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mukina2: i lif you with chicarito o


i am not giving up yet on spuds jare

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mukina2: spuds na team?

sisiruthy: please how can i help my sister in her husband's house. Her husband is very hot tempered and beats her oftentimes. Sometimes she ends up in d hospital at other times she sustains. What can she do? should she go?

OAM4J: There is a way you pronounce Onibara in Yoruba that means beggar and there is a way you pronounce it that means customer, I think she meant the later. So the tile in English will be "My Customer Called Aigbe"

ileobatojo: That wouldn't be living by example, would it?

ileobatojo: If parents would start living by example and instilling good values into the coming generations, perhaps there would be change.

ileobatojo: I know this comes as no shock to you but guess who else can say no? The married men! Being pursued vehemently by hot, single skanks? Just say no. The hot secretary in your office flirting with you? Just say no. The multitudes of women you go after yourself without invitation nko? Just say no. How about the ones you lie to that you are single? Just say no!

If the man says no to a woman's sexual advances and refrains from making any sexual advances to other women, the issue is dead and buried, but do they?

Both parties are at fault (as long as their is no deception involved). As far as I'm concerned though, the fault lies more with the person disrespecting the marital vows. Male or female!

i am not surprised - feminism has always being a fraud!
the women championing it cannot even tell you categorically what it means - they want sex equality. one moment women are weak, the next moment - women are equal or even greater than men. yet, when these female freedom fighters gather together, all they do is slander, gossip and hurt each other.

modern realities? are you aware the holy quaran actually supports polygamy? you mean people would abandon their long-held traditions because of political-correctness? the same political correctness that says "aye" to gay marriage and frowns at polygamy? they would have to stop nigerians practising islam first - not possible!

women can wait 4000 yrs and nothing would change!
an alhaji knows he can marry 2 or more wives - his religion backs the practise and logic states he must have cheated on the first wife before bringing in the second and third wives home.

Idowuogbo: First of all! Introduction...

Na me wey sing Eni Duro and Omo to Shan
In other news
I’m in love with My boo,
and I no dey place another one above
Gbagbe oshi, shey mo jo omo Ghana?
Oni mo dabi eni ti o ti fa gbana
Shey mo jo KK Fosu?
Mofo, gbagbe, abi o sun?

Go down low!!!!

ppanther: @ Moderator:

"Onibara Mi Ti A Npe Ni Aigbe" in the
Business Forum

Is there a particular reason why
the title of this thread has no
English translation?

Perhaps you could add -in parentheses-
the English translation of the title
of this thread.

Love Life
Despite the rejection she encountered from her previous boyfriend, Bukola is not afraid to love again. In fact, she is currently in a relationship. “It is weird but I do find myself dating guys with the genotype AA. It’s not like I go about asking them of their genotype, though I don’t know my boyfriend’s status now but we will soon find out.”
But if the genotypes were changed will she still fall in love with her kind?
“Yes, I will gladly date a sickle-cell patient. In fact, I will marry him!”
Did you raise an eyebrow? I actually did same but Bukola believes that with love, she can conquer all. On the issue of children, Bukola opt for adoption, but if her man has the AA genotype, she will definitely want to have children of her own and adopt as well.

SimplYeahmee: Bros, U̶̲̥̅̊ too big to dey blush nah

If big boi like u dey blush, wetin small boi like me go do #RunHayWire

seunajia: I stated all these too. The biggest problem I foresee is the OP's wife not being down with the arrangement. If he forces the marriage, he'll be breaking up his own home which will not be fair. It is right that the OP's wife does not feel cheated. This was why I said in my very first post that he let the woman be but "marry" her children.

It was really annoying the way some of the women were going on with wife inheritance talk. Mark you, they were against the OP marrying the woman due to this selfish "me and my husband alone" attitude. But all that is to some extent understandable, no man wants to share his wife too.

This however shouldn't becloud one's sense of objectivity. How practical is this call?

oluface: its a must for ladies to change their surname when they get married.

Ivynwa: Poster said that his sister in law has been calling him for some month's now accusing him of abandoning her and I am of the opinion as i mentioned in my first post that that may not be enough reason to conclude that she wants to be married by him and that the poster should still visit once in a while for the children to be getting the feeling of a male presence, that that may be one her of the reasons the woman referred to as being abandoned by him. If the woman comes clear and says that she wants to be with him, that should be a matter between him , his wife and his sister in law. It may work for them, it may not be the best for them.

We shouldn't egg him on and tell him to marry her and solve all the widow's problem and some bringing on posts that made widows out as "her world is finished","who will want to marry her again" kinda views. I hope things work out for good for the poster and the widow and that she finds happiness and love again whether with her brother in law or with some other man she chooses to marry. We all deserve to be happy and be with spouses we are happy with, women that have lost their spouse inclusive too.

seunajia: Crap! Even in the "west", how easy is it for a widow to remarry? How? Is the OP marrying her (wife inheritance? Yeah whatever!) not practical? Is it not an option?

All these self loathing Nigerian women sef. This is clearly not a case of wife inheritance. The woman is the one pledging allegiance by surreptitiously courting the OP. The OP sees the pros and cons of the situation and asks for advice.

There can ofcourse be an arrangement by the family to help me take care of the kids when she remarries. As some have said, the house can be let out to add to whatever the family contributes to the children's upkeep.

All these are alternate ways of doing the same thing. The OP is left to pick that which is the less of evils.

Why should we keep going about in circles? State your views explicitly and stop attacking individuals!

Ivynwa: Yes Babes, it's her choice and that's what I've been saying.
Widows are still women with feelings and emotions and shouldn't be limited by views of others that think that they shouldn't date or should stay married within their dead husband's family. They are free to live and love after mourning their loved ones.

My view about the Ugandan case is that it was good that it was cancelled out, a woman shouldn't be forced to marry a man she doesn't like. People should be with spouses they want to be with.