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Business To Business / Empty Cosmetics Bottles And Containers by beqs101(f): 11:38am On Nov 01, 2018
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Religion / Re: It Has Been 2 Years Since My Credentials Disappeared Mysteriously by beqs101(f): 10:10pm On Oct 05, 2018
@op, i can relate to what you are going through. My home was bugged some years back and my credentials were stolen,leaving my husband's documents behind. I brushed it off cuz i feel it's God's or the universe's way of telling me to do something else with my life rather than focusing on finding a job that may not be fulfilling.

My advice,channel your energy somewhere else like thinking of what else you're passionate about in life and pursue it. You still might get your documents back but don't let life pass you by,while you wait and then regret those wasted years. Keep faith sis

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Business / I Need A Bag Of Potassium Hydroxide by beqs101(f): 8:24am On Apr 27, 2017
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Business / I Need A Bag Of Potassium Hydroxide by beqs101(f): 9:54pm On Apr 26, 2017
Please anyone who sells or can get me a bag of potassium hydroxide should please contact me via:08035474375
Business / Re: Empty Cosmetics Bottles For Sale by beqs101(f): 4:42pm On Apr 17, 2017
Empty Cosmetics Bottles For Sale by beqs101(f): 5:42am On Apr 16
Hello business people, i deal on empty cosmetics bottles and containers. I have 500ml,250ml,200ml,120ml,and 100ml. I can also get you any size you want upon request. I ship nationwide. Contact me with this number.
08035474375 let's do business.
Business / Empty Cosmetics Bottles For Sale by beqs101(f): 5:42am On Apr 16, 2017
Hello business people, i deal on empty cosmetics bottles and containers. I have 500ml,250ml,200ml,120ml,and 100ml. I can also get you any size you want upon request. I ship nationwide. Contact me with this number.
08035474375 let's do business.

Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 6:50pm On Mar 04, 2017
Thank y'all so much for your words and suggestions. I've been able to pick one or two things from all of your comments that will better help our decision. Thanks
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 7:52am On Mar 04, 2017
Onegai:


I think, since you all feel this way NOW, it's best to plan to put the baby up for adoption. It would be bad to grudgingly keep this child and bring it up because of "what will people say?". Adoption sometimes is a loving choice (compared to dumping the baby in a soakaway). And I believe I know 2 people, both male, one a teen and another a man almost in his 40s, who are glad till tomorrow they got adopted. I know a lady who immediately upon seeing her new little brother, swore to forever love him (even got his name tattooed on her), and that kid is crazy about his big sis now.

Remember, all these people saying "how can you give up your flesh and blood", piling on guilt, will move on with their lives (by Sunday they will not even recall to enquire about your pregnant teenager) and not be there for school fees, childish rebellions and frustrations which will one day make you in anger think "you that no-one wanted!" (And anger is a normal human response, there is no saint on planet Earth so don't let anyone deceive you otherwise).

If you do end up keeping this baby and supporting your sister, she must do the bulk of the work and you must do your absolutel best everyday to love this child ( you will fail once in a while but dust yourself and keep loving the child).


Thank you very much Onegai. I am glad you have an idea of what I meant when I said I can't raise the baby. Thanks for your words.
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 7:10pm On Mar 03, 2017
Please excuse my typos.
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 7:06pm On Mar 03, 2017
Greenrevolt:
let the rapist be brought to book first. she should tell her story to a professional and have the story corroborated.

as for the baby, I think you should hold on on the issue of giving it up for adoption or to an orphanage, orphanage is way worse. let her deliver the baby, the decision can thereafter be made, there is always a bond between mother and child that she might not know now, which makes her think she is not ready to take care of a baby. she might get psychologically devastated after the baby is taking away from her, she might have agreed to give up the baby cos of the reasons you people have made her see or maybe her friends, there are even younger girls who are taking care of their babies not minding their age. all she we mostly need is love and support from family, y'all might regret giving up that baby for anything later. lest she is mentally unstable, I won't advice she give up the baby, that's my point. whatever you want to be giving to an orphanage to use to raise the baby. GIVE IT TO THE GIRL.

