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RomanceRe: Questions Guys Should Ask A New Girl They Just Met. by Benbeezy(op): 1:21pm On Apr 02, 2018
Prognose:
"Hi. I'm tired of staring at you like a mumu. Can I just have your number?"

"Hello, may I get to know you?" (Very unimaginative but surprisingly it works)

"Hello, you look familiar, are you _______'s sister? No? Sorry pls what's your name...." etc

I once told a girl out of the blues "You have lovely breasts." She laughed and said thanks. The rest is history.

In the end, what you say is not so much important as being confident and polite (and well dressed and not looking overly desperate) when you say it.

Hope this helped.
Yes it was, Nice one...Thanks for your contribution
RomanceQuestions Guys Should Ask A New Girl They Just Met. by Benbeezy(op):
Am Thinking of Writing a Blog Post about this topic but unfortunately I have got limited questions in my head. So I need help on questions that SHOULD be asked by a guy to a girl he just met..

Check out my blog @ http://www.olowusblog.com
RomanceRe: B by Benbeezy: 10:49pm On Apr 01, 2018
Those people have been telling you frequent Rubbish...No be only kiss daniel cheesy grin
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 10:45pm On Apr 01, 2018
lereinter:
shoe and phone
Why will u be looking at phone..Guys that doesn't like carrying big phone nko sad
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 5:56pm On Apr 01, 2018
Phythondancer:
Einstein ! no na, I am a medical practitioner in the Army cheesy
Okay ma
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 12:59pm On Apr 01, 2018
ise82:
Money! Money!! Money!!!
grin grin grin grin
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 6:51am On Apr 01, 2018
Preshy561:
just dress neatly and be a gentle man,I may consider listening to you.

and ofcourse,don't come and be telling me you have this or that.
Is it like braging about what he has
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 6:22am On Apr 01, 2018
itsMrIke:
@OP, I don't want to be a grammar Nazi, but the proper statement for your topic should read;

'What do most girls look out for when they are approached by guys'

Thank you.
Nice one ..It has been modified
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 10:29pm On Mar 31, 2018
HOLYDICK:
Absolutely 100%✅
How is that even possible..And how accurate will the measurement be shocked shocked
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 10:28pm On Mar 31, 2018
Phythondancer:
I am a mental person so I look out for intellectual attributes, at least that's what I looked out when my husband approached me.
MRS ALBERT EINSTEIN...You Must be a SCHOLAR
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 10:14pm On Mar 31, 2018
onecornerboy:
you have said it all
Lol grin grin
RomanceRe: What do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op): 10:13pm On Mar 31, 2018
HOLYDICK:
Ur hands and feet from there dey decide how elongated the dimensional cone head of your cylinder is
Then
How deep rooted ur pocket is
Have dos two and see wonders
Are you for real??
RomanceWhat do most girls look out for when they are being approached by guys by Benbeezy(op):
I just got myself wondering about this topic undecided...Guys what do we think they really look at when we have have finish gathering morale to approach them??

Check out my blog: http://www.olowusblog.com/2018/04/guys-see-what-most-girls-look-out-for.html?m=1
RomanceAdvice That Will Enable All Women To Choose The Right Partner. by Benbeezy(op): 12:10am On Mar 31, 2018
Having known that some women or let me say young ladies just rush into marriage just because he said he loves them, or because they think he is Cool, they forget to consider all the other necessary things that he (the man) should posses to be a good husband. In this post, I will give some advice all women should heed to before getting themselves into marriage.

Dear Women, not every man is a Husband material ,some are friendzone materials, some are sex mate materials, some are baby-papa materials, some are husband materials, some are father materials, some are boyfriend material. The first advice is to Marry a Man that has the qualities of a Brother, Husband and Father. Some of you, get into marriage with men who have no business being married. Let me tell you this that Marriage is not for everybody.There are some men that are not wired to function in matrimony, so getting married to such a man will be like hell on earth. Therefore, don't allow marriage desperation or societal pressure to push you into the arms of a man who is not ready or suited for matrimony.

