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Dear OP, this is a very powerful allegation and needs to be handled wisely


Is this coming out of the blue or has he hinted or made subtle jests abbout one or two people/friends (both male or females)
The reason why i saw this is because some females may be seen as sensual and thus could be a bad influence etc

If you are definite in your heart it is not true, talk to him first and plead your case
Dont onvolve 3rd party o.. such things have a way of escaping and some will see him as too soft when they arre condoning worse in their homes while some women can even use as an opportunity to swoop in

Do all the RIGHT things conscenciously, come home early, cook, s.ex etc bla bla bla and hopefully his stony heart may budge

Watch the FIREPROOF MOVIE too.. it may help

if after six months no change from the man or at least an explanation of how the allegations came by, then you can involve a suitable 3rd party (counsellor, pastor etc)as he may have a stony heart

May God Help Us All

ish

Go to the social welfare secretariate area 3, behind former immigration office, ask for social welfare office and Mrs. Hart, if she is not there ask for the officer in charge of child development, they will counsel and give you steps to take

all states have welfare offices at the local Government secretariate with qualified social workers.
Due to budget constraint and bad Government Policies their activities are not highlighted and promoted so people can know where to turn to when they need help.

Just go to that address that was given to ‎u. never abondon your child. If your visit to dat secretariat doesn't turn out favourble, go to UNITY ORPHANAGE HOME in Jabi, very close to that big Apostolic church. My colleagues and I once visited dat orphanage & we saw a very pretty baby girl whose mum also brought cos her boyfriend abandoned her, and the management of d place stated clearly dat d girl isn't up for adoption & dat her mum will come back for her. The ‎home was to take care of her for one year as agreed wit d baby's mum. Unity orphanage appears to be d best orphanage in Abuja, trust me. Lovely enviroment, d kids all look like ajebo & r well taken care of. Not in anyway overcrowded. God will see ​‎​U thru.

Excellent information quoted ffr

I dont think you can

From my discussions with PFA officials

you can access 25% of your investment when you retire, fall ill or are retrenched Minimun age is 50 or so
The rest comes as an annuity monthly
Why dont you find out direct from the PFA or their website

human beings should not the property of people to be feted
It is degrading for someone to say men or women are properties of a tribe, race or nation. That person has freewill
Nigerian males have their own thinking faculty and can choose who they want to spend their life with either for love, residence papers or any thing he thinks is important to him

[quote author=c++_crazy]some women are heartless.....
That is why sometimes i wish we are hermophrodite....
Maybe the guy didn't want to hav sex on dat day but the lady was 2 hor*ny like during her ovulation period and forced d guy to plunge his plunger into her okpa awara awa and now she wants to blame the guy and pause his dreams.[/quote]Dude.. must you write posts just to show you craayyy because your moniker says crazy

SO the woman is to blame for the seed that found its way into her
The woman has no dreams right?
The woman is the randy one

Ok o... please OP ignore the craayyy one, its his 10 minutes of kolo .....

olu16: seeing people make offers on nairaland to someone they have never met... such love. made me cry.

could be geniune,could be WASH
Until one knows more about the economic situation of the lady, this may have been a charity initiative but it could seem one is encouraging unplanned pregnancy

Ndipe: Giving up the baby for adoption has its pros and cons, what if the adoptive parent turns out to maltreat the child? I dont know, it's a very sensitive topic, but truthfully, I would suggest you explore every options available before giving up the child for adoption. You dont want to spend all your waking moments regretting your choice.

Read this novel, 'Secret daughter' by Shilip Gowda about a woman's heartrending choice to give up her baby daughter to protect her from gender infanticide (in India) and the emotional heartbreak she endured afterwards.

Interesting...

fredoooooo: pogba is a very good player bro , hope injury allows him to reach his full potential

He also needs to have a calm head

Danjamovic scores for MNE 1- 1 !!!!

the pressure paid off

good close out by pogba and the franch dudes on iniesta

super save by lloris

spian getting frustrated

see spain dey winchi o

fredoooooo: ribery is spanish

Nope hes a sabo
Pogba has been impressive do fsr.. not seen much of Varane
France has some good guys coming thru

fredoooooo: refree don collect bribe , see sure penalty on pedro

50-50

ID Noble, na wa o u just show when u smell gist...

[quote author=ti-ebe]chai! no o. i no talk say problem no de na. no be because problem de i come dis side? well, I don tell am as we been talk sha. wetin d babe go do before? she no fit tie d man neck na. make she even try hypnosis sef to get the man to say exactly whats up and save everyone the issues of dancing around circles.[/quote]its important so the man does not resent her..

Ihedinobi: Um...Naruto anyone? Most hot-headed slowpoke in the story and a confirmed super nin.