You know sometimes, before people take decisions they must have weighed the pros not the cons. Let me ask you this,if you were married or married presently, will you be okay with your wife bringing her younger sister to come live with you with a newborn indefinitely knowing fully well that,you will be responsible for a lot of things as far as the baby is concerned? Even if u would, all men are not the same and my husband won't agree to such. I'm from a broken home so my parents don't live together to say, they both will allow her to live in the house even with her baby.

There are a lot of knots to tie dear,and it's all too much work. I can't start telling everyone about my family cuz you wouldn't even understand where i'm coming from.but believe me,we all want what's best for the baby.

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Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 6:53pm On Mar 03, 2017
As for the rape, i wouldn't want to go into so much details here and we're trying all we can to take the necessary actions against the rapist.

All we're concerned about now is how to take care of the baby when he/she is born by looking for ways to manage the situation.
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 6:48pm On Mar 03, 2017
Nancy2016:


So why can't one of your sisters raise the child and you all contribute for the upkeep? So you had rather give up your flesh and blood to a stranger, or put him or her in an orphanage? I thought orphanages were for kids whose parents are dead and don't have family to take care of them. You guys need to pool your resources and take care of the child.

Truthfully, I can't raise the baby with mine. There are so many things one needs to put in place and I don't have those resources right now. We are 4girls in total, the pregnant one,another younger sister who is a bit older than the pregnant one who is still a student,myself,and our eldest sister who is also not ready to adopt the baby. So you see why we're seeking other alternatives?
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 10:11am On Mar 03, 2017
ireneblush:
and I don't even think you should take care of her baby, only people that have stayed with kids can testify that it's hard work.. more so it might cause problems in your young family. let your sis bear her cross, if she can Bleep and get pregnant and can as well solve her problems,sll you can do is to advise her, pray for her and help her financially. all those saying you should raise yours with her don't even have children and most certainly not married..

Raising kids is serious hard work let alone 3kids. I'm supporting her through this period the best way I can. Thanks Irene

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Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 9:25am On Mar 03, 2017
kennygee:


Let her talk to a counsellor, she needs professional advice, after she has been given the pros and cons of her available options, she will be able to decide on her own.

Yea I get you. Thanks
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 9:21am On Mar 03, 2017
delishpot:


Okay, ask her. If she doesn't want the baby later on, or no member of your family wants to take the baby in future, then it's best to give the baby a chance at happy life by giving her up for adoption. Orphanages could be terrible places. No need to keep the child there and never return to pick her soon that could damage a child's self esteem. A whole lot.
So, your family need to decide what you would do. If my daughter has a baby I will not addopt it out if I can help it, and I know my sibblibgs would never let it happen too. But situations and economy influences a lot of things so I understand your delimma.


Thanks dear. I will ask her if she would want the baby later on cuz I know how attached a mother can get with her child no matter how young the mother is. I think the orphanage thing will be temporary as it will give us all time, to properly think and make the right decision afterwards. Thanks Delish
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 9:14am On Mar 03, 2017
kennygee:
"I was raped" is just a convenient way of her avoiding to tell you that she's been having sex from an age you'd be shocked to hear.

Let her see a counsellor and let her be the one to decide what to do with the baby after talking to the counsellor.

Any decision you make for her now could be used against you in the future.


My dear Kenny,please understand that I am not the one making the decision. We've had a discussion and she said she can't take care of the baby. Rather than abandon the innocent baby, me and my other sisters older than her are trying to help out by proffering a solution.

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Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 9:07am On Mar 03, 2017
kennygee:
"I was raped" is just a convenient way of her avoiding to tell you that she's been having sex from an age you'd be shocked to hear.

Feels pretty convenient but what can we do now other than look for a solution?
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 9:06am On Mar 03, 2017
Tapout:



seriously undecided, that's just not an excuse ..... What will u then do should u have twins??

Well I don't have twins and not praying to. I have a 3year old daughter and i can't handle 3kids all at once. plus my husband won't be down with it.

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Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 9:04am On Mar 03, 2017
Cutehector:
I don't think she was raped. The thing with families is that they try to hide a lot of details when posting stuff like this on social media..


But am not here to judge anybody. Op u can take care of both babies. God won't be happy with you sending dat child to an opharnage

You don't know me or my family dear so no point hiding behind rape. I just created this thread based on the information i have. And I really can't raise the baby alongside mine cuz,i have a 3year old daughter and pregnant now. I can't handle 3kids all at once,plus my husband might not be ready for this.

