can this be done online?

Koralords:
Therein lies your problem you taking it to the next level no one want to go to the next level ,if you had promptly artikulated would not have problem
On a serious note don't ever marry a girl without your families consent ,marriage crashes but family stays for ever

God bless you Sir!

Fellas,

You meet a girl, you fall in love, you date her for about a year. You know how much earns but occasionally she gets alerts of 4x her salary, no side business, no verifiable explanation or reasons...run for your dear life and never look back.

If you have contrary opinions, SHOOT!!

Jaqenhghar:

Good
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Lool some people learn that the hard way...these hoes ain’t loyal, mayb just mayb if she is a unicorn �

zicoraads:

Point being, sometimes, a parents agreement or not has nothing to do with how a marriage will eventually turn out. And just like someone just said, sometimes, it may be that their lack of support is because of selfish interests.

No be lie...las las everybody get their own agenda for mind.

ericbertrand:

You're a lucky man. Instead of regretting for the rest of your life, you've made the right albeit difficult decision to end it. Good luck man! Oh... and Forza Juve!!!! Fino Alla Fine!

Thanks bruv! Forza Juve!

Skengman:
OP only u can make this decision cos nobody knows the kind of woman you are dating. My take on the issue- You shd understand that most Nigerian girls are engaged in this act u are condemning, perhaps for financial gratification and whatnot, but as soon as they get married they quit. Some however, still continue in the act. The temptations these women face everyday from these men is a lot, and the women who are easily enticed with material things fall head over heels for these men. Just recently, a Senator asked for my woman’s number and even offered her his card but given that she’s faithful to me and she’s not easily bought with luxury she turned his request down. We even jokingly talked about her playing his game to get money from him. Having said that, I think you shd have a talk with her. And again u know the person u are dating, if u think she’s materialistic and u cannot provide her with some sort of luxury, trust me, she’d go back to that lifestyle even after marriage. Shine your eye!

This is so true, most ladies are after the lifestyle and once they cant have it, game over. They look outside.

Bruuuuhhhhh she wash put for you? Give yourself brain!!....the writing is on the wall. She ain't that into you and besides she is taking you for a fool. Break up the relationship and move on with your life for goodness sake brother. Life is too short.

Oh well, after some deep soul searching and introspection, I have decided to end it for good.
Lesson learnt, moving on.

I have been dating this lady for a year plus and we are taking it to the next level. Her parents like me and have encouraged her to settle down. On the other hand, I took her to my parents and they told me she isn’t the one for me. Reason being that she parties a lot and probably pretending just to rope me in. They told me “if you so choose to continue, you do not have our blessings”.

In honesty, she indeed likes to party at any giving opportunity. I’ve spoken to her about it and she is willing to change. Two of my close friends have adviced me to stay clear of her because people hardly change. I’m in the biggest dilemma of my life so far. Ignore my parents advice and regret later or listen and just let her go in peace?

Shibaraba:
Charlie...you fool pra pra

Met one girl I never even toast see billing. E wan use me do birthday. Noticed she has plenty clients like me. Shibaraba....iyalaya. When dem see Benz their brain dey dull. Tell am say I wan clear benz for port for her birthday say pepper low for now. oloshi ran around gather money for clearing....I still carry her go bar make we flex small inside the money. Next morning I block her ass. My total expenses on her still remain like 5k but I dash her that one. Them think say them smart. Until we make them smart...in pain

ooooooboyy you na badt guy...this na wetin tuface sing one day bushmeat go catch the hunter.
Just manage this bottle of beer

mezarddinny:
send her contact make nl boys chop out of the commonwealth

Edakun wetin be ‘nl’ boys abeg?

Olalan:
She thinks you're a fool.......So the man has been sending and hasn't received a pay back all this while?

As in.....the thing taya me. Women forget that there is no free lunch in this life, especially from a man to an attractive woman.

Hey guys,

So I’m dating this girl for close to a year. Everything is going on well, we have great sex and all. On this faithful evening, she received a text saying ‘I’m free next week Tuesday you can come over’. I was perplexed. ‘Who the heck is that?’, I asked and she said he was just a friend. I insisted to check their text history, lo and behold, the man has been sending her money but she claims to have never slept with him. She called it a period scam and it’s what she has been using to get money from the man without sex.

Now my question is, does she expect a full grown adult to believe such? Is this common amongst Lagos girls? I told her it’s over between us and she can continue her scam somewhere else because this son of man ain’t down for BS.

omojesu202:


everybody cheats, even you. no one is perfect.
if u keep aborting, forget it, you may never find that perfect spotless one.

Are you married?

I’m not looking for a spotless girl, I live in the real world. It’s okay if you do not believe me, that’s your opinion.

Colourich:
Who bought the iphone7 for her?

@bianconerriii

She said she saved up for it, 150k UK used.
We were both using iPhone 6 by the way.

omojesu202:


keep aborting until you hit 50 years...

I think it’s better to be single than to be in an unfaithful relationship

na2016:


How can a human being have this thought?�����

As innnnnn....cold catch me

Laomee:
Fast track the wedding, make it next week.

Lol....I be magician like that. I like the sacarsm.

Evercurious:



Very funny but I must agreed with what he said...

Speaking as a lady, I won't say you shld confront her cos I know she ll start another round of emotional blackmail.. As hard as it may sound.. ABORT THAT. MISSION..

Exactly my point... I know if I confront her, she will try to spin it around. She has done that to me over a trivial issue. Thanks for the advice.

Dwhyte:
Mind you she uses iPhone 7 64Gig, where you the one that bought it for her? Is she a working class? If no, how did she get that particular phone ? This baba, I repeat, this Baba, use your head oh... am just wondering what the man below me have to say

I added half of it and she is a working class girl. Thanks for the advice

Dear All,

I have been dating this girl for over a year and everything was wonderful until I moved into my own place about 6 months ago from where I was squatting.

I started noticing some things. Most times she is at my place, she turns her phone face down, chats on WhatsApp only when I’m not so close to her and on two occasions I caught her deleting text messages. Confronted her about it and she said it’s was nothing, she was trying to manage space, mind you she uses a 64G ‘iPhone 7’.

On this lovely weekend, she comes over to my place and a call came through, she hesitated to answer until I insisted. I asked who the guy was and she said he was just a friend calling to check up on her and he was married. My suspicion grew.

The following day I went through her text message with this same guy only to find out they have been seeing each other for a while even going to hotel together.

The sad part is we have planed formal introduction in about 3 months. I can honestly swear by my life, I have never cheated on her before. At this point I am in a delimma, what do I do? I have considered breaking up and moving on. What do you advise?

Many thanks.

Godwithus20:
It is very necessary u do...try insure it with the `blood'

Which blood ooo?....blood of Zacharia, blood of Jesus or fowl blood

nikky5:
Pls I would like to know if it is compulsory that I insure my car (third party). I reside in Lagos.

Thanks

It is compulsory you insure your car in Nigeria Ok unless you want to be at the mercy of hungry police men/lastma/road safety/ bio officers on the roads of Lagos.... Buy one today at https://www.axamansard.com/myaxa/products-list.aspx?tag=motor

fidelmarshal199:
How much did this their shirt cost

30billion for their shirtii oooooo