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We have heard enough of ur black pot. Deceitful government......government with full of promises and no single execution fuah

Wicked souls

Wow....A wonderful idea




A wonderful wetin, with dis road washing exercise and u are shouting a wonderful idea... Where is de wonder and de idea for washing road for vehicle to pass instead of fumigating/flitting de cities?

They keep de money in deir pus and come to deceive u all with dis camouflag, stupid government

Wasted spermatozoa fuah

Madness of the highest oda

do I live
Life just has no meaning again.When I take a look at the results of those I am better than I think life is unfair[/quote]Hey man! I c u are just starting up a life as a young man....life is not always fair to anyone, we all keep trying and pushing till will get to de top.... I suggest u get it off ur head before u do something nasty

The Lagos State Government on Tuesday resumed the construction of the ten-lane Lagos-Badagry Expressway ten years after its commencement.





Tuuueh to all u politicians! Imagine, ten good years and de road is not even half way fix, and u have de courage to show ur ugly stinky face to brag about fixing dis same road.... It's ur duty budy not mine so fix wat u want to fix and get out of dere, after all is another way for u all to embezzle money

God please help Nigeria
And punish all our politicians
AMEN

Nigerians are terrible people who lost after fame and wealth beaten away from the truth...... Na God go help us

Dose guys are scammers, let dem come back home.... Bunch of lazy youth dat cannot even draw wit Madagascar

She was raped, we saw it, this is an evidence, but none of your hypocritical asses came to protest, it didn't trend, no body stood for her, no money was raised for her, because she's not a celebrity, a rich man's daughter, but a grown celebrity married woman comes to tell us she was raped 20yrs ago and in less than 48hrs there's a protest against the church, a lawyer is filing for the church to be shut. May God deliver all of you. #hypocrites

E get who no sin in de past before becoming born again..... Abeg make una hide una ugly faces, tueh

Which kind wahala be dis........? Wetin no worth front page

infact the full edo is trash
from benin to ekp to auchi useless

rubbish[/quote]Make I hear word, u be learner? Even in advance countries dey experience serious flood... No be now e start, so u guys should stop blaming it on individual state or country and face de fact

It happens in Lagos island recently as well, is not only in Edo state u have a case of flood, it happens in every part of dis world.

olas24u:
It is customary laws mixed with the culture of the people,you can only advise and show an example and benefits.we have different culture and traditions,so that's difficult.

Dis is exactly what am taking about at least something can be done about it but rather they keep mute about it


Dis is a modern world

Culture or no culture

It can be amended to benefit all humanity in future

olas24u:
But okorocha supported the reduction of bride price,and even married out his own daughter for 10000naira.

Den let him legalise it and make it work out in de whole Imo state...dis is really affecting most young ladies in IMO state

Talking from experience

This old fools will never stop all this trash, they keep beaten around the bush... Ur female ladies are getting older every day, instead of sorting the high rate of pride price u have on ur daughters head within ur state so dat men can come in and pick dem as wife and safe dem from being single even at old-age, and u are here talking of one stupid tradition that doesn't make any meaningful sense,

STOP DATING MENTALLY BROKE GIRLS.��

I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post but try learn more about it .
Men!!!!!!!!

Guys, how do some of you even cope with dating a broke girl?
I mean:

1. A girl who doesn't have transport fare to see someone who she claims she loves every damn time.

2. A lady who can't get you a birthday or a Valentine's day gift, but expects you to bring down the world for her during hers.

3. Someone who can't comfortably call you on phone for 5mins. Always flashing and
complaining she doesn't have airtime.

4a. I mean how do you guys cope dating a lady who thinks relationship is an occupation;
where she is supposed to be paid and taken care of?

4b. Even if it's an occupation, what services is she actually offering to be privileged to receive such benefits?

4c. Or is she a ghost worker?
( NB: sex is not a benefit ONLY to men )
How do some guys manage to date such ladies?

5. No wonder suicide and depression victims are mostly men.

6. See guys[b][/b][b][/b], don't ever date a broke girl no matter how gorgeous you think she is. They are serious liabilities.

7. Rather date a lady who adds something beneficial to your life. Things like emotional intelligence; financial intelligence; spiritual
intelligence and other intelligence.

8. Date someone who's capable of calming the storm within your soul ( an average man has enough storms ); and not someone who
adds stress to your life.

