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tochez24:
Every single mum or non virgins ladies in this world were once observed by the exes..... Guest what? They left!!!!

And you mr observer won go chuck head??
You like better thing pass their exes baaaa😆

Men hardly leave good girls you know, so if she's that good, you wouldn't have met her either single or damaged??

Why can't men open their brains and reason for once?

God bless you boss , that's what I'm actually thinking to do before I thought the topic here, cos I've heard a lot of different funny experience with all the small small single girls I'm not saying all are bad , but the economy & society has turned majority of them to something else , I'll do as you said first .. Thanks a lot

Mhizzard:
Am not an elder,i guess i can give you halve of what an elder can render to you.nothing is bad if you choose the single mom cus no one know what the future will gives.sometimes you can happily marry some single lady and end up regreting after marriage.somethings i would like you to observe is her characters and sense of thinking because it really matter.

Another great point .. Thanks boss

tochez24:
So all your 37years in this world, what you could afford is a damaged woman??🥺

I mean no disrespect sir but truth be told.... You haven't even seen the other side of the coin yet, wait until you marry her, only then you will see what you have done to yourself♂️

Most women aren't nice,she is only NICE and pretending to like you because she wants something from you and she knows she can manipulate you into it🙄 and believe me her baby daddy isn't just yet through with her!!

I prefer girls in their prime(17yrs to 22yrs) when she's a bitch and in her hoeing stage, when she's isn't looking for commitment,that's when you will see their true colours.

If you were my brother or my friend, you would have been receiving some slaps by now😆😆

Go for a younger undamaged lady oga and leave this cock N bull stories⚠️

Thanks sir , word of wisdom

Reminderz:
lol your post is quite funny, lol, well back to the matter...

you said she sounded like a good person? lol, do you expect her to sound like a bad person to you, and that story she told you about her baby daddy, don't believe that shit just easily... normally she will play the good girl to you even if most of them are not, until she's gotten your commitment, that's when you'll know the truth of the matter... right now, she is still playing her cards right...

secondly you said you've known about the dangers attached to a commitment like this, ask yourself are you ready to risk it all? remember, if things goes south, wo, you go too suffer am and you'll wish you've never gotten married in this life, all these I'm getting old won't even come to your mind again when trouble looms... no one will be there to wipe your tears...

her baby daddy is even alive, and I'm sure he might have not totally forgotten about his kid which makes the case a lot more complicated... how sure are you that they won't resume their "shenanigans" after you marry her?? and also put it at the back of your mind that, she will always put that child over you, no matter what... now if it was your child, that's still acceptable, but another person's kid? do you have the mind to bear it when that happens??

the thing is baggages attached to single mothers are much which is why it's always adviced to avoid them, and it's nothing about hate, and this has been proved times without number, so Mr op, if you choose wrong, I don't need to explain what would happen to you, life itself will teach you...

and you said those of young ages are doing shakara for you, normal level naa, dem go do, that stage dey always do them something for body, if you're not a man with game, or if you're not a man of value, it will be hard for you to secure someone... you're a man, time is kind to you, don't make yourself desperate into seeking for what's not lost... and also, you might have also been looking at the wrong place... anyways, it's your poison, choose carefully...

Hello Elders in the house please I need your advice no insult please, I'm currently talking to a single mother of one , we've started liking each other before we go too far , actually she told me the man that got her pregnant is married but she didn't know , until she found out on his Facebook and the man rejected the pregnancy that he doesn't want a baby, even he doesn't care of the responsibility from the story I heard sha she has been the one catering for everything, I've heard some dangers about them , at the same time thinking I'm not getting younger at 37, she is 30 years she has been sounding like a good person, you know that's how it use to be from begging, and most of the single girls I've been meeting are not serious, they won't even give you attention if you are not giving them money , they just behave like a criminal nowadays, I hardly find single girls at my age range, the smaller girls are like tortoise and I like matured women you already had experience about life , please I need mature comments, I believe we are all learning.

But why now , and I de see them self I feel like going to their country.

100smile:
Rwanda babes get yansh o
Don't play. E pain me say I nor wipe any before I commot the country

De play, what if you don't know , it doesn't read metre



quote author=misreal post=126375943]I won't marry a lady that has slept with multiple men,talk more of a lady that has slept with multiple women[/quote]

Omo men de fall victim oo , many of those girls are theives wey no de use Gun, all in the name of you want get girl friend, you want to get married.

