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for me there is  lack of genuine luv among bfs and gfs is even among the maried ones. take for eg: in the film "Obsession" Beyonce's husband wud hav save himself from the guilt of infidelity if only he had told his wife about the bitch in his office who was in his neck to hav him. thou he resisted the bitch but even wen the wif notice some wories in his face he cudnt let her no wat he is passin thru not till the bitch created a scene in which no wife wud believ her husband is innocent .

wat am sayin is the vital role of true communication in any relationshionship.

He want it and he did. no excuse for rubish, why didnt he tell his girlfriend wat the other girl was goin up to. he habor it till they got wat they want, why didnt he snob the girl if he wasnt interested.

If i found out any incriminatin activity is goin on around my suroundin, i will be a gud citizen by reportin to the relevant authority and not to wait to be arested with the criminals.
and will also keep records of reports for future references.
that u are a reverend does not mean u r an innocent citizen.

Idont even feel confortable asking my dad for money not to talk of my mum, cos i need to work and even give her. what, makes u an adult when u r still parasitin on ur mum for money or are u still a child?

luap:
Three years, she must love you, so don't listen to the posters that try to plant seeds of doubt in your head.

Relationships should be loving and supportive. You have an issue and regardless of how unimportant it is to her, it is important to you. She should take you serious because you brought the calling thing to the relationship for support. She is not supporting her end of the relationship, probably because like most people she is does not know about what a loving supportive relationship is.

I consider it emotional abuse if your in a relationship and your not getting your support. Don't play the game of doing it back to her, because then you are being like her and become the abuser. The only real solution is to remove yourself from the abusive situation. So this is what I have done in the past it usually works:

Bring up the issue to her and tell her you feel that you are being neglected. If she refuses or invalidates your feelings by saying something like,"calling don't mean love." Tell her you are bringing a problem to the relationship and it needs to be dealt with. If she refuses, then tell her that you consider it neglect and abusive and you must remove yourself from that environment, and tell her good bye on the phone. Let her know you love her, but she needs to come to terms with addressing the issue. Next convo, bring it up and see if she responds by being more supportive. If not then do the solution. It take about three to four times of doing this for people to get the point so be patient with her.

Well said.
@ Poster pls still work on ur relationship, ur girl might not be the comminicating type but u can work on her, one thin dat is permanent is change.
if i may ask, does she work or schl? can she aford card for calls,wat kind of thins does she spend most of her time doin? and mostly her personality type.
if after doin all u can and u are not gettin ur happiness, then u wont hav a cos to be blame if u take a leave.
Gudlck.

yes for bf but wouldnt like it my huby.

I lOVE THEM EQAUL, 50:50

@ Poster, this cud be embarasin pls,
wrong idea.

today was monday and teashers hav never came cras unti now

190:
Excuse me!
did u smoke PUFF dis evening!!

and u smooked weed

Abuja connection

are u mature enough to bring ur gf to ur family house?
are financially independent?
can u be able to take any responsibility dat may come out of the relationship?
if ur answer to any of the quetn is no,
then u know dat they hav a cos to worry about u havin a close female relatiionship,
otherwise u talk sense to them.

nice poem.

all the best.

@Poster pls see a medical doctor for more advise. may God bless u as u bear wit her in dis problem. God wil see both of u true

i wanted to be registering my childs in thish crash, but i saw u teashera are spoken bad ingrish.
verily bad.

i wish the mariage wella,
omo has the key to her successful mariage wit 190 ''patience''
while 190 is flirtin wit his numerous cuncubines,
omo is patiently waiting at home,
and 190 will defnately come back to her
cos i no he loves her so much.

It is not good at all, it might spring up feeling of inadequacy, insecuruity and even dismay.
it is better i discuss wth my partner whatever trait i dont like in him
and see if there could be positve change.

Well I'm sorry but Genevieve is better then Steph in every field: class, acting, grace, style, Genny beat her down.
Steph is one of my favourite also but Genny is way better. I am not very fond of Genevieve as a person, but as
a super star, she very well deserve all the praises she's getting. Stardom does not happend overnight, she
work her butt off hard for it, and time for her to enjoy her shine, you talk abt overrated

[/quote]true talk

[quote author=sashaa link=topic=528259.msg6908703#msg6908703 date=1286639364]Are u kidding? Steph isn't a good actress. She should be doing stage drama not movies. And dat fake accent? Way too annoying!
She speaks very good english, i'll give her that. But plz let her drop d accent!

Genny on d other hand, may not be everybody's darling(myself included), but she is a darn good actress!

the same way i see it.

I can remember, my exbf called frm a far and told me he is mising m*** and  his is so lonely,
I gave him a hot text ,then he called back and said he feels more better than before.

Ok, let me think of one.

Am am very romantic, i don't do anythin romantic so dat i don't get romanced.

As for me, making an ex gf regret she never left is not a good project to embark on, you should rather work on making your live more meaningful, set good goals and work hard to improve your wellbeing and people around you.

wat makes u think u deserve a virgin or u will ever find? holy things are not to be thrown to dogs

Why Men Cheat In A Relationship

Becos of insatiable wants

The wrong one loved me right.

My greatest challenge nw is how to make my vission come true. i v graduated, served, got a little job but still looking for a more career job. my goal is realize capital and become self employd after working with a good company for like two years and settle for my dear life as well as attend to my responcsibilities at any time.

May God help me and others too.

it's sad to say that cheating in mrg is gradually becoming part of our value today.
i wil say the world is in state of moral decadence.
it wil take ten out of thousansands to really stand firm
wen their fidelity is being put to test.

@greateros, u no d truth hurts, never mind continue to say it.

are u watching the event at eagle sq? it's quite interesting.