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Sergiy Stakhovsky the King Slayer: "I'm still in disbelief that that happened. I was playing the best tennis I have ever played, I am incredibly happy. When you play Roger Federer it's like your playing two players. you play him the player and him the ego. I couldn't play any better today. It was a fantastic day for me."

vivianc: Biolabee, what's my name doing on That photograph? I jusT saw iT now.

AjanleKoko: Simples . . . African mentality. We are all guilty of it. We love us some weddings and naming ceremonies

Which of y'all doesn't want to have kids? If we ask now, all of you will say you can afford it, in your own defence. Well . . . those illiterates also believe they can afford it too

vivianc: Babe na so o, person musT jolly na. Finding humour in every circumstance. No time.....

OlowoTee: From Childhood to University?!! Wow! You should know better.

Biola this is plain falsehood, really. At no point in time was it said that DL member should [b]NOT[/b]use western medicine. Fortunately, I came visiting my parents now and they also objected to your point.

The only church they do know so well that do not promote use of western medicine, then...was Christ Apostolic Church(our formal church). She confirmed it that sadly people truly died because of this...however, this wasn't in DL.

dayokanu: Does the palm qualify as a hole? in the case of w@nking or handjobs

deols: I understand the point of view of Christians who think PM sex is alright since all sins are equal. But a Muslim dare not say that for with us, stealing a 5naira pencil isn't the same as killing somebody. There are major and minor sins.

Another is the issue of what the mind thinks. With us, that is not a sin since it is absolutely normal to have thoughts. It is not possible that you would be married to someone you have no feelings for. We however are encouraged to find a way out of such thoughts, get up, do something like reading, fasting, to take the minds off stuffs that cqn lead to sins. Until the acts perceived are carried out, it is not termed a sin.

Everyone talking about how uneasy it is to not have done any kind of kissing and touching haven't seen enough. I have heard and seen and sure they exist.

OlowoTee: I have answered your question, here.

OlowoTee: No, the church never advocated non-usage of western medicine. We visit hospital when necessary and take drugs. Have you ever visited the church, pls? Or you are saying all of these based on what you've heard? #justCurious

dayokanu: How can a man be a virgin? and whats the test of a male virgin?

Traditionally for female it used to be blood stained clothes on wedding night, What could e used for a guy?

vivianc: @AluTa: That explanation is wrong. WhaT that passage of the bible simply means is if two people who intend To marry have s.ex, They sinneth noT, leT Them marry. S.ex becomes a sin when the marriage promise is not fulfilled afTerwards.

Don't turn iT upside down biko.

dayokanu: What makes a woman a virgin I dont know, but a man cant e a virgin past puberty

stillwater: I really did not get any holier than thou posts from any person here. So I don't know why some of you are up in arms throwing side jabs at people. This is a discussion, no need for all the hypocrisy or sinner nonsense.

dayokanu: Can any man be a virgin? Biologically growing into puberty already comes with wet dreams So there is already expulsion of semenn

Or how would you define a virgin? A guy who has had wet dreams, the one who w@nked, one that was blown, one that ate snail(igbin), One that did @n@l, One that did vaginal sexx or one that impregnated a woman

In females breaking of hymen can be associated with virginity, the male anatomy has no such thing

OlowoTee: Your faith in God is highly emphasised when faced with any unpleasant and pleasant situations #difficulties, #sickness etc. So people who chose not to take drugs, do so based on their believe in God for healing. It wasn't enforced that members should not take western medicine etc. Maybe, If you meant traditional medicine, I would have said a resounding YES! I don't know how "agbo" tastes till today I remember my pappa never used drugs until some 2years ago!!!! And he never forced that on anyone...

Imanuelle: does the bible counter itself ?

Carius: Spot on!the main thing is to keep the main thing the main thing...poverty na curse.Everyman should endeavour to get boxed up with the benjamins before taking the leap.

Oahray: Even if I was (I'm not saying I am), I wouldn't pretend it's test-driving when it isn't.

So far, on this thread, the only difference I've seen between the two camps is that one intended to do it (sex and related practices), while the other did it (maybe even many times) unintentionally and thus is more righteous than the former group.

Imanuelle: but someone just quoted the bible to clear that off!