The second advice is to look around yourself and find a man who is also ready to settle down for marriage. Nowadays most men get married just for the status or because their friends are getting married and they want to feel amomg. Those kind of men will just marry wives and keep for their mothers and fathers to look after. For instance a man who got married and travelled out of the country for 5, 6 and even 7 years without coming home to see their wife or even contacing them via social media to know how they are, I mean what is that?
You shouldn't be theoretically married. Marriage must be practical. Some men are just very selfish. Take this from me, a selfish man can never be a good husband. Matrimony thrives on mutualism. It is a give and take situation.

Some Illogical Reasons Why you should Marry him.
1. Don't marry him because you are pregnant for him.
2. Don't marry him because he deflowered you.
3. Don't marry him because you are unemployed.
4. Don't marry him because you've dated him for long.
5. Don't marry him because you invested in him financially.

Listed above are some stupid and unintelligent reasons why you should even think of getting married to a man. Instead, Marry him because you believe he is worthy of being called your Husband and the father of your unborn kids. There are men everywhere but Husbands are scarce.

And If you are a man reading this post don't make it a gender war. And don't take it personal. This post is for women. I know there are unwifable women but that's a post for another day. Thank you for your understanding.

View Posts @ : http://www.olowusblog.com/2018/03/advice-to-women-before-getting-married.html?m=1

RomanceAdvice To Women Before Getting Married!! (must Read) by Benbeezy(op): 1:19pm On Mar 30, 2018
Having known that some women or let me say young ladies just rush into marriage just because he said he loves them, or because they think he is Cool, they forget to consider all the other necessary things that he (the man) should posses to be a good husband. In this post, I will give some advice all women should heed to before getting themselves into marriage.

Dear Women, not every man is a Husband material ,some are friendzone materials, some are sex mate materials, some are baby-papa materials, some are husband materials, some are father materials, some are boyfriend material. The first advice is to Marry a Man that has the qualities of a Brother, Husband and Father. Some of you, get into marriage with men who have no business being married. Let me tell you this that Marriage is not for everybody.There are some men that are not wired to function in matrimony, so getting married to such a man will be like hell on earth. Therefore, don't allow marriage desperation or societal pressure to push you into the arms of a man who is not ready or suited for matrimony.

The second advice is to look around yourself and find a man who is also ready to settle down for marriage. Nowadays most men get married just for the status or because their friends are getting married and they want to feel amomg. Those kind of men will just marry wives and keep for their mothers and fathers to look after. For instance a man who got married and travelled out of the country for 5, 6 and even 7 years without coming home to see their wife or even contacing them via social media to know how they are, I mean what is that?
You shouldn't be theoretically married. Marriage must be practical. Some men are just very selfish. Take this from me, a selfish man can never be a good husband. Matrimony thrives on mutualism. It is a give and take situation.

Some Illogical Reasons Why you should Marry him.
1. Don't marry him because you are pregnant for him.
2. Don't marry him because he deflowered you.
3. Don't marry him because you are unemployed.
4. Don't marry him because you've dated him for long.
5. Don't marry him because you invested in him financially.

Listed above are some stupid and unintelligent reasons why you should even think of getting married to a man. Instead, Marry him because you believe he is worthy of being called your Husband and the father of your unborn kids. There are men everywhere but Husbands are scarce.

And If you are a man reading this post don't make it a gender war. And don't take it personal. This post is for women. I know there are unwifable women but that's a post for another day. Thank you for your understanding.

See Posts: http://www.olowusblog.com/2018/03/advice-to-women-before-getting-married.html?m=1

Christianity EtcOpen Heavens Daily Devotion For 30th March 2018 - The Living Faith. by Benbeezy(op): 10:23pm On Mar 29, 2018
Topic: The Living Faith.