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Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 8:59am On Mar 03, 2017
Slimzjoe:
And why exactly can't you raise her child alongside yours?

I already have a 3year old daughter and I am pregnant. I can't handle 3kids all at once.

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Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 8:57am On Mar 03, 2017
Heromaniaa:
I will be willing to adopt the baby if necessary. I wish your sister safe delivery.

Thanks. U can contact me via my email.
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 8:55am On Mar 03, 2017
doughziay:
I think ur sis hasn't said the truth about how she gor pregnant. I was raped doesn't sound true to me. Any ways, she is immature to care for a child without assistance.

My Suggestion: Get someone mature to assist her with caring for the child when born, maybe a paid nanny.

my reason: if the child is given up for adoption, there is every tendency ur Lil sister wouldn't brace up to the fact that she has a responsibility hence, making her get into the hands of other guys since there isn't an evidence she is a mother. She might get pregnant a second time if care isn't taken.

God help u both to deliver safely.

Thanks dear. I think you have a point about her getting pregnant again cuz she won't feel responsible.
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 8:48am On Mar 03, 2017
koolet:
Your sister is yet to tell the truth sad

Let me know your thoughts please. What do you think she might be hiding?
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 8:46am On Mar 03, 2017
delishpot:
Have you asked her what she wants? Cos she is not mentally sick is she? If she can care for the baby and want to keep it, why not allow her? If she wants the baby but wants to continue her education, then keep baby somewhere safe ie orphanage.
If she doesn't want baby noe or in future due to how she was conceived, then adoption is best.
She can opt for an open or closed addoption .

She said she would want to continue schooling and that she can't take care of the baby right now. That's why we suggested an orphanage and she's okay with it. But she hasn't said anything about wanting to take the baby later on.
Family / Re: My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 8:43am On Mar 03, 2017
Yes. She said she can't take care of a baby. So she said she is open to any solution or suggestions.
Family / My 17year Old Sister Is Pregnant by beqs101(f): 8:36am On Mar 03, 2017
Hello family,i'm creating this post because I want help and good advice on what to do. We just found out that,my 17year Old Sister was 7months pregnant last month. She didn't even know she was pregnant cuz,her tummy is still very flat even though doctors have given next month as her due date.

According to her,she was raped by a guy she met some months back and she didn't open up to anyone until now. We have been looking for solutions as to how the baby can be taken care of. I'm married and pregnant at the moment so I'm not even in a position to help her take care of the baby and our mom isn't fit to take care of the baby also.

So we're considering different options like giving the baby up for adoption when he/she is born next month to a good family or taking the baby to an orphanage where we'll be going to drop stuffs from time to time. Please people,this is real and serious so i'll really really want matured advice only please. My sister is in Delta state while i'm in Ph.

Looking forward to reading your advice. Thanks

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Fashion/Clothing Market / Re: Ladies Foot Wears For Wholesale Supplies @ N600/pair by beqs101(f): 4:43pm On Oct 26, 2014
Why are they so cheap? I hope they're of good quality?cuz I'm interested. Lemme know how it will work
stechi:
This is a great business opportunity for all.
NYSC / Re: Nysc 2013 Batch C Corp Members Posted To Ebonyi State by beqs101(f): 12:42pm On Dec 25, 2013
Merry Christmas to y'all and I hope you guys are having a swell one? When are you guys going back to Ebonyi by January?
NYSC / Re: Nysc 2013 Batch C Corp Members Posted To Ebonyi State by beqs101(f): 9:50am On Nov 03, 2013
solomityo:
hmmm..... Since i left lag to ebonyi, haven't heard sm1 called me SOLO.... So wen r you coming? Let me use red carpet to wait for you at d bus stop and put a BIG billboard of YOU ARE WELCOME.

Lol for real? Well I'm coming from Ph to Ebonyi on tuesday..
NYSC / Re: Nysc 2013 Batch C Corp Members Posted To Ebonyi State by beqs101(f): 9:46am On Nov 03, 2013
Lifeiscool: That's the spirit. Are you on BBM or whatsapp?

I'm on both BBM and Whatsapp..

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