@ Op don't be desperate to get a woman , focus on getting money , you will see women when you have money , as others said just be happy , love your self first and work on your self .

[i][/i]if you love her move on bro , what if after you marry her she got to that condition, would you leave her cos of that , people like that make a good wife more than this prostitute that full outside, you can just get a house help so the stress won't be too much for you .

House , please I need elderly advice, I own a small scale business I sell paints and also into POS , but my location is bad I'm inside a street and another thing is that my house is very far at least ₦1000 daily due to current high cost of transportation, and to get a cheaper shop or another house now is not an easy task cost with the agency wahala and co , even if I want to change my house my shop still not in a good location, and I don't have enough fund to change the two at a time it's either I change one leave one for now , what advice can you give me please.
Thanks

He has a point honestly, if you keep spoiling them with money , when your enemy is broke you will see her true character, spend wisely on them please not just lavish spending it helps you to get a good woman not just a gold digger not trying to insult anyone here , even though you have a lot of money spend as if you have little money , Thanks God bless you all .

Good morning people of God , I've been praying about marriage cos I'm getting old , God always reveal whatever that will happen to me though dreams so I believe in dream, the first dream I saw a chubby lady trying to have a relationship with her which is my kind of lady , second day I dreamt I took the lady to my parents that's where we got to know she is a street lady ,during the morning devotion in our house we saw a very thick tattoo on her harm which I've not been seeing because I'm not too close to her like having sex or seeing her body , so in that dream I noticed I married her like that because we've already planning for the wedding, but my step mother was telling my daddy that why I married that kind of lady a a Christian home , it's like bringing a shame to them , I my self wasn't too happy about the tattoo, but I was happy I got married because people I didn't invite or expect to come were all there eating and happy with me , I was just thinking she might still be a good woman but people might tag me as inresponsible man too for having such woman , in that same dreamt I had a boy one of my siblings was trying to close door not to allow him enter my house , I had to shout on him to let him come inside in the dream can someone kindly interpret the dreams please and steps I need to take .

Good morning people of God , I've been praying about marriage cos I'm getting old , God always reveal whatever that will happen to me though dreams so I believe in dream, the first dream I saw a chubby lady trying to have a relationship with her which is my kind of lady , second day I dreamt I took the lady to my parents that's where we got to know she is a street lady ,during the morning devotion in our house we saw a very thick tattoo on her harm which I've not been seeing because I'm not too close to her like having sex or seeing her body , so in that dream I noticed I married her like that because we've already planning for the wedding, but my step mother was telling my daddy that why I married that kind of lady a a Christian home , it's like bringing a shame to them , I my self wasn't too happy about the tattoo, but I was happy I got married because people I didn't invite or expect to come were all there eating and happy with me , I was just thinking she might still be a good woman but people might tag me as inresponsible man too for having such woman , in that same dreamt I had a boy one of my siblings was trying to close door not to allow him enter my house , I had to shout on him to let him come inside in the dream can someone kindly interpret the dreams please and steps I need to take . Please no insult

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I understand true love comes with money now in Nigeria , but it's not suppose to be like that honestly let the truth be told , the truth is bitter actually, women need to be more hardworking as well if they also want to get a truelove, no only men need true love , women also need it , that's why many of them end of with a man that will be maltreating them in marriages cos they married him only cos of money and men are not fool honestly, I'm not saying money is not good , but love shouldn't be base on money our women actually need to change their mentally I swear it's really affecting the society.

Damian911:
Your stupidity is beyond redemption
Worthless gold-digging bitch

Exactly

Smitaro100:
She might be a ghost..👻💀 or maybe living in a ghetto and shy to show you or planning to brother zone you.

Thanks alot all , I really appreciate..God bless

Please I need elders advice no insult please , I met this young girl online , she has been coming to my shop to greet me, but I noticed lies in her chat whenever I'm trying to get to know her, but I didn't take that as an offence , but the truth always reveal one way or the other , but the rate she demand for things is alarming , that's why I don't want to rush her for sex so that she won't see that as an opportunity, she does know what me to get close to her like to know her place , I noticed some girls I met in the past also hide where they stay , and she has been getting jobs from my shop she is a fashion designer , one of my customers has be giving her cloth to sew for her , what if she disappeared I'll be the one to provide cloth and money I just met her like 3 weeks. Pls how do you think I can handle that in a matured way . Anytime I want to follow her to her place she stays she always find excuses.

Fact you are very right bro


quote author=Cypress042 post=127348217]Have you tried talking to single matured woman before, most of these girls you see are just kids moving around i
nside mature body.[/quote]

Please I just to wonder why are married women are more free with someone that all this single girls , many of this single girls can do Shakara for nothing and they will still end up beging for money at the end with all their Shakara , before they will agree to be free chatting with you self no be small job . I just want to learn from elders

[b][/b]Men things de happen in that insistution called marriage oo , many of this ladies settled down with their men cos of money now they are not enjoying it , many are regretting it , money is cool though., But shouldn't be only thing to attract women , a married once told me she is not sexually attracted to her husband, she doesn't know why , most time she will feel like having sex oo , but since they had one kid , she doesn't like to have sex with him , and the man is not happy with it , that's why many cheat the man is nice , caring bad all that .at times I get confuse of those gender .