Memory Verse: "Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen". Hewbrews 11:1.





Bible Text : James 2: 17-26

17: In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead.

18: But someone will say, "You have faith; I have deeds." Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by what I do.

19: You believe that there is one God. Good! Even the demons believe that-- and shudder.

20: You foolish man, do you want evidence that faith without deeds is useless?

21: Was not our ancestor Abraham considered righteous for what he did when he offered his son Isaac on the altar?

22: You see that his faith and his actions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did.

23: And the scripture was fulfilled that says, "Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness," and he was called God's friend.

24: You see that a person is justified by what he does and not by faith alone.

25: In the same way, was not even Rahab the prostitute considered righteous for what she did when she gave lodging to the spies and sent them off in a different direction?

26: As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without deeds is dead.

Bible in One Year: Deuteronomy 25-27, Philippians 1.



Message:


The title of today’s devotional presupposes at least two categories of faith: living and dead faith. In James 2:17-26, the Holy Spirit confirms to us that there is indeed dead faith, and He also teaches us what makes faith have life. My prayer for you is that any aspect of your faith that is dead will come alive today in Jesus’ Name. Is it not amazing that faith, as powerful as it is, cannot stand on its own without works? This is not contestable, because it is the word of God. James 2:18 puts it this way:

But someone will say, "You have faith; I have deeds." Show me your faith without deeds, and I will show you my faith by what I do.

Faith sees into the invisible and beholds what the Almighty is capable of doing. While the act of exercising faith can spur God into action, there is also an obligation on the part of the one exercising faith. This obligation is the work of faith which we are talking about today. Without this, faith is seen to be lifeless. Apostle James expounded on this truth with the classical example of the father of faith, Abraham:



21: Was not our ancestor Abraham considered righteous for what he did when he offered his son Isaac on the altar?

22: You see that his faith and his actions were working together, and his faith was made complete by what he did.

23: And the scripture was fulfilled that says, "Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness," and he was called God's friend. James 2:21-23



Beloved, what would have been left of Abraham’s walk of faith if he had refused when God asked him to offer his only son, Isaac, as a burnt offering? Thank God Abraham acted on the demand of God. In response to the demonstration of his faith that had moved from theory to practical, God said to Abraham:

"Do not lay a hand on the boy," he said. "Do not do anything to him. Now I know that you fear God, because you have not withheld from me your son, your only son." Genesis 22:12

After all the time that Abraham had been walking with God, why did God say “It’s now I know you fear Me”? It’s because his works had collided with his faith, which then came alive and became substantial. Beloved, do you have living faith in God?



Prayer Point:


Father, please impart in my spirit the living faith that pleases You in practical terms from today, in Jesus’ Name.

Hymn 5: I Have Decided To Follow Jesus.



1. I have decided to follow Jesus;

I have decided to follow Jesus;

I have decided to follow Jesus;

No turning back, no turning back.

2. The world behind me, the cross before me;

The world behind me, the cross before me;

The world behind me, the cross before me;

No turning back, no turning back.

3. Though none go with me, I still will follow;

Though none go with me, I still will follow;

Though none go with me, I still will follow

No turning back, no turning back.

4. My cross I’ll carry, till I see Jesus;

My cross I’ll carry, till I see Jesus;

My cross I’ll carry, till I see Jesus;

No turning back, no turning back.

5. Will you decide now to follow Jesus?

Will you decide now to follow Jesus?

Will you decide now to follow Jesus?

No turning back, no turning back.

Author: Open Heavens Daily Devotional guide was written by Pastor E.A. Adeboye, the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, one of the largest evangelical church in the world and also the President of Christ the Redeemer’s Ministries. The Open Heavens devotional application is available across all mobile platforms and operating systems: iOS, Android, Blackberry, Nokia, Windows Mobile and PC.

