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HealthTop 10 Health Benefit Of Tamarind Fruit, Juice, And Seeds by Benbeezy(op): 1:28pm On Jul 16, 2018
Tamarind is a type of fruit that is very prominent is tropical countries, frequently. This tamarind fruit, is used in many dishes around the world. However, due to its unique properties, it found its way to be an important part of ancient remedies and also medicine. Moreover, It provides a kind of sour flavor. Tamarind is a hardwood tree known scientifically as Tamarindus indica. Though, It's native to Africa but also grows in India, Pakistan and many other tropical regions.

The Tamarind fruit appears to be in a pod which when opened provides you with a sticky pulp and seeds which are dark brown in color. Tamarind is used as an important part of cooking, and has been stated that a bit amount of it used, will offer you an increase of flavor, so it’s vital that you not overact with it. Its intense sweet and tangy flavor possibly a little bit complex to work with.

Health Benefit Of Tamarind

The fruit is widely used in cooking, such that there still exist recipes to be discovered which you could add it to. Some uses it to make stews, sauces, and also chutneys. Some users even experiment a few desserts with it.

However, in whatever way you choose to consume it, here are the explanations why you need to give its sticky goodness a chance.

1. Reduces Weight

If you looking for a sure method to get rid of several unwanted fats and few kilos, then go for tamarind, it might simply be right for you. Tamarind doesn't have any fat content and it is very rich in fiber, which we in fact know that it cannot be absorbed by the body. This fruit called tamarind as been researched on thoroughly and one study proved that taking in tamarind daily helps in the reduction of weight. And this is due to the fact that it contains plentiful amount of flavonoids and polyphenols. It also includes hydroxycritic acid, proven to satiate one’s appetite. This is because of its capability to suppress amylase the enzyme that turns carbohydrates into fat.

Simply just add it to any drinks you are taking or perhaps to dishes.

2. Strengthen the Heart

It's like the tamarind fruit is a heart friendly fruit. The presence of flavonoids in the fruit founded through a study, reduces LDL “bad” cholesterol and then raised HDL “good” cholesterol levels. This also stop the buildup of triglycerides (a kind of fat) in the blood. It is helpful against blood pressure because of its high potassium content.

3. Improves Digestion

If you do experience abdominal and constipation problems, and you have difficulty with them frequently, sorrow no more because tamarind will solve your abdominal problem. Even in traditional medicine, tamarind is frequently used as laxative. People found out that the fruit also contains potassium, malic acid, and tartaric acid. This fruit has the ability to tranquilize the abdominal muscles, which makes it to be used for treating diarrhea.

Preparing Tamarind Juice For Constipation

Ingredients:

1. one and a half cups tamarind pulp
2. Honey
3. Lemon juice
4. Hot water

Method

(i) Mix all the ingredients and let it rest overnight. Strain the pulp and keep the juice in the frigde.
(ii) Drink a glass of tamarind juice right before going to bed and have one more in the morning.

4. Aids Diabetes


So many number of individuals experience diabetes every year. And once you obtained it you cannot look for treatment to help it become disappear, you just have to cope with it by controlling your sugar levels more cautiously. The good news is that an extract from the tamarind fruit has been found to be anti-inflammatory in nature. Also, this extract has the ability of stabilizing blood sugar levels as well as perhaps help to reverse the damages caused by diabetes ( for example, the damage of the pancreatic tissue). An enzyme present in tamarind which is known as alpha-amylase is also recognized to decrease the level of blood glucose.

5. Prevents And Treats Peptic Ulcers

Peptic Ulcers has been known to cause pains in the small intestines and also unpleasant sore in the stomach. A lot of people with ulcers are always cautious about anything citrus as it can certainly disturb their stomach. It’s completely a distinct case with peptic ulcers and tamarind. Since we know already that tamarind contains polyphenolic compounds, it's extract has a protective and defensive effect towards ulcer. Continue Reading @ HERE!!!