[b][/b] bro it's possible some people will not understand cos they never experience that , women are evil and possessed with different demonic spirit it's those spirit inside her that are working and making you to see her in your dreams, cos she is liking you in her heart as well , this is what you will do , don't eat her food , intact avoid going to their house , that's the best way to escape and get your self a woman , it has happened to me as well , I'm not the type that love to sleep with people's wife , infact I can boldly tell people I have never done it before , this woman always narrate how her husband use to maltreat her , who is my best friebd , she was too close to me , to the extent I used to pity her talk sensess to my friend at tine which might cause quarell at times , fast forward sha , I started having wet dream with this lady that will look so real , which ive never thought of having affair wirh her, I stylishly told my friend cos we are best friend but I didn't tell me his wife lol 🤣, I said another lady , he said may be what I'm thinking, but never on my mind , it was very strange to me , women are small gods they can easily get man if they want to , they are possessed with different kind of spirit while trying to seek for spiritual help , so the best you can do if you don't want devil to use you is to stop goinf to their house , meet your friend outside , that's what I did and everything stopped cos I kept having that dream continuously, to the extent I had a terrible dream the lady killed her husband and came to me, I was scared that hipe people won't suspect us . God is great soke dreams looks to real

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Hmm you are right boss , Na my first time of trying those single mothers sha, I know some single girls can do that , but all the single girls I've dated all my life are always loyal to me , even if my close friend ask them out they will tell me , that's why many are still keep friends today , I know women are also reading, we know the country is hard but at least respect your guy and your self , no chop nearby , chop away that one is more better , some guys go even make jest say her pussy don spoil , girl wey you de carry for head , may God continue to guide and save men .

nappy760:
After 3 kids which other shame do you think she would have when she has extra mouths to feed?
E be like say you no know as e dey go

Thanks for the insult bro , I know I'm at fault because I allowed her to use women deceit to manipulate me and enter me , I know as he de go for street , normally I no suppose bring such girl too close to me to the extent that such will be happening, I no talk Say make then no chop am , but people around you now , apart from the fact they go de laugh you , enemy can use that to penetrate if they notice she loves money , normally i wanted to be taking her to hotel , not even my house self , as I already know the kind person she is , but she insisted that I can't be taking her to short rest hotel , when she knows I can't afford the standard ones at the moment , say shey I no get house , gave me some pathetic reasons lolz , na from there I loose guard , Na me cause am sha , not her fault, and may be I'm mot able to supoort her financially, but I just believe any one wey get brain and respect the guy a little not suppose to behave like that at least chop from outside .see Aunty Oyin now , Na them go end up disgracing themselves...

austine4real:
Girl wey we dey manage u wan turn to ur wife abi?

Ogun Fe pa e sa

Money is important

I think it's better than falling into wrong hand of some women

Just want to share my little experience, i don't mean to insult anyone , I was single for more than 6 months to the extent my neighbours start asking of my wife , I forgot about sex , cos I don't want to fall into wrong side of marriage, I was patiently waiting till I get enough money and pick a woman of my choice , but due to pressure from people left and right I tried to consider single mother of 3 I have as a friend for long time ago , to just take a position of girl friend until I get my own woman , cos we both no we can't marry each other expect sex , I do a little I can to support her , and try to be good with her, even though she is into massage work , I still treat like a queen people see her as my normal girl , she do come to my shop to play sometimes so i was surprised when one of my regular customer greeted her with how far , she replied with how you de too , as If they are age mate , they greeted as if they've been talking already, and this customer has seen her in my place before without greetings , so I was shocked why the sudden communication, I asked her if she has known him before she said no, until last time she traveled he met him inside bus and he paid her transportation, but that greetings sounds as if there is something fishy , I know she is desperate looking for money by all means, she might have started having something with him, cos she is a lousy type , when she comes to my place of work she will be sharing about her massage experience customer requested for sex but she only use hand job , she will be shouting neighbours will be listening as if she is trying to advertise her business to people around me , I've told her you can do your shit outside, but not to people around me, so I don't feel embarrassed, I don't just know why some women love to disgrace us cos of some little change. I understand she is trying to look for money from all means to take care of herself and kids , since I couldn't pay all the bills , I see reason a lot of men dislike single mothers cos they will still disgrace you .

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quote author=Mhizzard post=126437130]
mention the the OP[/quote]

A son sorry not a daughter, and she have intention of keeping the little boy with one of her relatives in another state that's what she said , already made it known to her that currently there is no so much money everyone is struggling, if I see a single lady , I would have prefer to go for a single lady instead , but this particular state I am self majority of them are single mothers 😊 that's another problem, a tennage girl of 20 , she might have given birth to 2 kids , single mother , small small girls already had a kid here not to talk of adult , if you meet a single girl self , either heavy olosho or coded olosho , she is still looking for money money she doesn't want to settle down now , that's just why I'm confused not that someone doesn't have sense at all .

