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BATified2023:
Fried egg and jollof rice

These combo I never hear am before

. Learn today

Kobojunkie:
The doctor is able to carry out allergy tests to figure out what the material or substance the child may be allergic to, if at all. I don't think putting a baby through some haphazard test is the good way to go about this..

Okay

VeryWickedMan:
He may be allergic to you.

To what end really.

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The thing is I click but nothing happens. I haven't even has the chance to upload anything.

VeryWickedMan:
Have you tried removing yourself from him?

I don't understand

talented321:
I no be doctor but what i have experience myself and daughters.
Malaria sef they cause that problem, the eating aspect maybe worm or still yet malaria sef dey cause mouth bitterness making it hard to eat, i don't know if u don give him worm tablet or syrubs before, because from my observation maybe him fit dey eat sweet things wella, u fit give am appetite to eat sha.

I just dewormed him. He was having worm issues and malaria too, but he is on medication. He is eight months old and I didn't think he would have worm issues until he started crying so much at night and I noticed worms in his poo.

garriAndsugar:
What kind of oil did you use to fry the eggs

The satchet power oil

Kobojunkie:
Why not take your son to the hospital and let the pediatrician sort this all out instead?

It's not that easy, however I appreciate your input.

BlongTrendies:
Sounds like urticaria.

He actually reacted to something.

Even if you take him to a paed, you won't be given anything if he feels better.

What to do? Just

Since you don't know what caused this reaction, be alert for a possible next reaction.

When next it happens, take him to the nearest hospital who has a paediatrician.

Don't mix food for him for now.

Just give in bits and watch so you can isolate.


Those reactions take place in segments around 30-50mins.

Also when you find a cause, note it.
For some it's okro, peanut, eggs, etc.

Piriton worked because it's works great for allergies. A good one is Loratadine.

Watch out for the Same reactions, pulling and itching .

The rashes look bumpy some do swell too.

Also, is there atopy in the family?

Any history of asthma, rhinitis in the family, mother or father side? Extended family?
Those are questions a good doc or paed will ask.
Be prepared.

It's all part of the joy of parenthood.

Thanks a lot

Hello doctors and nurses in the house. So my son hasn't been feeling well for a while but he is on medication and getting better. He hasn't had appetite for a while and has refused eating anything. Today I thought of what I could give him to boost his appetite, so I fried some eggs, added with some jollof rice and gave him. I started feeding him with the egg first. After about 30 to 45, he started itching his ears and pulling his hair. He did this for a while and then he started crying and he was very uncomfortable. Few minutes later I noticed some rashes coming out all over his body. He was so uncomfortable and cried so much. I thought at first he had measles but then I kicked against it because the rashes suddenly appeared. My neighbour told me he was having an allergic reaction and suggested I give him piriton. After the piriton he got better. So the problem is, I don't know exactly what caused the allergic reaction. He has eaten rice before so I don't think it's the rice. He has also eaten eggs before but it was boiled. I thought maybe it was because the egg was fried. I want to determine what caused the allergic reaction so I can avoid it next time. Should I fry some eggs tomorrow and give him to see if he's going to react?

Bethuel2022:
Trying to upload pictures. Patronize me oh, please

Why is it impossible for me to upload pictures. I clicked on the choose file button so I could upload images as attachment but nothing happens. I keep clicking and nothing is happening. How do I attach the pictures then.

Bethuel2022:
Hello nairalanders, good morning.
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Trying to upload pictures. Patronize me oh, please

Hello nairalanders, good morning.
My name is bethuel, I live in Jos and I deal on all types of foodstuffs.
Do you want to get food items items at affordable rate?
Do you want fresh vegetables and fruits?
Are you busy or too tired to go to the market?
Are you too tired to process certain spices but you are worried about what goes into your pot?
Well, I am here to solve all your food needs.
I sll sorts of food stuffs ranging from fruits, vegetables and spices, yam, potatoes, millet, sorghum, wheat, acha, corn, different types of rice and beans. The bean can be picked and cleaned on demand. Fish isn't exempted. Cat fish, Asa fish and stockfish is available. I make the best soya beans powder for your little one. I can process tomatoes and all kinds of peppers to make cooking easier. I can go to the market for you and stock up your house with all the food stuffs you would ever need. You would be saving a lot.
Simply send me a message on Whatsapp. Location is not a barrier. My number is in my signature.

