₦airaland Forum

You guys are forgetting something. In my small experience of life the reverse is the case. It is the bad girls that marry easily than the good ones.
I know personally many good hard working and intelligent girls who are yet to find their Mr. Right.
Sometimes no matter how good a girl you are, life happens and you find yourself in this type of situation.
So do not conclude that every unmarried girl is as a result of bad behaviour or life that they lived.
Most times men even contribute by preferring the bad girls who are flashy over the good ones who are not.
So do not be quick to judge.

I have been following the thread and I can see a trend here.

1. Men still believe that it's their right to cheat and the woman should learn to bear it by being 'matured'
2. It is the sole responsibility of the woman to keep the marriage.

I wonder where the maturity will come from when the same men claim women are senseless and immature.
In this 21st century it is no longer the same as it was before. Things are changing and that is nature (change is constant).

The way I see it if the men continue to dwell in the past century and not see the change happening around them then they will continue to post threads like this.

Today's world demands the man to be more responsible and accountable for his actions and to bring more to this table called MARRIAGE apart from being the bread winner, cos nowadays without the financial contribution of the woman, most men will find it difficult to cater for the family.

That being said there is nothing wrong in the woman choosing to stay with her cheating husband, it's her choice.
But you don't use it as a yardstick for how every woman should behave in marriage, different strokes for different folks.
Mind you most women did that because they saw themselves as having no other choice, which is different nowadays as women are now exposed to lots of choices.

Men, please be advised and try to respect your woman in marriage or otherwise.
Even the bible said for men to love their wives, and it is only when you truly love her that you will get the best out of her {not social media love}
Only a foolish woman will have a loving husband and not give her all in the marriage.

PLS DAVIDYLAN, ENOUGH WHYNING ABOUT WOMEN. DO U THINK U GUYS CAME 4RM HEAVEN. JUST UNDERSTAND THAT WE ARE DIFFRENT 4RM U GUYS. WE CAN'T ALL ACT THE SAME, IF SO THE WORLD WILL BE A DULL PLACE. IF I SHLD START SAYING ALL THE THE THINGS U GUYS DO THAT WE DON'T LIKE BELIEVE ME, WE WILL STAY ON LINE 4 EVER. JUST LEARN TO BEAR WIT WOMEN AND THEIR PECULIARITIES 4 U ALSO HAVE YOURS.

seun, can you tell me more about stock market? i feel i don't have enough money now to invest in it. i really want to trade, pls advice.

though am yet to watch the show i believe we shld give ofunneke a chance she might end up surprising everybody, including yours truely.