₦airaland Forum

Henrymas:
Two woefully failed leaders, always romancing each other.

Some people refer to Tinubu (78years old) as Emmanuel Macron's (45 years old) houseboy.

Others say (i.e. allege) they hv a gay relationship.

ceejay80s:
His country france is on fire , he wan come collect advise from a failure in Nigeria, France own don finish

Search Google for "France support terrorism in west Africa" and you will see France supports and gives intelligence and ammunition to terror groups in west Africa. We can even argue by inference they support Boko Haram.

Tinubu is a disgrace to the black race for being Macron's houseboy.

mecuries:
France was getting 95% of the proceeds in the diamonds mined in Burkina Faso. Ever since Capt. Ibrahim Traore kicked them out, France has never been the same. This is the same country our darling president Tinubu is taking us to.

You are aware and you know the truth. But it's not just Burkina.

France was also, with the help of local accomplices, stealing from Niger, Mali, Ivory coast etc.

Klington:
Birds of the same feathers..... He knows tinubu will grant every of his request to support France's struggling economy at the detriment of Nigeria economy.

You know the truth. We can even argue Tinubu was installed by France who is desperate not to lose its parasitic leech influence in west Africa.

Mali Niger and Burkina cut the umbilical cord that feeds France and France has become broke hence these riots.

Ogbon420:
Getting married to a lady should not be base on weather the girl is slim or fat. What you should look at for is weather the girl have a good character and weather she will be able to assist you.

The fat ones will always hv "good character" because their options are somewhat limited.

brain54:
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In life one should be able to make little adjustments and compromises in their wants and preferences.


Nothing in this world is absolutely perfect.



It's either you get good body with character issues or the other way around.


You can get a bit of both sometimes or even the perfect combination... fine and good for you. You are lucky.


But you want a slim body and you got a fat lady... if you can't adjust and be okay with compromising your interest/want with what you got then what is the essence of seeking advice?


If you can't adjust your interests and cope with what you got then what are you seeking advice for? What are you expecting people to tell you?


Nobody says attraction is not necessarily in a relationship but some questions are too basic, trivia and not worth giving anyone major headaches.


If you can adjust your preference then move on since they is nothing you can do about her body type.

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Never said I can't compromise. What if the chobby girl also has character issues?

What I'm asking ppl is if the sacrifice is worth it.

I like the idea of a bit of both - and I'm leaning towards that. Theres never a perfect situation.

Stephen0mozzy:
OP, why do you like slim girls? Let's start from there

- I am a slim guy myself and so want a slim person.
- Slim people both guys and girls have a lower tendency to develop health complications..the heart needs less effort to pump blood in a slim person.
- The sex appeal is like 90% of the reason I wont lie. The slimness will feed my eyes and lusts CONTINUALLY and will help me forgive her more easily when she offends me.

My big fear is if I go for her at the back of my mind is always keep wondering what if I met a slim girl...

Downsides of slim girls

Most believe they are models and in demand and hence hv poor characters/badly behaved as a result. But we can also argue that it's the fact that the chobby girls have weight is part of what's making them "well behaved".

brain54:
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Different different problems naim really dey this life o.


See somebody's problem in life.



If this is your problem I no really think say you get problem o.


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I don't want to be entertaining different girls outside my marriage that's why. It's a problem. Just got introduced to the lady but don't even know her character yet. But I need someone slim

Want to get married asap. Got introduced to a woman she's from a good family, God fearing family and all. She's working class. Ticks all the boxes the only thing is she's not SLIM which is what really gets me interested. I've been adviced to just forget about the fat body type thing that it doesn't matter in marriage but I can't seem to be able to convince myself that there's no slim person out there for me. She has a "fat body type" which means even on a diet she may still be fat.

Is it wise or not to reject a woman based on a far body type? My fear is that il end up sleeping with other girls that are actually what I want physically.

femi4:
Nigeria happened to him

Translated: the evil undisciplined nature of Nigerians happened to him.

enemyofprogress:
Toluwanisings- God is Not a Killer: The Lack of a Defibrillator and Poor Health System Killed Him.

