₦airaland Forum

Liveair:
FALSE!
It shows that you need history lessons.
Go back in history, most violent crimes have been committed by Whites. Nothing comes close to the level of carnage and demonic wickedness perpetuated by the White man.
Who carried out slave trade? Who carried out the Holocaust? Who wiped out the Aboriginals in Australia?
Who exterminated the Original Americans?

In the dark ages, when Africa was already established in kingdoms and empires, these Whites were savages whose pass times was only for inter-tribal wars and savagery.
The world is not what you think it is. Who are the producer of covid?
Who are the racists?

You are right. The white man had tried hard to erase african history. French MPs still say things like Africa has bo history haha. Their colonial life depends on convicing you you hv no history.

sulaak:
Nigerians should stop having too many children if they don't want to die of hunger.

Speak only for urself

Avoid blacks and hv peace. The murderer is BLACK. Every human being is wicked but that of blacks is on another level.

Newlymarried:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2024/06/how-i-spent-24-yrs-in-prison-for-following-friend-to-police-station-lukman-adeyemi/

Blacks are evil

alphaNomega:
sometimes I wonder if these security men and women that are deployed will be exempted from paying the taxes after this bill is finally passed.

They are black men. Do they think ?

Xscape1993:
Nigeria is not a serious country. If Nigeria is a serious country, insecurity should have reduced to the bearest level by now. A typical black man does not value life.

The black man is sick.

Coolestguy2023:
This is my advice for you. Grow up dude.
She telling you to slow things down means that she is not sure of any future with you.
Let her be guy.
Reduce the number of calls and don't give a derm about her. Infact, don't feel concern about her any more. Kill that foolish feelings you have for her and give yourself some respect.
Stay like that till she comes back to her senses.
Use your brain

If you show desperation, YOU ARE FINISHED. You will get more hurt than you exp2ct

The funny thing is if the guy puts himself in the open market he will definitely find another better girl within a few weeks.

allthingsgood:
This is what America and the west know how to do best. Once u are a threat to them, they will unleash insecurity in your territory. That's why terrorism and insecurity can never end on Nigeria.

This argument is weak. Is it Americans and westerners that carry guns to farms? Its nigerians.

To prove this point, you must show me white men carrying guns and carrying out terrorism in Nigeria.

GiZcorp:
Check well there was a time a particular good guy was all over her but out of the love of the world at that moment she didn't bulge now this... To all the girls I love but didn't love me may your case be worse than this! Nonsense!!!

Easy ooo. Its not like that. Maybe they were into someone else.

I think what happened is the NHS rescinded the job offer last minute. Happens. The British can be mean. Na we dey flock to them.

nlfpmod:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EtsUxzxW3Vg?si=vQKFCBnPIrGVcWPS



Riddwane



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ut1LO2GoVvQ?si=V97Enij-O_WJVaC_

Excellent. I reject the colonial anthem imposed by the Tinubu regime

smileyoo:
am not saying you should lender him free service, read my post again.
have you never heard of some hospitals detaining their treated patients until their hospital bills were completely paid ?
i still prefer that, than allowing the patient to die, because life is precious and irreplaceable.

People should be careful of the type of society that they are advocating, because anybody could be a victim of any inhuman policy in the system hence nobody is totally immune to accidents or misfortunes.

I agree with you. The psyche of the blacks is sick. They could even have a health insurance compay they have partnered with to quickly enroll the emergency patience in insurance before commencing treatment. So many things can be done but the blacks never fail to disappoint in their evil wayz.

Fairview1:
Buying and selling business is also a business own its own. The canal plus that needed to acquire the these shares are doing it for a strategic purpose, because they needed to penetrate the African market with controlling interest.

They are buying multichoice because they want to control african media and to keep portraying africans as uncivilized people living in mud huts.

kpaofame:
You are spot on!... this takeover bid is exactly a smokescreen to control the narrative of Africa. Media power is real and powerful, the west have used it endlessly to carry out their neocolonialism activities for long in Africa.

But its presumably black men that sold multichoice to them so the problem is blacks themselves not the colonialists.

Petrallen:
1. The OT was written in Hebrew (and Aramaic). The Hebrew word 'ebed' means slave, servant, bondsman etc.

2. That's patently false... Some western countries like France have been making moves to ban slavery in the 14th century - long before the industrial revolution. Long before industrial revolution, there are have been Christian movements campaigning for the end of slavery. Abolitionists made it loud and clear that the reason why they opposed slavery was due to their religious beliefs - unless perhaps you know better than them. Even with industrial revolution, if the Westerners do not have the conscience to end slavery, they could have found other menial jobs for slaves to do.

