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CelebritiesRe: Shan George's Children Gift Her Mercedes Benz Car For Christmas (Photo) by BHG1(m): 10:55pm On Dec 28, 2022
Carnival Calabar 2022: Best Carnival Experience. Beautiful Girls Make Fun Seekers Happy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-IfwTcxmoo #bhginfodesk @CarnivalCalabar @crossriverstate
tunwumi:
This is a one-sided story. You didn't tell us what business you and the agbero had, as your choice of the word shows they are familiar with you.

If I may ask, what time of the day this incident took place? how come you are the only one chased when Ikeja is never empty day and night? grin grin grin
EventsRe: Calabar Carnival Turns Bloody As Vehicle Rams Into Onlookers (Graphic) by BHG1(m): 10:53pm On Dec 28, 2022
Carnival Calabar 2022: Best Carnival Experience. Beautiful Girls Make Fun Seekers Happy
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L-IfwTcxmoo #bhginfodesk @CarnivalCalabar @crossriverstate
EventsRe: Calabar Carnival Turns Bloody As Vehicle Rams Into Onlookers (Graphic) by BHG1(m): 10:36pm On Dec 28, 2022
Carnival Calabar 2022 Beautiful Dance Steps at 7pm
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KwiHP5bbgw
Car TalkRe: He Wants Advice On Buying His First Car. by BHG1(m): 3:11pm On Dec 28, 2022
As Debt Soars, Senate Passes N819.5bn Supplementary Budget https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/12/as-debt-soars-senate-passes-n8195bn.html #news
xjiggy:
Go for the Highlander. Don't listen to people who say it's an old car. Even the whites go for vintage cars (1967-1979). What's most important is the condition it's in.
Car TalkRe: He Wants Advice On Buying His First Car. by BHG1(m): 3:10pm On Dec 28, 2022
As Debt Soars, Senate Passes N819.5bn Supplementary Budget https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/12/as-debt-soars-senate-passes-n8195bn.html #news
xjiggy:
Go for the Highlander. Don't listen to people who say it's an old car. Even the whites go for vintage cars (1967-1979). What's most important is the condition it's in.
EventsRe: Calabar Carnival Turns Bloody As Vehicle Rams Into Onlookers (Graphic) by BHG1(m): 2:32pm On Dec 28, 2022
Bikers Day Tragedy: Governor Ayade mourns, visits victims at hospital.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjmh1HpyVaI
WelcomeToBiafra:
The God of the land (Biafra) need freedom, yet, Nigeria is using them to catch funs. Is okay continue, don't let Biafra go to celebrate their God.

Free Mazi Nnamdi Kanu & all the Biafrans in prisons/hostages nah.

Who knows if the drivers are not bandits embarassed!
EventsRe: Calabar Carnival Turns Bloody As Vehicle Rams Into Onlookers (Graphic) by BHG1(m): 2:32pm On Dec 28, 2022
Bikers Day Tragedy: Governor Ayade mourns, visits victims at hospital.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjmh1HpyVaI
Heterodox:
Why hold a carnival on the street?


Recklessness!!!
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by BHG1(m): 10:25pm On Dec 23, 2022
Attempted Murder: Estranged Wife Of Former Lawmaker Remanded In Prison
https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/12/attempted-murder-estranged-wife-of.html
BHG1:
Attempted Murder: Estranged Wife Of Former Lawmaker Remanded In Prison
https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/12/attempted-murder-estranged-wife-of.html
PoliticsRe: Kenyans Are Far Behind Nigerians In Every Aspect – Fani-Kayode by BHG1(m): 10:25pm On Dec 23, 2022
Attempted Murder: Estranged Wife Of Former Lawmaker Remanded In Prison
https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/12/attempted-murder-estranged-wife-of.html
Just30:
that's why we are not bankrupt....


Having strong institutions have nothing to do with tribes .. it start with having great investigative journalist who can do proper work and blow alarm on crime early for institutions to take it up.

The rest of your write up is thrash grin grin
TV/MoviesRe: DC EXTENDED UNIVERSE (FILM) by BHG1(m): 4:15pm On Dec 23, 2022
Now showing on YouTube, "WAIT (A Short Film) Like, comment and subscribe for more updates
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XqOMNx9f8Uw
GloriousGbola:
Once again proof that some wishes are better left unmet. This whole fiasco has seriously damaged the rocks future bargaining power. It almost needs this
CrimeRe: Lady Kills Lover For Refusing To Marry Her In Lagos by BHG1(m): 5:27pm On Dec 06, 2022
Indonesia's Parliament Bans S3x Outside Marriage https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/12/indonesias-parliament-bans-s3x-outside.html #Trending #news
aidameoryou:
Thanks brother
BusinessRe: If You Are Uber Partner In Lagos, Please Share Your Experience Here by BHG1(m): 7:06pm On Aug 12, 2022
How To Attain Financial Freedom https://crossbar.ng/2022/08/12/how-to-attain-financial-freedom/
YeyeGbami:
You wan do give away for boyz?