Romance9 Best Relationship Books Every Couple Should Read Together by Benbeezy(op): 12:00pm On Jul 14, 2018
Many couple find themselves moving from one counselling room to another, even to the extent of seeing a therapist concerning their relationship. They move about seeking answer to why their spouse just won’t behave and do what they desperately need them to do, making them heartbroken, disconnected, misunderstood and feel completely and utterly broken.

What I will say concerning this is that many of this 21st century couples thinks that mere being together for some period of years makes them so compatible. Should I say they lack the knwoledge that being in a relationship is more than just being together.

As it has been said, Knowledge is power. So if you are in a relationship out there and you want this your relationship to be the best of the relationships you have had so far, reading this quality books which are amongst the most popular, best rated and best reviewed books on relationships with your partner would go a long way in strengthening and repairing relationships from a wide variety of angles. Some of these books give couples tools they can use to build strong relationships. Other books focus on how to get rid of the bad habits that drive our partner's to distraction.

Here are my suggestions, Let's Get to It.

1. 5 LOVE LANGUAGE - by Gary Chapman

Marriage should be based on love, right? But does it seem as though you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? New York Times bestselling author Dr. Gary Chapman guides couples in identifying, understanding, and speaking their spouse’s primary love language—quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, or physical touch.

It’s no secret that we’re all different and have different desires. It’s probably also no surprise to learn that we all tend to respond differently to situations. No wonder we don’t seem to be on the same page with our partners sometimes! Luckily, author Gary Chapman has figured out the five different types of love languages that people respond to. By learning the five love languages, you and your partner will discover your unique love languages and learn practical steps in truly loving each other.

2. I Love You But I Don’t Trust You: The Complete Guide to Restoring Trust in your Relationship - by Mira Kirshenbaum

If your relationship is worth saving, or if there is any hope for there to be trust in the future? If so, then this might be the right book for you and saving a relationship on the rocks.

Whether the lack of trust is due to frequent small lies, a large betrayal, or even a history of being hurt in past relationships, it can put a strain on a relationship. This is an effective book to show you what you need to do to restore the lost trust in your relationship, no matter how it became damaged.

I Love You, but I Don't Trust You to be a helpful first step to take after a betrayal. It is also a useful tool to use later down the road if a couple gets stuck during the recovery process. People have found that the author's normalizing and casual tone is both soothing and comforting. I Love You, but I Don't Trust You is both realistic and hopeful, which is an effective combination.

Mira Kirshenbaum also help readers understand the stages of building trust once the strengthening process begins to take place. Readers will learn how to avoid their previous mistakes that are keeping them from healing, and rediscover how to connect.

3. “Couple Skills: Making Your Relationship Work”- By Matthew McKay PhD and Patrick Fanning

This is a very helpful book that will demonstrate how to work effectively in your relationship. Some of the key skills focused on are: improved communication, coping with problems, and resolving conflicts in healthier ways.

This version of the book teaches the reader acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT), which helps each person to accept his or her partner’s Read More..
RomanceRe: Do This Things To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work by Benbeezy(op): 7:12am On Jul 12, 2018
Nackzy:
I don't, will never and can never believe in long distance relationship
But it does work
RomanceDo This Things To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work by Benbeezy(op): 6:20am On Jul 12, 2018
To keep the distance from driving you apart, these set of tips I would provide here have been thoroughly searched for. Use these tips here to make the relationship work no matter the distance and to make the whole affair less torturous.

1. Get To Know Eachother

Normally, just like how people get into any relationship, you two should at least spend some time getting to know and understand each-other very well. For example, when talking, take note of those things your partner enjoys the most( let's say like hobbies or day-to-day activities) and do a little research on it so you have something more to discuss.

And knowing each other's preference will also help when you want to exchange presents, because gift exchange is just another way to communicate your feelings to each other over the long distance.

