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laudate:
Evidence of what? Her consent? Or the act of intercourse?

tactius:

Speaking as someone who has treated rape victims (and as someone who has also seen at least two ladies who were probably lying about being raped)...there is no 'one size fits all rape victim.

Also, in the Nigerian setup, a rape victim faces all sorts of hurdles to reporting her case. 90% OF THE time, most of them are ashamed, blame themselves, are afraid of reprisals.

And a virgin does not always 'cry out on being raped'. That's a stereotype.

Plus...who is going to marry a rape victim, which husband is going to touch a rape victim wife?

So, while I wait for a law court to make the determination, I ain't surprised she took her time to report.

gratiaeo:
There are huge holes in the story. From the interview you would see that Mrs Dakolo did not mention the word rape. It was the interviewer that used the word. Secondly she said, the pastor noticed her because she was BOLD and BLUNT. Please take note of those words. Her own words.
Bold and blunt but she was not bold enough to tell the pastor No. She did not shout for help. Yeah that's REALLY BOLD AND BLUNT.
According to her, the first incident was at her family house. Her mom was out, her sisters were in their rooms in the same house. So apparently all of them heard the knock but she opened. The pastor didn't ask who was home to make sure they were alone. He pushed her to a chair and ripped her clothes. All the while she was boldly and bluntly keeping quiet.
The second time he was driving her home from visiting his wife and veered off into a lonely corner and raped her twice. Yet she bluntly and boldly kept quiet. This very bold and blunt person only suddenly found her voice after 20 years.
Question. Was she a virgin? That's the impression she gave. Try having consensual sex with a virgin and tell me she was quiet let alone forceful sex (rape).

HitSong:
She's a loose liar.
It's seems they had a relationship, she was young and naive then. Now that's she matured, she felt used and taken advantage of...
I don't believe that girl but I'm very sure that pastor is A SHAMELESS STUD.

friendl:
Which woman for Nigeria go just freely open leg for you ,means all women in naija are rape

Junkie1:
VERY WELL WRITTEN

Smile4daddy:
Busola and are Kolo husband is just pained seeing Toyinbo doing exploit in his ministry/family.

Whom the Lord has blessed no Kolo man or an Olosho woman can pull him down

maybachmusic:
busola is a known runs gal
busy fcking clerics and church workers around Abuja

if no be timi give her belle
she for still dey on her trade

Timi still mad he had to wife the hoee after the pastor had collected his own share

Intrepid01:
Oh I remember this guy, you were the one who stated emphatically that Gbajabiamila will never become Speaker....now you see how wrong and foolish your statement is?....go and sin no more

Leonbonapart:
The b!tch has no case

ornicus:
It's odd that ALmost all the vocal pdp supporters minus adeyanju are all rape apologists.

DrChukzy:
Oga just shut up if you don't know the genesis of this case.


This isn't politics bro. Go and asslick those who enslave you asap.

TonyeBarcanista:
Written by TonyeBarcanista

I have been following the alleged rape incident between Mrs Bisola Dakolo, the wife of musician Timi Dakolo, and Pastor Biodun, the Senior Pastor at COZA, where Mrs Dakolo alleged that Pastor Biodun had multiple canal knowledge of her without her consent as a then 17 years old teenager, an incident that allegedly happened some 20 years ago.

I have watched the pronouncements of some social media jurists and popular figures, including some politicians, musicians, influencers and actors, with most pronouncing judgement against the accused (Pastor Biodun) and a few others "standing with the accused".

May I add my voice to this subject...

1. Does Being A Philanderer Makes One A Rapist?

A couple of people, including Mr Timi Dakolo, the husband of Bisola, have accused Pastor Biodun to be a man that engage in inappropriate relationship with several female members of his COZA church, while that remains an unproven allegation, some commentators pronounced the pastor as "guilty" of rape because of his too many "womanising scandals", while some others narrated his philandering days in Ilorin, Kwara state, where he allegedly had multiple romps with several ladies of loosed virtues. While the allegations/testimony may be true, half truth or completely untrue, it still does not help the allegation of Mrs Bisola.

