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phr0nesis:
I once worked as a farm manager, and even as a manager, my boss still required I did a little labour. I really couldn't pick up hoes and cutlass to start clearing, meaning I couldn't really give myself any physical task, so usually every evening when submitting individual reports to my boss I'll just manufacture a non-existing or unimportant task and submit as my job for the day.
This is exactly what's happening in the National Assembly. Since these people have no task to justify their salaries, they have to start creating bills that are zero importance to the country.

The black man. And you want to migrate to a white man country right? Shameless people with zero work ethic.

Gazzy88:
Thanks a lot for your concern. I later used a waybill service more cheaper than nipost ×3 and it got delivered the next day. Nipost charged over 30k for a 2kg package to Togo meanwhile the waybill service was just 7k and much more faster. Information is power and thanks to you once more. I'm grateful.

Please can you share the name of the logistics service you used.

FreeStuffsNG:
https://edition.cnn.com/middleeast/live-news/israel-hamas-war-gaza-news-05-21-24/index.html

Thats just in the mouth from the hypocritical France.

Adaisback:
Why do you think we keep getting it wrong in Africa?

Incase you don't know, Tinubu that we all know is their stooge and so many Africa leaders.

Time to start getting it right in this continent and we should start by changing the name Africa coz it is a name given to us out of envy and jealousy

14 members of election tribunal and supreme court installed tinubu. Not just is tinubu a stooge but also the judges that installed him

siofra:
All the men above me are dumb.

You want to eat your cake and have it. You want sex before marriage, yet you want a virgin. You people are very stupid. All I know is that 80% of you will not marry virgins whether you like it or not.

Remain chaste until marriage....mba
Marry as a virgin....mba
Be Celibate....MBA


You people are very stupid 😂

I agree with you. They are looking for female virgin but arent virgins themselves 😂

Badmashiii:
What do you mean "high-value babes"? Bro your definition of this term is clealy wraped.

You are judging ladies with the same standard as men which is wrong. Let me clear you once and for all.

A high value man is a WEALTHY and POWERFUL man which other men look up to in his own domain. Physical attractiveness is also a bonus but not the main attribute of a high-value man.

Hence,POWER and WEALTH makes a man high-value.

On the other hand, a high value lady is any feminine,YOUNG ,fertile and absolutely BEAUTIFUL girl. being rich herself or powerful dosent makes her high-value. It could be a bonus however.

So YOUTHFULNESS and BEAUTY makes a lady high-value bro. Not money or power.

A beautiful 17-20 year old virgin is more powerful in the dating market than both,tiwa savage,mercy johnson,and alakija combined.

While tinubu,buhari and senator ned are more powerful than any poor but handsome man you ever know.

So clearly,you have not yet tasted a high-value lady and i will urge you as a man to hastily do so. After you experienced it,you will never go for any lady 25 years and above. Those set of girls are the LOW-VALUE ones regardless of their money or power.

An equally powerful man wouldn't go for them. But instead,he will choose the young and beautiful. That's where two people of HIGHER VALUE meets. The equation is perfectly balanced in this case.

Ned-okonkwo and reginal daniel is a case study.

One last question to help you get my point is this,if you're given the option to choose between AYRA-STAR and TIWA-SAVAGE what will be your choice?

A high value man is a man who is good in bed, who likes Bleep. The high value women value Bleep first before money.

Unfortunately most girls misuse their high value and only reserve marriage when they become low value? They wanna have their fun and maximize their high value wiv different guys. Im starting to believe marriage (not the institution itself but as practiced today) could be a scam. Any comments on that? Im learning from your post.

Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.


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Did ur husband chop u in ur prime or u gave urself for free to different boyfriends and only got married at 35? Expecting ur husband to only be chopping leftovers? Does that sound fair to you? Is it fair to be stuck with someone in physical decline
when you never would hv given him the time of the day. So long as he treats you well, is a good husband and father just let him be and hv his fun

ponishah:
What isUSA/NAZ/

NATO?
Abi na poverty dey worry you?
Black monkey

The western European savages taught you to call ur self a monkey. Lol

IyaTola:
Albert Okey

DELAY IN MARRIAGE
Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.
1. I'm too young for that.
2. Who cares about marriage.
3. I'm focused on my books.
4. I want to gather some money first.
5. Marriage is full of problems.
These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.
No problem, God is watching you.

