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Yugoslavia247:
It is normal.

Just sit her down at midnight and tell her what I wrote.

Tell her you know she put up with a lot of things and she feels that this job will change it.

Tell her that you don't mean to hurt her. And you know she has endured some of your excesses and apologize to her. Why because she is only showing you things she bottled up for 6 months. Tell her that she should not hide her feelings because she doesn't want to hurt you. She should feel free.

Because if you bring 1000 women. They will exhibit same behavior. This is not about compatibility but human nature.

Money stops nonsense.
No money brings nonsense.
She feels the nonsense you do is because she has no money.

Even if na man na same thing.
Now treat her well.
Take her out.
Give her Liberty.
Observe well too.
Women hate doing House chores alone.
It seems like servitude or slavery.
So things differently.
She will open up or change.

Thank you so much, bro. I appreciate .

Jennyclay:
Did you sit her down to know why the sudden attitude? She has been with you for 2 years and just this first misunderstanding you are already thinking of break-up . Just say you’re seeing someone else we’ll understand. We know your type. Bunch of Randy men!!

Why would you leave your house so dirty and unkempt? Even though you’re spending millions on her that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t take your personal hygiene serious.

Must you wait till she return to come do the house chores for you

I'm not sure you read whole story.

Yugoslavia247:
Hmmmm nkan be

Humility is a virtue that is truly known when we have it all or think we have it all.

Never believe anyone is humble especially when they depend on you.

Sometimes they take shit from you and won't confront you because of fear of losing the comfort.

Maybe she has put up with lots of your shit.
Maybe she tried to correct you but you refuse to listen to her because you pay the bills.
Maybe she feels she has no say because she is jobless.
Maybe she is only comfortable with your excesses because she has nothing to offer.

Maybe her ideal man is not you and she feels when she gets a job she will attract better men.

This is not limited to women.
It is human nature.

I put up a lot with my bro too.
I felt I had no say.
Any argument we have I had to reserve my comments because I was thinking this guy coul punish me with money.

Until I left and came back then as equal. I had my say and stood my ground.

Maybe that is what is happening.

There is nothing you can do about it.

Except you are extra observant and try not make her feel that way.

E hard.

You are right bro. But isn't that like a red flag that the two aren't compatible

Taylor90:
God is indeed merciful

I wish Gods position was electable or has duration of reign I for say make God step down make i be God for 5minutes terminate that her job and watch her suffer since she’s an ingrate

OP you don already see what’s ahead naa

She never even get job she don dey shadow ban you from day one

Imagine she didn’t get a job and out of pity and love you send her go do masters for UK

As she reach Nigeria airport she go just block you

Women are wicked and her type will end up with someone that will make her curse love

Thank you my brother for your input. Much appreciated.

I have been dating this girl for like 2 years now. When we started dating, she was a private school teacher. She was always complaining about the job being too stressful and the salary not worth the stress. I was always supporting her financially the best I can to pay her rent and feeding. In January this year, We agreed she resigns from the teaching job and come live with me while she searches for another job.

For over six months she was living with me, I was catering to her every need as she was jobless. She was behaving all good, humble, and nice. I felt we were a perfect match. I even went to see her family to collect the marriage list and we planned on a wedding around November.

Recently, a relative of hers who has a level in Government asked her to send him her Curriculum vitae to get her a federal job in one of the ministries. I was so happy for her. From the look of things, she might be earning more than me.

To cut the story short. Last Saturday I gave her money to go to a computer center and scan the necessary documents for her said relative for the job. She left the house around 10 am to do that, but when she came back around noon, she was entirely a different person. When I opened the door for her, she just walk past me without a word. I asked her if she succeeded in sending the documents, but she ignored me. Next, she started complaining about how dirty the house is and why I didn't sweep, clean, and cook something she will eat when she comes back. She was just walking up and down the house angrily. She said I should better start learning to help out with the house chores as I wouldn't expect her to do it all when she starts work soon. She even threatened that she will get her own house when she starts to work as she doesn't want me adding to her stress.

