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UBGG:
Which?

The sort that take charge and take what they want confidently.

UBGG:
Ok...I like my man in charge but I kept meeting effeminate men and it really became hard to not be countless Dracula around them.

Now, I'm with someone who takes charge, he's manly and submitting to him is so easy. No, he's not a monster, he just evinces his love in a healthy way, how I like it.

Aren't those the best kind of men! .

Secondly, effeminate men are raised by women. Just saying. Raise alphas when you start a family. Cheers.

KreativGenius:
I've given up on these species....treat them nicely, it's sissiness or weakness... I aint showing any niceness anymore...They don't deserve it, it's the punchbag treatment they crave, hence the more withdrawn one is emotionally, the more they adjust and behave so that's it from now onwards

There are things I know for a fact about women that I cannot post here for fear of female mob action against me. I just smile and listen to their silly mind games, play along and move on when I'm bored.

KreativGenius:
Get your drift, this is the second church this is happening...You spoke wisely oh, it's an entrapment...


Lol...It's a test they never pass. I wonder why? Perhaps low spiritual discernment, a spiritual lady should be able to tell the difference between a not-so-okay guy, and a very okay guy ! Damn this fish brains, i almost almost came close to taking off my cloak not so long ago !...Anyways, i'm taking it off...but search mode continues...funny enough, if i take my cloak off, hmm...Lolz..Make i shatap


It's the home and character i always look out for

The only spiritual discernment women have these days is the one that appreciation for cash and material benefits. . At this point, I'm 50/50 as regards marriage. I'm coming to terms with the fact I might never find someone deserving of my name.

My cloak always stays on. If I do take it off, it's as a test.

UBGG:
Lots. I wouldn't say I didn't deserve some it though, I could really be countess Dracula sometimes.

I'm guessing you've seen the light then? No more vampire behaviour?

UBGG:
Lots. I wouldn't say I didn't deserve some it though, I could really be countess Dracula sometimes.

Hmm. I'm guessing you've seen the light then? . No more vampire behaviour?

KreativGenius:
Not a hoe, which babe you meet isn't ...make i shatap..i believe yu get the drift now

I get your drift. But I've found the best policy is not to embark on some rehabilitation project where women are concerned. Deal with her on your own terms. Showing empathy will only make them think you're weak. You can like a woman and feel like she could do better and just feel bad fir her in your heart.

KreativGenius:
That's if they yield themselves to the Holyspirit. You love a bad girl despite her flaws, she begins to suspect you..Bro i've been there...

You love who? A bad girl? Despite her flaws? Bros, you're not Amos o. Damaged women are bad news. Real bad news. Let them be. Let their God handle them. It will be a massive net loss trying to save a hoe.

KreativGenius:
Cool. So, i'm switching off...Not considering her anymore, thanks, been looking for someone i would ask this question...Worse off, the pastor asked how much my shoe was, i said 7500Naira ( I think say i try ), he made a funny remark, getting a gift shoe worth 75kfrom him....The man is seriously carrying me upfront, shyte i just forgot, his guest minister always brought me up front, the well has indeed being poisoned, i'm moving on...I never take off my broke guy look when it comes to women, never ! Can you imagine, just one and half in all my entire life has been attracted to me without flashing, you can see how our sisters are? fish brains. Na look i dey look them

Lol @ one and a half.

I think the pastor is trying to make sure your money stays in his church. He wants you to marry from his congregation. Don't fall for it. You don't want to always wonder if your wife would be your wife if you weren't as loaded. Besides, you should already know what kind of women that church would be filled with when their spiritual father is so blatantly materialistic. Marry from a good home, if you get my drift.

What can you do? Nothing can be done barring a touch from the Holy Spirit. Accept the reality and you will be fine.

KreativGenius:
I always keep a low profile...Never ever told any human being what's up...My last fellowship,when i flashed...OMO, all the ladies turned down their guys in chase...I look them dey laugh..So when i see ladies say because a picture with a cute nigger equates success i shake my head...Fish brains...Real men don't shout, they keep it calm


Anyway, i saw this small cute chick that has been giving me attention since then, but given the conditions, it's making me second guess my instincts....what do you think? Bail or give it a shot ?

I totally agree. If you can ditch your guy for me, you can ditch me for someone richer. So, naturally, such women don't have a future with me.

Per the smally, I almost never turn sex down. But I will be honest and say I wouldn't really consider a future with her because the well has been poisoned, so to speak. If you had met her in a neutral situation, perhaps things would be different. As it is, all she sees when looks at you is money and material comfort. Don't let your guard down.

KreativGenius:
Spot on. How many would want to settle for potentials when there's substance out the window? I was ata church recently, and the pastor called me up to the stage, announced my projects and the finance involved...and i was like, you need to see the attraction i magnetted...Naaw, don't want those type of chicks joor..Flash them the broke profile, if they accept it, then reveal the real being...How do yu see this?

Lol @ the attention you magnetted. I strongly think it's best to keep a low profile when you aren't in that committed relationship yet. Being too flashy will attract the fakers, so to speak.

UBGG:
LMAO.

It's uber cool you can laugh about it now.

Yeah, it is. So, what did you learn from your last relationships? Any particularly bad experiences?

KreativGenius:
Well till one room is upgraded, it's leave the serious ladies alone....abi how do you see it?

Nah, still searching. Even if I met a babe today, we'd still court for like two years. All these useless six month courtships don't work for me. And if you cannot marry me in my one from, you don't deserve me in my mansion. No be fight.

