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RedBenson: Life itself is a place where one doesnt know where him/her would be landed tomorrow. Thus atimes u see urself where u have no choice than to share a room or call it an apartment with someone u know little or nothing abt e.g. living in d nearby hostel to undergo ur uni studies, during nysc, job interview, job recruitment, business journey etc.

One thing that is inevitable in such situation is sharing of belongings with d other room mates. U keep ur clothes and b4 u come bak, u see ur room mate using wearing it. Ur shoes follow in d same trend. Toiletries on the same trend. Make up ornaments (for girls) still on the same. Food is not left out on this and this usually generates an unpleasant heat btwn the room occupants.

Let's hear from u. How did u share an apartment with someone u didnt know much abt and how did u cope with d sharing of the belongings?

Use your own property
Na by force to wear nike jordans...

coogar: i have a request sir.......
is it possible we use the artificial insemination process to fertilise shopclue's eggs with odiaero's semën? i dunno about you guys but i am curious to see what their product would turn out to be.

ROTFLMAO....
bbfever will be the god father of the union
ol boy i have die here o

These guys are talking millions of dollars.. i have to enter this biz

BluIvy: You have just proven my prior response to your comment. CHOPPING MY FRIEND FOR FREE?
SHE IS NOT BEING CHOPPED SHE IS CHOPPING BACK AND IT IS CALLED HAVING SEXXX NOT SELLING ONE'S BODY TO ANOTHER WITH NOTHING TO BENEFIT. SHE ALSO ENJOYS CHOPPIN HIM AS HE DOES. DOES IT HAVE TO BE MONEY RELATED? POVERTY IS ABIATCH!!!

WHY DONT YOU GO GET CHOPPED FOR 120 NAIRA BY SOMEONE YOU DO NOT LOVE ATLEAST ITS NOT FREE!!! RIGHT?

Babe you are taking this thing seriously
Are you beefing your friend that shes getting some some by the side
I have a feeling ur punny is still full of dust and cobwebs..
maybe its needs some airing

BluIvy: She loves him, love just does not disappear in a minute. But i guess you would not know that. We all know most of you marry for security, future and love has nothing to do with it. As long you escape poverty. Mcheeeeewww!

If she loves him as you claim she does, so what is your own concern
If her brain cannot comprehend the obvious reality in which she finds herslef that she will lose both the man and even the boyfriend willing to give her a chance, then her st.ewpidity knows no bounds

Just do your revenge well o and ensure the new boyfriend is not caught up in all y'all drama LOL

M M M: Op

Since u don't have enough money,

Just buy condom

EWU..

another imported culture that we celebrate just like val days etc
Do what you can do
More importantly, continue to pray that she enjoys the fruit of her labour(you & your siblings) and no one (DIL) will take you away from her

maclatunji: ^Behave yourself. It is the the job of every husband of a frigid wife to unleash the tigress in her.

tigress or kitten
which one?

mens..trual

Ujujoan: while you are busy planning 'revenge', he's still 'chopping' your friend for free . . .
now who's fooling who

The ten days loving must ha been good...!

Maybe they went to sandals

Pls post your epic here
It may become something akin to the First Wives Club or Brothers...

jaidopor: A question for everybody,

My personal view is that if you dont want to take a risk by marrying an AS then there are other aspect of the relationship that you will not take risk on. The probability of 2 AS's having a child with SCD is 25% out of 4 kids. The child with SCD can be the 1st, 2nd,4th and 3rd kids. Have you ever thought about having 3 kids with no SCD child if you are lucky (it has happen before - 2 AS's marrying each other and they dont have any SCD kids). It a risk.

Dude please dont go and spread this fallacious lie around
Mathematically the probability of SS from AS and AS is 25% that however does not mean that all kids born of such a union cannot be SS
I am surprised OP did not disabuse this from your mind
Please any of your friends you have told it to, ensure you tell them you were misinfomed

Your thinking is thus
In a dice, the prob of getting a 1 is 16.67%, does it mean that if you roll the dice 6 times you will get 1 only once?

@Slashdot, exceptional story, I am happy for grace in your life

Chelsea boys going through their paces
The reason why torres cannot score

rapmike: i beg 2 differ,afta madara stoppd himself 4rm saying sharingan, he said he was mediocre and complaind dat if he was elite,dat he would hav protectd. We knw dat d uchiha dat hv sharingan r often considerd elite. Of course, he may jst be hiding dat he has d sharingan,bt i doubt it

Fair enough but I think he had just got his sharingan at that point possibly from the loss of the last brother bar one (izuna)

But no wahala
No be fight

Ish

Madaraa had already woken his sharingan but the story says he stole izunas eyes to get eternal MS not just MS

It also says the brothers were the first to get the MS because they the best of the uchiha

Can you put up more info or do you have a web presnece or a face book page.

Pertinent info
- name of organisation and location or if its a home arrangement
- streams offered and duration
- what age can be a child join
- certifications or other info
- do you offer immersion courses

This is important before people start talking price

maclatunji: ^Ha! No way, it must 'dey her bodi' O. Oga, instruct her to only cook sea food from now on (No more meat). No more tea in that house O, na Milo/Bournvita. By her chocolate boxes every week. OP's wife must 'feel it'.