9. Forget that yehn yehn talk, don't tolerate any woman's brokenness or stupidity just
because of her physical beauty.

10. There are actually a lot of extremely gorgeous and beautiful ladies with common sense.

11. So don't ever think of settling for less brother.
One thing I've realized about all these broke girls is not that they don't actually have money...

12. Most of them do; but it's just that they're mentally broke, which is way way worse than not having money.

I know many girls and ladies gonna be angry with this post, they won't like or comment in it .

But
Ladies please don't be mentally broke.

Guys please don't date mentally broke girls

I hope you understand what being mentality broke means ?? I know some people will not agree with me.
.
AM I COMMUNICATING?

quivah:
Like I said most Nigerian guys are evil with no conscience.
They will use all the female relatives in your family for rituals!!!
I am bitter, I hear.. You are evil! Your people's time will soon reach..


I'm outta this thread, no hope for Nigerian guys.. A higher %% of them are into yahoo and yahoo plus, a higher %% of them have considered or thinking about going into rituals, a higher %% of them are ritualists and kidnappers.

Let me start by saying Nigerian ladies are the cost of all this errant nonsense,they are always after money never mindful of how the money is coming in, majority of our women doesn't want to struggle with any guy who is trying all his possible effort duin genuine work to earn a better living any more except the guyz with flashy cars who dey don't know how the money comes, slaying mamas every were

every ladies are slaying dis days.......May God have mercy upon u all

talking from experience

TheeDetective:
Not another crappy nonsensical list on how a wife should behave around her husband as if it’s only the wife that needs to put in an effort to make the home worthwhile forgetting that it takes 2 to make the home a success. Una go dey create yeye list up and down; absolute nansense.

Ooh dear' Go up and read again, de topic is to encourage woman of their duties, not talking about men now .

As a woman, your role as a wife is to help. You are an ordained helper.
If you marry a man and nothing changes in him, his life still remains the same then you should question your ‘helping’

Proverbs 12:4

“A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband.”

As a woman make sure you ask questions. It doesn’t matter what he has it who he is, ask questions.
Make sure he has a vision for his life, a job and clarity on why he wants to get married. If you can get this, your relationship will be a lot simpler to navigate.
As a woman you must be able to adapt to the man that you marry. You may
not be suitable and adaptable to every man but you must be suitable and
adaptable to the man you intend to marry. Adaptability and Suitability
in marriage means, some situations will arise and you must be willing to
bend. You must be willing to adjust, you must be willing to be the woman
your husband wants you to be at every point in time. The measure of your
success as a wife is not measured by how many children you bear but how
much of his dreams you are able to birth and how much support and help
you give him to fulfill God’s purpose for his life.

Earthbound:
No woman born of water and blood can adhere to all of this. We should stop searching for a perfect partner because there is no such thing.

Hmmm....Character/Altitude settles it all, we actually still have some few God fearing ones

SOME THINGS WE DO AS WOMEN THAT DESTROYS OUR MARRIAGES

There are times we use our own hands to pour sand in our garri as women. When it becomes contaminated, we begin to point fingers to other factors around us especially our village people.

Today, I want us to look � as I want to brush on some characteristics we exhibit that destroy our marriages. If you are a wife, woman, sister or a man that has a woman you want to share this with, please get in here. ☺.

1. Using words to destroy your home and your spouse:There is power in the tongue. As small as that organ is, it has the power to create or destroy. What are you saying to your spouse? Are you speaking kind words or all you do is constantly nag at him. Some of us, never even appreciate our spouse. All we do is always make them feel like they are not measuring up. As woman, I know we love to talk; but when talking, it's essential to measure our words. Make sure your words are healing and not destroying.

2. Comparing your husband with other men. If those men are so perfect, go and be with them. What are you still doing married to your imperfect husband? The green is not always greener on the other side. Appreciate what you have. Value your husband so you can get the best from him.

3. Undermining your husband's authority and yet you are telling him to take full responsibility. Can you tell a man he is not capable of taking care of you and yet still ask him to take care of you? Please let's not use our hands to shoot ourselves. If there is anything that breaks a man down is a disrespectful wife. Don't be that woman.

4. No man likes a woman that disrespects his opinions, insights and advice. Even if he loves you; someday, you would push him to begin to question if you are worth loving or not. Some of us far as insulting him in public. Be warned. A word is enough for the wise.