PoliticsRe: Based On CV, Which Of The Top 4 Aspirants Would You Employ To Lead Your Company? by BHG1(m): 1:28pm On Aug 12, 2022
Buhari Advised To Immediately Sack Ngige, Adamu, Others Over ASUU Strike https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/08/buhari-advised-to-immediately-sack.html #trending
famouscargo4u:
Kwankanso did wonderfully well in terms of infrastructure and education in Kano.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Cannot Get Pregnant by BHG1(m): 1:16pm On Aug 12, 2022
National Crisis Management: Buhari Adopts Steps To Bridge Gaps https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/08/national-crisis-management-buhari.html
Kajaard:
I don't really care about what you posted. I am concerned about your moniker: TheLordofHost undecided

You can't have such a religious moniker and be fvcking and living in sin cheesy
PoliticsRe: Oprah Chioma Uzodimma & Henry Ohaeri Wedding Pictures by BHG1(m): 1:13am On May 24, 2022
PoliticsRe: Oprah Chioma Uzodimma & Henry Ohaeri Wedding Pictures by BHG1(m): 2:56pm On May 06, 2022
RomanceRe: Why Do People Condemn Sex Videos And Still Share The Videos by BHG1(m): 5:10pm On Apr 21, 2022
Reactions As More Video Clips Of Chrisland School Girl Sex Emergies
https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/04/reactions-as-more-video-clips-of.html
Johnnycastro18:
What do yo expect, same hypocrite would condemn others for watching leaked sextapes but are secretly having the same videos on there phones grin grin grin
TravelRe: Longest Super Highway In Akwa Ibom Nears Completion by BHG1(m): 4:08pm On Apr 02, 2022
Charity Begins At home’ A Myth Or A Reality? https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/04/charity-begins-at-home-myth-or-reality.html
adefitim:
@bolded I salute you Mr Eagle � eye
TravelRe: Longest Super Highway In Akwa Ibom Nears Completion by BHG1(m): 4:07pm On Apr 02, 2022
Charity Begins At home’ A Myth Or A Reality? https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/04/charity-begins-at-home-myth-or-reality.html
Ilaumoh:
the governor is not from etinan but Onna and meanwhile he is even starting it late sef
HealthRe: Feeling Suicidal: Got Rejected By Two Fiancées by BHG1(m): 11:11am On Mar 29, 2022
Oyedepo Blows Hot, Says All Involved In Gay Marriage Will Not Make Heaven https://crossbar.ng/2022/03/29/oyedepo-blows-hot-says-all-involved-in-gay-marriage-will-not-make-heaven/
tonyluyi1985:
The Publisher met a Port Harcourt based man who despite his financial and professional success finds it difficult to select a life partner ostensibly because of his mental health challenge.

Read his story:

My assumed name is Tonye Pepple. I am a Kalabari man from Buguma in Port Harcourt and hail from one of the royal families there. My Grand father actually was a King and I still benefit from the circumstances of my birth decades after his earthly transition into glory.

I studied chemical engineering for my first degree in the University of Manchester and had my Masters Degree in petroleum engineering at the prestigious Imperial College both in the UK.

I had the choice to stay back and work in the UK as I am a British Citizen but I chose to come back home to contribute my quota towards nation building as I deeply felt that Nigeria badly needed my expertise. I had participated in a quiz competition where I argued against brain drain and I felt committed to walking the talk.

I did the compulsory national youth service corps in The Shell Petroleum Development Company, Warri – the country’s largest International Oil Company as a wellsite engineer. I was trained by the best of hands in the industry and even went offshore a couple of times.

I had my first mental health challenge episode while I was in the UK during my masters degree. I lost my mum whom I was very emotionally attached to during that period and that was when I lost it. I even had to spend two years for the one-year masters as I was hospitalized.

After refusing to take my medication, I finally came to terms with my new health challenge and was fiercely determined to succeed despite it as my strong dad challenged me to excel and the love I was shown by my siblings and some of my friends was overwhelming.