Bros naruto has really matured the one in shippuden is not the same old foxy naruto

See the way he handled pain, the zetsu clones, the 3rd raikage and even tobito

He's come along way compared to the mizukage who still gets pissed if reference is made to marriaage LOL

This brings it home to you man

Women say they want to be engaged in discussions ie being carried along bla bla bla but in their heart they see such guys as a sissie

In a relationship it is expected that there should be nothing else but yarns as understanding is key here because inevitably the yarnings will reduce once you are married (familiarity) yet you're being perceived as a wuss
And even a woman feels so!

So you should read between the lines and keep your detached cool calm

I hope she does not accuse you of having another babe soon

Ish

vanitty: Are "we" okay so?!
A MARRIED person with responsibilities that may include kids etc and we are blaming the SINGLE person with absolutely nothing to lose.

Now where is that thread about the person that killed all the children of their married lover?! I think it was 3 or 4 children all gone. May their gentle soul keep resting in peace

While we are putting a blame on the SINGLE person, we should kuku absolve the married party of all blame. We could suggest that rather than the wronged wife or husband confront the person he or she made a vow too, he or she should be fighting the single person all over the place abi Oshisko.

As far I am concerned, the single person has absolutely no blame. The married person gets all the blame. Didn't he or she make some promises when making their vows.

Not everyone can live by my or your moral code. Only God can judge them and we must remember, no sin is bigger than the other so therefore you single person committing adultery with a married person and you, the single person fornicating with a single person still counts the same in the face of God, or is it you that lies, steal, the list is endless!

Let all married people have the fear of the Lord and stop blaming others for their weakness, shortcomings and their failure as a married person.

It is well

JUDGED!!

shes aiit but not really been impressed seems to have a hot temper too

You cant be a super nin if u are hot headed

No be she dey take am but the thing wey take am dey enter am
But if you say no problem and your chi says no problem then all is well

cost

For GTB
Instant transfer is cheaper (35N or so) while NEFT costs 400

OP, seems the lady has answered you

Tone down the calls and use SMS and bbm/whatsapp chats....

greatgod2012: may God help you!

Amin ma

@kool J], coogar

Guys it does not mean he is clingy or jobless
He is just a 90s man....
Attitudes & Comments like this are what make men seem to be stone - hearted and supposedly insensitive

He may want to run some thoughts on investments, office politics by someone removed from his surroundings and get a fresh perspective on stuff


OP if it is really important to you, go for it

Interesting to meet a auditory-stimulated guy

I know someone who is like you
Well one suggestion is to use chats, SMS and web links to pass topical stuff, happenings around you and then have a round off chat in the evenings
This way you take into cognisance her schedule which may not be talk-friendly

You then discuss your concerns and bring the above as a possible solution

If it does not work, then you can move on or manage if she has other virtues you dig

Richvkunt: You know they feminazis hate my posts because they hit so close to home just protecting ma back.
Don't need no e-wars right now.

Yes o... No wars

make love and not war!
Q1 don reach finish, i need to start planning for Q2.. dont need no drama rightnow

drnoel: Yes have already advised them to be patient but they seem dogged about it and Tiwa is talking about flying Onyinye out to England to do it.

costly and unnecessary
The child will come and the father will be made evident even upon sighting the child

DNA confirmation can then be done

BoboYekini: Nigerian women, its this your aggressiveness that's making SA women look extra-appealing. God knows I might have to go southie too.

GBAM!!!!

Nice one CC

@ti-ebe to add to the issue of tip desensitisation, using a CD helps
She needs to be informed of health hazards of the stimulants

Richvkunt: Some girls are pimped out by their boyfriends to date married men and come back with the returns which are shared by the two parties.
Some silly girls sell themselves to married men and collect phone recharge cards which they send to their unemployed boyfriends,hoping they will love them more.
Witnessed a pot bellied married man sandwiched between two girls young enough to be his daughters and he booked and paid for a room in an hotel where he took them to have clandestine sex.
90% of single girls have dated and slept with married men for financial or material gratification.
90% of single girls will sleep with married men in the future for financial/material gratification.
90% of single girls are sleeping with married men as I am typing this post for financial/material gratification.
Reason? Girls need money and material things which their boyfriends can not provide. Married men provide finance,material things ,comfort,security and are not so demanding sex,ually as single guys.
Married men are secure and like father figures and can take care of un wanted problems.
On the other hand married men are part of the polygamous family and enjoy the attention recieved from younger girls. They have grown tired of eating their wifes soup and enjoy trying other soups out side-not saying it is right,but basically this is the reason.
Reminder-I come in peace, please

Smart guy! Wants to cruise below the radar