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xynerise:
For my woman to slap me, that means I have hurt her so bad that the only way for her to absorb the pain is to give me Aka nti.

Well, a slap cannot kill me na. I will just take the slap as payback and life goes on...

Will you shut up!

MrHistorian:
Another Bullsheet.

Nothing on earth justifies rape. . .Numbskull.

So, then where is your evidence of a råpe occurrence? Is an accusation equal to proof of an actual situation?

I'm sorry, I will need proof to believe this story. Ain't saying she's lying, just saying I need evidence.

tensazangetsu20:
It's already been quoted.

So?

pocohantas:
They crave it as much as guys do.

What they don't crave is:
...unwanted pregnancy
...kiss and tell.
...infections.
...heartbreaks.
...cheating.
...avoidable multiple sexual partners.
...slut shaming, etc.

That deeldo can't be guilty of the aforementioned

Neither can it suck or squeeze bobby. Or even lick puna and yansh.

tensazangetsu20:
....

Why did you delete the opening post?

ubunja:
fonte that was Feminism's biggest miscalculation.
to assume Patriarchy and marriage was oppression for women
their solution? remove both
but marriage WAS the price men paid for sex. and that was a very high price.
now a few dates gets u sex. if our ancestors lived today they would be wondering why so many guys are not getting sex daily.

Lol. If women knew how much feminism has robbed them of, they would kill anybody that mentioned that fraudulent word around them.

I'm just so happy to be a man. I wake up everyday with a smile, knowing I can have my pick of nubility. My brother, it is good to be a man.

Our ancestors had a working formula; man provide for and protect your woman; woman cater to your man. But no, that's too difficult. Oh, well, it's not so bad

Aleis:
Mary has no child apart from Jesus, that is why she still refer as Virgin.
IN the Hebrew, there is no clear distinction BTW cousins, brother and sons. Those u see mentioned, are his cousins not brothers.

Hahahaha. So, Joseph no Strad till he die, abi he get side chick or second wife?

Nigerian Christian are not beholden to Palestinian interests. Palestinians have no ancestral claims to Jerusalem, moreover, they could just be doing this to avoid being turned upon by their "Peaceful" countrymen who will not hesitate to decapitate them in anger.

Angelawhite:
Following your argument, nobody on this earth should be beaten because it may result to death.

I am yet to see a cogent reason why women should not be beaten.

Well, death is quite the most extreme situation here but it is a possibility. How would someone control himself when beating the woman starts? Most first time wife beaters do so after a lot of anger and frustration has been stored up. Interestingly, the law proffers the solution of spanking her with a rod not bigger than the thumb. Thus, of course, begs the question of if the modern man woukd actually have a cane for a wife like he would a child.

In my experience, it's easier to just leave the situation and/or the relationship if one is pushed to being violent. You shouldn't be with someone who annoys you to the point where you constantly want to bash their skull in.

Ladyjumong:
lol, una eh

We're only being honest, sis. You know how it is with a loaded Naija dude during Christmas, he's practically Santa and his main babe isn't with him after giving him cõck and bull tales as to why she wouldn't be. You sef reason am.

Dis ram na nigga ram. If na me get dis kain ram, I no go fit kill am, we go just dey chill together for parlour.

pryme:
In my first post that i quoted you, I said something about "some" red flags on your own part. The first one i mentioned is that - you are too emotionaly.

Now the next one? your Ego, yeah you said "if he does not contact you, you wont contact him" well this ego dancing a ballet here. sorry if am picking bones on your own end but like they say

"the truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off"

You said something about being afraid that you dont want to be hurt, let me ask you who wants that? is it the men that are suppose to be guinea pigs for Dr Heartbreak to cut to pieces for his experiments? they say a feeble heart does not win a fair lady, i believe this goes both ways.

this explains why fvckboys are very successful, cos they will say what you want to hear, make that call you are now waiting for, infact they will go as far as they can go to get what they want. you will mistake their unrelenting effort for commitment. well i have news for you not every man has time for girls that make them feel they are not important.

Look my dear friend, they say its not easy to find a good woman and even if you did, they dont come easy, the same goes with men.
but if you feel you are too important for him to ignore you when he is with his family, then pls leave the guy alone and find a man that will give up his family for you.

The ball is actually in your court, cos you told him you will too busy this period, so he has let you be i see nothing wrong in that.


Am just curios why use "Corps" of all the names for your moniker?

I think say na only me dey reason am so. And as I have no dog in the fight I done lock up. Naija guy na him one babe dey use cure for Christmas period of all periods. Baba fit even dey with oloshos wey dey ready to leave her own work plus family for bobo sef. We dey try reason with am she dey form. Anyway, she fit get assurance say guys full everywhere so no shaking.

Separation and divorce exist for a reason. No matter how bad a woman is I implore guys to resist the urge to batter her. Women can be annoying as hell but keep your head and leave the environment when things are getting out of control.

If you hit her and she dies nobody will ask what she did. You're already a murderer. For your own safety, do not lay a finger on anybody. Divorce is always better. Throw the bîtch out of your home if you have to, but no hitting.

FavouredAda, I think your husband married you because he wanted a wife. There's obviously no intimacy in your marriage. Was it like this during courtship? If not, at what point did he become this way?

I think your husband married you because he wanted a wife. There's obviously no intimacy in your marriage. Was it like this during courtship? If not, at what point did he become this way?

Corps1000:
Perhaps? But I have told him before I am only dating him. And he did ask what my plans were and I said I was gonna stay at home with my family.