Biolabee, this your presentation is every faithful man's worst nightmare. Frigid? No O, it must become active

#LOL

Amen o
You sure say everybody's body be like torchlight?

Let me hold you
Girl caress my body
You got me going crazy
Turn me on
Turn me on

I will like to be informed when you carry out this plan.

It can really be useful information on the lengths women can go to

Poster good one for bringing out your pain here
Trust me when I say you are not alone and IT IS NOT ONLY YOUR FAULT

Don't bother with people that think it is Your fault and you are not into the loving thing from dawn till twillight before you get a phock with your own wife.

Some women are just frigid or have low s.ex drive through no fault of their own and there is nothing you can do about it whether you make breakfast in bed for them, send love sms through out the day and then make a candlelit dinner at night

E no just dey their bodi

It willl just be chore bore for you and also for the woman.


They are just inhibited either through religion or from bad childhood experiences.

However you also know having a concubine introduces complications the consequences you may not be able to bear.
So avoid it

1. Discuss with madam, tell her your frustration and find out from her what going on through her mind makes her tick
It may be work, hormonal or something.

2. Ask her what does she want considering you feel strongly about this
She must be frank with you.

3.if she see it as an issue you are a lucky man then find out from her what you can do to make the experience more enriching.tips from earlier posts are helpful in this regard.

4. If she tells you she is satisfied s.exually and you are fairly certain she is faithful, then sorry you have to bear your cross as she is of the SCHOOL OF FRIGIDITY.
These ones you have to wait till their in their 30s when they get a burst of h0rny hormones.

Make do with ALL you can do while you bide your time

Sorry o
Ish

Front page will help with your cause but also the rif rafs and derailers will camp In


But no problem

[quote author=Abali1][/quote]You better be praying it does not make front page yet

ifyalways: So, how is the revenge mission getting on?
I hope you'll survive as to come share the details with us.

Hell hath no fury like 2 women scorned.

Me thinks she has found a kindred spirit in adabeke

^^^^^
Don't mind them their bloodshot eyes and mind cannot see and comprehend that jose is playing to the gallery.

Better team lost, na so
SMH

Ihedinobi: "They say that the Uchiha clan's origins lie with the Hyuga clan"? "In terms of the ability of insight, it surpasses the sharingan"? I don't think that Kakashi was saying here that the byakugan is the prime doujutsu.

\\well u may be right...

BluIvy: You do not get it do you? Tiger, Arnold and the sanator the women who got into relationships with them knew they were married when they got into the relationships. It's like you saying your boyfriend or husband cannot molest the girlfriend or his wife. There things, delicate things people should not do. Nigerians are extremely careless with those delicate lines for their selfish reasons

So now your problem is that she did not know he was maried not the fact that she was sleeping with a married man
I thought you posted this

BluIvy: Honestly though i personally think one cannot jump to protect sanctity of marriage when all other biblical commands are ignored, thats hipocricy at a the highest degree.

Miss I-can-phock-you-as-long-as-you-let-me-know-you-are-married
That makes marital infidelity less hypocritical
right?

[quote author=Efemena_xy]Abi?

What about the well known, famous leader known worldwide who claimed: "I did NOT sleep with THAT woman!" [/quote]Bill clinton is a nigerian

dayokanu: I bet the number of married men who lie to get laid daily in America cant be less than a million and not Nigerians

A Senator just got busted for visiting a whorehouse in Dominican republic.

When we try to make this a country issue then you lose the motive of the thread

dont mind her
I remember SSS agents attached to President Jonathan going to Colombia to hook up with whores

BluIvy: I think its only in Nigeria or Nigerians who's every action does not have reprocations. This will not take anything from her becouse she will not be manufacturing, plotting or creating any lies or schemes but will just expose him to his wife and their circle and his business circles. How difficult could this be? She will be persuing her other relationship.

Please teach your baby boys that there are consequences to any action a person does and leave lady Karma alone nigeria is to big to deal with all these badly brought up massups. The world is eager to teach them one lesson or 2. He is going down. Thank God for social networks one click of a button his life as he knows it will be in flames. He will be heading back to Nigeria to hawking spare parts or whatever people hawk there. I think I will take pleasure to see him gone.

Revenge is a dish served cold right?
So serve it now
Just remember your hands too will suffer frost bite and possible amputation getting the food to point of serving


Instead of you to tell your friend to move on with her life, you are here fuming
And please disabuse your mind that this act is limited to a certain race
Cause I believe Tiger Woods and Arnold Terminatoer are also Nigerians... pity

Your friend knew he was married and still spent ten days in his home collecting farewell loving and you are here ranting

Do what you want to do
YOU BE GOD?