Hello nairalanders, today I did the unthinkable. I went for the ndlea recruitment going on now without been invited. My name was not on the list after I had prayed and said, God, my name must come out, but for where.
After seeing the list, I cried so hard, but then I picked up courage, because I lived in Jos, I said to myself, why not go and act drama for this people so they will no that the fire is too much for you.
Anyways, I was supposed to go there on Monday, but all the bravado I felt disappeared. It was replaced by this sickening gut wrenching fear. Up till now, I cannot tell where that fear came from. I was so worried and scared of what might happen so I ended up not going on Monday. The same scenario played out on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday. I would be very brave one minute and the next thing fear sets in.
So people of God, today been Friday, I said to myself, this is the last day, if you miss out on this, you will never forgive yourself oh. I thought about my son, and all the responsibilities waiting for me, then I picked up courage. I borrowed my neighbor's shoe, wore black short instead of navy blue and set out with all my documents. As I didn't get heart attack or die of fear today, I will surely live long. My whole body was shaking. I couldn't even talk. I kept asking myself, who send you? What will you tell them when you get there? Hmmm
The funny thing is, instead of turning back, I kept going. I tried to pray, for where. Fear totally enveloped me. I was in the bus, praying for us never to get to my destination. Chai! Life is full of ups and downs.
Anyways, back to the story. I finally arrived at the junction. After I was dropped off, I started walking ever so slowly to the gate. I was almost crawling, I didn't want to reach oh. Eventually I got to the gate. One officer that saw how slowly I walked, asked me to go back to the junction and start running back towards the gate. I was like, which kind of wahala is this? Untop of my name that is not even in the list.
When I got back, I was asked by one of the security personnel to for my serial number. Oya, see problem. How do I begin to tell this man that I came all the way here just to beg to be screened. I wanted to tell him the truth but I decided against it because, this is not the person I will beg now. What if I tell him the truth and he decides to throw me out without letting me meet the people who can help me. This is how I just told him to let me check the list. I stood under the sun and started checking what I don't know . One part of me was praying for a miracle, while the other part was like, I told you so.
I stood for minutes checking list. The security personnel got so angry with me. The man wanted to cut off my head oh. He was like go back because you are not serious. I saw all the people passing by to do their screening and go home and I burst into tears. Come and see cry. The security personnels had to rally round to console me, asking me to keep checking that I will find my name. Me that knew in my heart that my name wasn't there, kept crying. I just envied those people that were so lucky.
Anyways, after crying my eye balls out without still finding the imaginary name, I was told to go home that there was nothing they could do. One staff asked me to pray and fast, while the other asked me if I knew any senator or minister, that if I knew any, I didn't have a problem. I was like, how will I know any senator, and I will be here. These people are certainly out of touch with reality. Before my very eyes, one man that his son got shortlisted, came to swap names because his son refused the offer. The man was just making calls up and down. One other man was asking for the commandant like he was his next door neighbor. He said he was a dss official. Honestly, some people are lucky to know important people. We that dont know anybody, otilor oh
Anyways, after sitting in the sun for hours without any divine helper showing up, I said to myself, go home to your baby. That thought alone made me smile. I know I might not have it all together now, but I still had my baby. I actually missed him while I was there . It will surely get better someday as long as there is life.
Meanwhile, please if you are my divine helper and you know any senator or somebody that knows somebody that can help me, please do oh. Country isn't funny anymore. Please abeg, help me oh.

CuriousStudent:
A woman with a kid of which the husband doesn't provide for is a single mom already,the only difference is that he is living in the same house with you and the child was born in wedlock.

When men talk of impressionable women or naive women,this is who they refer to; who they can deceive with a bright future talk/ prospects or invisible houses they are to inherit and the rest. If women should be naive and impressionable-then I will only suggest they marry on the guidance of their parents or respectable family members.