I am sure we all know this our brother is now late. That is, he is dead.

We know him as Toluwanisings. His real name is Olayemi Bayonle Bolaji.

God did not call him home. The Incompetent Health System Did.

A lot of messages and farewell speeches have been authored to mourn him. But one thing I must say quickly is that most of them will be dishonest. Why?

Most of those speeches will say it is “Gods” will. Some will say maybe God called him home because he has fulfilled his assignment.

My people. It is all lies. God did not call him home. He slumped and died.

This brother slumped and had a window to survive it. But he was being moved from hospital to hospital. Then there are literally No defibrillators to even attempt to save his life, at least temporarily.

The evidence behind dying after slumping shows that the heart is responsible in 70 percent of such cases.

It is either the person has Cardiac arrest / arrhythmia, that is the Heart's electrical system short-circuits, heart stops pumping.

In another case, a massive heart attack where blood clot blocks coronary artery and then heart muscle dies quickly.

For many young Nigerians, Undiagnosed cardiomyopathy, the Heart muscle gets thickened/enlarged.

What usually happens is that when people slump, the heart is quivering and suffering from what they call “ventricular defibrillation”.

Guess what? The rate of survival drops by 10 percent, for every minute that a defibrillator is not applied.

This defibrillator is typically available in public places in the US and UK. The Lagos Blue Line now has defibrillators.

A decent defibrillator costs 900,000 to 1.5 million Naira.

We should have these things in public places, with training done for many Nigerians, especially motor park operators.

Many of our hospitals (primary and secondary health Centres) don’t even have it. And that is why they literally reject heart related issues.

If we have these machines in public parks and with trained people, we can increase survival rates of such heart/slumping.

Imagine that I made a post a few days ago that I have personally lost 4 people to such. Then this happened. Terrible!!! What a loss.

I must not forget to mention, heavy alcohol usage and chronic stress can also cause slumping.

Overall, let us increase our adoption of science to prevent these needless deaths.

Any pastor saying it is Gods will is just promoting an obsolete cliche. Where there is science to prevent such a death.

Our brother Toluwanisings died from an incompetent health system.

God did not call Toluwanisings. Incompetence called him.

When next a politician visits your church or mosque, ask them to provide these things. Tell them to fix our health system.

Whenever Yinka Alaseyori goes to sing for Lagos State, she should raise the issue with them.

When Tope Alabi meets them, she should tell them.

Mama Esther Ajayi and Pastor of Genesis, tell your friends to fix the health system. This is an opportunity.

Rest In Peace Toluwanisings. Nigeria failed you.

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"This defibrillator is typically available in public places in the US and UK. The Lagos Blue Line now has defibrillators."
The only reason it is available on the blue line is because it is a chinese project. The black race is the lowest.

Macron's boy (Tinubu) will be installed by France. Tinubu will be declared the winner because some powerful people hv been bought over by France in Nigeria.

goran3310:
What do you mean, a side chick?
What do you need a side chick for??
What do you need a wife for if you need a side chick?

Wife is for birthing kids and raising a family.

Girlfriend is for sexual adventures and she could eventually become a second wife

goran3310:
She’s not damaged; she’s just not stupid or naive.

Of course she’s going to compare you to her exes. That’s why you should try to be better than them, so you can justify her choice.

And you?

If you’re incapable, is that her fault?

And then she is also going to demand that you shouldn't hv a girlfriend since she can't compete. She will usually say she's the jealous type but that ain't true. It's cos she can't compete.

goran3310:
She’s not damaged; she’s just not stupid or naive.

Of course she’s going to compare you to her exes. That’s why you should try to be better than them, so you can justify her choice.

And you?

If you’re incapable, is that her fault?

You don't understand. It's that comparison that leads to marital instability. When she was 18 guys used to do all sorts of things to get her attention, pay her flight etc. now she is 30 and married to you you aren't doing it for her. You expect her to pull her financial weight at 30 but she refuses claiming she's,ur wife. This is just one,example.

Second example is those that hv done abortions ns now unable to give birth then look for a way to blame the guy.

