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missyojo:
You are welcome. God is preparing the best for you. Cheers!!!

God is not a giver of girlfriends don't involve God with romance I have a gf already thanks anyways.

missyojo:
Op, she's not into you. Since you have deleted her number, move on. It's as simple as ABC.

I already did. its not the first time women are like fishes just lay your hook down with patience you will miss many but you will surely catch one .who knows she may not be worth it she may be one of those ladies who have smelling pussies or STDs or worst of all a wide pussy maybe I dodge a bullet anyway thanks...

breakerofchains:
You just gave me an idea...

I think I should start demanding money before giving them my number, then blocking them after that.

You're talking like you don't know how some guys can be such pests- you give out the number to shoo them away,then block them.

That is why I said most women are fishbrains and illogical they dont even understand themselves .as a guy if I don't find a lady attractive I will not even look at you twice talkless of talkng to you and collecting your number I don't even say hi that's men for you we use our senses not emotions and that is why we will keep ruling the world forever.

[quote author=shiffynaani post=79001918]guy,lemme help you. Women are not difficult to understand at all. Infact, they are the simplest thing to understand bro if only you can communicate in their language which is EMOTION. Yes, women reason with emotion while men are logical. You would hate yourself and be very confused when you are commucating with them through logical angle. Try to understand their emotional language and they would be simple as toys. Look for "ubunja" here on nairaland and read all his topics. He is my best when it comes to women. That guy is crazy[/quote

Bro I have read some books on seduction and I follow the dating drills too they do work but the major problem is mastering the contents of these books you cannot change ur personality .right now am reading" the flow" by Dan dancon which I believe is one of the best dating coaches ever I understand girls behaviour so much but my problem and is am hot tempered only guys with endurance can cope with women I know all these the things are the tests women will throw at your to test you masculinity but your logical mind will always respond negatively to such test because it looks like it makes no sense emotional things makes no sense the logical mind thanks anyway .

BecaciaBarbie:
Excuse me! You are lucky she didn't block you. You should have thought of the different "Ifs" before coming here to rant. She is probably in a serious relationship and also not willing tocreate rooms for cheating. If she had replied you, and one thing led to another, her boyfriend would then come here ranting about how difficult it is to find a loyal girlfriend.

shhhhhhhhh if she is truly faithful to her boyfriend she wouldnot give out her number to any random guy come-on men aren't fools I wunt be happy to hear my girlfriend gave out her number to a random guy I would stop trusting her women love attention simple like most ladies never feels happy when if she doesn't get a least a toaster daily .I sense it some girl just burst into life and joy just because I approach them ..

ibkayee:
Some people give their numbers to be polite and hope you’ll get the message when they ignore you.

Some people give their numbers because they’re being pestered and hope you’ll get the message when they ignore you.

Some girls are just taking playing hard to get to the extreme.

Some guys misread girls by thinking they’re interested when they’re just being courteous and don’t actually want anything beyond a friendship.

Could be any

There is no big deal with rejecting a man's sexual advances its normal nobody is compatible with everybody but don't give a man hope and bash it later its frustrating and immature .The fact still remains that women are illogical and can't be understood logically .I believe sometimes these ladies may be in serious relationships and don't want to destroy it because of you I believe they just wanna keep you as option in case anything goes wrong these days I don't even bother collecting numbers I give you mine if you call fine if you don't no qualms.

ebonyggurl:
Lolz at bolded
Only you claimed in your initial posts that women are confused and don't know what they want. Now they are straight??
you sound like the confused one bro

go and refund your school fees .smh

Zinny25:
I can relate to that... There's this guy that asked for my number, I told him no but he insisted so I did. I never picked his call, Las Las I still blocked his number

why did you still give him why didn't you stand your ground since you don't like him you women don't even understand yourself...

merahki:
I am way more than 32 (you can call me a night newspaper)
And I hardly ever pick calls
In other words I do not pick almost any call
You are dead wrong

even at 32+ you are still behaving like a teenager three gbosa for you village pipu am sure you are not married shame....

OKOATA:
I deleted about 3 girls numbers from my phone because of this same nonsense.

you head is there they just want you to be calling and calling so they can feed their bruised ego women love attention because most of them have low self-esteem.

ebonyggurl:
You sound so re.tarded
You have a 'pretty babe' as you claimed. Yet you tried making advances to another one. In your little mind, it was a nice convo and she was all smiles...never occured to you that the babe was being nice and couldn't wait till you'd leave her alone. She was unresponsive to you later...like the little boy that you are, you came to nairaland to cry about it, claiming women are confused creatures and WANT to be treated badly. That's something a potential rapist would say. You need to get mature emotionally and stop making useless and dumb assuptions about things you don't know or understand

And you stop making stewpid assumptions about people you don't know I am not pissed one bit by her behaviour its not a new thing I have met many matured girls and am not a newbie in dating ,you will intuitively know when a woman is into you and when she is not woman are very straight.they let you know straight up when they are not into you it takes them nothing there are women who will like you but will just unnecessarily want to test you by playing hard to get by acting uninterested by ignoring your calls and chats the same women will nearly hug the life out of you when they meet you in real life they just wanna play mind games and las las they will still fall for the player.

breakerofchains:
Durhhh.

Don't worry experience will teach you better.

breakerofchains:
You got a story, story You got a story, story This na your story , story, story ehnn

little girl goan prepare for g.c.e

breakerofchains:
Cry baby.

So you want her to date you out of pity? Get up and get moving.
Hurt women blablabla...

Oh, I can't have sh*t to do with those people you mentions. Yahoo boys blabla...

Can't get involved with ghetto characters

lol who is crying ...