Paul said:

Were you a slave when you were called? Don’t let it trouble you—although if you can gain your freedom, do so. (1 Cor. 7:21)

Even though he doesn't have the political power to ban slavery in the modern world, Paul encourages those who can regain their freedom to always do so. Does this look like someone who will encourage slavery? Or look at Jesus Himself. Is His character consistent with someone who will own slaves? See how He treated His disciples, see how He dealt with the Jewish elites (Pharisees, Sadducees etc.) who owned, see how He identify with lowliest of lowlies in the society. Or which of Jesus' apostles owned slaves? Or you think some of them are not rich enough to buy slaves?

It all boils down to this:

There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. (Gal. 3:28)

Jesus' golden rule:

'In everything, do to others what you would have them do to you.' Matt. 7:21

This rule, when followed, effectively outlaws slavery and other societal evils

Theres nothing like industrial revolution. Mali had been mining gold and minerals and there were gold works long before the europeans knew anything about industry.

DeepSight:
Tell me, do you think the Greeks should destroy this ancienct site, which is a UNESCO World Heritage Site and one of the biggest tourist attractions in the world?

It is the Parthenon, and it is the Temple of the goddess Athena.

What say you - should it be mowed down?

Dont mind them the average black man is sick.

alpharoyalty:
I am so angry right now.
Some people have made themselves slaves to Western and Arab religion while neglecting and unappreciative of their ancestral religion.
That governor is fvck men! 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
Fvck that pastor governor

If i was a governor i wont do this. I would make one of Jesus in a separate Location and preserve the other one for historic purposes.

NaijaCowFarm:
T - is for Truly
I - is for Ineffectual
N - is for Nonentity
U - is for Usurper
B - is for Buffon
U - is for Unleashed

95% of Nigerians are similar so no difference.

Svoboda:
Saddam even opened up his country to the iaea, anf they were snooping around his palaces, opening and closing his closets and freezers, in search of wmds. Iaea officials found nothing. The West were still adamant. Late African statesman Kenneth Kaunda met Saddam and offered to mediate. He was snubbed by the west because they were hellbent on invading iraq. The rest is history, just like you mentioned in your post.

I think nigeria, in its desire to be seen as friendly to the west and trying to play the balancing act, is big enough to draw ideological lines. Someone of blairs blood drenched history shouldnt be allowed near our presidential palace. I doubt if blair would be given this level of audience in south africa under the anc or in brazil under the pt.

I dare say that in instances like this, i miss Late Gen Abacha. He was ideologically clear headed.

Tinubu like many others is already brainwashed to worship the West and it is a big problem. Tinubu and co are colonially brainwashed.

What annoys me most about marriage is that on the marriage day, the couple are taking nice pictures and all. Then finally it descends to this.

Swaelyf:
girls? like blame the victim not able bodied men who trade in humans parts and kidnapping in a scheme to get rich quick, and b4 saying she went to meet a man tomorrow same you will call her evening newspaper

It is disgusting how Nigerian men blame the victims. Nigeria still has a long way to go.

Men causes most problems in society: kidnapping, trading in human parts etc

phr0nesis:
I once worked as a farm manager, and even as a manager, my boss still required I did a little labour. I really couldn't pick up hoes and cutlass to start clearing, meaning I couldn't really give myself any physical task, so usually every evening when submitting individual reports to my boss I'll just manufacture a non-existing or unimportant task and submit as my job for the day.
This is exactly what's happening in the National Assembly. Since these people have no task to justify their salaries, they have to start creating bills that are zero importance to the country.

The black man. And you want to migrate to a white man country right? Shameless people with zero work ethic.

Gazzy88:
Thanks a lot for your concern. I later used a waybill service more cheaper than nipost ×3 and it got delivered the next day. Nipost charged over 30k for a 2kg package to Togo meanwhile the waybill service was just 7k and much more faster. Information is power and thanks to you once more. I'm grateful.

Please can you share the name of the logistics service you used.

FreeStuffsNG:
https://edition.cnn.com/middleeast/live-news/israel-hamas-war-gaza-news-05-21-24/index.html

Thats just in the mouth from the hypocritical France.

Adaisback:
Why do you think we keep getting it wrong in Africa?

Incase you don't know, Tinubu that we all know is their stooge and so many Africa leaders.

Time to start getting it right in this continent and we should start by changing the name Africa coz it is a name given to us out of envy and jealousy

14 members of election tribunal and supreme court installed tinubu. Not just is tinubu a stooge but also the judges that installed him

siofra:
All the men above me are dumb.