I was dumbfounded by her sudden change of attitude. We had a heated argument like we have never had before. She said so many hurting words to me that I can't say here.

I'm beginning to have a double mind toward her as it regards marriage. I feel like she just showed me her true color. She is yet to get an employment letter for the job and yet she is already acting up and looking down on me. What would happen when she now gets an employment letter to resume the job?

I'm confused about whether to continue with her or if I should end it all for my peace of mind.

I have been wondering... If the only difference between human beings and other animals is the superior brain of a human.

Do other animals also have a soul?

Do they also have an afterlife?

Throwback:
See as dem just dey toy with Obi like say na beggar wey no get choice.

If only he had shown dedication and foresight to slowly build his own party and work for the victory of others, he would have been a victorious organic politician like Bola Tinubu.

Instead, he wanted to reap where he did not sow, only to become an illegitimate candidate on a futile mission to steal a mandate he could not win.

Atiku will withdraw his election petition latest 20th of May. Peter obi is coming.

PandoraObi:
The street looks empty, I guess Peter Obi beg ESN gunmen for protection

If he had done it on Tuesday, same you would have mock him for not doing it in Monday for fear of unknown gunmen.

Peter Obi seen working out without security in the streets of onitsha , Anambra state on Monday morning despite the sit at home .

I have come to observe the fact that almost all Nigerian senior politician own a private house abroad. What could be the reason?.

A person holding a political office who claims to work for the betterment and growth of the country, would earn money in Nigeria, rather than invest it in Nigeria to benefit our economy, would choose to invest it in another country abroad. How many foreign politicians has come to nigeria to buy property?

I think there is a grand plan by the political class to prepare themselves for a safe haven outside Nigeria in case one day ordinary Nigerians who have been pushed to the wall for so long by the political class decides that enough is enough; and start a revolution.

What do you think?

Throwback:
Who send Obi to carry his prostitution and desperate ticket hunting to Labour Party?

Can't he learn to be patient like Tinubu and grow organically after putting in the work for the benefit of his own created party like Tinubu did?

Obi reaped where he never laboured. That is not the kind of political process that should be encouraged in a working democracy.

Those who have laboured for LP are now in charge. The opportunists would find their way out to another party to exploit for reaping without sowing.

You have finally give up on Atiku . Atiku is no longer coming. The only opposition party in Nigeria is Labor party. PDP is dead and forgotten

During Shettima's presentation in the ongoing NBA conference, he said he builted the best schools in borno state and invested so much in education in the state.

We were force to go and verify ...

Below is our result..

Lol

Lol

batshit:
This is good, it could bolster confidence for independent candidacy

Exactly my point. Voting political party has never help us in this country. Most of these politicians often change to another political party after winning election.

Can INEC replicate this as in Malawi?

This is cool

Our Ballot papers only have the Party Logo and the Party initials. It can be confusing. INEC can put the candidates' pictures and names like its done in some other countries.

In Nigeria, some people especially the non educated ones do not know the party logo of the candidate they want to vote. They can only identify them by their name or picture.

Moreover, its high time Nigerian stop voting for parties and start voting for candidates. Voting for party instead of individuals contesting has never favored us since 1999.

So please inec should look into this and make some changes .

igbotormentor:
Call a spade a spade ,the same Igbo that claimed Tinubu drank water directly from the bottle when he was outside and on a campaign where cups are not available compared him with Peter Obi who was sitting comfortable in the confines of a place with bottle and glass of water before him, hypocrites can never change

Point of correction...No one castigate tinubu for drink water directly from the bottle. He was castigate for holding the small bottle water with his two hands like a toddler

You had the chance when you were vice president for 8years... We need fresh minds . Obi is the man of people.

