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Drambo:Lol, so that she will turn him to another Ojukwu Ataga abi? But, they've been together for over a year now, so I'm sure they've done the do. daddytime:Lol, it's a very crazy situation. Her mood swing is on another level. |
Freestainworld:Thank you o. I will even make sure he takes the girl to a police station, so she will write statement that she will avoid him. He must get a restraining order against her. |
LilMissFavvy:Exactly. But, the issue now is that she is aware the guy wants to propose. She might agree to take therapy, counseling, prayers, etc and pretend through out, just so she will get the ring. Then, after marriage, she will continue. Marriage is a VERY serious step, and leaving it may seem impossible at times, especially when kids are now involved. The problem now is how to be convinced that she's fully changed, even after counselling and therapy. |
apasino01:Lol. It's not so hard to do, as long as you know the right people with the computer knowledge. It's only money that it will cost you. |
itsme01:This part literally crossed my mind, because I know how hard trust issues are. But, this guy she's dating is a complete introvert. All he does is work, relax at home, and watch movies. He's antisocial. Even if she has experienced some heartbreak in the past, does that mean she should start acting crazy now that she met a calm guy? |
itsme01:Bro, they have taken her to so many psychotherapists. I even suggested she's taken to a rehabilitation center to complete a 3-month anger management course sef. She said she will only go, if the guy comes with her. It's like there is an ignition that occurs in her brain, the moment she sees her boyfriend interacting with a female. But, I'll still pass down this your suggestions sha |
itsme01:Man of God, please explain further. |
So, I've got this close friend, he's a real nice guy and easy going, but he has this really weird girlfriend. She is not a bad person, but she has these problems: Extreme jealousy and Anger. Her Anger and jealousy is top notch. Permit me to tell you some of her extremely crazy actions due to jealousy: Firstly, she has Binoculars. This is no jokes. She literally has a pair of binoculars that she uses to view him from a distance just to make sure she can monitor him. Secondly, she literally has people she paid to monitor his movement, both at his workplace and back home. Thirdly, she has tapped his phone, which means she can know everyone he is talking to. Fourthly, she installed a tracker in his phone and car without him knowing. She calls him like every 30 minutes of the day, and will always ask for a video chat so she will confirm who he is with. At first, he found her attitude to be cute, and even thought she was just trying to be a caring girlfriend that is protecting her 'property', but now e be like say water don pass garri. She has fought every of his female friends and she's in the habit of replying ANY female that dares comment on any picture he uploads on Social media. She fought his boss, who also happens to be a female. Now, here's the main thing. My friend is planning to propose to her(I wonder why) on Dec. 31st/1st of January 2022. He wants to propose at the exact moment (12:00am) when everyone will be shouting "HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!" He bought her a real expensive ring. Then, he invited his godmother and some of us over. The plan was to meet so we can plan the main event properly without her(the girlfriend) knowing. All in a bid to surprise her. So, the godmother and i got there first, but she came before me. He went downstairs to meet her; hugged her, and was showing her the ring he wants to use for proposal. Out of no where, this his girlfriend ran downstairs with FULL FORCE. I guess she was viewing him with her Binoculars. She started yelling and accusing him of having and proposing marriage to a sugar mommy. She didn't even wait for any explanation before she started raining all sorts of derogatory words and insults on this woman. She tore parts of her dress and called her an old hag, a prostitute, boyfriend snatcher, etc. She slapped this woman o. The guy got very angry and he pushed her, this girl pulled out a small kitchen knife she hid in her back pocket while coming downstairs and stabbed his hand o. Yes, she stabbed him. The whole thing felt like a Nollywood movie. I could not believe my eyes. I've seen her angry severally, but this was the icing on the cake. The whole estate was shook, because she kept running helter skelter while YELLING, cursing and destroying properties. Several people had to come out before we could tame her, and then take the guy to a clinic. The godmother didn't utter a single word, and she simply left. Till now, nobody has been able to reach her(the godmother). Now, after