2. Avoid Talking Too Much

I don't mean here that talking to your partner often is wrong. It should actually be a priority but not your only priority. Do not overdose on talk-time. It is foolish to be overly Sticky and Possessive. You two don't really have to communicate 12 hours a day to keep the relationship going. Some may begin to reason that as to compensate for the distance, they need to do more calling and texting. This will certainly not make the relationship work out, and it might even make things worse. Soon you would get tired of Loving. You are only going to exhaust yourselves. It's more and really about teasing at the right moments and tugging at the right spot.

3. Being Honest and "Real" in your Communication

As communication is very important in keeping a long distance relationship, you must as well try as much as possible to make sure you are being honest and real when you communicate with your partner. In long distance relationship it's easier to hide your weakness, just make a good impression. Doing this will only make your distance relationship a strain in the neck.

Unless you both value transparency and honesty more than making a good impression, you will have a much more difficult time figuring out whether you and your partner are a good fit for each other and whether the long distance relationship will work out or not. Read More...
RomanceSweet Texts To Send A Guy To Say ' I Love You' Indirectly.. by Benbeezy(op): 4:16pm On Jul 05, 2018
Sweet Texts To Send A Guy To Say ' I LOVE YOU'

After surveying the internet, I have successfully gathered a number of texts which I guess will definitely make your man feel appreciated, and then give him a thoughtful reminder of your feelings to him which eventually indirectly tell him that ' You Love Him'.

Here are 15 examples of cute texts you can send your boyfriend to say "I love you" without turning up the pressure.

Related: How to Build Long Lasting Trust in Your Partner.

1. ''I love when I catch you looking at me."

2. “Hey handsome. Did I mention you looked HOT in that black T-shirt!?"

3. "We have overcome so much pain that we have deserved to be happy, I adore you."

4. "Grow old along with Read More.
RomanceGet Any Girl!!!!!!!!!! by Benbeezy(op):
As we all know, that there are a lot of guys out there who are desperately searching for the secret of how to make a girl fall in love with them. LOVE, this four-letter word that is all over the place, and yet still so difficult for many men to find. The fact is that making a girl fall in love with you is a lot easier than you might think.

Even as There’re no magic formula to cure a broken heart, so it is also that there isn’t a love potion that I know of that’s going to make someone fall for you.

The only thing you can do is increase the probabilities of you getting the girl you want by following these expert and practically proven tips.

TIP#1: Love Yourself.

This is very important, that is the reason I am stating it as the first tip. Do you truly love yourself? If you don't think you are awesome, how can you persuade the whole world and all the beautiful girls in it that you're an awesome and lovely guy? Fall in Love with yourself and respect yourself first, and the world will see you the same way too!

Tip#2: Be A Dependable Guy.

There will surely be an occasion when she needs help, help her around to start seeing you as a gentleman. Be the guy she can depend on to get her out of trouble. Ladies love it when a guy they're with has a protective streak. If she feels safe with you, or believes your're a guy who can handle though situation without any kind of giving up behaviour, you are already in her good books (Winks).

Tip#3: Have an Open Ears.

There's no Girl that doesn't like a man that’s going to listen to their problems and guys when you open your ears and let them talk, you are one step up on any other guy in pursuit. Make sure you don’t push her to make a decision. She just wants you to listen so she can work it out.

Of course if she asks for your advice, you should give it. Just make sure you aren’t pushing too hard with it so as for her to keep the doors wide open.

Tip#4: Give Her Just The Right Amount of Attention.