When I said I can't go for work. He said, "Really?, that's your excuse" And I didn't really respond after.

I figure since I been the one initiating contact, I would wait for him to contact me. And if he does, then I would clarify things. And if he doesn't, then that's that.

Alright, then. Wish you good luck.

Corps1000:
He didn't seem that bummed that I declined. He just didn't buy my excuse that work was the reason for me declining. Well, I flew out to see him so clearly I am into him. I declined because the relationship is still very new so I don't feel comfortable meeting his family just yet.

I also was dating other guys at the same time (no sex) and in part,dropped them, to give this a real shot. As I actually liked him and we vibed well from the 1st date.

I was actually thinking there could be a future there because our goals, upbringing, and perspectives are very similar.

I admit I am kinda closed off to an extent because it's hard to trust men, but he seemed legit but him being kinda distant, I am having doubts.

I will wait for him and see if he reaches to me and share how I feel. And affirm that I like him.

I think not buying your excuse has made him clam up, he's probably thinking you've got other plans with some other dude. Not believing your excuse is a really big deal. I think you should have come clean from the get-go with your real reasons for not wanting to make the trip. Also, understand I'm just making assumptions as I don't know him and can't speak for him. I just want you to see other very probable scenarios.

I think you should do as you intend as outlined in your last paragraph. Just come clean and try your best to make him do so as well. It would be the best line of action in my opinion.

Also, listen to Pryme above, he's got some real good advice for you. Calling him would go a long way in smoothing things out.

He could be bummed you refused to follow him home since he wanted you to meet his family and is probably wondering if you're as into him as he is you. Tbh, taking a woman to meet the family is a huge step and from the way you speak of your man he doesn't seem to be fooling around.

I think you should wait till he gets back, tell him your fears and ask him to be honest with you if your refusal to follow him home was a cause. Nigerian men generally don't like to beg their women to do anything. If he feels he has to do too much work to get you to do something he might be reconsidering the relationship itself.

Also. it's possible he's busy with merriment and other activities, Christmas is a really busy period here in Nigeria.

Don't just assume. Be very sure.

jamariwolf:
lol. Deal. What's the plan then?

Merry Christmas, Jamariwolf. Just seeing this. I'm no quite sure how to proceed, any ideas?

Efewestern:
it's like you don't know the essence of the vote, but I will explain.

The vote was not to change u. s decision but was for other countries to express their views regarding this issue and 90% still don't see Jerusalem as Isreal capital except US and some few countries.

it's like you don't read to understand. I already said the vote was of no effect. it is just a show of approval/disapproval. I also said the US don't care what other nations think about its decision(s)

Doyin2:
Very stupid. Comment.Why can't USA pull out of UN.

If USA cannot. Abide by majority UN resolution,then it should pull out.

The same USA relies on UN resolutions to invade weaker countries.

The US does not need the UN's approval for anything and they have threatened to leave already if such petty theatrics remain. The UN has no power other than what countries like the US give it. This vote on the US move in Israel has as much effect as Panadol on AIDS. Nothing will happen.

EsotericMonk:
That is exactly where our diplomacy is lacking.
Obj would clearly abstain, knowing that different power blocs have vested interest in the country but our Islamic fanatic leader unsurprisingly displayed his loyalty to OIC not minding the greater good of the country.
And to think that Israel had been heavily involved in consultancy services to our security forces makes it all the more ill thought out

It's such an unfortunate situation we find ourselves in in this country. We need to do better as a people. At the end of the day we deserve the leaders we get.

Doyin2:
To hell with USA

So the so called humanitarian aids are for selfish interests? Not to help humanity?

Lol. This is so cute. You don't bite the finger that feeds you. The US is under no obligation to provide aid. It is a gift that we desperately need and we voted against our benefactors. That's really silly of the Nigerian government

babamoha:
If Nigeria voted in support of US they stand the chance to iose aids from ( Uk, France, Italy, Spain ) so if we combine aids from all these countries together it will be far more than what we gets from US ;DIf Nigeria voted in support of US they stand the chance to iose aids from ( Uk, France, Italy, Spain ) so if we combine aids from all these countries together it will be far more than what we gets from US

Nigeria could have abstained. The vote was non-binding and had the effect of a mosquito biting an elephant. For something so silly, Nigeria should have simply not voted any way.

kallmemrB:
Naija...Chop ,clean mouth then gboju(carry eye)

but honestly this people don't understand the backlash the Govt is gonna face if they voted Yes...We have lots of Islam fanatics that fight and blown up anything for no just cause....


You: Funny Muslim

Muslim Fanstic: Ha You Call funny Muslim abi....strap bomb immediately... them boom boom

In the news: 100 people died in a terrorist bombing


It all started from you just calling him funny Muslim....Now imagine Them moving a capital that has no bearing with Nigeria muslims but has fellow Islam Religion there

I agree with you. The wise thing for the government to have done is abstain from voting. This way, npne of the religions involved would have any grounds to protest.

Some people had their own wedding in Dubai and the marriage no reach six months. While there's nothing wrong with the flamboyance of an expensive ring and a lavish wedding ceremony, it's wiser to put stock in the more important and enduring elements in a marriage.

Imarnuel04:
Turning down a proposal doesn't mean rejection. Some ladies have accepted after 2 or 3 proposals. Take it on the chin man, life goes on. Try again or move on

As in, the guy will still propose to the same woman that walked out on him? Hahahahahaha. Is there any hope for the modern young man at all?