5. Criticising your husband, making fun of him, belittling him in front of friends and family is the quickest way to destroy your marriage. If you are guilty of this, please stop it. There are ways to settle things amicably without announcing it to the public. If you are not ready to cleave, then don't leave.

6. Withholding Affection and Sex: Some of us are funny. We think as women, having sex with your husband is doing him a favour. So in your mind, you want to deal with him by denying him sex. Okay, do you know it's a sin to deny your spouse sex especially for a selfish reason? Stop using sex for your own selfish interest. Don't use your own hands to push him into the hands of strangers because of your refusal.

The devil is constantly finding ways to destroy homes and families. This is because by doing so, he can achieve a society where values are misplaced.

Please don't serve him your own marriage and home. Do your best to protect it. Let me stop here for now. I am going�.

Take care.

I took my wife phone and deleted her
Boyfriend Dele's number and saved my new SIM number as Dele. You see, someone had told me about Dele my wife's boyfriend but she didn't know. I then sent her an SMS from the new number (Dele) asking for
mobile money #250,000. She rushed to me and lied to me that she needed #250,000, for an emergency. She told me that her mother was sick and needed the money urgently. I gave my wife the money and she rushed
to send it to the account number written in
the message I sent to her. I did not bother to acknowledge receipt of the
money. When she came back home relaxing after work, I guess she was wondering if Dele had received the money. She sent him an SMS to find out if he had received the money. My response was, *"Call me now."* she went out of the house to make the call. You can imagine her horror when I answered the call instead of Dele!!!
It's been three days and she's still standing
outside. She don't know how to get back into my own House....

SadiqBabaSani:
A.Atiku Choosing Peter Obi as Running Mate Is A 'big mistake'(Sarcasm) that will Surely Send Now Atikulated Buhari To the Hague Not Daura, That Bitter old Man Must Answer for His many Human Rights abuses.

We in The South South Have nothing against Peter Obi, with Atikulated Obi All The Collected PVCs are in the Bag for PDP.

We don't Want Saint Apc.

Do not fight/die ontop politician's battles. They lied to you. It's not about you, it's about them.

You block people on twitter and off, they make up and have you looking stupid.

They rile you up for their own benefit.

It is US vs THEM.

And yes, they're one big family.

N urs makes sense
Try not to be a sheep
Read well n asses anyone in their right mind knows . Not all nigerian ladies behave dat way
But i guess uve traveled the world abi ..


Learn to point out where his wrong although his got good point but u are the biggest dummy here .. Ignorance nah disease i swear

Why am i still single?

1 Am I available?

Some people are actually NOT available but they think they are. Some actions or way of life make you NOT available in the ‘Singles market’ which is actually over saturated. There are some mindsets you may have which unknown to you may be sending out vibes to men that you are not available eg Do you always walk around with this thought ‘there are no good men/women anymore’ whilst praying for one? Honey, daz not ghanna wok. As a (wo)man thinketh in his heart, SO IS HE!!! Also if you are carrying emotional baggage, you may think you are available but you are not.

The energy flowing from you ain’t in line with what you praying for. It is like a house which has a ‘Welcome to our home’ doormat but yet a big dog right at the entrance. You know you ain’t welcome. Emotional baggages would keep getting in the way of conversations with even remotely interested opposite sex and aint nobody got time to continually hear about your ex John who dumped you or whatever horrid happened in the past. Please let God heal any hurt from your past. Also are you dating someone you KNOW you cannot marry whilst yet claiming ‘Single’? Eg dating a married man or some ‘bad guy’.

You may be thinking you are just holding that person in the mentime till the ‘Mr Right’ comes along but hunnay, you are sending signals even you don’t know about and people can pick those signals. You are emotionally involved no matter what you think. Usually when you meet someone, you are NOT as interested as a fully single person is only you don’t know.

