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yellowpawpaw: What she did was totally wrong but if u know what comes out from these guys mouth bc of punana, odikwa serious!
Some men just don't know how to handle it when they want and c an ikebe and those oranges!
Their mouth becomes their undoing.

This always happen to men w'out control.
Its not the first,nor will be d last.
One lady that was promised and fail waited till d party night b4 d wedding to execute her own. Her intention was to kill d bride and groom but unfortunately, bride slept in another room while groom slept with 5 other people.All of them died tru fire accident.
One was my cous galfriend. Two were twins. They were burnt beyond recognition.
Since that incident, I've always been an advocate of men pls define ur r/ship.

passionate88: Me dey happ for her action o. If e dey happen like this, many cassanovas go cool down leave the serious minded girls for serious guys to marry. I dey vex when I dey see 1 guy dey pack like 6 babes alone. And some babes go mumu dey pt head for d guys, saying he is bold nd adventurous

bukatyne: Thank goodness you know it is little

There is so much room for improvement.

We believe in you that you will get there

tayoccu: Would it kill you to wait 4 Kishi to sort out this ish?

4llerbuntu: hmnnn. unfortunately im suspecting fenerbace will beat arsenal well over two legs yet get shunted out of the CL via the backdoor over this ban thingy...... sadly.

blank: Everyone commenting has said they do not have underage helps neither do they mistreat them. Send them to school, eat the best, etc.

So who are the ones hiring children and beating them up? Just wondering.

yellowpawpaw: It won't ever happen again. Its in the town's constitution.
U can do any other thing but u can't touch ur late bro's ppty both wife and assets.

Tosyn007: beeni oooo....anime love to badt!!!

4llerbuntu: To think that duduspace and debosky kept on saying nonsense rubbish and bullshyte that ursmanov would ruin this club.

Is this making the club better?

coogar: their way of life has a ripple effect on the society - the world is getting more screwed up because everyone kept minding their own business.

i should be able to stop a potential teenage pregnancy of my neighbour's daughter in a sane world. however, minding my business means i am supposed to look the other way.

the girl would have a baby she cannot take care of - her boyfriend would probably be an absent dad and this child is more likely to grow up unruly. in another 20 years, he might become the neighbourhood predator stalking my own daughter.......

what has ''minding our business" really achieved in the grand scheme of things? if ariel castro's neighbours didn't mind their business, there's a high possibility those 2 girls wouldn't have had to be kept in a basement for 10 years.

Nashville: This is a very good topic and may be there are a few things for some men to learn. Fathers should understand they are role models to their children. The first example of a husband or father your children see will be you so you need to understand whatever you do goes a lot way to influence your children's expectations of what a father or husband should be. A few tips here
1. You need to spend more time getting to know your daughters. As much as possible let them lack nothing they need. And also teach them the right principles and the right role models. You dont want Paris Hilton and Britney Spears to be their role models.
2. Find sometime to go to their schools and talk to their teachers. This is very important. Lots of parents while I was growing up did not have a clue what their children were like outside home. Speaking to their teachers is very important to know what they get upto in school.
3. Just dont give them stuff, but be there for them. They need to see you as more than just a provider but also as someone that takes interest in them and in what they do. When I buy toys for my daughters, I fix the toys in their presence. I remember when I bought them a trampoline and I got a friend to help fix it together, they were like wow, daddy is very strong and I also personally supervise them when they are playing.
4. Being there and getting to know them builds trust. They need to trust you and believe in you. Go with them to their parties when possible and get to know their friends daddies too. That also helps.
5. At the same time know when to apply discipline. Your daughters need to see you as an authority figure just like they need to see their husbands as an authority figure.

A few tips on how to act as a husband
1. Never hit your wife. You pass a message across to your daughters that it is perfectly acceptable. Some people say girls from abusive homes sometimes marry abusive guys too. It may just be because they think all men are like that because daddy is like that
2. Never cheat on your wife. Again you pass across the wrong message that it is acceptable.
3. If you do any of the two above or anything else wrong, do not blame your wife for it. Remember it is your choice. If you blame your wife again you tell your daughters it is their fault if their boyfriend cheats on them.

I know lots of fathers out there who have a good heart but they are very busy. My advice it to create the time especially to go to their schools. Even if it is once a year, take a day off and go see how your children are doing. It would not cost you too much!

WackyJ1: Wowo and i was about to come and give you some too...
Bros come to the jiraiya side, we got fine ladies over here and they ain't snakes

mukina2: ^
sorry the rule changed.

Good luck Arsenal >>> new season

yellowpawpaw: Mr BB, this is not healthy at all.
R u a fan?
(Just concerned)

*(I like my man mysterious at times.its a kind of an aura and very magnetic)* I hope u get d riddle.
Peace.