Most men in Abuja/ Lagos do not have money or investment anywhere,is all wash. Shine your eyes. How you start with a man is how he will continue with you. If you were managing "mama put" for dates and not an exotic restaurant,even when the money comes( if at all it comes), he will not upgrade you because he believes you are used to it. Stop accepting house dates ( in which he serves you drinks he got from a party),dating without gifts,or stipends. Marriage is a continuation of dating. The standards you set in dating affects yo
ur marriage.

Don't marry a man with a "future money" or unaccessible money. You should see the money,feel it,spend it. ( Do not misconstrue this as rich men, but even if he is earning moderately, you should have access to it. Even if it's 1k everyday). In that case you are sure that when he gets big money,he will still give.

Occupy your man with bills from the onset,so he never feels it is a norm for him to relax. Even if what he brings is little, top it up secretly, but ensure money always leaves his hands

As for the op,as Poco use to say,when women are tired, no one will advise them to leave,they suddenly leave,with no turning back. So I get you have not reached your breaking point yet (if your story is true by the way)

I left already. It's close to a year I left. He is trying hard to have us come back with so much talk of having learnt and getting better. I don't know if I wouldn't be making a mistake believing his tales.

RightToReject:
Self-deceit will always remain the worst form of deceit. You played yourself. The main problem here, aside from his alleged thoughtlessness, which is the co-main problem in the union, from the connotation of your submissions, is that you have never seen that man beyond the good he could offer you materially. You have always seen him as an object of utility.

Yes, he might have been broke when you met him, just as he is still, as you alleged, but you never envisioned that it would take him time longer than it has taken to have his breakthrough. You misdiagnosed the duration his potential would start yielding positive material results while pretentiously giving him the impression that you saw him beyond being an object of utility. It is because his breakthrough seems to have taken time longer than you estimated that is the root cause of your aversion for him with his alleged thoughtlessness compounding everything - his alleged thoughtlessness is bad; he could do better.

Well, if you can start seeing him beyond an object of utility and doing whatever you know is right at every given time, reconcile and go back to him, provided that he, on his part, is ready to start striving to do whatever he knows is right too. Both of you can do better.

Meanwhile, it may surprise you to know that almost all of these people who have been telling you to end everything with him permanently are having it worse in their marital and/or personal lives without rocking the boats.

In summary, your marriage can succeed, and you can have happiness and prosperity in it with your husband.

I didn't imagine he was going to get rich all of a sudden. I had my plans, and I believed working together, we could make it one step at a time. My problem started when I started living with him and began to see the many lies he told me about himself. He painted himself as a responsible, and kind man, but I didn't see that.
I never complained about the money before, but I had to do that now because I cannot fathom how a man who had a child coming would channel the little resources he had in womanizing. I cried myself to sleep most nights and woke up crying because I keep making calculations and wondering where the money we needed was going to come from. My mum would have had to come for omugwo, how were we going to feed. Imagine carrying such a heavy burden, including the physical fights while heavily pregnant only to discover the person you were praying for God to help was spending money on women. It hurt me to my bone because sometimes I give him cash when he says he has none only to be faced with this.
Understand me, it's not the cheating that was most painful, it's the thought that a father could cheat his unborn child just to satisfy himself. It drove me mad.

Acidosis:
Did you conduct a "proper" wedding?

How much did you guys spend on your wedding, reception, bridal shower, photography, etc?

How can you marry someone and, after 1 or 2 years, you're already finding a way out of the marriage because of financial difficulties?

We didn't have a large traditional marriage. It was a very small affair. I am not one to care about such things and I wasn't bothered. I didn't want us throwing ourselves into debt because of a large ceremony. After the trade, we had a court wedding. No reception, nothing. Those aren't my concerns really. If only he had been a good husband, I would be happy. Kindness goes a long way even when there's no money. Being a bad husband, coupled with financial issues makes it very painful. I honestly do not know what it takes someone to be genuinely kind.

Zonefree:

No be naive make you marry him, na your love for material things. You thought he's loaded cos he pretended to be only for you to marry him come notice say nothing dey house.

No Nigerian woman can stay with a broke man for straight 24 months!

A man will be living with his jobless Nigerian wife for 15 years, providing for her needs with the kids, taking care of the wife's family in his little ways without even telling his neighbours.

