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ubunja:
this is one of the passages that woke me up fully. Mark "Facebook" Zukerberg's wife put the truth so plainly its a wonder why most guys dont get it.


women give their best 10 yrs (17 to 27) to the Badboys and their worst 10 yrs (27 to 37) to the Nice Guys they marry just before they hit 40. but men are trained to give their worst 10 yrs to porn as they struggle to get laid while building their lives in their 20s; then they must give their 10 best years to the women they will marry at 35 when everything in their life is finally coming right. guys in their mid 30s are at the prime of life. career,flat, car. instead of seeking a fresh 19yr old gal to enjoy they are bullied (by being called Pedophiles or too chicken to deal with women their age) into hooking up with used up, tired mid 30s women with boobs that touch the floor and bums that are porridge. women dont want men at their worst during their 20s but want them at their best in their 30s. its not fair.no man under 35 must marry, and when he marries he must not marry a girl over 21. teenage to early 20s girls and mid 30s guys are a match made in heaven. each has what the other wants.the man needs a fresh body for his babies ,and the girl needs a matured man who can provide. its a blessed union.a union that makes older women mad as hell and want to kill a man.LOL

ibkayee:
Why expose her business like that here?

Anyway, I don't know what kind of relationship you have with her tbh

Questence:
Who is the male nairalander?

ubunja:
very true. the hand that rocks the craddle controls the world. no man grows into something his mother didnt intend or wish.
and single mothers raise most Nice Guys coz they are forever saying to their sons :" dont grow up to be like your father." " respect women" . and from that time a boy's mind is biased to seek the welfare of women above his own.

ibkayee:
Do you actually know this to be true for a fact?

Rubbiish:
When ever a thread is created & majority of ladies do not agree with it...Just know there are some elements of truth in it....& If all the ladies agree with a post, know there is a problem with that post...That was how God created them, always saying & wanting opposite of what is good for them....No be their fault, it is their nature...Ever wonder why Eve would leave the numerous fruits in d garden to go for what God warned her against?

Op like u rightly said, nice guys please women, but not only women, but men inclusive
The causes of being a nice guy may not necessarily stem out from the points u stated
Temperament is a major influence...
But in as much as i agree with your post, there is difference between helping a lady without any attachment, same way u will help a brother & helping a lady to get laid...

NightHound:
Nice guys are created when parents instill proper values into their sons. When they teach them to value and respect people - women as well as men. When they teach them that denigrating another person does not make them taller or smarter or richer.

Nice guys aren't necessarily people pleasers. They give people respect when it is returned; and distance when it is not.

Many women may not appreciate nice guys early on in life; but eventually, when they learn to value themselves, they learn to appreciate someone who treats them right.

HeOrShe:
He is a scammer with vision and purpose.. Some scammers are not heartless and wicked.. Some have their limits

amzee:
I got a lawyer but the case was called before my lawyer arrived and i told the court registrar but he said thats non of his business. He insisted that i must be jailed because i'm not settling him. Can you imagine?

LadyMarionette:
But I am a true woman, how else am I to speak? All human beings are inherently selfish and self-serving as individuals. Altruism is not of the self/individual. If I look out for the interest of men who are looking out for themselves, who's going to look out for women?

It's self evident that the older a case the harder it gets to prove. Unless there is significant technological advancement that can help solve it. The courts will maintain their integrity by ensuring a conviction is only reached when the prosecution has proven its case beyond all reasonable doubt.

Cheers to you too.

Narldon:


First, i felt terribly ill.

Then my phone grew wings while I was still ill.

Managed to come back online and was greeted with an invitation to His Trad.

I never expererit..


Me 0 - 3 My village people.

MhizzAJ:
It is not right to say that men are polygamous in nature

Men just use that word so they can have as many women as possible

pedrilo:
I agree with OP, love is a scam in this part of the world, maybe due to poverty or greed. But hypocrites will argue this truism

LordKO:
It can only take an insightful person - not an academic person that lack insight - to know that there's a very tiny but big difference between the adjective words transactional and contractual. Actually, I don't always like to engage any academic person that lack insight (articulate incompetent) in dialogue, especially in a forum like this.