I got two job offers from Shell and Exxon Mobil after my NYSC. On dad’s advice I chose Shell as he said they had a better career development program and was arguably the best in the country. Also, in terms of promotion prospects, Shell fared better as it was the only IOC with an indigenous Managing Director.

The Human Resources Department was aware of my health challenge and it was covered adequately by my HMO. I threw myself into my job with the ferocity of a lion and got rewarded with rapid promotions as well as a short term international assignment which I spent in Brunei and a five year cross posting which I spent in its headquarters at the Hague in The Netherlands.

The big question which was being asked was when was I getting married? What was I waiting for? I was tall, dark, handsome and rich. I had even turned down job offers from some rival IOC’s as evidence of my employability so what was really stopping me from settling down to use Nigerian parlance?

Even before my health challenge, I was far from being a Casanova as I had always been quite conservative in the matters of the heart. My challenge only made me more reserved and withdrawn as I had a deep fear of rejection by the opposite sex on account of it.

I met a couple of beautiful ladies who were also upwardly mobile, went on a couple of dates but I didn’t quite find the right fit as I was either bored too soon or we were just plainly incompatible. Two nubile maidens would however leave deeply rooted scars in my fragile heart.

The first was a lawyer whom I met via a dating app. At the time we met online, she was a corporate attorney working in a big law firm in the UK and she made it clear that she wasn’t going to relocate to Nigeria. As time went on, she fell in love with me and gladly accepted a job offer to work in the legal department of one of the IOC’s in Port Harcourt. I kept my health status away from her for fear of rejection and I felt she should completely fall in love with me first before spilling the beans. It wasn’t my intention in all honesty to either deceive her or lead her on. I just felt that it was the best way to protect my interest.

We went on a well-deserved holiday to an exotic resort in Seychelles where I popped the question. She immediately said a big yes and I slipped the ring with her name encrusted on it into her third finger on her left hand.

Wedding preparations began in earnest and my dad was very happy for me as I was the last born and only unmarried child of his.

I cannot forget Valentine’s Day that year when I took her for dinner and opened up to her about my health challenge. She cried like a baby and accused me of being sinister by hiding it from her all these years and making her fall in love with me only to shatter her heart. She flung the ring into my face and blocked me everywhere both on phone and social media.

The wedding was called off and a mutual friend drew my attention to an Instagram post of hers where she wrote that she was glad that she was just rescued from eternally living the life of a lie and that she just dodged a bullet by nearly marrying a sick man. That got me so depressed that I took a sick leave and checked into a private psychiatric hospital.

I stayed off dating for about three years and was approaching 40. Many of my friends and colleagues were married and raising families. Some even thought I was secretly gay and wondered why I was still single. A few overzealous ones tried to matchmake me but I would have none of that.

I got involved with a psychiatric nurse and opened up to her from the beginning to avoid the mistake of the previous one. She said there was no problem as she understood and assured me of her unflinching love which had no iota of pity.

She came from a poor home and was the eldest child. I saw no qualms in helping her pick the tabs of some of the responsibilities of her younger ones as I was blindly in love with her.

She was very beautiful – fair in complexion and buxom in stature with large bosoms and a wonderful behind which made me the envy of my peers even from some of the married ones.

I proposed to her in London – her first trip out of the country funded by me and she accepted it gladly. She told me of her plans to reside in London for better career prospects and convinced me to agree to a plan of me being resident in Nigeria but she and our future kids would be based in the UK. I discussed this with the HR and they gave it my blessings and even approved an extra month for me to leave work so as to spend time with her and the kids when they start coming.

A randy friend of mine once told me that my fiancée wasn’t whom I thought she was – he tried to make me see that she was only manipulating me and that she was an incorrigible flirt having caught her in compromising positions with some random men. I didn’t believe him one bit and even nearly told her. He then proposed to bring in an IT professional friend of his to bug her phone which will show me her call logs, texts and Whatsapp messages.

I couldn’t believe what I saw – she had a secret fiancé who she exchanged raunchy sexual messages with. She insulted me and said she was only using me to get an indefinite leave to remain in the UK – something similar to a permanent residence then she will divorce me and get a substantial chunk of my assets. No wonder she desperately wanted us to get married in London. She would then bring over her true fiancé and they will live happily ever after. One message tore my heart to shreds – ‘How do you think I will spend the rest of my life with an insane man whose sanity is only guaranteed by daily ingestion of poison?’ This broke me and it took the grace of God for me not to have a relapse.

