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Mup4life:
At the end of the day you still agreed men are SARCE. you will be suprised what a single lady ranging from 30 to 40 in nigeria would do to get that JONSING guy call her a wife.

Is marrying a 30 - 40 year old woman an achievement? Woman that you should not even do elaborate wedding for. There's a reason why those are the ones that will settle for the dirty boxers dude.

ubunja:
agreed. fully.
if only we were all told this truth at School: that women have a rating system where those who dont qualify are used ; while those who qualify get the unrestricted access to the womb and eggs. those who dont qualify will just be the ATM. the shocker being that 80% of men are not attractive to women.and only 20% are the hot ones every girl wants. it sucks.
but if we were all told we would save our money and time and stop trying to win women's love coz to begin with we dont qualify.

anyways many men are waking up to that Reality. thats why the MGTOW community is expanding at rapid rates globally.

mgtow: Men Going Their Own Way. also called The Sexodus.

Oh, I'm well aware of the MGTOW movement and the Sexodus. Discussed it elaborately with my old handle.

I am determined to raise red pill sons. They must have an advantage in the dating world. They will date nothing less than 8s if I had my way.

UBGG:
"Women will break up with a one-time dude and part thighs for a made dude without any compunction, so why should I beat myself up when she's crying I left her?"


Do women still cry over the male species though?

Well, you're a woman. You tell me.

KreativGenius:
Nice one. Men, all the gender wars thesedays...What do you think about ladies looking for already made men vs guys climbing the ladder?

This could be a little lengthy but I'll try to be brief.

I strongly believe a woman should bond with a man while he's down and has plans and is making moves to climb the ladder. Just being with a guy because you both love each other is also cool if the woman isn't really materialistic but, truthfully, isn't realistic in today's world where married women keep lovers for financial benefit. Staying with a man while he doesn't have much also gives a level of power in that relationship that a woman would most likely lack if she married a made man.

Of course, it's much easier to go for a made man, and who knows a woman might just land a rich guy who's very nice. Unlike someone like me. Nothing perosnal, just the way the game is. If I can't get a woman while I'm not yet made for obvious reasons, you cannot just come and be claiming love and expect that I'm manna from heaven. You must pay your dues or ship out. No be fight.

Moreover, made guys lose their money. What happens when the rich boyfriend/husband loses his money? True nature comes out. There's a reason why finances is the leading cause of divorce worldwide. Some women just can't cope when the money isn't as plentiful as it once was or as they hoped it would be.

For me, I would only marry a woman with modest, simple tastes and worldview. Not the type that demands a wedding in Dubai and a honeymoon on Mars. I didn't come to this world to come and be a slave for nobody, talk less of a woman who would hop on a dîck the moment someone richer appears.

It's still long, though. Just manage am.

Rolex67:
Yes dear but I choose to stay with one out of love.

That's good, love. Hope you guys are good to each other, and selfless too? Wish you the best in your relationship.

KreativGenius:
Gangster @ I can break off relationships without the slightest tinge of guilt, because I know it's not really me women like, just the image. grin.

This is crazy

It is what it is, bro. Women will break up with a one-room dude and part thighs for a made dude without any compunction, so why should I beat myself up when she's crying I left her? If I wasn't good enough, in her opinion, she would feel insulted if I even dreamt of thinking we should be together. It is what it is. I ain't settling, and I intend to sample as much as I can.

Rolex67:
I keep saying it, men are not scarce.

So, their just abundant where you are?

ubunja:
true true
if u are not attractive u pay for a woman's love
but if u are attractive women pay for your love.

its the most painful truth under the sun
they call it The Red Pill.

I wouldn't say it's a painful truth. The problem is wrong socialisation. Let everybody know this from their youth and most problems between the sexes would be non-existent if only everyone knew how things are. For me, discovering was quite painful at first, but with time, I couldn't be happier. I can break off relationships without the slightest tinge of guilt, because I know it's not really me women like, just the image. .

It's a wonderful world.

pocohantas:
Na them dream pass, na wetin poverty dey cause.

Leave poor guys let them dream, abeg. . No money and you want to take the only thing they can hold on to? Come on, don't be wicked.

Turn yourself in with a lawyer in tow.

pocohantas:
You'll be surprised she is serious.
Which men are scarce?
It's responsible, cute men with potentials that are scarce.
They are the ones getting these kinda green lights steady.
They are at the top of the ladder in desirability by most women.

One jonsing guy would sit in his one room, with dirty boxers and be waiting for this kinda thing. E go shock am...

You do have a point about top men getting all sorts of female attention. The one room guys can dream too

ubunja:
yar . became too lazy to say anything bro

Lol. I know what you mean.

raylord:
one pack of Benson switch for u

Abeg, na Oris she dey like.

Safiaa:
The only reason why a woman would not like sex is because she's not in touch with her body. They say women enjoy their sex life as they get older, because with age comes experience lol. The best way to know your body as a woman is through masturbating. That's my personal opinion because a lot men do not know what they're doing. Once you find your sensitive spots you can then vocalise what you like to whoever you have sex with. That simple

How can a man know what he's doing if the woman doesn't even know her own body? The man na spirit? If any woman wants to enjoy sex she better open her mouth and say what she wants and how she wants it. Lovemaking should br an interactive activity, not that the woman will lie down like concrete and expect the bobo to guess what she wants.

Ubunja, my man. Is that you peeping?

It's all tongue-in-cheek. Probably an inside joke of some sort. What's all this rubbish talk of men being scarce and women finally waking up?

The guy will eat the cookie and move on. All na format. I have serious doubts about your ability to have a real long term relationship with him. You are advised to stay away from a man who seems reluctant to leave his girlfriend while lining you up for slaughter.

He just finds himself at my place after work. . This guy will squeeze all the juice out your kpekus and bounce. The worst part is you won't really blame him because he already had the perfect caveat.

You sef leave person boyfriend. If to say na jump he dey jump bus upandan now, you go yab am say he never buy motor he dey read book. If he mistakenly find himself for your house na boys you go call for am make dem slap slap him eye make he for dey see road well.

ibkayee:
No can do, honestly nothing personal though

Fair enough. Let me enjoy you from afar, then.

ibkayee:
I don't speak to people off here, nothing personal

Me neither. Just want a different experience is all. A reply would be nice.

donstan18:
I'm not understanding, Are you running after poverty?

Say what?

ibkayee:
Lol it doesn't sound like anything special

Let me be the judge of that. Sent you a PM, by the way.

ibkayee:
Wholesome is always good, thank you

You're welcome.

I'd like to talk to you in person. Want to know what wholesome really sounds like.

ibkayee:
Just checked yours too...

You look quite wholesome.

Lothario:
I didn't ask you to believe me I have nothing to prove to you not everyone is denied the good things of life as you been denied take your scarcity and impossibility mindset somewhere else

Bhet why?

Look at that ãrse, mahn.

ubunja:
Age before Beauty. thats how we roll.

if a woman is beautiful but at 40 she is disqualified. a 19 yr old avarage-looking girl is far more prefered. time is a woman's biggest enemy. and any female that hasnt been conquered by time is pure gold.

My brother, that's how we roll.

ibkayee:
Lol ok o

Just checked your profile...