APC is an Islamic party with an Islamic agenda. Did you observe that everyone on the Apc banner is a muslim.

helinues:
Terrorist how? If Shettima should be held accountable for Boko Haram issue then Obi should also be held responsible for the SARS Akwuzu led by James Nwafor terror

Sars Akwuzu is a police station under the control of the federal government. So how can you blame the action of sars akwuzu on the state government?

You see how they are fabricating lies about Peter obi, when his supporters attack back , they start screening cyber bully and crying foul.

And someone is somewhere still preparing to vote APC again in the next election.

Eniitankorede:
Many of you who think Obituary is your Lord and saviour will soon see that both your Lord and saviour, and all of you his followers are blind and dumb. Obi has no track records of good leadership. He is just a scam who turned to motivational speaker with sugar coated tongue. He has no major legacy in Anambra state to point at. He has no leadership qualities. He was impeached and sacked by the house of Assembly. He never created any political party and he never nurtured anybody to become a good leader. These are all the good qualities of Tinubu. Now, all the imbeciles following him will meet their Waterloo very soon. Just as this guy is saying, a good leader would have negotiated a settlement with the aggrieved members of the faction. Rather he preferred to throw money around lawyers hoping that they will fix the problem for him. Because he lacks negotiating skills. That’s why he was having problems when he was Governor. He has no foresight and vision and he wants to lead NIGERIA.

Your argument is so watery . You are not making sense. Obviously, you have nothing tangible against Obi .

Shocking!

Attached are two letters by Anambra Housing Corporation allocating choice land to Mr. Peter Obi as the Governor of Anambra State. Also attached is the shocking reply of Mr. Peter Obi.

Indeed, he is not a saint, but he is clearly different from the rest.

Moh247:
The only reason why Nigeria is the richest country interms of resources but poorest in terms of human development index is because of low thinkers that foolishly reason based on emotions


How will a 3rd class Philosophy Graduate of Nsuka, without a single completed projects in Anambra for 8 years, who never conducted LGA election but stole the allocation for 8 years , caught with 250 million cash, and also invested state allocation is his family business when doctors where on strike for 13 months be better than someone who built Lagos when Lagos was abandoned as old FCT



Truly many are very un intelligent and very gullible


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Tinubu built lagos but still travel to france for medical checkup. Blind followers. Any youth who still campaign for tinubu after end sars event is a dimwit

Islam is a blood tasty religion.

Buhari has finished us ooo.. Yet , some people are still planning to vote in another Buhari in the person of Tinubu.

We are Obidified

Tinubu will be good , but peter obi will be better

post=113982387:
Truth is bitter to some cannibals, but we will keep saying it.......

Peter lives in GRA Onitsha in Anambra state .

Parachoko:
At a mosque in Abuja, an Alfa was suspended for criticising Buhari, people wailed bitterly about it. They said there is freedom of speech, and the Alfa shouldn't have been suspended indefinitely for castigating Buhari.

I hope those set of people wey wail against the removal of the Alfa will also wail bitterly about the removal of Father Ejike Mbaka for expressing his opinion.

You are comparing a 2nd term sitting president of Nigeria to a Presidential election Aspirant. When Peter Obi wins the presidential seat come 2023 and fail to do well like Buhari , anybody is free to constructively critize him like the Alfa did to President Buhari.

TooNoisy:
He has no momentum.

Its the same IPOB youths that just keep shouting his name up and down. He is not known in the North at all. No one knows him. He cannot get 25% of votes in any northern state. His party has no candidates in the North. They don't have any state chairmen, local government chairmen or even ward members.


No credible politician is associating with him. No one knows him in Ogun, Ondo, Ekiti, Osun and Oyo. He is little known in Edo and Delta. He couldn't even get a Northerner as placeholder. He had to use the only non-Igbo supporting him, who happens to be a discredited politician like Doyin Okupe.

No momentum anywhere. Everything is online and he would not get 2 million votes in the real election. He is just being supported by IPOB members who use cyber bullying as their tactic.

You are too Noisy