But, here's a Nigerian woman that only stayed with her broke husband just for 2 years, and she's already all over the cyber space telling the world how broke and wretched the husband is.


Dear men, please when saying marital vow with your Nigerian bride, tell the officiating priest to skip the "for better for worse" gibberish. Nigerian girls don't practice that nonsense.

Please get your facts right. I knew he wasn't doing okay financially when I met him, but he talked like someone who had purpose so I gave in. He was good, extremely good then that's why I said I was naive when I met him. If not for nativity, I should have known it was a smokescreen because nobody can be that good. I was a teacher when we got married, and I took care of all my personal bills and some household bills. He once told me I was prudent when we were dating. I thought it was a compliment, but now I know better. I am not complaining for myself. If it was me alone, I could do it without a care, but caring for a child is expensive and I have been doing this all alone. I paid for my antenatal alone.
I could easily get a teaching job as a graduate, and before you know it, home lessons, come in and I am fine. I don't need millions of naira. My sole problem is the child. Where will I drop him for the whole day. I can't afford day care. See, if I had a good job, and could hold the family, I could easily do that while he figures out what to do with his life, for instance learn a tech skill. My major problem is, judging from his antecedents, it's not a risk I am willing to take, so I want to hear other opinions.

boldx:
This is serious. Talk to your family members.

They are in support of us getting back together, my parents at least. They all believe he will change, because he has been calling and acting good. I don't know if this is genuine, or because he is flat broke. He can't even feed himself now. I am 27, should I just leave and start over. I just wonder at the things he did when he was seeing a little money. Carrying women up and down.

Hello nairalanders, I need some advice.
My marriage is barely two years, and within these two years, my husband has been unfaithful, and has hit me sometimes. I always fight back though, so it doesn't get out of hand. I don't want to go into all the details of how I met him and ended up his wife. I sometimes regret that decision.
A while after being married, I got pregnant, but unfortunately my husband couldn't raise the money for the baby stuffs. I struggled so hard to do that myself, this was about the time I caught him cheating, I didn't waste any time to pack my things and go to my parents.
Now my problem is that he is not a provider. He stays months on end without sending anything and I am struggling so hard because I have a child to look after. He has been trying really hard to win me over after everything, and I mean it when I say he is trying hard. I married him because I thought he had purpose, but I don't know about that now because the money struggle is something else. Believe me when I say the struggle is too much for me because I don't work yet and nothing comes from his end, but he keeps apologising, saying things will get better. I want to believe him but is it not his reckless lifestyle that has kept him where he is. I need advice because I don't know if I should take him back and work with him for a better future. He has made all plans to relocate to where I am so we can start afresh, but my fear is, a man who could be cheating with the little resources we have when we had baby things to buy, can he be trusted again. I feel resentment and bitterness because I practically used all my savings for the birth and up until now, every little money I get goes towards my child's upkeep. Isn't he coming back now because he is flat broke. A man who can cheat when we could barely feed, can I really take his word for it? Do you think I should give him a chance. I am not a saint because I can be very stubborn when I know I am right, but I married him a virgin. Take into consideration that he blames me for some of his actions. Doesn't that show lack of accountability. I was very naive when I married him, otherwise I wouldn't have. There is no pleasure whatsoever in a marriage without money, moreso one with the accompanying issues mine has.

Sunshine34:
She's mannerless,tout, stupid,wide mouth. Classless,old fashioned and chasing clout. I will be ashamed if I am your boyfriend

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Who dash monkey banana

Goodday90:
Is this a normal thing in delta state
I once had an urhobo neighbor who suffers the same from his wife

Those who went for the interview, give us update please. How was it?

I got the PDF, but couldn't find my name. Since I live close to the camp, I am so gate crashing oh. The kind of drama I will act enh, they must give me work oh. If they try to throw me out, they will have to kill me first because wether they kill me or I leave that place, na die set wait me. No job, no one naira to call mine. Please everyone, pray for me oh.

IpobAntidote:
HELL-U-PEE, HOW FAR?

I am in plateau state. It was a silent agreement that pdp was to be voted in the governorship election. The labour party guy was brought out by lalong, same with the APC guy. Infact, for governorship, PDP, house of assembly YPP. That was the agreement.

If.