Rape is non-consented sexual relations and it is a criminal offence. Having multiple sexual partners is not a crime under the law irrespective of moral or spiritual opinion.

2. Bisola Dakolo Herself Was Accused of Having Sexual Relations With COZA Clerics

On May 30, a certain female with Instagram handle @elenapipper informed Mr Timi Dakolo that his own wife, Bisola, who incidentally is the accused of Pastor Biodun, was involved in illicit sexual relationship with Pastors of COZA church and some of her choir colleagues. While the claim of Elena remains an allegation, I believe that "2+2" should be put together by social media jurists if their intent is to give social media justice. I am yet to see the response of Timi and Bisola to that allegation and in all honesty, I expect the Dakolos to sue Elena for defamation/libel so as to prove their innocence- just like several social media jurists have challenged Pastor Biodun to do.

3. The Media Is Not The Appropriate Place To Lodge Criminal Complaint

I have said it umpteenth time that the media, be it traditional media or social media, is not a police station to lodge criminal complaints. The traditional media is interested in selling papers while the social media is highly interested in cashing out on trending issues. Popular faces and celebrities are interested in jumping on trending issues so as to stay relevant while influencers are interested in swaying perception. Majority of these commentators and social media jurists aren't interested in vindicating the innocent and to bring the real guilty party to JUSTICE. I heard of a planned protest at COZA Church by some so-called CSOs, but that again is just to sway public opinion and not necessarily see to that JUSTICE is done.

However, the appropriate thing for Bisola Dakolo to do is to first go to the Police station nearest to her, report the case, get her witnesses and other evidence, assist the Police in their investigation and ensure that the accused is charged appropriately to establish his innocence or guilt and get justice, which can only be dispensed by the court.

4. My Position On The Rape Allegation By Bisola Against Pastor Biodun

Rape is a crime against humanity and a robbery of ones dignity, it is a serious crime that should be treated as an offence worse than armed robbery- because the victim is robbed mentally, emotionally and psychologically.

However, rape accusation is one that should be properly lodged at the Police station and investigated by the appropriate police officer, and if found to be true, the perpetrator be punished. But if otherwise, the accuser be punished. As such, I neither agree with the accuser (Bisola) nor the accused (Pastor Biodun) just yet, but proper investigation be done.


Convulsively, we should allow wisdom be our guide in making judgement! May justice be done!


TonyeBarcanista can be reached via gmail at TonyeBarcanista@gmail.com

https://www.thebreakingtimes.com/rape-allegation-between-bisola-pastor-biodun-and-social-media-jurists-tonyebarcanista/

PrecisionFx:
Yes, United against RUGA

Danwakae:
You get sense today




2 RUGA for u

MrSly:
I am a Nigerian and I say NO to uniting with a fellow who reasons the way you do.

shekauvsbuhari:
YOUR CASE IS IRREDEMABLE. TOTALLY BEYOND REPAIR.

greenprince:
Slow down and think!
How dumb can someone be to defame the same person that paid for his services?
Sensitive matters like these do not require jumping to conclusions. The dude could be paid to say exactly what he said.
You do not know, so don't conclude. My joy is that someone knows who's lying and saying the truth.

shigoslim:
Bokoharam is Buhari and Buhari is bokoharam. The two concepts interwove .
BUHARI is the grand patron, they work in hand to hand in accordance to their ethics standard. Mission we be accomplished before 2023 . Our eyes we soon clear .

OfficialAPCNig:
Says a gay god worshipper from a waste land. Defenders and Lord Protectors of One Nigeria.

jcross19:
I sight you Fulani herdsman.

ornicus:
Pocohantas
AntiBrutus

malvisguy212:
come in here let have a little charts. https://www.nairaland.com/2964728/islamic-paradise-sex-sin-sensuality