Godoverevery:
Bro...... came back from church one Sunday and met an empty kitchen with some of my properties gone.

Lolz, thanks for the insut .

Nyascobar1414:
I no dey advice mumu

I wonder why it's only when women become single mother they will be submissive and become more loyal to men , it's more easier to get them by that time , if they are still single they will be making uncessarry Shakara, being so much selective looking for a rich guy , before you enter the hole that's is fully wide already you go don spend Taya self thinking she is reserved, make God continue to help men and safe men honestly those gender en but seems there eyes and body de come down once of of those guys show them peper and left them as a single mum, they will now become loyal , honestly I wish to marry them cos Na them full igboro now , they are still better than some single girls cos they have learnt in hard way , I'm just confused if someone can risk such marriage if it's not going to tell at the end , cos women go always be women , you are not sure of what makes them that single mum , may be they are actually lying you won't know, I'm not try to insult anyone , pls elders in the house I need your advice .

I think women too should stay away from married men

Generalissimo75:
It's normal. However, stay away from married women.

Amen oo, you are very right



quote author=okeke6969

post=126267243]Our leaders has turn our dear country unliveable. What is the root of yahoo and hook up is not youth unemployment wahala.
Many young boys and girls are walking corpses no food to eat, no money to spend.
Tell me, what you expected them to do.
If hunger waya you for 3day, you will not know when you will collect food from enemy.
I pray it shall never be our portion.[/quote]

Lol , it depends woman have sent me card before and we never see , just be say Na useless ones full Nigeria sorry to say .

Hi friends , something is strange to me , a I have a close married friend , but cheat on his wife base on lack of sex from wife or let say normal men's things sha, he has about 5 girls friends , but to my surprise he still tell the other each girls about themselves apart from his wife they know with him , I was with him , when the side dick was mentioning about 4 names names of other girl friends he has aside from the main wife , I was shocked, the girl said they doesn't hide anything from each other , that's how she tells him about her own men too , may be I never see such love , my question is it is normal ? Cos I heard women are not too be trusted so much , nobody like to share even a prostitute will want to claim territory.

Nice idea .. thanks boss

Arewa247:
I found my self in this nonsense stuf but I end it by stop giving the guy face. I stop playing with him. I stop anything that will make him talk to me. Do this and thank me later.
Now the guy the him own lane I dey my own.

Some people will come and withdraw money you will be disturbing them to give you money , dragging money with them all in the name of joke ,if I'm the customer too , I might want to free such place, if you say something in church situation it will be like can he play with his people anymore shey you understand

TheFreshVanilla:
You're weak. When people around you perceive you to be weak, your eyes go see shege. Tell him straight to stop interfering in conversations that involve you and your customers.

Hmmm, I think I did a mistake there, I believe since we are not into the same business he shouldn't be angry with my success , human being sha.

MatrixReloaded:
Did he start business for you? Are you related in anyway . Didn't you pay for your rent? Are you a nincompop to show your business list to a total competitor. You will learn hard way.

Recently someone he knows wanted to purchase something from me he Joined the conversation with I should collect money from him with jokes , that he has money , I shouldn't allow him to use scope, that one latter left my market cos of just #100 gain I want to gain from him, he wanted to buy at exact price I bought from the market, when the guy left I had to show him my price list so that he would know too that I'm not cheating people he knows , he saw I'm only making #100 gain too , I was like some people can't even joke with #100 with someone he replied that they want to see where their money is entering, I just see him as hyprocate.

Happy Sunday nairalaners, I need your advice please I have a neighbour beside my shop , we are not into same business but I noticed anytime anytime one of his people want to purchase from me , he must put mouth indirectly, if they are pricing instead of him to keep mute like other customers, he will be telling me to sell street price for them not company price , or if I can tell his customer #2400 , I will just hear a voice from his shop ₦2000 , I don't know if its him or his friends there , it's becoming too much , if it's someone he knows wetin I he environment he just put mouth indirectly, except some that not his friend that's the only way he can keep mute and be looking my face .and I'm not selling too high honestly.... I wanted to acquise him , but he is a smart person he can turn it to quarell indirectly.... Or he can tell them the good is nice just the price , he must make sure he get involved, how do you think someone can live with that kind of person please , but keep behaving like a good person and respectful but deep inside him like he is not happy with you .

This one choke, it's possible sha, expect the worse from anyone, only God can never betray you .. that's life

You mean master key

Chunedujohnson6:
Because one key can open many padlock.

