jennykadry:

Lol. Be laughing diaaaa naaaaaaww. Does she sound like someone who can catch a mosquito let alone a man? Na this type we dey see everyday for television, going on one knee and asking the man to marry her. 7 women to one men abi wetin the bible talk? This one is amongst the seven looking at becoming second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth and seventh wife

ROTFL is this all u got honey? C'mon u can do better *now pressing play on the remote*. Keep it coming hun.

Ujujoan:

Grow up!

U're the one whose growth is stunted honey remember?

jennykadry:

Married ko man ni. Does she sound like someone who will tickle any man's fantasy? Amu osu. Let her kukuma cook for the man with the yeast from her private part, maybe then he will start looking at her with the eyes of sh@gging

I'll ask again,are u sure u're ok? Cuz u really sound like a troubled kid. I guess u need rehab

Ujujoan:

You still dont get where we are coming from . . . for someone who's about to get married, you sure have a big mouth!

Anways, to each his own . . . .

Your mouth is sure bigger ma'am. You know it's not by force to comment right? There's no grand price for the lady that insults most. Why not be a doll, and stop commenting?

jennykadry:

I said SHUT UP WITCH

Ok ma'am, said the girl to the bigger WITCH

jennykadry:

[size=20pt]SHUT UP WITCH [/size]

Hahahaha sure u're ok? You have so much hatred in your little dark heart. #you need Jesus

acidosis™:
Free this lady abeg!

Stop acting like Jesus christ.. we all are guilty.. we all gossip and even most times, we seek help on behalf of friends and relatives..

BTW, the OP only asked a question with a clear reference so we all can understand..

Tell them oo to stop acting like saints.. Every once in a while,friends,relatives confide in us and i don't see what's so wrong in wanting to get people's opinions. I didn't and I repeat I didn't ask for ADVICE rather,just a thought about how we ladies can pretend. I'm not taking sides with any of them and don't have the intentions of talking to them either cuz,their familes are involved in it already. I just was wondering how people change. I'm sure most of them crucifying me here treat their husbands like trash and they've also adviced their brothers,uncles or even wished secretly for them to leave their gfs or wives hence,the serious tongue lashing.

jennykadry:



Don't mind the silly girl. The wife smashed his phone because he was pinging and the dullard has already concluded that she is a devil without asking herself, who was the man pinging? Why is she not trying to restore peace to this marriage if truly she is a friend? Jealousy will not kill some women,instead of her to say she has got her eyes on him she is here acting like the old cargo she is.

Mschewwwww

Jenny or whatever u call urself,I'll not tolerate any insults from you. I didn't make this post to be insulted but i won't stoop so low in insulting u back. Plz if u feel my post doesn't make any sense to u,kindly get your sorry ass out. Just so u know,I'm not as old and frustrated as you are. Go get laid cuz I'm sure that will calm u down.

@those thinking i made the post to seek for advice on how my friend's marriage will work,u're all wrong cuz,i never mentioned advice in my post and also,it's not in my character to meddle in marital problems.. The guy in question is my fiance's brother and we are close hence,I called him my friend.. I just wanted to know why we ladies can cover all our flaws during courtship only to bring them out when we say I do. I'm not taking sides with the guy but only saying,based on how bitter he has been since he got married and also thinking of divorcing her when their marriage isn't even up to six months. The thought of wanting him to marry me doesn't make any sense at all..

jennykadry: @OP
Okay let's cut to the chase ; do you want your friend to leave his wife and marry you?

Madam thanks very much for your comment but plz,don't say things you dnt know about. I've been his friend b4 he got married so your cutting to the chase makes no sense.

Ujujoan:

All I can say is that marriage and dating are two diffrent things entirely. You are NOT a part of their marriage so you can't tell for sure who is at fault teally (of course you'll side with your friend). I'm sure when you hear the girl's side of the story, you'll understand better!

These are a few possibilities of the causes of their problems . .

1. Like you said, the girl is 'nice'. Could be that your friend unconciouslly tried to take advantage of her 'niceness' and the poor girl is just fighting back. 'Pinging' is NOT a crime. But flirting with a girl, pinging while the wife is trying to say something important, pinging when he should be helping out with stuff . . . can be really annoying!

2. Could be that they are yet to understand each other fully and learn how to deal with issues. These things takes time and willingness on both their sides. Considering divorce is a waste of time. He'll end up having the same issues with any woman he marries.