some of the family members have called the girl, she is now convinced that the woman is actually his godmother, and not a sugar mommy. She is sober now and wants forgiveness, whereas the guy has said he doesn't want again. Here are my questions: When you see your guy or your lady with another person that's of the opposite gender in public, what's the best way to handle the situation? Do you approach them with anger? Do you simply call your partner to the side to ask 'who is the girl/guy you're talking to?' Do you simply wait for your partner to finish, so he/she will come and explain to you what's going on? I already told him I support his decision to cancel the proposal and end the relationship, but this girl is actually a really nice girl, it's just her anger and jealousy that is the problem. That's the ONLY issue with her. Should he help her work on her anger issues before thinking of marriage or he should just end the relationship? Lalasticlala Dominique OAM4J abeg come put mouth for this matter o |
How are we going to vote, and how will the winner be known/declared? |
Originalsly:Read my initial comment very well, you'll notice where i condemned his actions. |
The ex boyfriend must be serving a living God. |
Originalsly:In this case, the man is the perpetrator, since he's the baiter, whereas the girls are the "victims". I put victim in quotes ( " " ) simply because those girls are not real victims. Na long throat dey worry dem. They will not be in this predicament if they were not engaging in runz. Capisce? |
Originalsly:A responsible man will not bait females into prostitution, and a responsible girl will not go and meet a man baiting her with money. Those girls are obviously runs girls. Most girls nowadays are the ones that even volunteer into prostitution. All the men have to do is show them small money, and watch how the females will flock to him. E.g. yahoo boys |
Anny98:You people should come and see another man with hairy chest that is disguising with a female moniker o Cc: Ikillbrokehoes EmzyT Smellysperm |
Originalsly:Bros, THEY ARE ENGAGING IN PROSTITUTION. That's how most of those girls end up meeting ritualists and murders at hotels, all in the name of going to collect money. |
Originalsly:Yes! It shows how unreasonable they are --the girls and guy. |
Mrscarter:
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Konor: |
Originalsly:You're asking if there is something wrong in a group of girls going to meet someone from social media in a hotel, simply because he promised them money? You're asking if there's something wrong with that?? |
EmzyT:Na old nairaland format. A guy with hairy balls will create a female moniker, he will bash men with that moniker so he will gain attention and other people will think it's a female that is truly behind the moniker, then when the moniker seems really believable, he (the real guy behind the moniker) will now be able to chat with guys here to ask them for money or some other favor, since the female moniker he created seems believable already. Na old format wey done cast. We have bursted several of his type here. Saw him offline already. Na one black boy with ashy skin. |
Marcofranz:Ignore that boy. |
gift0123:Lol, don't mind me. I'm also a grandpa . |
Charmingrascal:Lmao |
gift0123:What's the problem, grandma? |
Charmingrascal:Abi o. I guess he's a charming rascal. |
Wawelexy:Lol, they never experrerit. They thought this 'operation' will go smoothly like their other 'operations'.
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l69l:He probably used the girl's phone to trick her other friends that there is a maga waiting for them at a hotel, so they should come and chop. They rushed down to the hotel with full speed, thinking they will meet a maga that they will chop. |
He is wrong for defrauding those women, but we all know those women agreed to meet him in a hotel simply because he promised them money. #RunsGoneWrong. |
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SiggyNG:Lol, women that look beautiful with little or no make-up are hard to come by these days. Appreciate one when you see one. Question: Siggy, if you and should fight physically, who do you think will win? |
NEPA is doing DJ with you people's electricity. |
Two cutie pies sitting at the front row. |
. She needs serious counselling, therapy and even prayers. If the guy is ready to be patient with her and lead her to get help, and the girl has really regretted her actions, fine. All she has to do is to submit herself for counseling and anger management therapy. If she is not ready to get help or is unserious, let him end the relationship. The only reason I didn't suggest a total end of the relationship is because the guy says she is a good woman, anger and jealousy is her main problem.


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