Visit: http://www.olowusblog.com/2018/03/open-heavens-daily-devotion-for-30th.html
Jokes EtcBiko, Whose Daughter Is This?? by Benbeezy(op): 5:47pm On Jan 06, 2018

CelebritiesGhanaian OAP Akosua Hanson Bares Boobs With Caption 'loving God' by Benbeezy(op): 8:56am On Oct 17, 2017
EducationRe: 2017 Nnpc/snepco Scholarship Is Out by Benbeezy: 10:39am On Oct 13, 2017
Pls add me to the group 09077017031
Paulwells19:
It's on the group
EducationRe: 2017 Nnpc/snepco Scholarship Is Out by Benbeezy: 10:36am On Oct 13, 2017
Pls add me to the group for the past questions

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CelebritiesLagos State Commissioner Of Police Who Called For Davido’s Arrest Has Been Fired by Benbeezy(op): 10:28am On Oct 13, 2017
Source : http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/lagos-state-commissioner-of-police-who.html?m=1


The report reaching us has it that the Commissioner of Police Lagos state, Mr Imohimi Edgal has been suspended.
This is coming 24hrs after ordering for the Arrest of Davido, The Lagos State Commissioner of Police has been demoted from his Position as the Lagos State Commissioner of Police back to his old rank as the Deputy Commissioner of Police (DCP).
Remember, Edgal is the same Man who led the team that ended the Ikorodu Badoomenance and also lead the Police team that dismantled about 4 Shrines rumored to belong to the dreaded Baddo group in Agbowa, Lagos state.

Read more at : http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/lagos-state-commissioner-of-police-who.html?m=1

CelebritiesBig Brother Star Laura Carter Poses Unclad As She Reveals She’s Expecting A Baby by Benbeezy(op): 8:53am On Oct 12, 2017
LAURA Carter has revealed she's expecting a baby boy as she channelled Demi Moore in a NAKED baby bump snap.

The Big Brother star announced she's expecting her first child with boyfriend Tony last month.

See Photos
CelebritiesA Lady With Makeup VS Guy With Dyed Trousers, Who Will Run Faster While Raining. by Benbeezy(op): 5:38pm On Oct 11, 2017
A facebook user, Sylvester Okechukwu Chris Posted this on his Timeline asking if a lady with makeup or a guy with a dyed Trouser will run faster while raining..

See People's Reactions

CelebritiesRita Ora Suffers Awkward Wardrobe Malfunction While Filming Music Video (photos) by Benbeezy(op): 10:29am On Oct 06, 2017
The 26-year-old singer gave crew an eyeful when she kicked her legs in the air while performing a lively dance and her nude knickers and private area became visible for all

Continue to see more photos : http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/rita-ora-suffers-awkward-wardrobe.html?m=1

Romance(story) : Lady Committed Suicide After Her Husband Divorced Her by Benbeezy(op): 8:19am On Oct 06, 2017
Twitter user, Kelvin Odanz shared this heartbreaking story of how a woman who sacrificed her career for her husband committed suicide after he divorced her because she couldn’t bear children two years after their wedding.

Rea Story : http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/story-lady-committed-suicide-after-her.html

LiteratureSTORY: The Painful Pleasure (TPP) EPISODE 3 by Benbeezy(op): 8:02am On Oct 06, 2017
The Painful Pleasure EPISODE Three is now available on the Website....

Click: http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/story-painful-pleasure-tpp-episode-3.html

CelebritiesDo Not Compare Wizkid To Fela – Sound Sultan by Benbeezy(op): 7:52am On Oct 06, 2017
Veteran Nigerian singer, Sound Sultan has said that people should stop comparing Wizkid to Fela as both acts are on different spaces.

Watch Video at : http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/do-not-compare-wizkid-to-fela-sound.html

CelebritiesWatch Vera Sidika Twerk Badly In A New Video On IG by Benbeezy(op): 5:29pm On Oct 05, 2017
Vera Sidika, Kenyan socialite, shared a video of herself twerking on IG.