Mhizzard:

one thing more bro.the advice i want to give here it base on what have been seeing/hearing;therefore,you said she has a daughter of which you are the one to be in responsible of the child bills after you get marry her.meanwhile i didn't have the idea of how financiallyokay you are.so if you are capable of footing the daughter's bills without regreting,you are okay to dive.

Hmmm Fact !!!.. Thanks

tochez24:



Every single mum or non virgins ladies in this world were once observed by the exes..... Guest what? They left!!!!

And you mr observer won go chuck head??
You like better thing pass their exes baaaa😆

Men hardly leave good girls you know, so if she's that good, you wouldn't have met her either single or damaged??

Why can't men open their brains and reason for once?

God bless you boss , that's what I'm actually thinking to do before I thought the topic here, cos I've heard a lot of different funny experience with all the small small single girls I'm not saying all are bad , but the economy & society has turned majority of them to something else , I'll do as you said first .. Thanks a lot

Mhizzard:
Am not an elder,i guess i can give you halve of what an elder can render to you.nothing is bad if you choose the single mom cus no one know what the future will gives.sometimes you can happily marry some single lady and end up regreting after marriage.somethings i would like you to observe is her characters and sense of thinking because it really matter.

Another great point .. Thanks boss

tochez24:



So all your 37years in this world, what you could afford is a damaged woman??🥺

I mean no disrespect sir but truth be told.... You haven't even seen the other side of the coin yet, wait until you marry her, only then you will see what you have done to yourself♂️

Most women aren't nice,she is only NICE and pretending to like you because she wants something from you and she knows she can manipulate you into it🙄 and believe me her baby daddy isn't just yet through with her!!

I prefer girls in their prime(17yrs to 22yrs) when she's a bitch and in her hoeing stage, when she's isn't looking for commitment,that's when you will see their true colours.

If you were my brother or my friend, you would have been receiving some slaps by now😆😆

Go for a younger undamaged lady oga and leave this cock N bull stories⚠️

Thanks sir , word of wisdom

Reminderz:
lol your post is quite funny, lol, well back to the matter...

you said she sounded like a good person? lol, do you expect her to sound like a bad person to you, and that story she told you about her baby daddy, don't believe that shit just easily... normally she will play the good girl to you even if most of them are not, until she's gotten your commitment, that's when you'll know the truth of the matter... right now, she is still playing her cards right...

secondly you said you've known about the dangers attached to a commitment like this, ask yourself are you ready to risk it all? remember, if things goes south, wo, you go too suffer am and you'll wish you've never gotten married in this life, all these I'm getting old won't even come to your mind again when trouble looms... no one will be there to wipe your tears...

her baby daddy is even alive, and I'm sure he might have not totally forgotten about his kid which makes the case a lot more complicated... how sure are you that they won't resume their "shenanigans" after you marry her?? and also put it at the back of your mind that, she will always put that child over you, no matter what... now if it was your child, that's still acceptable, but another person's kid? do you have the mind to bear it when that happens??

the thing is baggages attached to single mothers are much which is why it's always adviced to avoid them, and it's nothing about hate, and this has been proved times without number, so Mr op, if you choose wrong, I don't need to explain what would happen to you, life itself will teach you...

and you said those of young ages are doing shakara for you, normal level naa, dem go do, that stage dey always do them something for body, if you're not a man with game, or if you're not a man of value, it will be hard for you to secure someone... you're a man, time is kind to you, don't make yourself desperate into seeking for what's not lost... and also, you might have also been looking at the wrong place... anyways, it's your poison, choose carefully...

Hello Elders in the house please I need your advice no insult please, I'm currently talking to a single mother of one , we've started liking each other before we go too far , actually she told me the man that got her pregnant is married but she didn't know , until she found out on his Facebook and the man rejected the pregnancy that he doesn't want a baby, even he doesn't care of the responsibility from the story I heard sha she has been the one catering for everything, I've heard some dangers about them , at the same time thinking I'm not getting younger at 37, she is 30 years she has been sounding like a good person, you know that's how it use to be from begging, and most of the single girls I've been meeting are not serious, they won't even give you attention if you are not giving them money , they just behave like a criminal nowadays, I hardly find single girls at my age range, the smaller girls are like tortoise and I like matured women you already had experience about life , please I need mature comments, I believe we are all learning.

But why now , and I de see them self I feel like going to their country.

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quote author=misreal post=126375943]I won't marry a lady that has slept with multiple men,talk more of a lady that has slept with multiple women[/quote]

Omo men de fall victim oo , many of those girls are theives wey no de use Gun, all in the name of you want get girl friend, you want to get married.

Godoverevery:


Bro...... came back from church one Sunday and met an empty kitchen with some of my properties gone.