This is a very big one guys. Do not drop all your commitments and give her all your attention all the time. This is an easy way to make a girl get tired and bored of you really soon. An older woman may appreciate a man who's dropping his priorities to make time fir her, but when a girl is younger, she'd just lose your value or assume you have nothing to appropriately use your time for and she will see you as that... Read More

RomanceRe: Who Are 'runs Girls' , How Do You Spot Them? Photo Inclusive by Benbeezy(op): 5:57pm On Jul 04, 2018
[quote author= post=69082721]Girls that run at the Olympics representing their country I think![/quote]That Olympic that's done on the BED Abi wink wink
RomanceRe: Who Are 'runs Girls' , How Do You Spot Them? Photo Inclusive by Benbeezy(op): 5:56pm On Jul 04, 2018
[quote author= post=69082721]Girls that run at the Olympics representing their country I think![/quote]LOL.... grin grin grin
RomanceWho Are 'runs Girls' , How Do You Spot Them? Photo Inclusive by Benbeezy(op): 5:54pm On Jul 04, 2018
Firstly, I will start by explaining who a runs Girl is. A runs girl is any lady who is blatantly lazy or not being satisfied with her salary, income, allowance because her personal income can’t get her to her destination.

A runs girl uses her beauty and physical attributes to gain monetary favors, promotion, land, cars, jewelry from any man who is willing to pay.

There are various ways in which the set and type of girls can be identified. I will be telling you some ways you can spot them accordingly to Flamboyant relationship consultant, Popular Lagos-based Psychologist, Socialite, and Relationship therapist, Joro Olumofin.

Accordingly to him, This may be stereotypical but; You can Spot a Runs Girl by

a) Any lady who owns more than 15 designer bags without an income
b) Any lady who is “Yellow skinned” and constantly moves with 5 or more other “yellow skinned” ladies is a Runs Girl (Yellow Gang)
c) Any lady who doesn’t have a 9-5 or functional business and yet lives a lavish lifestyle
d) Any lady who is always in a private jet or luxury hotel apartment 7 times a year is a Runs Girl
e) Any Lady who has more than 15k followers on IG or Twitter without any media portfolio or Makeup / Model business
60% of Bank marketers
f) Any lady who owns a shop and yet has less than 3 customers and is paying rent is a runs

There are various effects these set of ladies cause to the society and to the country as a whole. They..... Read More

RomanceRe: 8 Signs To Observe When A Guy Likes You by Benbeezy(op): 5:40pm On Jul 04, 2018
Dangerousboy:
100% accurate
I will appreciate if you can pls share it on your social platform...Thanks
RomanceOffice Romance !!!!!!!!! by Benbeezy(op): 4:07pm On Jul 04, 2018
Office Romance!!! ... Have You ever Had a Crush On someone that you work with at the officehuh? Better Yes, As someone ever had a crush on you that you work with in the officehuh Did you Go through with it, was the relationship worth the issues that might rise if it didn't work out?? And if it did work out and one of you had to leave the company, who had to leave, like would you give up your career, work for love?? We all know that love conquers it all, but would you let love conquer your career like all your future ambitions undecided undecided Reply to this post and let me know what you think.

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RomanceRe: 8 Signs To Observe When A Guy Likes You by Benbeezy(op): 5:25pm On Jul 03, 2018
Thanks....Pls You can also recommend it to your friends

Doerstech:
Exactly... good points
Romance8 Signs To Observe When A Guy Likes You by Benbeezy(op): 4:20pm On Jul 03, 2018
Hello Ladies, When Guys meet you for the first time, especially in a Romantic encounter, they now often times if they like you or not. The question is how do you know if they like you or how can you really tell if a guy likes you. It can be hard to tell if a guy likes you, but there are some sure-fire ways to distinguish feelings of attraction from say, whether or not you missed lunch (smiles).

Normally, men takes the first step by asking the girl on a date. But what should a woman do if he's just too shy to ask you out? Maybe he wants to enter a relationship with you, but can you tell if he just won't say?

Talking to him is the best option, but it is a challenging task for many women. You have to do something to find out for yourself if you might have a future together. Some girls are great at telling when a guy likes them. But a lot of girls have a hard time reading the signs. A boy might tease you or try to please you, but sometimes they send mixed signals.

Is the guy you like being arrogant and coy or ignoring you? Some boys are rude to disguise how they feel. Insecurity and confusion can muddy the waters and make it hard for a girl to tell where they stand.
Check out these signs. Most boys who like a girl will do at least one of these things, on purpose or unconsciously.