You want to eat your cake and have it. You want sex before marriage, yet you want a virgin. You people are very stupid. All I know is that 80% of you will not marry virgins whether you like it or not.

Remain chaste until marriage....mba
Marry as a virgin....mba
Be Celibate....MBA


You people are very stupid 😂

I agree with you. They are looking for female virgin but arent virgins themselves 😂

Badmashiii:
What do you mean "high-value babes"? Bro your definition of this term is clealy wraped.

You are judging ladies with the same standard as men which is wrong. Let me clear you once and for all.

A high value man is a WEALTHY and POWERFUL man which other men look up to in his own domain. Physical attractiveness is also a bonus but not the main attribute of a high-value man.

Hence,POWER and WEALTH makes a man high-value.

On the other hand, a high value lady is any feminine,YOUNG ,fertile and absolutely BEAUTIFUL girl. being rich herself or powerful dosent makes her high-value. It could be a bonus however.

So YOUTHFULNESS and BEAUTY makes a lady high-value bro. Not money or power.

A beautiful 17-20 year old virgin is more powerful in the dating market than both,tiwa savage,mercy johnson,and alakija combined.

While tinubu,buhari and senator ned are more powerful than any poor but handsome man you ever know.

So clearly,you have not yet tasted a high-value lady and i will urge you as a man to hastily do so. After you experienced it,you will never go for any lady 25 years and above. Those set of girls are the LOW-VALUE ones regardless of their money or power.

An equally powerful man wouldn't go for them. But instead,he will choose the young and beautiful. That's where two people of HIGHER VALUE meets. The equation is perfectly balanced in this case.

Ned-okonkwo and reginal daniel is a case study.

One last question to help you get my point is this,if you're given the option to choose between AYRA-STAR and TIWA-SAVAGE what will be your choice?

A high value man is a man who is good in bed, who likes Bleep. The high value women value Bleep first before money.

Unfortunately most girls misuse their high value and only reserve marriage when they become low value? They wanna have their fun and maximize their high value wiv different guys. Im starting to believe marriage (not the institution itself but as practiced today) could be a scam. Any comments on that? Im learning from your post.

Calvary247:
My husband cheats alot.
I tried communicating with him to consider my emotional and psychological well-being but he didn't really take kin interest. I have wanted to cheat back but thinking of it disgusts me. Just help with a piece of advice that will help me.


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Did ur husband chop u in ur prime or u gave urself for free to different boyfriends and only got married at 35? Expecting ur husband to only be chopping leftovers? Does that sound fair to you? Is it fair to be stuck with someone in physical decline
when you never would hv given him the time of the day. So long as he treats you well, is a good husband and father just let him be and hv his fun

ponishah:
What isUSA/NAZ/

NATO?
Abi na poverty dey worry you?
Black monkey

The western European savages taught you to call ur self a monkey. Lol

IyaTola:
Albert Okey

DELAY IN MARRIAGE
Girls at the age of 18-24 years always attract serious men who are fully ready to marry them, but at this age most of our girls/sisters never wish to hear anything about marriage.
1. I'm too young for that.
2. Who cares about marriage.
3. I'm focused on my books.
4. I want to gather some money first.
5. Marriage is full of problems.
These are some of few statements ladies talk of at their youth age.
But these girls will be having serious & series of sex relationship with small boys of their age, because at that age, they always have high rate of boys, guys and men coming for them, but they will prefer to choose those boys rather than the real men who want to marry them. They are still young to marry right, but they are not young to have sex with boys.
No problem, God is watching you.

At age of 25-27, parents will start asking them the following questions;
1. How far?
2. Don't you have any one yet ?
3. Are you not planning to get married ?
4. Are you seeing that all your mates are getting married ?
5. Don't you know you are getting old?
But mind you, parents only see the outside of their daughters, not knowing there is nothing left inside.
With all these questions by her own parents, she will now be thinking and asking herself things like: My mates are marrying,
1. Does it mean am old enough to marry?
2. Hmmm, how should I go about it?
3. My boyfriends are not serious about asking my hand in marriage.
4. They are not even ready to marry yet.
5. Well, Allāh knows the best. I believe in Allāh.
See oooh...!, she has started putting her blame on God. "Allāh's time is the best" OK, I agree for argument sake.
At age 27-30 they now start looking for men to marry not boys to have sex and play with again.
They will start looking for serious relationship that will lead to marriage, but unfortunately, at this age of 27-30 not all men will be asking their hand in marriage.

