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ibkayee:
Pitting the 'two types of girls' against each other is where she went wrong with her message though, people may overlook the message and focus on her trying to make it a competition

tosyne2much:
And you sat down to devour a cake of 5k?


You should be able to eat 15 wraps of fufu then

Benita27:
Some of you just want to argue in favour of the girl 'cause she did something most of you would term as that cliché "Wife material" 'cause the average Nigerian guy is broke and wouldn't want to incure expenses on himself which is understandable. You and I know the nature of cakes that constitutes a birthday cake so let's quit debating on something most of you will never see lights in 'cause I could as well buy a 1k cake from an eatery and use as a birthday cake. It's not by force to celebrate birthdays if you don't have what it takes.

Let me assume she takes 5K for a cake but the question would be, what kind of cake could she buy?. You've kept hammering on some cakes sold in eateries for such amount without taking into consideration the occasion she needs the cake for. No one now would bake a good cake for 5k. How much is a rubber of flour, sugar, butter, create of eggs, gas, etc, and one's gain for baking that someone would take such an amount to give you something befitting?. In case you missed, I equally said prices depends on location 'cause where I am, you can't get a caterer bake a 5K cake. Where she was more stupid was telling the guy to save the 5k for her bride price though it was sarcastically stated but returning such amounts to him won't make him marry her.

tosyne2much:
The comments from the ladies justify the level of avariciousness of ladies of today


It's funny that ladies who choose to be conscientious in lavishing money on ordinary birthday cake is a traitor

tosyne2much:
Hahahaha I don die

I tire ooooo... Abi shey the cake must bellyful person ni?

tosyne2much:
I'm surprised this is coming from a lady. Even as a guy, I think I know much better than you about cakes


A cake of 3k can be shared among ten persons . Isn't that enough for a low key birthday celebration?

tosyne2much:
My brother, I was surprised seeing people lashing out to the girl oooo maybe because they don't see a part of themselves doing that.

Person wey dey do birthday talk say 10k cake too much, una dey call her hypocrite?

Benita27:
You're taking panadol over another's headache. Imagine the venom from which you typed. SMH. ;DYou missed it on my first post concerning this matter.

Benita27:
You could get a cake for as low as 1k in some eateries but does that make it a birthday cake?.

tosyne2much:
I disagree with you.. You can get a cake as low as 3k in most eateries

Benita27:
If 10k translates to spending so much on something as trivial as a birthday then she could have as well rejected taking money from him. Abi, she can't buy a cake for herself?. If such an amount is termed "Mindless" to you then I really wonder what you'd consider "Mindful". Point made, let's quit going back and forth.

DeadRat:
so You Believe The Guy You Are Dating Now has No Intentions Of Marryin You

Benita27:
It's a birthday cake so you can't just presume she's going to have it with herself and boyfriend if indeed she intended celebrating it like people do. I didn't say the dude ought to have given her 50k or more for the cake, but the fact that the girl thinks 10k is too much for a cake and had to return 5k. The funniest part of the story is that someone thinks she's indirectly saving bride price.

Benita27:
5K, 3k cakes are cakes one would have to eat with two or three persons. I could even get a cake of N100 from any store.

Price goes with quality.

Benita27:
Let's be realistic here before sounding like people living in a world of fantasy.

Prices of cakes depends largely on location and shop. A 10k birthday cake is very small with probably a simple butter icing or just her name written on it with less design. With 5k, she can't get a cake so let me assume she may end up adding her money to it or not baking a cake at all which boils down to the girl's preference.

She's not saving bride price 'cause she returned 5k back 'cause all I care is; he may end up paying for another woman's bride price while you were busy pretending to be a wife material.

MissWrite:
Lol! Actually what she did is use 5k to send him a message (just in case he hasn't been thinking along those lines). And if he doesn't get it, he'll still use the 5k and open account with another girl. Two for the price of one.

ubunja:
LOOOOOL
yet this is the same age group getting pregnant daily.
so they are old enough to make pregnant but somehow not old enough to marry is that how it works now?
some girls have the motto "MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE" and so focus on long career training. there are some whose motto is "CAREERS ARE NOT FOR EVERYONE".lets not make that choice for them.we already trust them at 18 to choose the next President thru voting, so lets trust them also to choose the kind of life they want.
ANYWAYS WHO SAID MARRIAGE SHOULD SPELL DOOM TO A GAL'S CAREER AMBITIONS .
truth is i see a lot of highly educated women with degrees that took years and years to acquire but who at 35 are wishing they gave love time when love had time for them.
these will die lonely with their cats in their townhouses

sharing:
What of those men who have married women that are older than them, what is your take ?

ubunja:
u speak as if women marry for love
how many marriages ended when the man lost his job and became poor
how many marriages ended when a man's d!ck stopped working
tell a girl u love her and she checks your footwear and your phone then she asks where u work
IS THAT WHAT YOU CALL LOVE?

MhizzAJ:
Just get someone pregnant then...No need to kukuma marry

tosyne2much:
It's just luck jawe.. Though, age plays a very important role too sha.. There are sometimes that one will nurture a lady, only for her to go haywire after being exposed

ubunja:
i marry for children.
i love myself enough already.

Ishilove:
but he pinned her down and sucked that puzzy like a vacuum cleaner!

MhizzAJ:
Y'all just think most girls are used up before they get to age 24 or they've had shitty lifestyles...It's a bunch of crap

Every man knows the quality he's looking for in a woman regardless of her age

Times have changed and relationship trends are changing as well

If a woman says she wants to go for a financially stable man now...You will tag her a gold digger and a lazy woman but you are saying it's good to marry a woman at that age because she will be financially dependent on her man...It's only domineering men that think this way

And some women even look better as they age...Don't even think they lose value with age...It all depends on the individual

It is people like you that make females rush into marriage because y'all make so much emphasis on a woman's biological clock simply because you see her as a sex object or simply because you want to spite her

acme6:
Marriage is about love and tolerance not age.

ubunja:
i always hate the looks some guys give me when i pass with my young fresh thing and they are standing there with someone who last year looked like his GF but this year looks like his older sister.
and i know in 10 years she will look like his mother

tosyne2much:
Ladies within that age range are not bad just that you shouldn't expect much from them. It's very risky to invest so much in them (emotionally, materially and financially) because they can mess you up at anytime

ceezarhh:
not only your birthright... mine also

ubunja:
my money is fresh from the bank,so her body must be fresh as well.
noone goes to the shop to buy bread that has passed its sell-by date

ceezarhh:
if a man becomes the "financial saviour" of a lady, marrying such a guy will seem like returning the favour...

ubunja:
every man deserves the best.
we all deserve a girl with standing breasts
say bye bye to slippers