Peace out.

LordKO:
"Fixed price." Well, the crux of all transactional agreements are materialism, while the crux of contractual agreements, especially in the area of a healthy romantic relationship, are immaterialism -betrothed. This is akin to unconditional vs selflessness love.

Meanwhile, a process is different from an end - especially good end. A process has no value of its own, only its end/result always determine its value. This is about your scam question.

LordKO:
Love isn't a scam.

However, it's one potent mechanism disingenuous people easily uses to scam others who're either unsuspecting or outright gullible.

Also, relationship isn't transactional at best it's contractual, and a healthy one of it is beneficial.

Oye0404:
It takes matured men to do DAT, not boys who pretend to be men. one shouldn't spread his dirty linen in d public.

Ab025:
Wow,
Although your analysis doesn't always go that way!

Magnifik18:
The rapid deterioration of moral values in Nigeria is alarming to say the least.

Few months back, ritual killing was the order of the day.
After a short while, that changed to kidnapping / robbery. After much, domestic abuse became the order of the day.

Now, the evil has upgraded to a new trend of rape and beg.

What next nigeria? Can it get any worse?

Khaliyah:
Last night, God's servant, Dr Paul Enenche of Dunamis exposed the truth of tithing pointing out how Jesus endorsed in
Matt 23:23 says New Living Translation
"What sorrow awaits you teachers of religious law and you Pharisees. Hypocrites! For you are careful to tithe even the tiniest income from your herb gardens, but
you ignore the more important aspects of the law--justice, mercy, and faith. You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things. King James Bible
Woe unto you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! for ye pay tithe of mint and anise and cummin, and have omitted the weightier matters of the law, judgment,
mercy, and faith: these ought ye to have done, and not to leave the other undone. The passage shows that Jesus endorsed tithing but rebuked tithing in iniquity, so we should tithe!
*You should tithe, yes, but do not neglect the more important things.* (NLT)
Excerpts from the teaching: WHAT IS THE TITHE ABOUT?
1. The Tithe is one-tenth of a person’s income
2. The Tithe existed before the law of Moses (Gen. 14:18-20; 2Cor. 9:6-7)
The Tithe did not come with the law of Moses so it cannot go with the law Moses. It existed far before the law and will continue to exist far after the law.
3. The Tithe did not begin as a commandment, it began as a Kingdom principle delivered by revelation (Gen. 14:18-20)
Nobody told Abraham to tithe, it was revealed to him by God 4. Kingdom principles and revelations are universal in application (Mark 13:37)
Time does not change Divine principles and revelations (Gen. 17:1; Matt. 5:48; 2Cor. 13:11)
6. Tithing was confirmed and commended by the Master in the New Testament (Matt. 23:23; Luke 11:42; Lev. 27:30)
7. The Tithe was validated by Paul the Apostle in the New Testament [Heb. 7:1-8]
www.nairaland.com/4197688/paul-enenche-gospel-truth-tithe

Khaliyah:
The simple truth even if u see biblical backing, you wouldn't believe cus u have made up ur mind not to.
Go read what he said snout tithe www.nairaland.com/4197688/paul-enenche-gospel-truth-tithe/6#62756727

Edum13656:
hypocrisy is a sin in Christianity.

Edum13656:
porn no de even flow well on YouTube. xvideos and pornhub na baba for Opera/Opera mini

Oyiboman69:
The question is,do they do their job?

daryoor:
if any single 32 year old lady sees this she'll just yinmu at your naivité.

as a single man people assume you are struggling for financial security before u settle while a single 32 year old lady will be fed up of unsolicited advices on how her clock is ticking, some will even say its a spiritual problem.
the pressure drives women to marry guys that arent marriage worthy.