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A lady also accused of her husband of using dear for her and for her female friend that is not polite so you people should just calm down when commenting . I'm not here to quarrel with anyone .

I never expected a married woman to use such word for her husband friend which is not close to them like that , in my own perspective I believe it is not right , she might not mean anything. I've heard dear from a lot of female friends which is normal but depends on where you are getting it , if you are getting it from where you are not suppose to definitely you will be curious .

I understand the meaning of dear , but some people really gives alot of meaning to it , I've see a case of a married man
Posted her female friend and addressed with dear , and caused a serious fight in the home ,my question is "can a dear just be use for anyone" . If a jealous husband see that kind of word on his wife phone he might react ...The topic is to enlighten ourselves more .



quote author=immortalcrown post=110063686]Don't you have a dictionary? Before we advise you, tell us what you think "Dear" means.

You are obviously a pervert trying to create a problem where there is none.[/quote]

You guys are taking this too personal I only need mature minds to talk pls , we are all learning.

Nooo, I do not feel disrespected , I'm just curious , why are you all sounding in this manner .


quote author=Cerebellum post=110063969]So you mean you were disrespected with her reply? Okwaya

Aswear, You no well[/quote]

No insult pls , no one is perfect and I believe we are all adult here over 18.

Good afternoon all , I tried to wish my friend's wife happy birthday on her WhatsApp status when I saw it but to my surprise her response was Thanks dear I do appreciate, I was schocked because the lady always address me with sir whenever I go to their house , we are not close , we don't chat except the birthday wishes I did , my question is can dear be use for anyone without giving it any meaning ... Your opinion are welcome . Thanks

So happy for you , you escaped alive , such will not happy again. By the grace of God , I've had the kind of experience , I know it's not easy .God actually still want you Alive for a purpose and you shall live to fulfill your purpose , try to travel more in day time , bad things happens more at night .

Why not try to reset your password with your email address or phone number.

You go Bleep inside bush �

Na wa oo, getting scared of this country day by day , can't believe mother's can be in support of these .

Hmmmm, the truth is God is the only true friend, he is the only one that can never betray you , majority of all the friends are betrayers, the best is to make friends from far .

Hello nairalanders, happy Sunday, me and my guy met a lady together , we started dating, my friend latter add her on his Facebook which is normal, but when I tried to check their conversation I saw a message my friend sent to her that How's your man ? And she also replied my man is fine . They are both mutual friends on my Facebook, recently I stopped seeing them as mutual friends, but I can see others as mutual , pls is that not suspecious?

I grew up with my grandmother till the age of 9 years before I moved to my father house with his new wife , I didn't know anything about my own mother , I continued my primary and secondary school there but I was treated like a maid when I was staying with my father I do lot of works than normal , until a faithful day I decided to run out of the house to struggle and survive , cos I see no bright future staying with them , I failed my waec the first time my father said he didn't. Have money for now for another exams , just few years after I left the secondary school I manage to run out of the house, God helped me a little I was able to achieve few of my aims , I did another exams and passed , graduated from higher institution, went for my NYSC , God showed me some love , I was able to build a small house which I'm staying now , even though it's not yet completed, but I give thanks to God , I didn't tell him when I started the house because he doesn't have one yet , he will want me to build for him first , it was latter when I started staying there he got to know , I guess he wasn't happy with it , because he said he is one supposed to be staying there not me , when I don't kno anything about my mother I have asked many times , but keeps giving me different stories, he couldn't locate her anymore even with her family , what amazed me is that he is a man of God . He decided not to visit me in the house with wife , cos I've invited them once , they want me to give them the small property I suffered for , and I'm yet to get married I'm 35, no kids , no wife , and he is not really bothered, assuming my mother is there I know my life cant be like that , now I'm living like a ghost no family member, and you hardly get married to a good woman without your parents based on Nigeria culture, please friends what do you suggest I can do , it's a very long story , just decided to brief it a title .they all refused to come to my side, they only want me to be coming to see them .

He is the founder , and people under him doesn't have mouth to tell him what to do , they are all also scared of him , just like I want to add more petrol to the fire if I try that .





quote author=Ammishaddai post=109106731]My brother, I do not know what part of the country you come from, but let tell me you that it is not written in any constitutional or religious document where a child is supposed to cater for his/her parent .

However, for the sake of peace and moral laws ,I suggest you settle this thing amicably by bringing in the church elders of your father's parish to broker peace between you and your father. Doing this will not only solve many of the problems you are facing, but will bring a blessing in digusie.

And lastly , please forget about the past and the bitterness attached to it, because you will only be hurting yourself on account of someone else who doesn't even know you are suffering mentally [/quote]

None of the family is ready to cooperates with me because they are scared of him , I'm the only child of my mother , before another women came in , and the woman kids are not friendly may be their mind has been poisoned, just living life like a ghost , what's the best step to take to get married without parents.