1. Secret Gazes:

One main reason why a guy will look at you is because he likes you! I know this is a legit sign cause I do it a lot, he would stare at you, either looking for a direct eye contact or when he notices that you've seen him he looks away, which means he likes you but shy of making eye contact and at the same time wants to make eye contact badly with you so he just stares at you like a stalker.

2. He Always Wants To Speak with You:

There's nobody that doesn't want to talk to the person they like a lot. This implies that when a Guy has this behavior of always wanting to have a conversation with you, maybe for him just to hear your voice or for him to get closer to you to know you better with hopes of being more with you, then you should be very sure he likes you.

3. Preferential behavior towards you:

If a guy is into you, he is going to start to act a little different around you. Take for instance a guy that normally acts like a jerk to all the girls suddenly becomes a totally different person around you, I mean he might be someone that loves annoying girls or making jest of any one he meets but when it comes to you he can't stand seeing you annoyed or sad so he does anything and everything to make you happy. It can also play out in terms of banter and jokes. If they’re constantly telling jokes or playfully teasing you, then they’re probably interested in you.

4. Friends:

This is one of the major sign to observe if a guy truly likes you. Maybe one way or the other, he would have told his friends about you and if they're like my friends(silly idiots�) they'll definitely tease him whenever you're around and he'll just keep smiling or let's say blushing uncontrollably and begging them to keep quiet.

Check Out Number 5, it will shock you grin grin See Post @ https://www.olowusblog.com/2018/07/8-signs-to-observe-when-guy-likes-you.html

RomanceTwo Lesbians Caught In Ondo, Molested By Unknown Men (pics) by Benbeezy(op): 5:33am On Jun 26, 2018
According to this IG user, He posted a video of two lesbians caught Unclad and being molested by known men and he thinks it should not be handled that way. The video was shared on IG.

They are even forced to perform the act in front of them

News Source: https://www.olowusblog.com/2018/06/two-lesbians-caught-in-ondo-molested-by.html?m=1

RomanceRe: How Can I Build Long Lasting Trust In My Lover . by Benbeezy(op): 10:34pm On Jun 23, 2018
What do you guys think about the post
RomanceHow Can I Build Long Lasting Trust In My Lover . by Benbeezy(op): 10:33pm On Jun 23, 2018
Nowadays, the reason why many relationships and marriages fail is due to the lack of honesty, loyalty, communication. But the greatest of all this things listed above is the lack of trust. Just imagine a relationship based on lies, deceit and dishonesty, sounds disgusting right??. That's how it is when you haven't built trust in your partner.

The happiest, most satisfying relationships rest on a foundation of implicit trust. If you want your relationship to be all it can be, both of you must learn how to create this kind of trust. No matter the type of relationship, building trust is essential to creating a sustainable and lasting bond with another human being.

Most people are afraid of revealing their true inner sides in love. At first, the guy and the girl are scared to kiss, and then they’re scared to go to second base, and then to the third. Once they get past that, life gets a bit manageable and both of you start to open up with each other.

Once you know how to build trust in a relationship, the relationship enters the next little stage and gets much happier and relaxed. Take the time to understand what your partner is looking for in a relationship and make sure your needs and feelings are expressed. When you begin there, building trust becomes much easier. To help you take the next step, in this post How to Build Long Lasting trust in your partner, I will write on some ways that will definitely help you build a Long lasting trust in your partner.

The ways to build a Long lasting trust in your partner are as follows: Go to Blog Post: https://www.olowusblog.com/2018/06/how-to-build-long-lasting-trust-in-your.html

RomanceWhat Should I Do? by Benbeezy(op): 4:58pm On Jun 14, 2018
I want my girlfriend to Trust me UNCONDITIONALLY, I have done everything I can think of to make her trust me but still she still find it difficult to Trust me...

Pls Mature minds only, How can I build my Trust in Her?