3. Did your friend cheat on her? Ever?

Yes like you said,I'm not in their marriage and won't know the full story but from what I've seen,the girl has the most issues. I said in the post that,I know my friend has his own issues but I'm sure,he didn't take his time to study the girl before marrying her and was blinded by her beauty and her pretense. I didn't say the girl was "nice" cuz from the first day i saw her,I knew her type but my friend was in love. What I said was that,the girl he was suppose to get married to b4 this girl,was "nice".

A woman who is working shouldn't have any problem supporting her husband. U should make your wife know you can't shoulder all the responsibilities and will need a little help from her. However,you shouldn't make it look it's compulsory but rather,contributing to building a better future.. Women should quit thinking that,their money is just for themselves alone.

Thank God ‎​foя saving her.. It is well with her.

acidosis™:
Why? why ?why? You hardly 'read' marriage issues these days without a sentence on divorce..

lord, what is happening?!

It is really disheartening..

I have this friend that wanted to get married to a girl he was dating last year but along the line,they had inreconcilable issues. Even though I never met the girl,from our chats I knew she was nice and I really felt bad when it didn't work out for them.. This year around January,my friend told me he had found another girl he wants to get married to and he knows it's sudden but,the girl is really sweet and she is a good girl..
His family were kinda surprised and somehow angry at the sudden marriage and advised him to date the girl a little longer to know who she really was but,he said his mind was made up so,they all supported him. They got married in June and now,he is full of regrets cuz the girl,is making his life miserable..
First,he íڪ complaining that things aren't working ‎​foя him as they use to and the girl nags him to death.. She picks up quarel at the slightest provocation,locks him outside his own home,insults him,she is rude,grabs his phone whenever he is making calls and shouts at whoever he was talking to. She even broke his BB jes because the guy was pinging. I know my friend has his own faults but,the girl is driving him crazy to the point that,he is contemplating a divorce. I am a girl, but I'll never pretend to be nice or to be who I'm not just to cage a man. It really beats me why some ladies do that.

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Thanks for the info..

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Please I'll appreciate it if you upload it. Thanks

I've been planning to change the products I use on my skin for sometime now but,I've not been able to cuz I really don't know what to use. A friend adviced me to start using the following products:
Cream- Easy white body lotion.
Soap- Jennifer lopez secrets.
Facial cream- Perfect face.
Oil- Johnson baby oil.

Please,has anyone tried any of this products?and if yes,how good are they? If you know others that are suitable to lighten and even a skin,plz do share. Thanks

Hey people,
I was complaining to a friend about how rough my face is and she adviced,I start using sponge on my face. Her face is spotless and she said,she can't do without scrubing her face with a sponge.. Please I wanna know if some people here,scrub their faces and if it actually helps in smoothing the face..

Hello people,
I saw stumbled on this piece and decided to share.

What do you think your biggest life decision
is?
Is it the job you choose? Is it where you live?
Is it where you raise your children?
No.
The biggest life decision that you will make is
whom you’re going to have a relationship
with. The person you choose for your life
partner is the person who’s going to
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A lot of you are divorced, so you know exactly
what I’m talking about here.
Many of you reading this right now have
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Your home is your castle. Your home is the
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knowing that you’re in a safe place, and it
doesn’t really matter what happens at work
because the home front really determines
how happy and fulfilled your life is going to
be.
You know what I’m talking about. A lot of you
have been through divorces that were just
miserable.
A lot of clients that I’ve worked with over the
years have gone through divorces that have
been brutal. They’ve experienced years and
years of fighting, and their home was in no
way a peaceful, loving environment.
I encourage you to look in the mirror and
realize that you have another chance to do
this all again. You have another chance to
create happiness in your home. You have the
chance to go out and meet somebody
spectacular, but only when you know what
you want, desire and need from a relationship
are you most likely to find it.
Most people repeat the same relationships
over and over again until they finally feel so
much pain that they vow to never do it again.
A healthy, happy, amazing relationship is
what you’re questing for, and it’s the reason
you got divorced.
So when you’re out there dating again, I
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way to attract that amazing, loving, powerful
relationship you deserve.
This piece was first published in Huffington
Post.