Lojical1:
IF BEING BROKE MATTERS WHEN YOU CHOOSE, WHY DOES IT STOP MATTERING WHEN YOU ARE BEING CHOSEN?

A woman can say, “I cannot marry a broke or jobless man. I want someone with a good job, business or something doing.” People call it standards.

Let a man say, “I don't want a wife who is completely dependent on me and has no direction,” and suddenly the advice changes.

“Don't judge her.”

“She may not be jobless by choice.”

“Marry her and build her.”

Fine. But should the same grace not apply to men?

Nobody should be mocked for being unemployed. Jobs disappear, businesses fail and people sometimes struggle through circumstances beyond their control. The real issue is not simply whether someone has a job. It is whether the person has direction, discipline, skills, ambition and a willingness to build.

A woman earning ₦100,000 is not automatically a liability. A woman earning ₦1 million is not automatically an asset. The same applies to men.

A person with little money but a strong work ethic and good character may be a better spouse than someone earning plenty but bringing entitlement, reckless spending and zero responsibility into the marriage.

So stop telling men to ignore financial reality in the name of love.

Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre.

You can choose to build with someone who is still struggling, but make sure you are choosing their character and trajectory, not merely hoping their potential will eventually become reality.

Most importantly, apply the same standard you expect others to accept.

If a woman is free to reject a broke man, a man is free to reject a woman who has no direction.

If you believe unemployment does not determine someone's worth, apply it to both sexes.

Fairness cannot mean one standard for choosing and another standard for being chosen.

Cc nlfpmod seun Rocktation, Mariangeles, farano, Onegai, dominique

Marriage IS a rehabilitation center. Your wife has already been .mentally damaged by exes. You will always be compared to her exes.

Women are LIARS and strategic manipulators. She knows theres no way to verify the virginity claim..if a 37 year old woman claims virgin that means she isn't one. If she were she won't need to say it.

Kalulu44:
There's only question I really want to ask people who propagate this heaven and hell fire nonsense.
The current population of the world is over 6 billion.
Since the existence of the earth and mankind, the dead people are times 10 the current population of the world.
So are you people telling me there's over 60 billion people either in heaven or hell fire now?
The space that contain such amount of people must be outrageous to think about.
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Honestly, some of you must be deluded thinking this world will end. Each and everyone one of us world's end immediately we die. Life continues after your own world ends.

Also in all that time there's likely been tens of billions of Hindus, Muslims, atheists etc. let's say the total of them all is at least 20 billion in hell. So what difference does it make if another one person goes to hell?

Jeezuzpick:
You can replace "women" with "men" and the statement will still hold true.

To the "men are naturally polygamous" gang, here's a post that says "women are naturally polyandrous" as well.

Give chance, make everybody craze.
Shut down the whole world, kuma!

Everyone is polygamous not just men. The world don already craze its survival of the fittest now..

BigBashiru:
Virginity is primarily for females. Go and marry Regina Daniels after knowing the has been with Ned since 17. How does that feel?

A woman can't rack up body counts and expect utmost fidelity in marriage. Life doesn't work that way. If you have had your fun and are getting married at 32 then you can't tell your husband not to have a girlfriend because he didn't disturb you when you were doing your own. It's only fair.

I know Nigeria is full of evil people and hypocrites so I'm done with responding to you. You will know the truth but still support evil.

As per the above. Also bear in mind women are naturally HYPERGAMOUS which means they can suddenly quit your marriage unexpectedly. This buttresses the importance of having a girlfriend while married so that if your wife quits suddenly you won't be left stranded. This is simple risk management.

WatchYourSix:
Let me be sure i get you….So according to the bible , women are the only ones that should be virgin?? Is that what your bible said?? Yall are stacking up body count but u want to make it a one sided issue?? Baba…. Raise another point..

If u want to choose polygamy… that’s fine… at least u already said u don’t mind ur wife sleeping around too because polygamy is a two lane road…

.. u dont give fidelity, u dont expect fidelity

Virginity is primarily for females. Go and marry Regina Daniels after knowing the has been with Ned since 17. How does that feel?