Also, if there is this ‘Bro John’ you have been ‘claiming’ although dude has neither said anything nor is he feeling you laidat. That HUGE emotional investment in Bro John has made you less emotionally available to others but you dunno. It will be clear that there is NO VACANCY in your life for other people. Please don’t lose a good guy waiting on Bro John whom you have seen in a vision lol. Keep it moving and ‘empty’ Love. Bro John aint interested. PK tells the story of this girl in this uni who was overheard praying and claiming a certain ‘Bro John’ who everyone knows was already engaged to ‘Sister Mary’. The girl just dey pray dey claim the man calling out his name and surname sef. You see such a lady, though she is single, she ain’t available. Another way to check if you are available is to find out if you have unrealistic standards. The person some ladies/guys wanna marry is A PEOPLE- 4/5 in one person. I wrote a post on that here. Nobody is 100% and hey even if there was someone like that, guess what? That person wont be able to stand you cos you are not 100%. I want a man that is very romantic, rich, successful, Prayer warrior, Bible teacher, good singer like Don or Kirk, humble like Adeboye, have faith like Oyedepo, excellent like Adefarasin, Prayer warrior like Olukoya, funny like PK, HABA SISTER, ONLY YOU!!! Humans are work in progress. That spouse doesn’t have to come 100% perfect 2. Are you accessible

Some people are available and eligible but they are NOT accessible. They cannot be reached. Nobody got access to her.

Almost like all those sheltered children whose father had this shotgun or a big dog for any man that dared to visit.

You are certainly not welcome on this property... Photo from Flickr
You are certainly not welcome on this property… Photo from Flickr

As a single person, you must be able to be reached. You can’t be praying for a spouse and continually sit in your room under your bed, tz only mosquito that will see you. And God. But God doesn’t wanna marry. Ain’t no eligible person gonna come under your bed and see you. Which is why it is good for instance to belong to a church and a service group. Too much stories of couples who met whilst serving in church.

Being a member of the church ain’t enough especially if you are in all those big churches. Chances that you would be seen are low when all you do is come in, worship and after service you just leave. Ah!!! Bae, how is that gonna work? Join a department/small unit/connect group/house fellowship and let people SEE you and interact with you.

Not that you just rush into your car after every service without interacting with anybody. Don’t always walk sooooo fast. If you are single, reduce your pace hehehe. But frankly, I met one of my readers who said some people complained that she always walks too fast and with a straight face everytime in church and so was unapproachable. So please, catwalk ehn. Especially as a lady because these guys just dey try arrange themselves, gather stamina and muster courage to talk to you but before they reach you, you don disappear. And as a guy too, you gast be wise/. He tells the story of how in Bible school, first day he spotted this girl he thought he would like to get to know. Unfortunately, they didn’t sit so close. The next day he came early and sat close to the area the girl sat, made it a habit and kept finding reasons to communicate with her even if it meant copying notes he already had and asking questions he already had the answers to. ‘Excuse me, did you copy the assignment?’ ‘Did you get what that teacher said here?’ Of course, they started talking from there. My dear, you must be accessible as a single. Position yourself well. Have hobbies and be involved in them. Be sociable. Have friends. Obviously, he is not talking clubbing and stuff. There is healthy clean fun. Take yourself out if you have to, somebody might meet you there ooo. Nobody must take you there ooo. And while you are there, please be looking around small small. Like my Rev would say, watch and pray 3. Be approachable

Some people are available, they are accessible but to approach them is a different, impossible ball game. If you need to practice how to smile in front of a mirror, please do. Some ladies have a natural frowning face. A lot of men are not bold and they fear rejection so imagine they now gather courage to walk up to you and say hi or anything else to initiate conversation and you just size them up and down and are generally not very polite or welcoming.

The guy will just change mouth, turn you to traffic warden and ask you for direction or to borrow bible or something else. Anything but what he was on his mind because your countenance is bad. Please greet people and respond warmly. He that hath friend must show himself friendly. Recall Rebekah and how approachable and friendly she was to Abby’s servant and how she landed herself a rich young eligible blessed man. Another thing is when ladies always walk together like a gang and their countenance makes it hard for any guy to get that opportunity to speak to one privately. Don’t look down on people who don’t have it all now and be like ‘he is not my type’ lol. Some of these hunks we see now have not always been hunks ooo.

so some of these guys you boning now may be multi-millionaires in a few years. No use today scatter your tomorrow. Be approachable. That’s all for Part 1.

Jamariwolff:
Arrant nonsense!

I don't know why you guys think ladies are fools.
You've been fûcking here like constant K for the past 1 year, what is holding u from proposing?
Or you're waiting till u enlarge the whole area abi?!

My own is 3 months max, if you ain't talking marriage then bye boy!
I won't even allow you fûck me much in these 3 months.

Chai