I called off the marriage; she begged and cried and even emotionally blackmailed me but I stood my ground.

I had gotten tired of being rejected for an ailment that was due to no fault of mine which can happen to anyone. I am now close to 50 and I am enjoying my single life as the reality is that not all mortals will eventually get married. Some like me will find fulfilment in being single.

I cannot say that I live the life of a monk as I have friends with benefits and occasionally go to strip clubs and exotic brothels but I ensure that I don’t have any emotional attachments to any of the ladies.

Will I still get married? Honestly, I don’t know and I really don’t care despite the taunting and mockery! As multiple award-winning artiste, Dr. Alban sang in one of his hit songs ‘It’s my life!’ I sing the song daily in my subconscious and reassure myself that I am better off single and happy than having a sham of a marriage and ending up being miserable for the rest of this life that is too short to be sad in.
https://africavoiceshq.com/2022/03/10/feeling-suicidal-got-rejected-by-two-fiancees/
Foreign AffairsRe: Ukrainain Soldiers Execute & Shoot The Legs Of Russian Prisoners Of War (Video) by BHG1(m): 12:33pm On Mar 28, 2022
There Will Be No World War III – Rev Joseph Ajor (Ph.D) https://crossbar.ng/2022/03/28/there-will-be-no-world-war-iii-rev-joseph-ajor-ph-d/
Excuzeme:
Poland should ‘claim’ Russian region, Ukrainian General says
An ex-commander of the Polish Land Forces suggested Warsaw should seek to seize Kaliningrad from Moscow





Poland and Ukraine! ....Full of Neo-Nazis.
FamilyRe: Is There Still Hope For Her? by BHG1(m): 2:45pm On Mar 24, 2022
killmods:
You too like gist..
Beyond the failed relationships, there are lessons https://crossbar.ng/2022/03/24/beyond-the-failed-relationships-there-are-lessons/
PoliticsRe: Atiku Declares To Run For President by BHG1(m): 1:53pm On Mar 23, 2022
Why Senator Gershom Bassey? https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/03/why-senator-gershom-bassey.html
PrinceOfLagos:
Most Nigerians will pick Atiku over Tinubu

Atiku is more sellable than Tinubu
RomanceRe: MEN!! This Photo Explains Why MARRIAGE Should Be The LAST Thing On Your Mind!! by BHG1(m): 3:40pm On Mar 21, 2022
Do You Want Him To Propose? Avoid This Things https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/03/do-you-want-him-to-propose-avoid-this.html
abokikhalifa:
Hope your family member ain't putting pressure on you to go marry one old rich man sha?
PoliticsRe: Accord Obiano Courtesies, Don't Endanger His Health - Anambra APC Cautions EFCC by BHG1(m): 1:39pm On Mar 21, 2022
Amb. Nkoyo Toyo Expresses Concern Over Deep Sea Port New Contract
https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/03/amb-nkoyo-toyo-expresses-concern-over.html
PoliticsRe: How Obiano's Wife Went Half Naked, Hit People With Broken Bottles Over Soludo by BHG1(m): 4:23pm On Mar 18, 2022
Forgiveness Releases You Too https://crossbar.ng/2022/03/18/forgiveness-releases-you-too/ [quote author=Ekpeitit post=111141965][/quote]
EducationRe: Corper Proposal Got Rejected By His Colleague At Ogun NYSC Camp (video) by BHG1(m): 12:10pm On Mar 16, 2022
Viral video: NYSC frowns at corp members erotic dance at orientation camp
https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/03/viral-video-nysc-frowns-at-corp-members.html
Christianity EtcRe: God Really Give Second Chances When You Ask For Forgiveness by BHG1(m): 5:03pm On Mar 03, 2022
Things that used to be wonders to men seem not to wonder again because of science. Yet some things baffle man and that is God's grace that transforms mortal man. God is a sun no one can step into the sun but when God radiates his glory robs on us. Glory is the manifestation of God when he shines like a sun. Both grace and glory remain a wonder to man. Grace is the garment God puts on when he relates with man.

Grace is that bridge that connects God who is so holy to an impure man, here it is God seeking man, not man seeking God. (John 1:14)
This grace, humans cannot understand. Grace makes God take upon himself to seek and find lost souls (sinner) Ephesians. 2:8. Today someone who was once lost can boldly walk into his presence to relate with him.

Read more at https://www.bhginfodesks.com/2022/01/the-wonder-of-grace-and-glory-rev-omai.html

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