Will you kip kwayet! Na devil dey put puff puff and doughnut for your mouth? You better not provoke me this afternoon.

KreativGenius:
Same here

Respeck, bruv.

KreativGenius:
Cheers to single room brothers then !

You're not the single room though

Cheers, mate.

My apartment is pretty comfy, and I almost never want to leave until I remember that my money for 2015 GWagon isn't complete yet. .

UBGG:
Best lover? Kai..you must have been a real 'mumu' o, No offense. LMAO.

"As they say, na person wey get sense dey teach person wey no get sense"...

Man, that's hilarious!!! It's something my warri brothers would say. Lol.

Lol, you have to be a mumu once just to know what it's like.

As they also say, "you no fit sabi buy na true if you never buy na lie".

KreativGenius:
No slacking...I'm sure you went on 160 on a 65....

So which are you, the dirty boxer dude in one room like us?

After taking sobotone? Na sin if I no ride like Vettel.

I've been wearing these boxers since January, and I'm currently lying on my flaky mattress in my dingy single room.

KreativGenius:
Wait a minute, after intimate session or just chat session?

Intimate session, sir.

KreativGenius:
Eeyah, what a touching story !


But i love this part....As they say, na person wey get sense dey teach person wey no get sense

Na so bros. One day she "was in the neighbourhood and decided to say hi". I made it a memorable day for her. After the session, she was like, "it's obvious you can kill me if you have the opportunity".

UBGG:
Lessons well learnt and happier too, you owe her then. Lol.

Well, It is a use or be used world. I try to not be in the latter group.

We both owe each other. I am her best lover by a country mile. She still calls to get back together but, frankly, that ship sailed already. She's been out there and has seen there's nothing for her there. Alas, my tastes have greatly improved.

As they say, na person wey get sense dey teach person wey no get sense.

What I find amusing though. Is that these gold-diggers will still be looking for a guy to sleep with only them. Na jazz? I dey crase? What can you offer that will make me have eyes for only you? Eternal life? Bîtch, please.

ubunja:
he he he i w@nk a lot
all my GFs always know. if they try to make me choose between them and my porn they know the porn remains and they exit.

self- love is an important part of me.

Well, if it works for you, I ain't gonna knock it. Personally, I feel better when I'm not wanking.

UBGG:
I'm no mani...well...errrr...maybe I was. Lol.

I found my match, a true Alpha male, freaking exciting.

Yeah, you're right. Their sadness is usually ephemeral though, women like that usually keep more than one meal ticket around.

You come off as one who has been quite unlucky in the love and women department. Yes? No?

I have been quite unlucky in the woman department, actually just one relationship. But I have learnt my lessons well and I really couldn't be happier. I've learnt to listen to instincts where women are concerned.

ubunja:
c'mon dude u already fvcking your hand looking at pics
a sex robot is an upgrade from all that.

Buhahahaha. I almost do not self-service. Greatly reduced it and, in fact, only do so on extremely rare occasions like when I'm very pissed off and can do nothing to solve the cause of my angst. Normally, I would just booty call and if that doesn't come through, self-service it is. It's hardly a regular thing for me. I would almost never touch the robot.

KreativGenius:
seems like you were sliding off the path brov..

Lol. I think you misunderstood my comment. No matter how broke I am, I would rather not Marty at all than marry an old wench. I will wait till I can afford a hot, young babe. It's a woman's loss if she can't wait for me to hammer, because I will surely hammer.

ubunja:
men always find a way. plus the Sex Robots are coming up pretty nicely. and some gona have wombs. so men are already adapting.

Of course, men will always find a way. That's why they are men. I'm not sure I want to fûck with a robot loving though. Can't be as good as the relationship thing.

KreativGenius:
Bro, don't always be too easy. I was gisting with my elder sis last week, and she shared the story of a lady that just left her business place crying, a dirty boxer dude kept asking her for marriage, she refused went for the more attractive one, fast forward am five years, the guy's business has crumbled, she was in a single room apartment, the dude she turned down was now a medical doctor owned businesses and luxurrious mansion @ Lekki, bad enough, she saw him recently and the difference was clear...This was just last week...So brov, consider your points carefully...

Potentials trump substance anyday anytime


I made this comment earlier :

Thats the thing, they fall for fleece, cheap attractions. I visited some chambers recently and i can authoritatively say the most unemployed species in this country is lawyers, i've seen over 100 unemployed lawyers, but wonder why people are attracted to false identity...assumption it is the equivalent of a bright future or great potentials.The percentile of successful lawyers in Nigeria isn't up to 1% ..Ladies always think so cheaply..and make the wrong decision by default.

Are you sure you're quoting the right person?

UBGG:
This thread is about a woman overtly declaring her desire for a man, on social media...They are becoming bolder and pragmatic these days, I doubt they are crying like you lot would like to believe.

Unless, they've found a way to weaponise tears. Lol.

My ex, cheat on him and cry...he'll forgive.
Stab him with a knife and cry...he'll forgive.
Beat up his Mama and cry....he'll forgive.

It took the intervention of his friends and my friends to get him away from me. Lol.

Of course manipulators exist and ply their trade with aplomb.

There are also those women who are sad having lost a meal ticket.

KreativGenius:
Perfect, which begs the question, to get them flaunt it, what do you think, a guy pretending to be broke never gets them, cause they see the guys as prize, hence a guy that wants them should flaunt it....what do you think ?

If a woman isn't even going to look at you while 'struggling', she doesn't deserve you while you're loaded. Basic truth. Check this video out:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LrjfD4GA8sk