A woman can't rack up body counts and expect utmost fidelity in marriage. Life doesn't work that way. If you have had your fun and are getting married at 32 then you can't tell your husband not to have a girlfriend because he didn't disturb you when you were doing your own. It's only fair.

I know Nigeria is full of evil people and hypocrites so I'm done with responding to you. You will know the truth but still support evil.

WatchYourSix:
When u cant pass ur point properly… insult is the last option…. All this epistle and u srill cant answer if u can tolerate a cheating spouse ….

Men and women might be different on many levels but yall always leave out the part that men and women are also similar on many levels and ine of them is we all dont like being cheated on..

If we are to uphold the concept of marriage strictly biblically then a woman has already cheated on her future husband while she is racking up body counts with boy friends and hence it's only fair that guys return the favor and rack up their own na whether before or after marriage.

In this day and age monogamy is for naive and foolish men.

WatchYourSix:
When u cant pass ur point properly… insult is the last option…. All this epistle and u srill cant answer if u can tolerate a cheating spouse ….

Men and women might be different on many levels but yall always leave out the part that men and women are also similar on many levels and ine of them is we all dont like being cheated on..

I don't mind cheated on. It's survival of the fittest. Let everyone cheat and let everyone get the best genes and best conditions for themselves. That's what dating and marriage is now.

The above is the biological concept of natural selection.

Towma:
So women should stay with cheating husband because there is no hope of any man ever wanting them? What about STDs? Some diseases have no cure, diseases like herpes, genital warts and HIV. Some stubborn strains of staphilococus also have no cure.

Stop encouraging women to stay and risk their health because of selfish husbands that lack self control, women are allowed to divorce their husbands for cheating, nobody should encourage oppression of wives here.

Do you know how many boyfriends women have had right from age of 16 to university where some even live with their boyfriend as if they are husband and wife?

From 16 to 28 when most women want to settle down is 12 years of unbridled and unhinged dating and sex.

Now the husband wants to hv his own fun and suddenly all hell breaks loose.

Whatt of the diseases the girls contract from their exes including mental issues from previous relationships all these things now dumped upon the poor husband?

Also many women hv removed their wombs or done things that make child birth difficult or complicated and when they want to get married target naive church men and if no child is coming in the marriage believe they are "being attacked by the devil" not knowing it's the woman's past.

citywal:
But guys honestly CCC have girls o, jezz and they can dance (twerking) no offense please. At a time I thought I was in a canival.

But most of all I got to know that not just Yoruba, even Igbo people also attend CCC, like I swear this really enlightened me. To all the CCC members in the house you guys I hail mehn.

What is the name of the parish younattended and where is it located. I attended today but not much dancing. I need a parish where the girls can dance jare.

motymop:
This is just weird..EU partnering with an African fashion show

Is it that they just want influence over all our stuff

Your radar is correct. Even eu delegates are present in reviews meetings. But Las las na blackan I dey blame sha

professore:
If you have 50 children and they accept Jesus and they follow the straight path and avoid the broad way. All the 50 of them will make heaven.

But according to the bible the 50 will not go to heaven. Pls see the Jacob and Esau stories quoted in the original text.

HeatSeeker:
Mujahedeen! Be guided

Anti Christ is this the love Christ told you to hv for your neighbor and is this how you intend to convert Muslims?

ObiaboAdoka:
Prayer is the key.

Pls dont give christianity a bad name. just say you dont know the answer - simple.

ObiaboAdoka:
Misconception of the Bible. His understanding of the Bible is read and pass. Tell Isah to pray for God guidance whenever he is reading the Bible. Let his understanding of the Bible capture his heart in his mind and he will see the TRUTH which we anchor into in the Bible.

I admit misconception of the bible fine. But why does he need to pray when you van just answer the question. So you dont know the answer and just pray is your only escape? How convenient.

To anyone else reading the OP is a genuine ask for answers. Because this aspect of the religion ain't making sense.

HeatSeeker:
Stop being a misguided Mujahedeen! Such silly tactics have become stale. Who do you think will waste time explaining truth to the unwise?! Go back to islam and prepare for your 72 virgins!

If you have no answers then keep quiet sir.