Lord have mercy.. It is well

Na wa oo. Why them no [s]fight[s/] resist deportation nah? Shei na wetin them advise them to do ni

Na wa oo. Why them no [s] fight [s/] resist deportation nah?

Honesty really pays.. Despite the situation of the economy,we still have very honest nigerians.. I give it up for the Mr.

Na wa for these people o,na hunger.Na wa for these people o,na hunger wetin make am pull that kain stunt?

People should always mind what they say when it comes to religion. Having the conciousness that,everyone will account for every spoken word,should help us to stop saying anything that comes to our mind. These matters are too sensitive.

Thanks y'all for your advice and suggestions,I really do appreciate and to @Seun for putting this on the front page for more and better advice.

Location of the job plz.

sassygal: Hi,

Congrats on your upcoming nuptials.

For every bride to be, wanting a perfect and cool wedding is top priority. Planning can be very hectic and stressful and on-the-day coordination can be overwhelming if not handled by a professional with a passion for these things.

The first thing you need to do is set a budget!!! This is very important and crucial. Set a price range that you MUST not exceed. Never plan your wedding without a budget.

2) Make a guest list. know the maximum number of guests you want or expect. Set a figure as most vendors work with that when charging you. Always add a hundred more guests to that list, cos naija peeps always attend parties with friends or in case of i-hear-i-branch peeps. Unless you make it strictly by invitation.

3)What sort of wedding do you envisage? A quiet, intimate, classy affair? Or a moderate one? You can even go as loud and extravagant as you want. It all depends on what YOU, as the bride, wants. Nevertheless, dont forget to carry your groom along o! You can have everything you want for that day to be perfect. Get a notebook for your day and write down everything relating to your wedding, no matter how silly.

4) Get a professional help, if you can afford to. In as much as well-meaning, an aunt or sister is, they can never do it like a professional can. So please enlist the help of a wedding planner. They are so many reasons why you need one.

5)Choosing vendors is very very critical as they make or mar your day. Never ever choode one out of sentiments! You only get to be a bride once.

Having both your traditional and white wedding on the same day is a money-saver. Ideally, your traditional wedding should be in the morning, as early as 8am -10am. Then church should be set at 12pm. I'm sure you'll want to have a regular reception party in your wedding gown. So you do a traditional wedding set for family and very close friends in the morning, change into your gown and go to church, then off to your reception party to enjoy yourself.

If you do need more advice, (its free) call 08028560124 or mail classysassyng@gmail.com. I plan and coordinate weddings, no matter the location and will love to help you realise your dream wedding.

Thanks for the advice and suggestions.. I will contact you.

Konnektions146: he could be nice cos he apprciates her a lot and yet have fun with other ladies who re crazy enough as he wants.

ask yyur friend, whats de guyys kinda person, what hhe likes in a lady, ~- is yur friend a good match, maybe yur ffriend need to spice up de relationship if she iss too dull cos for someone like me, i like 'em smart but dats no excuse for messing around.

moreso, from what u xplaind here, it loooks like de girl cant really complain cos de guy is so "NICE" meeanin de girl is enjoyin de MONEY which is de only thing a Naija lady uses to describe a nice guy.

they should have a talk, should compile her questions, issue, concerns etc...fire at de guy like an adult, and hear wat de guy would say...as well i dont think dey have good communication, she should try fill dat gap.

de guy flirts cos he's got de cash..its a pity yur friend is a victim but all hope aint lost..let her try to make a change.

Well she told me the guy is very crazy like,he likes sex a lot and since they've been dating,he hasn't really complained that she can't satisfy him cuz,she tries to be the kinda girl he wants and for him to want her to be his wife,confirms it all... About cash,the guy is an average earner and though he spends on her,that's not why he is nice..generally,she said the guy treats her like a queen but,the sex discussion with other girls is what is driving her nuts..

She saw his conversations sometime ago with a girl about sex and she wanted to quit but,he kept on pleading that it won't happen again and that,the girl was someone he had a fling with way before he met her and this again...she doen't really know what to do about it.

freecocoa: Chatting with a girl about 5ex isn't trace enough for her? Hmm her own better o.

He didn't show any sign of cheating until she stumbled upon his chat and since then,she's been very disturbed.

@poster,you really do not have any other option than to confess what you've done..note that,even if she forgives you and get treated,it will only take the grace of God for things to be normal again in your marriage cuz,once trust is broken,it's always very difficult to regain.. Goodluck