At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;
1. How far?
2. Don't you have any one yet ?
3. Are you not planning to get married ?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?
5. Don't you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,
1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.
4. They are not even ready to marry yet.
5. Well, Allāh knows the best. I believe in Allāh.
See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "Allāh's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.
They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.

You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.
No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
My sister, it matters a lot.
Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.
Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.
At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?
2. Is it not getting too late for you ?
You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...
1. Are you Allāh?
2. Or do you want to marry me?
3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?
5. Allāh knows the best for everyone please.
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:
1. My brother, I'm not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.

Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.
You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.
Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.
Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and time.
There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.
Not everything is about prayer. Allāh who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of Allāh. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.
Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies? Does it mean there no men but only boys?
Thousands of working class ladies are out there confirmed single. Your Master's of PhD is ZERO without a husband.

Yes, Education is key but don't neglect a marriage proposal all in the name of your studies. Both of you are matured enough to wait if you're serious of getting married.
It's never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord.
Change your mind..

Just marry the old one then while married sleep wiv the young ones that dont want to settle down. Problem solved.

You spoke of rotten tomatoes at $10 vs fresh ones at $7.

These young girls cheated on their future husbands by giving away their bodies for free to various guys and at old age expect the so called husband to stick with only her. Who no like better thing? It would be foolish of a married man not to hv side chicks. Its the just thing to do

Jijuo:
Most women are not attracted to good guys. And after spending their youthful lives with bad guys, they turn to good guys before then age is not on their side.

In this scenario, is the good guy justified in getting a side chick while married since he wants to be looking at something nice.

Onmyrise:
In the final analysis...
Almost all posters on here are right in one way or another.
Even the OP is right to a little extent.

Yes, Some guys are to be blamed for deceiving and misleading some ladies, and some ladies are to be blamed for passing up on good opportunities.

But i like to think for every Guy blamed, there are like 10 ladies to be blamed for willfully and unreasonably rejecting so many Guys who would have made better hubbies.

Many ladies dont even dare to give a humble and nice Guy a fair hearing not to mention freindzoning.

The facts speaks for itself. Its not about a gender blame game.

Every lady is usually engulfed by the fire of youthful exuberance at ages 18-28. Its hard to find many ladies that escape that fire unconsumed.

Its not bad for a lady to have choices and to refuse 1,2.3.,4 Guys who approach them, there can be very valid reasons for that. But if nature keeps bringing relatively good guys your way and you keep being mean to them and keep chosing the ones who are clearly toxic.,then, you would prolly end up a lost case.


Any serious, focused, unbiased and intelligent lady, should have captured and kept their sweetheart at age
30,max 31 32 max.??

Ladies need to be more profound minded.

The problem with a woman getting married at 30 is that its a very bad deal for the husband. 31 she looks less attractive. 32 she looks less. 33 she looks less. Its a downward spiral from there. At the same time and naturally so, other girls will be entering the husbands eyes. He is stuck with a 32+ and is to be tormented by young attractive things for life! This my friends is the origin of most side chick incidents...

i think its a good deal/arrangement tho, the young ones dont want to settle down. So hv them as sidechick/girlfriend then marry the 30+ yo. They dont hv any option than be loyal cos their SMV has plummetted lolz

SyrusdeHansome:
No continent is as useless as Africa, no wonder they're still struggling to provide simple nd basic amenities and infrastructures like electricity in the 21st century. If na me be God i 4 wipe off the current population of Africans frm the face of the earth. They`re too unfruitful to still be alive nd occupy space.

Bbc and cnn should hv been banned in africa a long time ago. You hv been brainwashed by their programming.

DonroxyII:
Dem no dey Appeal On Nairaland as e give you Fire you sef go give am hot ... Wetin na

Toxic masculinity.

NiRfreak:
Until u register her body in ur brain and masturbate with itt..right?

Relax and free up ur mind. Mist Christian guys are losers due to too much holy holy. Seems you masturbate with images because ur not confident to approach who u truly want. Im here to tell you today that Jesus Christ is the God that gives very fine babes and good sex too. Losen up and relax

NiRfreak:
Demon possessed human beings... fulfilling the agendas of their master... nothing else to see.
If you lust after her, you've entered their net

I dont think its that serious

Rinoxy:
I found her and married her but she changed and left me for the UK. Say something else.

This seems to be the trend these days

greypencils:
You don't know shit about me or my wife. Stick to what you know. Stick to your fucking world view without quoting me. Thank you.