You will see them forcing themselves to marry a man who don't want to marry them. Please we beg you, leave us alone.
No single man at age 27-30 will like to marry a lady of 30-35. Now you hear the sisters say age does not matter.
My sister, it matters a lot.
Imagine buying a rotten tomato for $10 and your friend buys a fresh one for $7. Yes, that's how it feels like in marriage too.
Remember you rejected men because you think you were too young. What makes you think your old age does not matter to us?
That's why some men go back to their villages to find young girl to marry when the city ones are not serious about marriage and those that are serious happen to be old for them.
At age 30-35, her friends will ask her:
1. Why are you not married yet by this age of yours?
2. Is it not getting too late for you ?
You will hear her asking you some silly questions like...
1. Are you Allāh?
2. Or do you want to marry me?
3. Is it a crime to be single at 30 or 35?
4. Did I see a man willing to marry me but I refused?
5. Allāh knows the best for everyone please.
At age 30-35 they will start praying like never before, moving from one church to another. If she's a Muslim, she will start praying night prayers, fasting and dressing modestly.
If you ask her for dating, she would burst out to say:
1. My brother, I'm not like them.
2. Am looking for a serious man, a husband not dating.
3. If you truly love me go and see my parents for marriage.
4. I can't do anything with you without my parents concern.

Dear parents, they have started knowing your worth. When she was 18-24, she was doing everything without considering you as parents.
You don't expect a young man of 27-30 to marry you of 30-35 as his house wife when there are younger pretty girls out there.
Even if he chooses to ignore your age and marry you, his family and friends will discriminate you.
Men that will be interested to marry you will be of 45 yrs and above and mind you, those men are married with kids except you wanna be second or third wife.
Everything in life has its own season and time.
There's no lady at age 30-35 seeking for marriage who haven't been approached during 18-24. But by then, they were busily jumping from clubs/parties to hotel rooms looking for FUN not MARRIAGE.
Not everything is about prayer. Allāh who created you has made a plan for you. But when you change the plan or miss the road, please don't disturb the peace of Allāh. Because, He will be busy planning for your younger sister.
Why do we have high rate of single mothers and single ladies? Does it mean there no men but only boys?
Thousands of working class ladies are out there confirmed single. Your Master's of PhD is ZERO without a husband.

Yes, Education is key but don't neglect a marriage proposal all in the name of your studies. Both of you are matured enough to wait if you're serious of getting married.
It's never too late to ask for forgiveness or have a second thought of mind. For our God is a merciful and gracious Lord.
Change your mind..

Just marry the old one then while married sleep wiv the young ones that dont want to settle down. Problem solved.

You spoke of rotten tomatoes at $10 vs fresh ones at $7.

These young girls cheated on their future husbands by giving away their bodies for free to various guys and at old age expect the so called husband to stick with only her. Who no like better thing? It would be foolish of a married man not to hv side chicks. Its the just thing to do

Jijuo:
Most women are not attracted to good guys. And after spending their youthful lives with bad guys, they turn to good guys before then age is not on their side.

In this scenario, is the good guy justified in getting a side chick while married since he wants to be looking at something nice.

Onmyrise:
In the final analysis...
Almost all posters on here are right in one way or another.
Even the OP is right to a little extent.

Yes, Some guys are to be blamed for deceiving and misleading some ladies, and some ladies are to be blamed for passing up on good opportunities.

But i like to think for every Guy blamed, there are like 10 ladies to be blamed for willfully and unreasonably rejecting so many Guys who would have made better hubbies.

Many ladies dont even dare to give a humble and nice Guy a fair hearing not to mention freindzoning.

The facts speaks for itself. Its not about a gender blame game.

Every lady is usually engulfed by the fire of youthful exuberance at ages 18-28. Its hard to find many ladies that escape that fire unconsumed.

Its not bad for a lady to have choices and to refuse 1,2.3.,4 Guys who approach them, there can be very valid reasons for that. But if nature keeps bringing relatively good guys your way and you keep being mean to them and keep chosing the ones who are clearly toxic.,then, you would prolly end up a lost case.


Any serious, focused, unbiased and intelligent lady, should have captured and kept their sweetheart at age
30,max 31 32 max.??

Ladies need to be more profound minded.

The problem with a woman getting married at 30 is that its a very bad deal for the husband. 31 she looks less attractive. 32 she looks less. 33 she looks less. Its a downward spiral from there. At the same time and naturally so, other girls will be entering the husbands eyes. He is stuck with a 32+ and is to be tormented by young attractive things for life! This my friends is the origin of most side chick incidents...

i think its a good deal/arrangement tho, the young ones dont want to settle down. So hv them as sidechick/girlfriend then marry the 30+ yo. They dont hv any option than be loyal cos their SMV has plummetted lolz