See My Blog http://www.olowusblog.com/
RomanceHow To Know You Are Ready To Be In A Relationship. by Benbeezy(op): 2:34pm On Jun 13, 2018
Generally, there's no fixed age or time in one's life, when he or she can begin a relationship. The most important thing that must be met before being in any relationship is that you must be "Mature". I’ve observed that age has little or nothing to do with it but of exposure, stability and ability to handle responsibilities.

I have met young people who are mature well beyond their years, and I’ve known older folks who act childish, only thinking about themselves. Also talking about Maturity there are several areas in one's life where one must be matured.

So in this post: How to Know You Are Ready To Be In A Relationship, I will be talking on six areas where you must have been matured enough to be sure you are ready to be in a relationship.

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RomanceWhat Topics Should I Write About On My Lovers Blog?? by Benbeezy(op): 8:48pm On May 23, 2018
I have been wondering about the topic I should write about on my blog which is basically a blog for dating tips, love, Relation ship advices e.t c ..
If you gat any topic you feel I should write about, comment the title below..

My Blog is : http://www.olowusblog.com/
RomanceHow Would You Describe Love In A Single Sentence?? by Benbeezy(op): 2:44pm On Apr 20, 2018
1. WHAT DOES LOVE REALLY MEANS?
2. DOES LOVE EVEN REALLY EXIST??

I got caught up with this questions in my Mind. So if u were Asked to Define or Describe Love in A Single Statement, What would your Definition be?...

Let's Make this Fun grin grin

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RomanceWhat Do You Know About Courtship ?? by Benbeezy(op): 5:01am On Apr 13, 2018
It has been discovered that greater percentage of the reasons why marriages are collapsing and there is high divorce rate in our generation is as a result of faulty courtship period.

So What do you have to say Concerning this Topic?

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RomanceRe: 50 Qualities That Describes A Real Man by Benbeezy(op): 11:52am On Apr 07, 2018
theAccountant:
A real man is a man that doesn't give a fvck about this list.
That's a lie
Romance50 Qualities That Describes A Real Man by Benbeezy(op): 7:44am On Apr 07, 2018
50 QUALITIES THAT DESCRIBES A REAL MAN

Female logic is extremely hard to understand. No wonder it’s so difficult to imagine what makes the perfect man who can win a woman’s heart. The fact remains that every real woman desires to marry a real man.

Being a real man is not cheap, It doesn't mean you sleep with 100 girls but means you fight for one girl even if 99 others are chasing you. There are prices you must pay for you to be a REAL MAN. So who is a real man?

1. A real man is a man that fears God.

2. A real is a man is a man of purpose.

3. A real man knows how to make, save and invest money wisely.

4. A real man is focused.

5. A real man does not go about dating different girls and breaking their heart. He is not a player.

6. A real man wait for sex until his wedding night.

7. A real man is not a liar. He is faithful, loyal and honest

8. A real man is a reader.

9. A real man is not a trouble maker.

10. A real man is not proud and neither aarrogant.

11. He will marry his intending spouse without waiting too long.

12. A real man helps his woman to be a better person.

13. A real man takes care of his appearance.

14. He is a man of wisdom

15. A real man strives to be a role model.

16. A real man is a great leader.

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http://www.olowusblog.com/2018/04/50-qualities-that-describes-real-man.html?m=1

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RomanceRe: 30 Rules Every Woman Should Follow To Have An Amazing Marriage Life by Benbeezy(op): 9:05pm On Apr 04, 2018
Liliyann:
All this marriage expert should go and sit down!
Have read books that says a woman should give her husband good and quality sex everyday but at the end of the day the randy goat cheats on the wife!
Some will say good food still yet it doesn't guarantee a happily ever after!
Truth is nothing a woman do will ever make the man stay!
A happy home is not the work of the wife alone but the husband!
No woman should make her husband or marriage her life focus!
There is no reward for good marriage in heaven!
Take care of yourself as a woman ,look good and don't stress yourself over a man!
Marriage isn't a job that needs to be ENDURED but ENJOYED!!
Lastly always have a plan B in case of anything in order not to lose out.
Marry wisely!!
Marry richly!!
A rich man makes a happy home!!
You are free to drop your own 30 rules that Every man should follow to have a Lovely marriage...And I will really wanna hear you out
RomanceRe: 30 Rules Every Woman Should Follow To Have An Amazing Marriage Life by Benbeezy(op): 9:03pm On Apr 04, 2018
swiz123:
Nice write up.


