I have attended a lot of weddings in my life, never had I seen promised hate from couples. What went wrong biko? Where is love? Where is mutual respect? Where is rooting for your team mate simply because they are? Forks. May God bless His people with peace. It is well.

Bunch of monkeys. Hmm.

Jupxter:
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You're so onpoint @ Guys can never be as bad as women....


...A woman's meaness Jesus....even demons flee at the sight of it...

Lol. They will soon come and start crying here now.

Dimples129:
There are bad boys and there are bad girls but the badness get levels!! and certified laws protecting it. Such as the case of the op...

You're argument seems flawed because guys bad and badness level is too much

This isn't a tick for tack situation. How can we get op some change to feed her kids though...

I agree the husband is a mad man, and I do sympathise with her. I understand how rough it must be for her and the kids.

Guys can never be as bad as women because women can be mean and evil umlike men who can only be mean. Ever heard "hell hath no fury like a man scorned"?

You can run a crowd funding campaign for her na. Or you alert TEHN about it. Good luck.

Do you.

That kinda woman is preferable. Only inexperienced dudes would find her weird.

Well, hope this makes her think twice about sharing her kpekus without her husband's permission.

I'm just kidding guys. This is absolutely reprehensible, reprehensible I tell you.