Watch video here: http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/watch-vera-sidika-twerk-badly-in-new.html

CelebritiesPhotos/video: Meet Nigeria's Newest Maheeda... by Benbeezy(op): 9:50am On Oct 05, 2017
Her IG name is dimple_nipple, but her real names are Rachel Oluwabukola Martins. Rachel claims she is 14, but from her looks, the way she acts and writes, that age might not be true,
and might just be something she wrote just for fun! Anyway, she is ready to overtake Maheeda and it's clearly 'written' all over her IG! She has really really raunchy photos and videos on her page and hardly puts on clothes. The two photos you see above are very decent photos of her. She has extreme ones, and we don't want to splash them here, so some people at work won't be questioned. Did you just open a p*rn site? Lol, we don't want anybody queried.

You can see links to two of her videos from the source link below... We know Maheeda has no family, she already told us her story, she's an orphan, she had no one to cater for her bla bla, so we understand there was no one to caution her when she started. But what of Oluwabukola, oh sorry I mean dimple? Well, till the day she tells us her story too, lol.

Source : http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/see-this-tweet-by-ruggedman.html

LiteratureSTORY : The Painful Pleasure (EPISODE 2) by Benbeezy(op): 12:07am On Oct 05, 2017

LiteratureSTORY: The Painful Pleasure (EPISODE 1) by Benbeezy(op): 3:14pm On Oct 04, 2017
EPISODE ONE

I waited patiently as the phone loaded slowly due to the poor network. Believe me, network is always very slow whenever one wants to check result.


It was my third post UTME in the prestigious Obafemi Awolowo University. My first and second post UTME result was 168 and 199 respectively, i could remember vividly that my mum (who gathered money from her petty trade of fruits) said to me having seen my second trial result "If only they were so nice to add one mark, you would have gotten 200".

Well, she was very sad, but she still encouraged me (without even talking about the money with which she obtained the form for me). She just said that i should try more, she said " ti esin ba da ni, a maan tun gun ni" which means that; when a horse makes one fall, we try climbing again. . .

I was so lost in thought, all i could think of was my mum who had been struggling to make me someone in life. She has been doing all these alone since i lost my father when i was ten in a fatal accident along Lagos-Ibadan express way (that was some 8 years back). Since I'm the only child, she has only shown me so much care and affection, and i can't afford to fail post utme the third time. . .

All these was going through my mind, and my thoughts were too crowded to notice that the result has loaded, and is right on the screen staring at me. I snapped out of my thoughts to discover that 'the bridegroom' is here, all i needed to do was to 'zoom' on my outdated Blackberry tour that i bought (3000 Naira, UK used) with my life savings. Trembling with so much fear, i pressed the middle key, there came my result. I looked at it, and behold. . . .

What exactly did he score?

*To Be Continued*

Visit : http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/story-painful-pleasure-episode-1.html?m=1
Written by Odeyemi Pelumi Emmanuel..

CelebritiesFULL DETAILS Of Caroline Danjuma Accuses Against Davido Of Dumping A Dead Guy. by Benbeezy(op): 6:57am On Oct 04, 2017
Source: http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/caroline-danjuma-accuses-davido-of.html

Popular Actress Caroline Danjuma, took to her Instagram handle just few hours ago to accuse Nigerian Celebrity with the highest follower on Instagram, singer Davido of leaving behind a guy who died in his car last night at the general hospital. She alleged that the 'IF' crooner and his crew dumped the boy at the hospital and went back to continue clubbing.

Just few hours after making the accusation on Davido and his crew members in a post which she deleted minutes later, she made another post revealing that today was Tagbo (the deceased) birthday. From what people were saying, Tagbo allegedly drank himself to death and Davido and his crew members are denying everything that relates them to the death of Tagbo. She said...

Continue to read at : http://www.exclusiveonlinenews.com/2017/10/caroline-danjuma-accuses-davido-of.html

Trust me its a very long post wink wink wink wink wink

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