Western education is the cause of all these divorce issues flying around.


In the early 90's, women were totally submissive to their husbands. Divorce was very rare
I agree strongly with you..
RomanceRe: 30 Rules Every Woman Should Follow To Have An Amazing Marriage Life by Benbeezy(op): 7:11pm On Apr 04, 2018
Mariangeles:
As long as the man appreciates...'cause all men are not the same.

There are some men that no matter what you do, they never appreciate.
Yes that true but no man in his right sense will see his wife doing all this and not appreciate
Romance30 Rules Every Woman Should Follow To Have An Amazing Marriage Life by Benbeezy(op): 6:10pm On Apr 04, 2018
Generally, we know that every marriage has its bumps and problem, which can pop up at any time. Nevertheless, the important is that you learn to navigate them smoothly—before they send your relationship into a ditch.

The truth every couple should know is that no matter how far along the marriage highway you’ve gone, there are some simple, fundamental and basic rules that you still need to follow to keep you going through out the whole journey of marriage.

Read More @ http://www.olowusblog.com

However, in this post "30 rules Every Woman Should Follow to Have an Amazing Marriage Life", I will be writing basically on rules I think every Women should follow to have a Lovely, Amazing , the Best and Enjoyable Marraige Life.
Though, Putting all of this into practice isn’t always easy, but it’s critical. I am very certain that if all women can play by this rules, then your marriage will be stronger, and the good stuff—fun, sex, trust, affection—will be better than ever.

Here comes the Rules:

1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.

2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you.You are each other's keeper.

3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.

4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.

5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.

6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.

7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.

cool. Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.

9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.

10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband sex. You must give it to him how he wants it. Sex is very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over your duty. No man can withstand sex starvation for too long

11). Never compare your husband to your one time sex mate in bedroom, or an Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.

12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.

13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.

14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.

15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.

16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.

17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.

18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?

19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.

20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always teamwork.

21). Don't be too judgemental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.

22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.

23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food?, try to change your cooking. No man ever jokes with food.

24). Never be too demanding to your husband,enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.

25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.

26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.

27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.

28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.

29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.

30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband.

And what about the menfolk?what about the men who push their women to the extreme?Any 30 rules for them to read? If Yes, I would love to see them in the Reply box below..Have a Lovely day

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RomanceIs Love Blind ?? by Benbeezy(op): 4:29pm On Apr 02, 2018
We all know this popular saying which is "'Love Is Blind ". If you understand what blind means in this Context, reply to this post...

But "IS LOVE REALLY BLIND undecided undecided"??

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RomanceRe: Questions Guys Should Ask A New Girl They Just Met. by Benbeezy(op): 4:21pm On Apr 02, 2018
Newbielearner:
Horrible.

I prefer saying something like " I think I've seen this face befor." It creates a mystery on her mind. I then build from there. Most numbers I have are yet to be called. I just make sure I keep talking with them so as not to lose my skill in that area. However, I chatted up the ones I think are cool. Chat them up. Keep the mystery and ensure they stylishly ask for a date.

Come on, I have a lot to offer the right one. Don't go about chasing them. They would resist you the more.
Cool
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 1:25pm On Apr 02, 2018
simeotexy:
am i going for job interview...get away
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RomanceRe: Questions Guys Should Ask A New Girl They Just Met. by Benbeezy(op): 1:21pm On Apr 02, 2018
Homeboiy:
babe how much for a night

she won't waste time to answer you
Chai

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