I got a pretty babe women are never my problem i got many crushing on me plus right now am fvcking two friends because of their normal stupidity am not a needy guy because pussy is not food or money .I decided to bring up this topic because I want guys to learn especially the newbies in the dating world that women do not want to be loved because that is the mentality of a newbie in the dating game they show women all the love and get disappointed later after I want to build a generation of strong men because our mothers made us weaklings emotionally.

breakerofchains:
SHE DOES NOT LIKE YOU. PERIOD.

sometimes, I give guys my number because some of them can be such pests but I block them soon enough.

Also stop intruding women's spaces with your boring conversation.

Also, have you tried money? It works because it shows you value her time and you're not a jobless timewaster.

that is why I said earlier that women want someone they are attracted to not someone that loves them and yet they complain when the same man treats them badly .just admit that all you want is money even if it comes from an armed robbery,agbero,ritualist or yahoo plus boy OK I love to hurt women emotionally because they that's what they want.

tydi:
Leave those creatures called women, they're all confused.

As for me I have muted my emotions long time a go towards love and relationships ,women do not want to be loved read that line again. women want to love but do not want to be loved forget all the ranting here they would never agree to it but its true maybe they change when they are older I don't know.if you read my old posts you will see where i told you guys about my girlfriend about her friend always throws herself to me and she doesn't mind even though she knows about it yet no complaints from herso right now am f***king them both no hard feelings

the first time I met them It was her friend i saw first but she ignored me so I moved to her friend (now my girlfriend) she was receptive and friendly so after a few advances I shot my shot she agreed to be my babe so we started dating straight away .out of jelousy her friend started throwing herself at me calling me darling,dear sweetheart and all that I ignored her at first because I was faithful to my babe but she too didn't mind even though I reported her friend to her. friend is irresistible no lies she is curvy and light skinned so as a sharp guy I knack the both of them men it was fun women of this generation especially at a young age are very confused add to their confusion you will Bleep them

mtchhwwww

tydi:
She didn't like him why not just grow some balls and tell the guy to face than allowing him invest his emotions first on her..

Oh my bad I forgot women GATS no ball

it's as simple as that ,refusing to give a guy your number will by no means hurt his feelings I have never seen a guy cry or kill himself because a girl refuses to give him her infact ignoring his calls will even hurt him more...

ebonyggurl:
Oga no woman wants a man who treats her badly. The babe simply doesn't like you, but didn't want to be rude and hurt your feelings. That's why she's not responsive to you.

yimu.....that's what they always say yet they do the opposite.

kingxsamz:
The only logical answer to this is that they want to use you to add to their number of views on their WhatsApp status.

I always thought as much they are just attention hungry in other words most women have low self esteem.

Hintona:
You really are a big prick

don't divert the topic forget my moniker its not my real name please kindly tell us the way women think that is different from men or simy tell us women are confused

Hintona:
That is how they will be saying "we don't understand women" upandan, men and women don't think same way simple.

Do you mean women are aliens are they not humans like men am starting to believe women are illogical as harddon always say no wonder the prefer men who treat them badly.

Oluromantic:
It's senseless. She shdnt reply at all is better than replying with one word. Not picking calls at all is different from picking calls with pride. Besides at age 32+ they pick almost any calls. Guess she's in her early 20s and believes she still has time to Shakur..

Abi ooo its even better no to give you number out

iRepNaija1:
Did it ever occur that she just might not be that into you?

the first meeting was fun and she liked my conversation style I believe but after that I called she didn't pick and I chatted her up she didn't reply so I deleted her..

why is it that you will give your number to a guy after meeting for the first time but when he finally calls you barely pick his calls if he chats you up on WhatsApp you wunt reply or reply with one word guys can you relate to this and ladies why please give us a logical answer to this question...

Deepfeel:
Those two girls are f*cking themselves

do you mean they are lesbians

Remember I once told you guyz about my gf who doesn't complain when her friend throws herself at me she seems okay with it.but I wunt lie her friend is really irresistible .she kissed me in front of my gf last week now both of them are with me now her friend even calls me darling ,sweetheart and all now as a sharp guy am considering dating them both,they are not really demanding financially so am a bit comfortable with them has any one being in their shoes before...

chinchonglee:
useless op


U re a disgrace to human race

I knew you were very sensible when you joined Nl but follow follow don cloud you little brain.

chinchonglee:
What does dis has to do with self esteem?

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foolish troll

ladies and guys please I need your opinion on this.can you cope with a girlfriend or boyfriend who lacks self esteem.I once broke up with a girl because she doesn't complain when her friends throw themselves at me she always feel inferior the last time her friend jump on me and kissed me on the lip I warned her to stop but my girl did not complain she saw it as normal I was expecting her to confront her friend but then it looked like she can take anything so I broke up with her.

Imoh555:
Not when they get entrapped in rituals like grandpa Ned did to Regina

so you can cope with a woman who doesn't complain when you cheat me I can't its one reason why I wanna break up with my girl her is because her friends throw themselves at me provocatively but she doesn't complain I sense at as low self esteem and I hate people with low self esteem.
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Imoh555:
Not completely true

If the man is extremely rich and provides everything for the wife she won't complain or worry much about the cheating women love to be in a competition with themselves and it is only when you have money that you can use and control them like dummies... Do you want to say people like emoney, and other married rich artist don't cheat Of course we won't hear about it cos the women have money and wants to always send an impression that everything is OK with them... It is only poor and average people that argue and drag each other when their husbands cheat especially if the side chick is finer... The goal is just to make money

chai what a nauseating mentality and you think the wives wunt cheat abi .