Why is it that when a man cheat with all these prostitutes, nothing happen to them . But if women sleep with young men, people will be wishing them I'll fortun

Face me and face you , always lock your room if you are going out and be more careful next time , trust your self , it might be the neighbours down stairs, giving you story they saw some two guys .

You should have allowed her to go visit her mum as well , so that she won't be left alone at home , or allower to go with you , women love freedom, they don't like to be cage because they are Inside marriage, women of nowadays you can command them like our mothers, the world has changed, education has open there eyes , that's marriage for you , all women are the same , telling you doesn't mean she will do it , may be out of anger , what if she doesn't telli you and she poison your enemy, if you divorce her , do you know the kind of woman you will fall into again , just call her , take her out , make her happy beg for forgiveness, let her pure out her heart , you people should settle and leave a peaceful life , no woman is perfect all of them Na were .

Zulum:
Did u know why she said she wish I am dead...

It's just an argument.....normally every two days I use to visit my mum.....so Saturday afternoon I dressed up and carry my car key and she asked me where am I going to, I told her that I am going to visit mum....then she said she is also going to her mothers house since I am going to mine too....i told her that not today.

She started shouting insulting me, wishing bad bad wishes, that when I am driving something will happen to me, she's tired, she want to do another marriage......

Smiles I've experienced that as well , her friend will not end up settle down with you , both of them are olosho , if you have vibes for her friend you can just knack if you wish too, but the best is to comot eyes and move on with your life , they are like men as well , they share dick , Na Hin be pass me the ginger .

Can someone be successful in business without selling goods on credit on customers , I believe anyone can be broke , but some customers will find it hard to pay back your money , which can affect business if they are too much , my boss in the business how do you handle such people .

Okay sir, thank you, I appreciate your comments cos sems you don't understand the whole story .anyway thanks for your concern.

quote author=AsomStructures post=123963520]

You're contradicting yourself already. Like i stated earlier, work on your mindset[/quote]

No, don't miss understand me I'm not saying she wants to flirt not that kind of woman, but 1. I think there should be limit to somewhere wife to avoid temptation, no one is above temptation.
2. It's not advisable to get to close with someone you met on the street , you don't know what's in anyone mind , just calm down bro , the way some people reason so fast self , as if all is about pleasure and sex .

AsomStructures:
Work on your mindset, the fact that she's been nice to you doesn't mean she's flirting or have interest in you.

I'm thinking of avoiding her , cos I had a dream her husband said I've already learnt what I came to learn , what am I still looking for , but she want me to keep coming, and I don't want a story that touches , my point is can I free her completely.

AsomStructures:
So what's ur point exactly?

Hello family , please I need your advice , I went to learn an aspect of computer from a lady , we had a agreement its going to take one month, after spending more than one month , I was able to gather some funds , to start my own business as adult , but I sense she is not happy with my going deep inside her , but just happy facialy, her husband also want me to learn other aspect as well like they want me to stay longer , so I told her I will only visit her once in a whole cos she was nice to me to an extent during my stay , but whenever I didn't go there for a while , may be for long , she will always complain she didn't see me, seems she want me to get closer , but (1.) From experience I don't like make friends anyjow , I do not meet her through anyone , God is the only true friend , (2) when ever I go there she always like us to gist , to the extent I'm beginning to feel for her , and I don't want to have anything to do with a married woman, she also complain in present of her husband they didn't see me since why , so I'm sure he is aware of it as well, she doesn't have a secret she share anything with me and she expect me to do the same , which I'm not really comfortable with , if I try to avoid her , just try to call or text to communicate only she will ignore that , she might not pick the calls or reply the chat , but whenever she sees me again she will just active nice , laugh , jokes , I'm just confused what they are up to ... Like she prefer i come than communicating through phone , she will even entertain me with food if possible..... It doesn't cost me anything to ignore them for life , but I don't want to be an ingrate , cos when I met her she acted so nice and she didn't bill me so much money , even though she didn't teach me everything just trying to develop on my self ... What's your suggestions on this family. Thanks

It's a normal thing bro , don't be suprise the one you are married to at home can deny you of sex when there is no sufficient funds , just work on your self and rise back , I feel your pain..God will help us all .

If you true love her , and you both know nothing about the death of the late husband, you can tell few of the elders in your family if they are good with it , you can relocate to another state and start a new life .