Abel202: [b]My people, I hadly comment on such posts as I prefer politics and the economy. But this one touches home right where it pains. Ordinarily marrying a virgin is and should be a thing of immence joy and pride for any man. But with my experience now, I don't think I will advise any man to consciously go for it. My reasons:
I have been married for seven years now. I have three issues, and honestly I have a very lovely and wonderful family that is the envy of most of my peers. However I have a huge problem inside. And am scared of what the future will bring.
My wife was not particularly a virging when I married her, but she was "almost" a virging, therefore she had little or no experience in matters of sex and intimacy. Incidentally I had many girlfriends then and one of the major reason why I chose my wife above most of the other girls was because she is faithful and can not mess arround, and I can completely trust her on that. We dated for 3 years before we eventualy got married. I saw the signs that this girl doesnt realy like sex but since I was preserving her for marriage I never realy disturbed her but unleashed my exploits on the other girls. Then we got married. Then I decided to become a responsible married man. Suddenly I realised what I had gotten myself into. My wife does not like sex. She will only do it (once in a while after several excuses) to please me. She has refused to learn anything from the first time we met till now ten years later. I have tried every reasonable way to teach her. I have taken her to counselling. I have pleaded, I have cajoled, I even withdrew my belt and flogged one day (very unlike me), yet all to no avail.
Now I have almost resigned to my fate. Now that is what scares me a real lot. Because I know myself. I love life and I love sex. I do not have unrealistic expectations as I know that my wife never had the experiences I have. But what I have gotten is a raw deal. All I expected was a healthy sex life with my lovely wife. Is that too much to ask? I sometimes think its a purnishment for all the girls I have dribbled before settling down.
What scares me is that if this continues I am bound to mess up. I have such a lovely family. My wife is such a good wife, responsible, takes good care of my home and kids, pretty, respects me a lot, infact every other thing is okay except the sex life. And this is what you can't tell your next door neighbour.
So I am a very happily married man, but inside I am realy turtured because my sex life is zero and I do not trust myself if things continue this way. Infact I have done a few runs outside and it was as great as before, but guilty conscience made me quit.
If I were a European or an American, I would have divorced my wife, reason -Sexual incompatibility. But that reason is bullshit here. I can't throw away the lovely family I have just because of Sex (that is precisely the problem).
My senior friend has advised me the way out - that is to get a secret concubine.
I have tried it and believe you me, it worked. I do not disturb my wife any more, and she is happy that she is not being disturbed for sex again as she would prefer not to have sex even for a year unless its time to make babies.
But the problem is the other lady. Some of them are always scheeming, either for money, or to displace the one inside and come inside too. And they could even be diabolical or do something funny to your lovely family just to get a part of you too. Infact though this arrangement works for now, there is no guarantee that something ugly might not come out of it later.
I am the responsible family man type. So having concubines is not realy my style. But am forced to do it.
So my advise is that YOU MUST KNOW THE SEXUAL CAPABILITIES OF YOUR WIFE-TO-BE BEFORE MARRIAGE, AMONGST OTHER THINGS. Or else you might find out that this Sex thing can derail a marriage and life you have painstakingly built. I rest my case.[/b]

Interesting write up
You put it out there

adaobi123: I guess so

Ok oo o

Marlbron: Guys its only a game. I doff my hat to Sir Alex for the strategy he brought to the game which stifled the freeflowing game of Madrid. There is no doubt the sending off changed the game as it enabled Mourinho to bring Madrid who changed the game with his masterful play. Lets analyse the goals.

The first goal -an own goal should not have stood. Van Persie was offside when the ball got to him, the kinsman missed that, and that gave Man U an advantage.

The challenge by Nani was a dangerous one, not helped by his simulation, which made the ref decision a very correct one. Had he accepted responsibility, he might have been lucky with a yellow. No matter, Nani saw Arbeola late and should have directed his leg away from Arbeola rather than aiming for his chest. The rule is clear- dangerous play, red card.

Now with the sending off, it was still 1-0 to the Red Devils. Why did Sir Alex not hold on to the lead?He missed a trick there. When Modricd was brought on, he failed to respond to that and still carried on as if the midfield was still on the same dynamics. That was a rare lapse of concentration by a great tacticIan, a great coach. ManU should have organized better and perhaps should not have conceeded. Being 10 man down does not mean you loose a game.

After the second goal, ManU brought in changes and were very determined and may have scored a goal or two. The day was saved by good goal keeping. The Red card, made it easier for Madrid, but Sir Alex playing to the crowd rather than focussing on strategy as Madrid brought Modric, may have cost ManU the match. And by the way, ManU fans, there is next year champions league which you are sure to play. Remember, the first goal should have been an offside call, so stay humble.

Good post there,How can the scummies accept that their goal came from an offside position

The injustice of united in fergies PL is damning
I pity shekpe at Old Trafford as they meet Coward Webb

dear OP,

It is well , she will deliver safely

I can only speak From my own experience and of those i know

Firstly this is a first pregnancy so it tends to delay slightly
Baby loves its environment too much. Introduce a little stress by letting madam take some walks around the area or compund.
30 mins to an hour shd be about right

Keep the doctor on call.
The water can break anytime but that does not mean she has entered active labor rightaway
Most importantly, be prayerful and cheer madam up

Babies can sense despair