I was not talking about you personally. Quoting you was a mistake.

Nezan:
Single men think they are balling until they discover that the girls they were balling with were community sluts. Nothing compares like sex with your partner, plus those beautiful bundles of joy that are your kids. Watching them grow and been responsible for shaping their lives makes you feel a complete alpha male.

N.B., Am not referring to these gen Z girls that don't believe in the sanctity of marriage

You are naïve. If only you knew your partners sexual history prior to getting married to you lol.

The so called "bundle of joy" are sinful human beings in need of redemption of Christ; so they are not a "beautiful bundle of joy" prior to acceptance of Jesus Christ as Lord and savior

greypencils:
What is there to envy in bachelorhood? Married men are leaving legacies, children that would bear their name and preserve their bloodline. They have a woman who bears their name and carries their name wherever she goes. As a single man, you have girlfriends and none is loyal to you. As a married man, you have someone who has got your back, someone who has sworn her life and tied it to yours, someone who has left her family and sees you as the number one person in her world. I am proudly married and loving it. What is there to miss in single hood? Multiple pussies? The money I would spend on pussies is what I am saving in a trust for my children. So tell me, Who is envying who?

Your "wife" doesnt have your back. As soon as conditions no longer favor her she will leave

toyeoye:
The CBN instructed banks to implement a 0.5% cybersecurity levy on certain transactions, including to asset management firms. In the coming weeks, if one makes a bank transfer for a N5M investment to any stock brokerage firm , about 25K will be charged and your broker will still chop 4%.

This cyber levy might be what will eventually move me to focus on foreign stocks and leave Nigeria all together

SojWORLDWIDE:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/punchng.com/fuel-scarcity-man-shot-dead-during-fuel-queue-tumult-in-lagos/%3famp

Toxic masculinity.

TheWinterBird:
How does not chatting with women (other than your wife) for personal friendships feel like prison? If that is too much for you to NOT do, then your type has no business being married.

Marriage is not a prison. I am free to talk to whoever i want

TheWinterBird:
Yep, I'm a big believer that married people should not have friends of the opposite sex. The only exceptions are work colleagues and your family members who are females, or males. I'm always annoyed and irritated when married men try to talk to me, like go chat with your wife, Sir.

That feels like prison. Married people should hv friends with the opposite sex

Emmanuel30a:
E be like say this one na women, one man turned women... Men no be men?, you no get semen...? Maybe you get hymen...?

It was toxic masculinity. Live with your shame as men.

Angelfrost:
Sigh... What exactly was the point shooting him??!

They could have just driven away or sped off after he stopped them.


This looks personal... Maybe cult-related.

The incident is known as toxic masculinity. The perpetrators are MALES. Men always causing unnecessary problems and grief

OgaDeyVex:
Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2024/4/gunmen-kill-artma-official-while-he-was-on-duty-in-anambra.html

Prime example of toxic masculinity and why feminism should be hailed

emmanuelewumi:
From the offer results

Where do I see the offer results?

emmanuelewumi:
People and institutions buying bonds don't sell shares in order to invest in bonds.


Over N900 billion was bidded yesterday but over N600 billion was successful.

Where is the extra N300 billion returned to investors?

They will rather invest it in fixed deposit or money market fund for 28 days to 30 days earning about 15% and the bid again in the primary market next month or better still buy in the secondary market from today

How do you find out the amount bidded and the amount returned?

"We will". The black man is a lost cause

[quote author=IhateYouMan post=129432670][/quote]Men are the problem of this world always creating wars

NairaOcean:
The Delta State Police Command has apprehended a 20-year-old man identified as Raphael Egbo for the alleged murder of his 19-year-old girlfriend, Jessica Uzowanne. The incident occurred in Ozoro, the headquarters of the Isoko North Local Government Area of the state.

The Commissioner of Police, CP Abaniwonda Olufemi, revealed this shocking development to reporters in Asaba on Thursday, April 11, 2024. According to CP Olufemi, the distressing incident took place on March 29, 2024, around 7:00 am when the Ozoro Divisional Police Officer (DPO) received a report of a suspected murder.

"Investigation revealed the suspect was stabbed to death by her boyfriend, one Raphael Egbo, aged 20, over a disagreement," stated CP Olufemi.

Raphael Egbo is currently in police custody as investigations into this tragic event continue.

Men are the problem of this world. Quote me anywhere