I grew up with my grandmother till the age of 9 years before I moved to my father house with his new wife , I didn't know anything about my own mother , I continued my primary and secondary school there but I was treated like a maid when I was staying with my father I do lot of works than normal , until a faithful day I decided to run out of the house to struggle and survive , cos I see no bright future staying with them , I failed my waec the first time my father said he didn't. Have money for now for another exams , just few years after I left the secondary school I manage to run out of the house, God helped me a little I was able to achieve few of my aims , I did another exams and passed , graduated from higher institution, went for my NYSC , God showed me some love , I was able to build a small house which I'm staying now , even though it's not yet completed, but I give thanks to God , I didn't tell him when I started the house because he doesn't have one yet , he will want me to build for him first , it was latter when I started staying there he got to know , I guess he wasn't happy with it , because he said he is one supposed to be staying there not me , when I don't kno anything about my mother I have asked many times , but keeps giving me different stories, he couldn't locate her anymore even with her family , what amazed me is that he is a man of God . He decided not to visit me in the house with wife , cos I've invited them once , they want me to give them the small property I suffered for , and I'm yet to get married I'm 35, no kids , no wife , and he is not really bothered, assuming my mother is there I know my life cant be like that , now I'm living like a ghost no family member, and you hardly get married to a good woman without your parents based on Nigeria culture, please friends what do you suggest I can do , it's a very long story , just decided to brief it a title .they all refused to come to my side, they only want me to be coming to see them .

I grew up with my grandmother till the age of 9 years before I moved to my father house with his new wife , I didn't know anything about my own mother , I continued my primary and secondary school there but I was treated like a maid when I was staying with my father I do lot of works than normal , until a faithful day I decided to run out of the house to struggle and survive , cos I see no bright future staying with them , I failed my waec the first time my father said he didn't. Have money for now for another exams , just few years after I left the secondary school I manage to run out of the house, God helped me a little I was able to achieve few of my aims , I did another exams and passed , graduated from higher institution, went for my NYSC , God showed me some love , I was able to build a small house which I'm staying now , even though it's not yet completed, but I give thanks to God , I didn't tell him when I started the house because he doesn't have one yet , he will want me to build for him first , it was latter when I started staying there he got to know , I guess he wasn't happy with it , because he said he is one supposed to be staying there not me , when I don't kno anything about my mother I have asked many times , but keeps giving me different stories, he couldn't locate her anymore even with her family , what amazed me is that he is a man of God . He decided not to visit me in the house with wife , cos I've invited them once , they want me to give them the small property I suffered for , and I'm yet to get married I'm 35, no kids , no wife , and he is not really bothered, assuming my mother is there I know my life cant be like that , now I'm living like a ghost no family member, and you hardly get married to a good woman without your parents based on Nigeria culture, please friends what do you suggest I can do , it's a very long story , just decided to brief it a title .they all refused to come to my side, they only want me to be coming to see them .

Yes and she doesn't even have money not to talk of taking care of wedding bills , Her pay monthly is just 20k.

Akwaibomdude:
Op what are you not telling us
You mean she's 40

It's hard to see a loyal woman this days , but the one I came accross that is 80% loyal which is still okay , she is 6 years older than I, but have a small stature, short but from her face you will know she is old , I'm just 34, we just met about 3 months now, and she and her sisters are rushing us to get married, m just confused concerning the age gap, and don't know how to go about it , though I found out later , she told me she was 30 when we met, but she later convessed after a month . Pls advice no insult pls .

When did you made your payment bro , same thing is happening to me , I made payment since yesterday morning and yet to be confirm, sent from my account, I emailed the support they are saying 24 to 72 hours , the first payment I did was just after 30 minutes, I'm tired of this who shit, they are at the mercies of riders more and some riders can be very stupid and foolish honestly.

Please I want this GTB account block,it's a scam account : Sadiq Adava, 0621532550
Gt Bank.... Please block as soon as possible. Thanks

Mopricelezz:
Site is back up. Still unable to register for Cbt

. Same here may be the site error , we can try around midnight or later .

You can drop your number if you are interested , you will be added immediately.

Okay good can we create a WhatsApp group chat , if you are interested you can drop your number let create a WhatsApp group chat please

Please leave your phone number if you also need the past questions

Check your names online , the list has been shortlisted, please any one with the past questions and please is it same question for all departments. Thanks

Since Adam and Eve are our for- father , how come we have white human like people in foreign country and black in Nigeria, how come we all speaking different languages.

Ladies , how do you feel when a guy/ man trying to stop and woo you at the road side either with car or leg.